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Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by spikesC(m): 9:17pm On Jul 11, 2012
Mynd_44: Now that pic makes sense
*don't tell Cindy I said that*

Hehehehe...you're sooo dead
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jul 11, 2012
Prettyjulie jst want u guys to post what she wants to hear.... I for one thing won't be dating a girl and be going on 'dates' with other girls...If u're a girl and I'm doing that ow would u feel....As harmless as it may seem...It really does not make sense.
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Mynd44: 3:02am On Jul 12, 2012
cindyrella:
Caught you! grin grin
spikes C:

Hehehehe...you're sooo dead
cindyrella:
Caught you! grin grin
Spikes, too bad Cindy has more brains that you and she realise that just looking at someone's picture ain't cheating
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by spikesC(m): 5:31am On Jul 12, 2012
Mynd_44:
Spikes, too bad Cindy has more brains that you and she realise that just looking at someone's picture ain't cheating

So does asking for just punny grin
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Mynd44: 7:46am On Jul 12, 2012
spikes C:

So does asking for just punny grin
Dude get of my back jorh
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Flashaldrin(m): 2:54pm On Jul 12, 2012
Prettyjuju, your yansh dey scratch you??

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Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by bknight: 5:09pm On Jul 12, 2012
ronkebp: Cheating actually starts from there, from couple of dates, having lunches together.....am sure there must have been dirty talks, here and there.....

There you have it! So, better to nip it in d bud

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Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by prettyjulie(f): 8:55pm On Jul 12, 2012
[quote author=cindyrella]
Caught you! grin grin[/quote)lol,please o
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by prettyjulie(f): 9:02pm On Jul 12, 2012
;DYou guys aint gonna kill moi cos the story in question isn't refering τ̲̅ȍ moi,it's just a question nd Ȋ̝̊̅ appreciate you all 4 Ūя̲̅ lovely response
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by spikesC(m): 3:17pm On Jul 13, 2012
prettyjulie: ;DYou guys aint gonna kill moi cos the story in question isn't refering τ̲̅ȍ moi,it's just a question nd Ȋ̝̊̅ appreciate you all 4 Ūя̲̅ lovely response
perfect, so whats ur story... Prettyjulie looking for mr nice guy...rather mr Spikes grin
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Mynd44: 3:20pm On Jul 13, 2012
spikes C:
perfect, so whats ur story... Prettyjulie looking for mr nice guy...rather mr Spikes grin
SMH
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by spikesC(m): 3:34pm On Jul 13, 2012
Mynd_44:
SMH
stop following ma azz around angry
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by ijebabe: 7:52pm On Jul 13, 2012
Can we call this cheating?
WE CAN AND WE WILL!!!
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by prettyjulie(f): 10:46am On Jul 14, 2012
ijebabe: Can we call this cheating?
WE CAN AND WE WILL!!!
lol grin
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by prettyjulie(f): 10:53am On Jul 14, 2012
Flashaldrin: Prettyjuju, your yansh dey scratch you??
yes o,e D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ scratch moi,do wanna come nd help moi out?RUBBISH
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by spikesC(m): 1:13pm On Jul 14, 2012
prettyjulie: yes o,e D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ scratch moi,do wanna come nd help moi out?RUBBISH
lipsrsealed
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Mynd44: 2:27pm On Jul 14, 2012
spikes C:
stop following ma azz around angry
Its a public forum dude. Why would I wanna follow you?
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by spikesC(m): 3:17pm On Jul 14, 2012
Mynd_44:
Its a public forum dude. Why would I wanna follow you?
Ma azz ain't public undecided
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by prettyjulie(f): 11:33am On Jul 15, 2012
grin grin grin
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by spikesC(m): 4:24pm On Jul 15, 2012
prettyjulie: grin grin grin
Me pretty bebe
Ma internet works just for you...lets take this to another level nah grin
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Mynd44: 8:52pm On Jul 15, 2012
spikes C:
Me pretty bebe
Ma internet works just for you...lets take this to another level nah grin
Good for you
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Nobody: 11:44am On Jul 31, 2012
The thing you people fail to understand is that everything boils down to the guy's intentions. If the guy you're going on dates with is a true playboy with the right game and the necessary tools/baits, you are almost certainly going to get laid - irrespective of whether you bargained for that or not. Seduction is a contact sport, and the best seductions take place subconsciously - seeping through your bloodstream like slow poison (i.e. Stealth seduction). Before you know it, you would be lying naked on his bed and wondering how it all happened. Total avoidance is the only way of preventing this inevitability when you're dealing with a guy that knows his onions. Let's stop deceiving ourselves.

