ronkebp:

My thoughts exactly...abi, are we going to say someone that has been in a marraige for 7 years has not seen enough to make her make-up her mind about leaving the union??

The way she did it had been carefully thought out...it was not a day thing, but months even years gan sef...and just felt enough had to be enough.

Some celebrities parade themselves as a "must-have"...but are they really who they portray themselves to be?? chaffs!!!!

Maybe we should use the same logic for the old man who left his old wife and married sweet sixteen? NO?

many posters there didnt care about what could have been going on behind close doors before the started condemning the man. Now its katie Holmes we have to consider what goes on behind the closed door we ignored 2 days ago.

Interesting

Johndoe100:
I don't know why you women want to deny the truth. No amount of new age propaganda can change the way things were designed to be. Until you women get back to the way you were designed to be and occupy your rightful place at the feet of a man nothing will go well with the world. Aberrations will continue to occur.

Until you change your way of thinking, this same women might give you a heart attack....you will just think about all they do, have done and will continue to do, and suddenly it will be the "intensive care"

GO WOMEN!! GO WOMEN!! GO!!! (dancing to MC-hammer beats).....

dayokanu:

Maybe we should use the same logic for the old man who left his old wife and married sweet sixteen? NO?

many posters there didnt care about what could have been going on behind close doors before the started condemning the man. Now its katie Holmes we have to consider what goes on behind the closed door we ignored 2 days ago.

Interesting

The man turned his wife to a weere, Katie Holmes is walking out with enough dough and has her sanity...

The woman quietly agreed that the husband could go and marry another wife, the kids did not argue or throw tantrums about their dad getting another wife, but why did the man and his "young_wife" (that will never grow old) bewitch the poor woman

bewitch? Any evidence they bewitched her?

dayokanu: bewitch? Any evidence they bewitched her?

She was tearing her clothes and going out naked....abi you did not read that part?

ronkebp: She was tearing her clothes and going out naked....abi you did not read that part?

And how did tearing clothes and going nakeed affect the man? Couldnt it be that the heat was too much and she wanted fresh air

Its not unusual for women to remove their clothes and tie only wrapper while outside to enjoy Fresh air

She might also be considering a carer in strip tease hence the clothe removal

dayokanu:

And how did tearing clothes and going nakeed affect the man? Couldnt it be that the heat was too much and she wanted fresh air

Its not unusual for women to remove their clothes and tie only wrapper while outside to enjoy Fresh air

She might also be considering a carer in strip tease hence the clothe removal

Dayo....i was talking about the yoruba figurative meaning of "tearing clothes", (stop playing).

don't be sentimental, i don't support any form of mental hardship in marraige, whether it is for the man or woman, anybody that is not enjoying his or her marraige and thinks there are unsolvable issues going on, which might affect their children, sanity or life should divorce his/her spouse

stillwater:

How is this different from the man you supported who got married to a second wife as soon as he got his gratuity? Imagine the huge blow to the wife.

Call me unfair but the man didn't send her an email whilst she was in her village to tell her of his new wife, neither did he bring the second wife into the house when she was away and like I made perfectly clear on that thread, I know that Men and women are not on the same level regarding these issues. You see, it is you people that insist on comparing the two threads not moi.

maclatunji:

Call me unfair but the man didn't send her an email whilst she was in her village to tell her of his new wife, neither did he bring the second wife into the house when she was away and like I made perfectly clear on that thread, I know that Men and women are not on the same level regarding these issues. You see, it is you people that insist on comparing the two threads not moi.

There is good reason to compare the two threads. We have here two different means of communication that produced the same effect. Effects of shock, being taken unawares, feelings of hurt, pain and disappointment of knowing who you are living with does not mean well for you. It's just like choosing between dying by drowning or jumping off a skyscraper. Both cases you still die.

I don't think I get your comment on men and women not being the same. Can you explain further?

Please read the other thread in detail, you will get my point.