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I Love Him,but: ? by switchic2(f): 3:06am On Dec 04, 2007
Hi Guys,please i need your advice.There's a guy way back in school that was asking me out,for about 2years.He's 29 and I m 25.We were very good friends then and i told him I couldn't date him then because i thought he wasn't serious.He eventually got tired and stopped asking me out and started dating someone else.After a while,i started dating someone else,but i discovered it was him i loved and not my own boyfriend,but since he already had a babe,there was nothing i could do.He also told me he loved me,but he was already hooked with his babe whom he told about me.He tried breaking up with her ,but couldn't and since i had a boyfriend,he didn't want to risk loosing both ways.To cut d long story short,we both endured our relationships and graduated,though we kept in touch.After a while we broke up our respective relationships and still remained good friends.He kept on telling me he loved me,but is scared that i can't wait for him since he doesn't have a job yet.I love him deeply and told him I can wait,because I don't want to loose him again.my problem now is,he hasn't asked me out again,i tried convincing him of my willingness to wait and he keeps saying he loves me,but since he's jobless,he doesn't want to keep me waiting,saying that,He doesn't know how long it will take before he gets a job.He started calling me once in a while.I can't really call him my boyfriend,or even say we are dating,but I know he loves me very much.I got fed up,and stopped calling him,but i can't seem to get him out of my mind.I haven't met any guy like him.Please advice me,What should i do?Should i move on with my life,or b patient and wait for him?
Re: I Love Him,but: ? by Nobody: 3:27am On Dec 04, 2007
he has every right to be sceptical about you seeing that you rebuffed him the first time because, as you claim, he was not serious.
If you truly love him, sit him down and have a down to earth talk . . . what are his plans for his future and do they include you job or not? All these "i wont call him" stuff is not the right way to go about issues like this.
Re: I Love Him,but: ? by chika98: 8:10am On Dec 04, 2007
He may come around. But tell him that you love him and you reallly wanna be with him. I understand the way he feels in regards to his job situation because I know he wants to be that guy who will take care of u. Just let him know how you reallly feel. Hope this bit helps
Re: I Love Him,but: ? by rockiedink(m): 8:22am On Dec 04, 2007
hmmm girls and their incessant forming. haven't they learnt that it will get them nowhere? angry angry angry

anyway, swit chic2, i'll say u brought this all on yourself. But now you have realised that, i guess we the menfolk can pardon you. grin wink smiley cheesy

but my advice is: follow your heart; it ALWAYS helps. Besides, the guy really must love you to tell you all that. If he didn't he'd have said hell yes and jumped into bed with you at the next available opportunity!!!
Re: I Love Him,but: ? by kant26(f): 8:34am On Dec 04, 2007
I need to just get something out, what is up with the grammar on this website! How hard is it to write legibly? I do not want to sound anal, but can posters please try to at least use the damn spell check before you post. Please, abeg, ejo, daalu, we must do better!

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Re: I Love Him,but: ? by lilrukevwe(m): 11:07pm On Dec 04, 2007
i feel u so is love my dear up and down
Re: I Love Him,but: ? by opokonwa(m): 10:21am On Dec 05, 2007
@poster

Do anything wey you wan do.

Na your choice. wink

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