Lilliesbud12:
Hmm... please I need help.

I have zero libido and hubby has been very patient.. it has been looooonnng... Anyways, he's changing it for me now. please what can I do? I have never been a fan of it but I want to oo.Any way out. thank you.

If you are breastfeeding it's normal. When it's now coupled with stress of taking care of a baby, chores, STRESSSSS, mbok, it is over normal.
Now, how can you remedize the situation, First and foremost, reduce the Stress cos if I say you should cancel stress from your daily routine, IT's A BIG LIE cos once you become a mother Stress becomes like a backpack. Reduce Stress by asking your husband to assist in chores, be mentally prepared to have sex with your hubby even if it means watching porn on your own (make u no go make ur oga turn to addict wth ya hand), just try and help your husband to ease himself before all these end time slayers confuse SON OF MAN.
Sometimes, I'm not in the mood but, when I remember how my hubby has been helpful in assisting with chores and allowing me to rest during the day, conscience wee not allow me to form AYAM TIRED SYNDROME cos my hubby is seriously helpful especially when he's around.

mamatwiny:
Hi all,
I am now an official member of this thread.
My breast milk is yet to come out and my baby is really hungry. I plan to do exclusive but I cannot continue to wait for breast milk. Mumsie advised
1- give baby glucose and water pending when breast milk comes out.

2- buy baby formulae and give baby pending when breast milk comes out.

Please which do u advise? Which formula do u advise?

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My dear, you kuku haff quoted the right person. She gave me motivation when I was in that kinda situation (mine was related to fear though after childbirth) . enque please comman help her out.i

Ehen! Sassyangel1 the queen will give you tips

Liliesbud, Are you stressed? Because stress affects one's libido alot. If you are, you need to manage it.

phlakkeys:




You are not alone my sister. I think it is not normal.

Something like this was discussed on page 1729 - 1731. Though it was more of been dry and not about not been fan of it.

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AlphaHandMaiden
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Giddyperson
Naomi14
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Liftedhands
jazzjazz
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Giddyperson:

Jazzyjazz pls help out liliesbud12.

Try not to think much about it,think of good memories with hubby.
Also try using KY gel before he penetrates,it reduces the dryness and discomfort.
Tell yourself,you will enjoy yourself and create the environment.Good luck.

phlakkeys:




You are not alone my sister. I think it is not normal.

Something like this was discussed on page 1729 - 1731. Though it was more of been dry and not about not been fan of it.

My sister to be honest with you, I'm in the same position with her. Mine is labor induced and it dried my libido, when I managed to do self, I was ceasing my legs. The way we quarrel over unnecessarily things eh, I just knew that the quarrels are konjified.
Lemme pitch my tent and learn too.

mamatwiny:
Hi all,
I am now an official member of this thread.
My breast milk is yet to come out and my baby is really hungry. I plan to do exclusive but I cannot continue to wait for breast milk. Mumsie advised
1- give baby glucose and water pending when breast milk comes out.

2- buy baby formulae and give baby pending when breast milk comes out.

Please which do u advise? Which formula do u advise?

Good morning mama congratulations I'm happy for you.

Keep putting baby to breast let the baby keep sucking that is what I did with doctors encouragement in the hospital. You may think nothing is coming out in fact you won't see it come out but as far as baby is sucking, it means something is coming out they call it colostrum which is very good for new born babies. Call the nurses and doctors to monitor your baby to know if baby is taking in anything dont be in a hurry to give formular or glucose water yet. On the 3rd day, it should start flowing like tap even when baby is sleeping, try and put him to breast to suck...

Note: I'm talking from personal experience all this is what I did.

Morning dear,had same ish but I found out mine was caused by breastfeeding cos when I weaned my boy,my dear I can't shout it,dont want to spoil some fagins here.We had to use vaseline during dat period to aid penetration but now no need.Am not saying urs might b due to breastfeeding,but mine was like dat cos my sensitive spot was my tip so d over sucking killed it.

Lilliesbud12:
Hmm... please I need help.

I have zero libido and hubby has been very patient.. it has been looooonnng... Anyways, he's changing it for me now. please what can I do? I have never been a fan of it but I want to oo.Any way out. thank you.

Billianderson:
Hello mums, great job on this thread. I’m not a mum but rather soon to be dad. My wife is just three months but I’m quite excited and looking forward to them experience ahead. I just want to know if there is any advice you can share with me on expecting and what to expect, and also what a rough estimate monthly budget is for taking care of a baby. Thanks in advance

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mamatwiny

congratulations ma.

May your son be all what you pray for. Amin.


I am so happy for you.

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What are the symptoms?
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Is age 18 months and has not had any teeth come in.

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Lilliesbud it may be breastfeeding cos I had the same issue. I The interim sassys advise is good. Also get KY jelly to help with initial penetration

Mamatwiny please give formula but keep putting your baby to breast. Once BM is established you can stop formula

Billianderson congrats in advance. That question had no answer because babies are so unpredictable amd different from each other. Just build up your savings. Congrats in advance to you and your wife

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lilliesbud

Lubrication is key!

But if you're stressed it may be a bit hard.

Get lubricant. You can ask your husband to buy it.

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StrongWoman333:
Good morning mama congratulations I'm happy for you.

Keep putting baby to breast let the baby keep sucking that is what I did with doctors encouragement in the hospital. You may think nothing is coming out in fact you won't see it come out but as far as baby is sucking, it means something is coming out they call it colostrum which is very good for new born babies. Call the nurses and doctors to monitor your baby to know if baby is taking in anything dont be in a hurry to give formular or glucose water yet. On the 3rd day, it should start flowing like tap even when baby is sleeping, try and put him to breast to suck...