For those of you guys that are into this lovey-dovey, boyfriend-girlfriend business, it is best to adopt an 'anything is possible' mindset rather than fool yourself into believing that she has sufficient self-control to not cheat on you with so-called 'male friends'. Everything depends on that male friend's game and motives - which you as the boyfriend know nothing about. Purporting to be 'secure' and to trust her not to cheat with her male dates or 'friends' is only an exercise in extreme self-delusion.

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Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by pcicero(m): 10:15pm On Jul 31, 2012
pro01: The thing you people fail to understand is that everything boils down to the guy's intentions. If the guy you're going on dates with is a true playboy with the right game and the necessary tools/baits, you are almost certainly going to get laid - irrespective of whether you bargained for that or not. Seduction is a contact sport, and the best seductions take place subconsciously - seeping through your bloodstream like slow poison (i.e. Stealth seduction). Before you know it, you would be lying naked on his bed and wondering how it all happened. Total avoidance is the only way of preventing this inevitability when you're dealing with a guy that knows his onions. Let's stop deceiving ourselves.

For those of you guys that are into this lovey-dovey, boyfriend-girlfriend business, it is best to adopt an 'anything is possible' mindset rather than fool yourself into believing that she has sufficient self-control to not cheat on you with so-called 'male friends'. Everything depends on that male friend's game and motives - which you as the boyfriend know nothing about. Purporting to be 'secure' and to trust her not to cheat with her male dates or 'friends' is only an exercise in extreme self-delusion.


GBAM!!! So true I can't add a single word!
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Nobody: 10:44am On Aug 01, 2012
pro01: The thing you people fail to understand is that everything boils down to the guy's intentions. If the guy you're going on dates with is a true playboy with the right game and the necessary tools/baits, you are almost certainly going to get laid - irrespective of whether you bargained for that or not. Seduction is a contact sport, and the best seductions take place subconsciously - seeping through your bloodstream like slow poison (i.e. Stealth seduction). Before you know it, you would be lying naked on his bed and wondering how it all happened. Total avoidance is the only way of preventing this inevitability when you're dealing with a guy that knows his onions. Let's stop deceiving ourselves.

For those of you guys that are into this lovey-dovey, boyfriend-girlfriend business, it is best to adopt an 'anything is possible' mindset rather than fool yourself into believing that she has sufficient self-control to not cheat on you with so-called 'male friends'. Everything depends on that male friend's game and motives - which you as the boyfriend know nothing about. Purporting to be 'secure' and to trust her not to cheat with her male dates or 'friends' is only an exercise in extreme self-delusion.

come on bro, you are giving these ladies less credits than they are due. forget about the OP for a minute, if you believe that a playa can get ANY woman regardless of WHO SHE IS, then thats your first mistake of the day........ simply because to get a woman you first have to get "access" to her like that. many women who dont want anything more than friendship, will block whatever attempt is made at them.......example: "lets go out, no thank you". "lets get a drink together, no thank you i am not thirsty". "lets meet for a chat, no thank you i have nothing to say" etc. believing that a playa can get any woman whatsoever (regardless of who she is) is your first mistake of the day.

now YES, there are many women who are gullible and take someone as a friend, while this "friend" was plotting all along to bed her, thats understandable because she let her guard down......... but if a lady has her head on her shoulder (and knows the game) then she will see the plotting a mile down the road. the reason why a playa is successful is because many SINGLE women out there are weak, but to claim that a playa would be able to bed any women whether single or not, is like saying that all women are potential sluts (and the reason they aint actual sluts is because they havent met the right playa) thats your second mistake of the day. but if that is your school of thought then you are therefore calling all women in your life potential sluts lipsrsealed lipsrsealed .

yes there are many sluts out there who pretend to be who they are not, and who would gladly cheat (because they WANT to), but to claim that all women would is a bit over the top. some wouldnt be able to even kiss another guy (let alone sleep with him) even if they were under an evil spell. they would be so in love that the mere thought of kissing someone else would make them sick. so yes, there are many wolves in sheep clothing out there, but to suddenly believe that ALL sheeps out there are actual wolves in disguise is very disturbing.
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by rico73(m): 3:56pm On Aug 05, 2012
sexkillz:
C'mon dude. . . You have to ease off a little. You are not married to her yet, so there is a limit of exclusiveness you should demand from her. Her being in a relationship with you is not imprisonment. You have to give her opportunity to miss you as well.

