hunniesuzie:
"Hello Mr Otondo, welcome to our home, shebi you know that you're a man, and as you can see, we're a young family with limited space. While you are here (during the course of your service) we will try to make you comfortable but you must bear with us. Let the young lady have the room. We will buy a mattress which you will place in the living room/the sofa or rug is nice and cozy (use whichever applies) when you want to sleep. Thank you for your cooperation, if there's anything I can do to make you more comfortable please say so"

Chikena

Lol, I don even tire. Na me be the accountant for the house, he has accepted he a problem so he gives me money to keep. When he says "I'm broke, borrow me money", I just look at him from the corner of my eye and walk away - Mr borrow borrow...money lender...father Christmas

_{I don even dey vex sef}

jazzyjazz:


This is the one I'm currently battling with!
If I begin to count how much my husband has in people's hands all in the name of borrow ehn.....

Dis days what I tell him is "remember you have a family o! God forbid bad thing should happen do you think all these people will be there to borrow you when you're in need? "

May God help us

hunniesuzie:
Lol, I don even tire. Na me be the accountant for the house, he has accepted he a problem so he gives me money to keep. When he says "I'm broke, borrow me money", I just look at him from the corner of my eye and walk away - Mr borrow borrow...money lender...father Christmas

_{I don even dey vex sef}

Na real Mr borrow borrow

May God keep them for us jare
And may he continue to provide o

oamronnie:
cc.
jazzyjazz
Alphahandmaiden
Hunniesuzzie
Ifyalways
Zaynie
Beeejaylere
Greatp80
Chanbaby

Hmm, thank you all and God bless you massively. Y'all make it sound so simple. And each advice I read is just making me more angry. I mean, it should be THAT simple! How did I get into this mess?
My sister, thinking she was helping, went to complicate things by telling the guy to go into the room and freshen up last night o. And that was how the guy just packed his bags in and spent the night there. Then, my husband sent my sister to our room to sleep there and I sent her out so she slept in the sitting room. Now, I don't know who I'm more angry at. Myself for allowing all these, my husband for putting me in this position or my sister for being too forward?
I've told this man repeatedly! Let's not start what we cannot continue. Now, how do I tell someone that slept in the room last night that he will be sleeping in the living room henceforth.
I'm just tired. I'm this close to misbehaving and showing my true character o.

I advise you let him be, this is one big temptation you will have to jump and pass...just remove eye from how him and ur sister manages the guestroom.. you will see that they will bond so well and learn how to share the room..

I know a woman who lived with a guy who is her husbands relative, the guy stayed with them for 5 years in their room and palour apartment, people told her to send him away but she was a wise woman who didn't show the guy her anger...the guy travelled to jaPan and today he is a very very rich guy who lives in Abuja, the guy built a house for this woman there in ikorodu and her children travel to the UK with him every year..

What I'm trying to say is ignore this temptation and rather treat the boy like your brother, I know it is easier said than done but it is something you can do...

Pele ooooo.. your husband is a good man and his goodness will open plenty plenty doors of favour and blessings ur way.. oya say Amen

hunniesuzie:
Smh...

I have decided, to follow Jesus
I have decided, to follow Jesus
I have decided, to follow Jesus
No turning back
No turning back

lemme nor talk tew mush

May God grant you wisdom to handle this. I hope ur sis is mature enough to live with an unrelated opposite sex in the same room.....that's if u r considering it.

hunniesuzie:
Be there raping innocent man up and dahn, you wee chee chomchin
btw where's Lifted.Hands?

. I have only done it once. God please have mercy, I won't do it again.

BritneyStacy:

I don't have pap at home. But for stress, I can't deny I am not stressed! I am and don't know how to go about it

pele....you need someone to relieve you so you can rest well. sometimes you need to voice out and ask for help else everyone around you will feel you're coping fine meanwhile you're about to burst.

There are good brands of powdered ogi in the stores so you can send for one so you don't stress yourself making from the scratch.

where are you located?

Enque are you pregnant again?