Note: I'm talking from personal experience all this is what I did.

This is exactly what I did. It wasn't easy at first because baby wasn't getting enough and always crying and my nipples were sore painful from constantly sucking and chewing but it get better.now there is enough milk. Ju

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Ehen! Sassyangel1 the queen will give you tips

Let her (I dinnor call name o) be doing as if she no dey sharprapra for the matter. U weh sabi upside down style, u weh I know..

Pls don't starve your baby. If breastmilk isn't coming out for now, start with formula and switch to breastmilk later. Babies are different. One baby can stay for days without eating while another may not be able to handle it. Pls..
One oyibo woman didn't know her breastmilk wasn't coming out well. She wasn't aware baby was starving. The baby's brain got damaged but he lived. Though with health issues. Not your portion.

@ mamatwiny

My dependable mama's.. thank you so much for your responses. it's true am stressed both physically and mentally. Breastfeeding at the same time, have a very active 4 yrs old boy. Though hubby helps out a lot too.

We've gotten KY jelly... I'll work on all those things, the state of my mind & confess positively that I must satisfy my man & enjoy it too.
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jazzyjazz
hunniesuzie
phlakkeys
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Naomi14
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Lilliesbud12:
My dependable mama's.. thank you so much for your responses. it's true am stressed both physically and mentally. Breastfeeding at the same time, have a very active 4 yrs old boy. Though hubby helps out a lot too.

We've gotten KY jelly... I'll work on all those things, the state of my mind & confess positively that I must satisfy my man & enjoy it too.

Wishing you luck maami.
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midastouch040:
Pls don't starve your baby. If breastmilk isn't coming out for now, start with formula and switch to breastmilk later. Babies are different. One baby can stay for days without eating while another may not be able to handle it. Pls..
One oyibo woman didn't know her breastmilk wasn't coming out well. She wasn't aware baby was starving. The baby's brain got damaged but he lived. Though with health issues. Not your portion.

@ mamatwiny

Thank you all. We were supposed to be discharged this morning but I heard the hospital doesn't discharge until baby has started breast feeding . I don't know how true this is, but I trust the hospital sha. I am only afraid of their bills . They are one of the best around here.

I experienced my first dose of vigilante.We didn't sleep yesternight. Baby cried and didn't sleep cos of hunger. I have been putting him to breast but nothing yet.
This morning, I noticed he shakes at times and has some strange breathing that isn't frequent. I alerted the chief matron who requested his blood sugar be checked. It was very low and doctor was informed. B4 then, hubby has been told to get glucose but when the doc came , he did some calculations and set up intravenous drip/ saline water. Some drip were also put in his mouth . Doc also noticed he had elevated temp and hubby had to put on the aircon (he is so aircon averse) Since then baby has been calm . He is sleeping at the moment though he hiccups at times. He is still on the drip.

I have been told to increase my tea and water intake for the BM.
It is well.

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mamatwiny:




Thank you all. We were supposed to be discharged this morning but I heard the hospital doesn't discharge until baby has started breast feeding . I don't know how true this is, but I trust the hospital sha. I am only afraid of their bills . They are one of the best around here.

I experienced my first dose of vigilante.We didn't sleep yesternight. Baby cried and didn't sleep cos of hunger. I have been putting him to breast but nothing yet.
This morning, I noticed he shakes at times and has some strange breathing that isn't frequent. I alerted the chief matron who requested his blood sugar be checked. It was very low and doctor was informed. B4 then, hubby has been told to get glucose but when the doc came , he did some calculations and set up intravenous drip/ saline water. Some drip were also put in his mouth . Doc also noticed he had elevated temp and hubby had to put on the aircon (he is so aircon averse) Since then baby has been calm . He is sleeping at the moment though he hiccups at times. He is still on the drip.

I have been told to increase my tea and water intake for the BM.
It is well.

Congratulations mama. Dont you think you should give your baby formula? Baby was really hungry, reason his blood sugar was low. This scared me o.

Ammy5565:

Congratulations mama. Dont you think you should give your baby formula? Baby was really hungry, reason his blood sugar was low. This scared me o.

We will get the formula today, though baby is still on drip.

Yep yep.....tested and trusted

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They came to take baby's blood for about 3 tests. Full blood count, mp and one other test. 2.5ml of blood. Hubby was shaking when the put the drip, I wonder how he would have felt when this new doc was searching for vein in the other hand and later collecting blood.

God is my strength.

mamatwiny:


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mamatwiny:




Thank you all. We were supposed to be discharged this morning but I heard the hospital doesn't discharge until baby has started breast feeding . I don't know how true this is, but I trust the hospital sha. I am only afraid of their bills . They are one of the best around here.

I experienced my first dose of vigilante.We didn't sleep yesternight. Baby cried and didn't sleep cos of hunger. I have been putting him to breast but nothing yet.
This morning, I noticed he shakes at times and has some strange breathing that isn't frequent. I alerted the chief matron who requested his blood sugar be checked. It was very low and doctor was informed. B4 then, hubby has been told to get glucose but when the doc came , he did some calculations and set up intravenous drip/ saline water. Some drip were also put in his mouth . Doc also noticed he had elevated temp and hubby had to put on the aircon (he is so aircon averse) Since then baby has been calm . He is sleeping at the moment though he hiccups at times. He is still on the drip.

I have been told to increase my tea and water intake for the BM.
It is well.

If you have breastbump(manual or electric), you can also use it. Your mum or hubby can buy onugbu soup for you or even get original palmwine,hollandia plain yogurt(it works for me tho), pap with plenty milk(should be a bit watery) also take it hot, massage your breast with semi hot water and rest.