As long as you trust her, and the communication between you two is effective, you have nothing to worry about. You do not need to forcefully remind her that you are her numero uno. She knows her boundaries and knows not to cross them.

When she crosses the boundaries, then you can take action. But it is wrong for you to take actions based on premonitions or mere gut feelings. . .
sexkillz:
C'mon dude. . . You have to ease off a little. You are not married to her yet, so there is a limit of exclusiveness you should demand from her. Her being in a relationship with you is not imprisonment. You have to give her opportunity to miss you as well.

As long as you trust her, and the communication between you two is effective, you have nothing to worry about. You do not need to forcefully remind her that you are her numero uno. She knows her boundaries and knows not to cross them.

When she crosses the boundaries, then you can take action. But it is wrong for you to take actions based on premonitions or mere gut feelings. . .
dear nairalanders, there is nothing like a boy and girl just being friends. There must be one string or the other attached. These days there is what they call 'FRIENDSHIP WITH BENEFIT.' Where friends sleep with each other. So the idea of harmless dates is now a no go area. 'Man and woman no be friend o!' is the slogan i and my friends play with.
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by rico73(m): 5:31pm On Aug 05, 2012
sexkillz:
C'mon dude. . . You have to ease off a little. You are not married to her yet, so there is a limit of exclusiveness you should demand from her. Her being in a relationship with you is not imprisonment. You have to give her opportunity to miss you as well.

As long as you trust her, and the communication between you two is effective, you have nothing to worry about. You do not need to forcefully remind her that you are her numero uno. She knows her boundaries and knows not to cross them.

When she crosses the boundaries, then you can take action. But it is wrong for you to take actions based on premonitions or mere gut feelings. . .
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by ijebabe: 5:42pm On Aug 05, 2012
E don do na, we have heard!
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by adabeke12(f): 10:46pm On Aug 22, 2012
prettyjulie: In a situation where one Ȋ̝̊̅§ in a relationship aπϑ hangs around with friends of the opposite gender or goes on a date with someone else even when N̤̥̈̊ø̲̣̣̥ intimacy or form of romance Ȋ̝̊̅§ involved only τ̲̅ȍ be caught on such dates by the real partner ,does it mean the person Ȋ̝̊̅§ cheating on his/her partner?

well to be honest it is if u have feelings for the opposite gender, though ur not cheating physically but u r emotionally and psychologically.
Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by adabeke12(f): 10:48pm On Aug 22, 2012
why would u go on a date with someone who is not ur boyfriend?
and if u dont mind that being done to you, then i guess its not a problem

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Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Youngpo413: 8:02pm On Oct 28, 2014
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Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by jnrbayano(m): 8:35pm On Oct 28, 2014
prettyjulie:
In a situation where one Ȋ̝̊̅§ in a relationship aπϑ hangs around with friends of the opposite gender or goes on a date with someone else even when N̤̥̈̊ø̲̣̣̥ intimacy or form of romance Ȋ̝̊̅§ involved only τ̲̅ȍ be caught on such dates by the real partner ,does it mean the person Ȋ̝̊̅§ cheating on his/her partner?

On the strength of the bold, I say yes it is cheating.

You can only catch a defaulter of any sort.

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Re: Can We Call This Cheating? by Youngpo413: 9:39pm On Dec 25, 2014
prettyjulie:
In a situation where one Ȋ̝̊̅§ in a relationship aπϑ hangs around with friends of the opposite gender or goes on a date with someone else even when N̤̥̈̊ø̲̣̣̥ intimacy or form of romance Ȋ̝̊̅§ involved only τ̲̅ȍ be caught on such dates by the real partner ,does it mean the person Ȋ̝̊̅§ cheating on his/her partner?
yes

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