<sub>ejo ma, no look with me with one kain eye and chase me with cane o...just wanted to find ya trouble

isnot kuku my bizness beforebefore</sub>

oamronnie:
cc.
jazzyjazz
Alphahandmaiden
Hunniesuzzie
Ifyalways
Zaynie
Beeejaylere
Greatp80
Chanbaby

Hmm, thank you all and God bless you massively. Y'all make it sound so simple. And each advice I read is just making me more angry. I mean, it should be THAT simple! How did I get into this mess?
My sister, thinking she was helping, went to complicate things by telling the guy to go into the room and freshen up last night o. And that was how the guy just packed his bags in and spent the night there. Then, my husband sent my sister to our room to sleep there and I sent her out so she slept in the sitting room. Now, I don't know who I'm more angry at. Myself for allowing all these, my husband for putting me in this position or my sister for being too forward?
I've told this man repeatedly! Let's not start what we cannot continue. Now, how do I tell someone that slept in the room last night that he will be sleeping in the living room henceforth.
I'm just tired. I'm this close to misbehaving and showing my true character o.

Don't be angry ummmh...calm down
if I were to be in your shoes, I will let my hubby know that I yam vexing gidigan. I'll request that he tells me how he wants the new guest handled...plenty times husbands will take an irrational decision and then expect madam to figure the workability out....ko jorara
i believe with the meeting, you will both have the chance to iron the issue at hand and for subsequent similar scenarios.



_{very annoying somchin}

Dexterush,i appreciate The Almighty God on your behalf!

Oamronnie,you've read it all from sabi mamas. Pls also ask God for wisdom and patience to handle it all... Pele.


Mamas please help me thank God! I killed a very big scorpion in my kitchen! Where it hid was around where my son sits sometimes and play. The door dat is between my kitchen and dinning.. He even sat der dis mrng,stood up and was playing der,,i asked him to move cus i wanted to sweep and mop d kitchen floor. As i oused d broom @d corner of d door,i saw smtin dat looked like cockroach,i used d broom to bring it out only to see that it was a scorpion,it raised its tail and was ready to sting! I shouted @ my son to move back and called my hubby! Na so we kill am o!

I dont kn wat would hv happened if it had stung my son... God forbid!

JGracious:
Enque are you pregnant again?


<sub>ejo ma, no look with me with one kain eye and chase me with cane o...just wanted to find ya trouble

isnot kuku my bizness beforebefore</sub>

lmao....u aff join that my 'isi-okpukpu' boss abi?

Amen, thanks a lot ma.

jazzyjazz:


Breathe dear
The person you should speak with is your husband
Then plainly tell the guy that he would sleep in the living room henceforth
And tell your sister to move back to her room

It's hard, but you can do it

The husband is the head, we the wives, are the NECK
Point your husband in the right direction


May God give you wisdom

Exactly! Thanks jare

JGracious:


Don't be angry ummmh...calm down
if I were to be in your shoes, I will let my hubby know that I yam vexing gidigan. I'll request that he tells me how he wants the new guest handled...[b]plenty times husbands will take an irrational decision and then expect madam to figure the workability [/b]out....ko jorara
i believe with the meeting, you will both have the chance to iron the issue at hand and for subsequent similar scenarios.



_{very annoying somchin}

Thank you mama. I will.
Thank God for the close save o. This scorpion matter ehn, this is the 2nd one i'm reading about. May God continue to keep us o.

perfectcrown:
Dexterush,i appreciate The Almighty God on your behalf!

Oamronnie,you've read it all from sabi mamas. Pls also ask God for wisdom and patience to handle it all... Pele.


Mamas please help me thank God! I killed a very big scorpion in my kitchen! Where it hid was around where my son sits sometimes and play. The door dat is between my kitchen and dinning.. He even sat der dis mrng,stood up and was playing der,,i asked him to move cus i wanted to sweep and mop d kitchen floor. As i oused d broom @d corner of d door,i saw smtin dat looked like cockroach,i used d broom to bring it out only to see that it was a scorpion,it raised its tail and was ready to sting! I shouted @ my son to move back and called my hubby! Na so we kill am o!

