prettyjulie: In a situation where one Ȋ̝̊̅§ in a relationship aπϑ hangs around with friends of the opposite gender or goes on a date with someone else even when N̤̥̈̊ø̲̣̣̥ intimacy or form of romance Ȋ̝̊̅§ involved only τ̲̅ȍ be caught on such dates by the real partner ,does it mean the person Ȋ̝̊̅§ cheating on his/her partner?

prettyjulie: In a situation where one Ȋ̝̊̅§ in a relationship aπϑ hangs around with friends of the opposite gender or goes on a date with someone else even when N̤̥̈̊ø̲̣̣̥ intimacy or form of romance[i][/i] Ȋ̝̊̅§ involved only τ̲̅ȍ be caught on such dates by the real partner ,does it mean the person Ȋ̝̊̅§ cheating on his/her partner?

prettyjulie: In a situation where one Ȋ̝̊̅§ in a relationship aπϑ hangs around with friends of the opposite gender or goes on a date with someone else even when N̤̥̈̊ø̲̣̣̥ intimacy or form of romance Ȋ̝̊̅§ involved only τ̲̅ȍ be caught on such dates by the real partner ,does it mean the person Ȋ̝̊̅§ cheating on his/her partner?

2. sexkillz(m): Quote Post
No! Tell that small boy to grow up. . .

sexkillz: If you are in a relationship with me and you breach my standard expectations of you, or you betray the trust i have in you, I'll dump your arse

KAYD007: @ sexkillz



If were the "small boy" i would reply:

(ur quote in another thread)

She is hanging out with friends she has no emotional attachments to. . . Friends i knew she had before i entered into the relationship with her.

She is yet to betray my trust or breach my expectations yet. I knew all these before i started dating her. . .BTW the comment you quoted was from a thread discussing another issue entirely.
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That said, my stand still remains. That boy is a small boy and needs to seriously grow up. . .

sexkillz: If you are in a relationship with me and you breach my standard expectations of you, or you betray the trust i have in you, I'll dump your arse!

KAYD007: @sexkillz

I have no problem with her hanging out with male friends she probably knew before we started the relationship.Those so called male friends were there but she picked me!numero uno!! but when it is excessive , it might be detrimental to the relationship . For me i might not be comfortable & might tend to exhibit jealousy hence i might dump her ar.se if am no longer comfortable with such unpleasant scenario.

Apart from hanging out with male friends,she did mentioned going on dates with other male friends other that her main partner! As her numero uno, am i not the only one she is suppose to be dating? Dates that i no comes with emotional & to some extent pun.ani attachment!

so what da hell are you talking about?

ralfo85: Have we talked about the intent of these male friends she goes out with? What if they are just lurking around like vultures looking for an opportunity to grab her from you upon the slightest weakness from her? Would you approve of such dates?

I suppose it would be good that she discusses the nature of her relationship with such friends freely with you, and can calmly answer any questions you may have without assuming distrust.

prettyjulie: Ok then,av heard you all especially you @sexkills

sexkillz:
C'mon dude. . . You have to ease off a little. You are not married to her yet, so there is a limit of exclusiveness you should demand from her. Her being in a relationship with you is not imprisonment. You have to give her opportunity to miss you as well.

As long as you trust her, and the communication between you two is effective, you have nothing to worry about. You do not need to forcefully remind her that you are her numero uno. She knows her boundaries and knows not to cross them.

When she crosses the boundaries, then you can take action. But it is wrong for you to take actions based on premonitions or mere gut feelings. . .

spikes C:
Damn!!!! you look so.....
Can we go on a date, its actually not cheating you know

prettyjulie: or goes on a date with someone else even when N̤̥̈̊ø̲̣̣̥ intimacy or form of romance Ȋ̝̊̅§ involved only τ̲̅ȍ be caught on such dates by the real partner

prettyjulie: look at Ūя̲̅ mouth like date,N̤̥̈̊ø̲̣̣̥ such tin can happen not even after the criticizm here

spikes C:
Damn!!!! you look so.....
Can we go on a date, its actually not cheating you know

pcicero:



*goes off to check her profile*

*panting*


Hmmmm, not bad.

@ OP, if this is what you wear to those dates with 'friends', he has reasons to be jealous!


All these ladies with friends sha! Even when they know that the so-called friends have intentions, they still have excuses to go on dates with them. Friends with benefits my foot! Why won't the guy be green-eyed?

pcicero:
*goes off to check her profile*
*panting*
Hmmmm, not bad.
@ OP, if this is what you wear to those dates with 'friends', he has reasons to be jealous!
All these ladies with friends sha! Even when they know that the so-called friends have intentions, they still have excuses to go on dates with them. Friends with benefits my foot! Why won't the guy be green-eyed?

prettyjulie: lol

Mynd_44: Now that pic makes sense
*don't tell Cindy I said that*