I must say this is a very interesting site, now i know why my colleague is forever glued to his computer. this is my first post, so salute to people like Nike4lv who had posted 9,000plus.

There is this argument that had been going on forever. Is it really impossible for a female to keep a male friend? i mean friend as in your very close buddy no strings attached and verse versa.

I really want to know ur opinions.

Well, i think its possible but not everyone is capable of handling such relationships. But i must confess that it can be very difficult and if one is not careful, one may lose sight of the line between a platonic and a romantic one, But i think the secret is drawing the line and defining every relationship that one starts, i think.

It is certainly possible, of course for those who who keep lusting after ladies it might be difficult

it is to me

i think it is very possible 'cos i've a very lovely male best friend and he's the boom. he's so nice and i like him a lot and we 're just friends , we talk about anything and everything.

Amakah:

i think it is very possible 'because i've a very lovely male best friend and he's the boom. he's so nice and i like him a lot and we 're just friends , we talk about anything and everything.

The fellow is probably gay or frigid.Or perhaps he is just patiently bidding his time.I don't think women and men can be just friends.

It's possible.

It is really possible.

Isn't it interesting that only women think it's possible?

It is possible provided u know wt it is u r doing and can draw a line. I dnt av much close friends and apart 4m my man who is as close as close, my closest friend is my sis' boyfriend. We are very close, he's matured. So i think it al depends, its possible, but nt in al cases.

It's highly impossible. The guy has an intent of having it all the way before you said look I can't be your friend I have a guy and am comfortable with him. Then he agrees to be only a friend from there platonic turns romantic and like that,

Women hardly keep their principles. It happened to me. I don't subscribe to it or be hoodwinked by that.