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| Please Help! by shadshadyz(op): 3:56pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
I just recently got this job but i have an issue. My boss keeps touching my hair and smoothing it. I really dont like this. He has done it twice. What is the best way to go about this. Urgent advice needed. |
| Re: Please Help! by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
tell him:"oga sir, with no disrespect, i feel uncomfortable when you touch my hair and i would really appreciate if you didnt do that." |
| Re: Please Help! by Cidi: 4:06pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
Either you throw your legs up or start looking for a new one ![]() |
| Re: Please Help! by shadshadyz(op): 4:08pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: tell him:"oga sir, with no disrespect, i feel uncomfortable when you touch my hair and i would really appreciate if you didnt do that."can i send an email |
| Re: Please Help! by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
shadshadyz: can i send an emailI think such are best delivered in person. It's very passive-aggressive sending an email to someone about an issue when they are right there! |
| Re: Please Help! by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
[color=#000030]If a bus conductor touches and smooths your hair, what will you do? Come to NL and seek advice? If you do not react the same way with your boss, you have a problem that cannot be solved by anyone, but you. . . [/color] |
| Re: Please Help! by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
shadshadyz: can i send an emaildefinitely not! |
| Re: Please Help! by Caracta(f): 4:32pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
2buff: I think such are best delivered in person. It's very passive-aggressive sending an email to someone about an issue when they are right there!Seconded |
| Re: Please Help! by angiemartinez(f): 5:35pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
wen next he tries it, y nt say sir am sory am not com4table wit d way u touch me. Am ur employee and so lets keep it at dat. |
| Re: Please Help! by tobechi20(m): 8:15pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
Just ur hair and u are complaining..... . . . Set a trap 4 him...when he tries it , instantly turn and slap him..,then apologise imediately...tel him ure sorry,just not comfortable with it....beg him neva to try it again |
| Re: Please Help! by haruna1970(m): 9:08pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
I'm a hypocrite. Pick up your bible and pretend to preach to him. I'm like him. I hate being preached to. Try it and you will thank me. Okay ? |
| Re: Please Help! by Mynd44(mod): 9:28pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
The next time he does it, tell him |
| Re: Please Help! by Rocktation(mod): 9:31pm On Jul 20, 2012*. Modified: 12:13am On Jul 21, 2012 |
Really just tell him that you're not comfortable with 'anybody' touching your hair. Not just him in particular. |
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