I dont kn wat would hv happened if it had stung my son... God forbid!

Amen oooooo! Thank you ma.

This issue of allowing my sister and the guy stay in d room though, ko le werk! I gotta respect her privacy too.

katchycouture:


I advise you let him be, this is one big temptation you will have to jump and pass...just remove eye from how him and ur sister manages the guestroom.. you will see that they will bond so well and learn how to share the room..

I know a woman who lived with a guy who is her husbands relative, the guy stayed with them for 5 years in their room and palour apartment, people told her to send him away but she was a wise woman who didn't show the guy her anger...the guy travelled to jaPan and today he is a very very rich guy who lives in Abuja, the guy built a house for this woman there in ikorodu and her children travel to the UK with him every year..

What I'm trying to say is ignore this temptation and rather treat the boy like your brother, I know it is easier said than done but it is something you can do...

Pele ooooo.. your husband is a good man and his goodness will open plenty plenty doors of favour and blessings ur way.. oya say Amen

Amen, thanks sis.
I believe she is. But i'm not even considering it.

isokey:
May God grant you wisdom to handle this. I hope ur sis is mature enough to live with an unrelated opposite sex in the same room.....that's if u r considering it.

isokey:
May God grant you wisdom to handle this. I hope ur sis is mature enough to live with an unrelated opposite sex in the same room.....that's if u r considering it.

This is another point to focus on.

oamronnie:
cc.
jazzyjazz
Alphahandmaiden
Hunniesuzzie
Ifyalways
Zaynie
Beeejaylere
Greatp80
Chanbaby

Hmm, thank you all and God bless you massively. Y'all make it sound so simple. And each advice I read is just making me more angry. I mean, it should be THAT simple! How did I get into this mess?
My sister, thinking she was helping, went to complicate things by telling the guy to go into the room and freshen up last night o. And that was how the guy just packed his bags in and spent the night there. Then, my husband sent my sister to our room to sleep there and I sent her out so she slept in the sitting room. Now, I don't know who I'm more angry at. Myself for allowing all these, my husband for putting me in this position or my sister for being too forward?
I've told this man repeatedly! Let's not start what we cannot continue. Now, how do I tell someone that slept in the room last night that he will be sleeping in the living room henceforth.
I'm just tired. I'm this close to misbehaving and showing my true character o.

Lol at true character.
Well, it seems your husband is the kind of person that doesn't like to rumble, just like mine too.
It is up to you to tell the boy to move to the sitting room and keep his stuff in the living room. If you don't, your husband won't and your sister might even be tempted to leave sef.
At the end of the day, it is your home and you run it the way you feel fit. Set rules before he gets accustomed to his new room.

zaynie:



Lol at true character.
Well, it seems your husband is the kind of person that doesn't like to rumble, just like mine too.
It is up to you to tell the boy to move to the sitting room and keep his stuff in the living room. If you don't, your husband won't and your sister might even be tempted to leave sef.
At the end of the day, it is your home and you run it the way you feel fit. Set rules before he gets accustomed to his new room.

You have said it all mama. How is family?
I dropped a message on " my life as a teacher"
Thanks

babythug:


Try beach land hospital al firdaus ( or something like that) estate in. Arepo

Thanks dear mama. I was able to locate it today.

JGracious:


Did you get the picture from a known person?
If yes, ask the person to send you the contact numbers/mail on the package.
call the number and ask for the nearest stockist to you.
cheers

No I did not. Got it from this forum

JGracious:


Did you get the picture from a known person?
If yes, ask the person to send you the contact numbers/mail on the package.
call the number and ask for the nearest stockist to you.
cheers

No, got the pix from this forum

gigy:
Please help mama's....Where can i buy this (Tom Brown) I have asked and searched all the supermarkets in my area but to no avail. Please whoever know where I can get this in amuwo odofin, Surulere or Lekki let me know. Thanks

Someone should help please if you have an idea. Thanks in advance

BritneyStacy:

