So there's an article on nairaland this week that says that about 1 in 4 married couples sleep in seperate rooms for various reasons, and that it's becoming a popular trend and that by 2015[b] builders[/b] are going to start to include homes with adjoining his/her bedrooms(like you'd see in a hotel suite). Is anyone doing this in their marriage or approve of it and if so - why??

A man needs his space. His bedroom... the den/ study/ praying room... his workshop / garage

Simply need ur space.....
Particularly if one partner has an annoying sleeping habit like ..... snoring!

Ever heard a locomotive come down your lane............
Men, u go bow!!

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Any woman dares suggest such nonsense
With me wud wake up d next day 2 meet all
Her property and load outside d gate

Arrant nonsense#


#chews gum and strolls out of thread#

I can't sleep alone without ma woman beside me....... We will stay together in one bed,one room for better for worse

Can assure u these feelings disappear after a couple of years together.

The man needs his space so does she..

It does not indicate lack of nocturnal activity but com'onay...... a bit of space pls.....

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Yep... can have separate rooms.
Suppose if snoring was an issue, beats trying to grumble my way thru the night.

My room for the clothes, shoes, whatnots...
Closets aren't large enough. Trust me


Me a permanent resident of his bedroom. And occupier of his closet too.

Hmm.

This bullshit, damn cowshit.
Sleeping in different rooms?
She better use her cafa or she wan go 2 months suspension{maybe explusion go better}
bt nawa o>woman wey d suggest such tin; her husband d chop suya and onion sleep?

Wetin Prince,

As long as its consensual.... no hala.

It's not everyday u wan do the do.... reasons being: fasting, finishing an assignment or completing a project and not wanting to disturb the partner.

So let her be....
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.... no be so.

doe-eyed:
Wetin Prince,

As long as its consensual.... no hala.

It's not everyday u wan do the do.... reasons being: fasting, finishing an assignment or completing a project and not wanting to disturb the partner.

So let her be....
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.... no be so.

Separation makes the heart bleed; i no gree

doe-eyed:
Wetin Prince,

As long as its consensual.... no hala.

It's not everyday u wan do the do.... reasons being: fasting, finishing an assignment or completing a project and not wanting to disturb the partner.

So let her be....
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.... no be so.

Separation makes the heart bleed; i no gree.
Nawa u o>DO WETIN>

But the best part is sharing a room
I would think there is plenty of "space" elsewhere.

We might be all that but we are still human. I don't know about y'all but I love my quite time and privacy so separate rooms it is

Having grown accustomed to sleeping alone on my queen-size bed and enjoying the space and freedom of leg, I can imagine how clusterphobic and uncomfortable it might be if someone else slept on it every night.
But even with that, I don't think I would do the 2 room thing. I'd just get a King-sized bed.

Mynd_44: We might be all that but we are still human. I don't know about y'all but I love my quite time and privacy so separate rooms it is

Ummmmmm I see

cindyrella:
Ummmmmm I see

mynd_44 ur in trouble,dis one cind is kinda say I SEE>NA BALCONY SLEEP 4 U O

Princeparix: mynd_44 ur in trouble,dis one cind is kinda say I SEE>NA BALCONY SLEEP 4 U O

Have you ever heard of anyone who got in trouble for speaking his mind?

So how does one handle this habitual drunkard that walks in the house very late,kids are asleep,ur bed all white linen smelling vanilla and he has pee and vommit from head to toe plus a trail of no. 2??
Uuuhm where does he sleep? me thinks a mat just next to the door would be more honourable for him.

Mynd_44:
Have you ever heard of anyone who got in trouble for speaking his mind?

No bro;hvnt heard>bt hv seen sumone getting into deep shit for threatenin sumone indirectly.lol
Mynd_44 bounce dis talk and lets enjoy nairaland.

NL is getting boring jorh. I try as hard to enjoy it as possible but noting helps again

Are you married?
(No, that's not it)
Are you married and in love?
(Not it either)
Are you married and in love with the same person?
(Almost it)
I got it now. Are you married nd in love with the same person who loves you back just as much and is soo beautiful to you you can't get enough?

What space?

Seperate rooms?4 wot nah?did u nt marry me basically 4 companionship,my company u shall have.
Space ko space ni,haven't u had enough of it single?na me and u 4 dat room.
Wherever u go,beside u is ma position.case closed!(abi u wana go back 2 d days I will wake in d morning and come knocking on ur door 2 greet u?)

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You don't get it. Everyone might need space sometimes. You will sleep together but just to maintain my sanity, I will keep a certain space to me

^^^^ tell them bro.
In dem early days, yeah..... its like u can't get enough.
But give it some time or years.... need ur space
Don't mean the man's cheating....
Just need some space.

U can sleep with a man every day or night and he'd be cheating if he wanted to...
With dem viagra n redbull available....

* whistles off*

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Mynd_44: ^^
You don't get it. Everyone might need space sometimes. You will sleep together but just to maintain my sanity, I will keep a certain space to me

So hw ll u knw if I v night fever?drs no space/privacy in marriage.
If u love ur space,u v no biz getting married in d 1st place.
Kpom

^^^^^

Dear Amyng....
If u expect to be cuddled every night of ur marriage ........ u need to grow up n stop being clingy.

No offence........

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Crying(poor me)

Space ko, space bus ni!

We are going to be together on that bed oooo. I can excuse her if there are things to be done or deadline met. Anything other than that, na me and am on top my bed forever and ever. Amen.

My parents have been sleeping on the same bed everyday for over fifty years! They don't appear tired ooo and I don't think they are going stop anytime soon.

Come thief the space nah. Abegi, close up the space make I cuddle small jare.

amyg: Crying(poor me)

Stop crying. The truth remains that most men are not comfortable with women and their baggage mentality: make up kits, ointments, perfumes, pancakes, mary kay's, face cleansers etc that smells stuffy. For me, I have already told my woman; seperate rooms and nothing's gonna stop that. Run ur things let me run my things but no infidelity.

My parents share d same room but i would prefer my own room wen im Mrs, my younger sister n I shared dsame room b4 but since 7yrs ago we v different rms.Infact i cherish my privacy

One needs the privacy,as time goes on.

Wetin ma eye dey read for nairaland self, space and privacy for marriage, the moment u say I do, dat one don go, except u wan say I no do again, I have my room but its trictly for my shoes and clothes, my room and the guest room are both for guests, except that the kind of guest will determine if u will b in my room or my guest room cos of my valuables in my room, but still I have some of my clothes and shoes even in my hubby's room. Let ma hubb build a mansion and decide to use a small cubicle as master bedroom, we will both be sleeping there, as long as we both love each other, there is no space to be given. Talking about meeting deadlines, study or doing assignment, back in school where we had roommates, do we tell them to leave the room because we want to read, mba, what God has joined together, let no bed or room put asunder