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Tope wealth: Am a young lady of 26yrs, whose family beliv dat a girl should marry btw d age of 23- 26, and because of their belief,am bn pressurized to bring a man home. I was in a vry gud relatnsp last yr,until my family said no, I cn't marry an Igbo guy, d guy's mum also said we cn't marry so we went our seperate ways! l met anothr guy almost 3 mnths nw, l went into a relationship we d hope of gettn marry . This guy only comes to my house , he refuse to allow me knw his house telling me to relax whn evr i tell him l wnt to knw his house, funny enough ,l ve oda serious guyz disturbn for a relationship. Recently a friend in new york propose marriage to me telln he wnt me to marry him and stay wit him abroad, l turnd him dwn . 2 guys who are my gud friends propose marriage to me and l said no ,cos of dz guy, my friend in newyork calls me evryday and tells me he loves and wnt me 2 b his wif and he is ready to settle dwn, bt l luv dz guy whom l met recently somuch, he claim to lov me too bt he refused to lt me knw where he stays, his family and his friends .apart 4m his only contact l ve is his phone numbr, we always meet in my house, nw my fear is he might Bleep up oneday and disappear wit no way to trease, while its might too late to say yes to d oda serious guyz, l told him my fear, bt he stil insist dat he wnt nw dat l should relax! Am l wasting my time? Shld l leave him and get serious wit sm one else,since l cn't date 2guyz @ a time? Pls advice me cus am confused!

How do you people do it? Fall in love with someone you don't know? SMH

@Op, Wake up and smell the coffee.

He is def hiding something from you, don't be fooled.

[quote author=Lord_Reed]How do you people do it? Fall in love with someone you don't know? SMH[/quote]Actually she knows him. She is just so silly that she fell in love with someone who is either a ghost or married with kids. I choose the latter sha

[quote author=Mynd_44]Actually she knows him. She is just so silly that she fell in love with someone who is either a ghost or married with kids. I choose the latter sha[/quote]Yeah very likely he is.

[quote author=Lord_Reed]Yeah very likely he is.[/quote]

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Op infact before a man should come to my house, i should have known him enough tell any of my family members who may ask.
I should have known your house, where u r from and what you do or work before u come my house. u r relying on a big crush by the time ur eyes will open, no body will tell you. how can u be turning down other people you know becos of this ghost who doesnt want to come clear? u r on ur own for this love o.

Tope wealth: Thanks every one 4 ur wise counsel,l appreciate ur time! Bt @mynd_44 nd lord of d reed, no matter hw u feel abt d gist ,l dn't think it nice to use abusive words, y the word " Sily" ?.oh! Com'n, i dn't like dat, l dn't insult people so dnt do dat here. I stil appreciate u guys,so 1 luv.

And where did you see silly in any of my posts? What I am trying to point out to you is examine someone well before you "fall in love".

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Tope wealth: Am sorry dear, l mean mynd_44!

And you found silly insulting? My apologies I did not mean it as an insult