I don't have pap at home. But for stress, I can't deny I am not stressed! I am and don't know how to go about it

Try to always take a breather. Take it one step at a time, one day at a time. Life no get duplicate oo so you don't break down dear. I know it isn't easy but then it never is.
Remember, one step at a time, one day at a time.

oamronnie
Please don't share your matrimonial room with anyone, it's your space.
Don't agree to your sister and the guy sleeping in the guest room, dog and bone dey always clash. Let the guy stay in the parlor. A normal guy should know sef that he should sleep in the parlor in that kind of setting, maybe he was very tired last night that he didn't know when he slept on the bed . Please tell him he gotta be sleeping in the sitting room from today. Lay down ground rules. Above all, please I know it irks cos you were not informed, treat him right.

Tell your dh to please consult with you next time before he agrees to something like this biko. However you can grab his attention and make the point sink home please do.

Thanks mummy Muna. Today na today

zaynie:



Lol at true character.
Well, it seems your husband is the kind of person that doesn't like to rumble, just like mine too.
It is up to you to tell the boy to move to the sitting room and keep his stuff in the living room. If you don't, your husband won't and your sister might even be tempted to leave sef.
At the end of the day, it is your home and you run it the way you feel fit. Set rules before he gets accustomed to his new room.

@treating him right, i will ma. Thanks ma. How's Cookiejar? Did the rape go down as planned?

beyedew:
oamronnie
Please don't share your matrimonial room with anyone, it's your space.
Don't agree to your sister and the guy sleeping in the guest room, dog and bone dey always clash. Let the guy stay in the parlor. A normal guy should know sef that he should sleep in the parlor in that kind of setting, maybe he was very tired last night that he didn't know when he slept on the bed . Please tell him he gotta be sleeping in the sitting room from today. Lay down ground rules. Above all, please I know it irks cos you were not informed, treat him right.

Tell your dh to please consult with you next time before he agrees to something like this biko. However you can grab his attention and make the point sink home please do.

Oamronnie, so sorry you find yourself in this situation. It isnt even a visit but for a year + x.
For me, i support hunniesuzzie's advice. Yes. You need to change the tide before the boy gets comfortable in the room. Sitting room is the only available space for now. He should manage it.
Then for your hubby, he needs to learn that being nice has a limit. Let him know that you arent happy that he didnt comsult you. Men will always go out and come back to eat, watch tv and sleep, it's the women that suffer when the house isn't comfortable cos we are home bound.

Motherhood is such a blessing!

Was just here now listening to my smallie drumming and singing butt naked in my bed( was airing his buttocks). Just at the moment I thought enough breeze don blow that place make we go wear diaper or pata he got up and dropped "you know what" right on my mattress

Been sweating and cleaning frantically here. The culprit has long walked away *sighs*

When I sha point at lace and matching slippers he had better not speak English to me

quote author=gigy post=63220827]

No, got the pix from this forum[/quote]

Thanks to Google.
I found a Tombrown link for you and the screenshot of the contact number
https://dfh.ecwid.com

cc.spiceeamiee

babythug:
Motherhood is such a blessing!

Was just here now listening to my smallie drumming and singing butt naked in my bed( was airing his buttocks). Just at the moment I thought enough breeze don blow that place make we go wear diaper or pata he got up and dropped "you know what" right on my mattress

Been sweating and cleaning frantically here. The culprit has long walked away *sighs*

When I sha point at lace and matching slippers he had better not speak English to me

@ matching lace and slippers

That's how I finished bathing my son one morning, before I say make I rub am cream finish, then quickly wear him diaper, the boy stood up, got a comfortable spot on the bed and pooped everywhere! I didn't even know what to do or say. Worst part, he now used his leg to spread it. I had to bath him again and wash the bed sheets and scrub the mattress. Lol

Another day he did same in my room on the floor, the was kicking kt everywhere, poop was just splashing on the bed and wardrobe. Chei
Dh just left the room for us that day. LoL

Had to mop the room with Dettol because the smell ehn