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RomanceRe: Signs That She Is Not The Right Person For You by 9jaSceptic: 3:24am On Jan 01, 2014
Amen!!!
#Truethat
RomanceRe: Why Women Always Lie About Some Things by 9jaSceptic: 2:46am On Jan 01, 2014
How did you lose you Virginity?

Ans: I was R@ped

Bet why na, why must you lie about this?
RomanceMy Ex Is by 9jaSceptic(op): 2:39am On Jan 01, 2014
Yet to send me a new year text and i'm feeling it so bad i'm tempted to want to text her first but i don't want to cause she was the one who called it quit and that was on the 26th.

I feel it's too early to start contacting her again.

Shey make i text am?
RomanceRe: Help..i Wanna Stop Bei by 9jaSceptic: 4:32pm On Dec 29, 2013
King harzyz: thanks alot guys....am yet to yansh her...she request for it buh i reject beacuse (1) shes a virgin (2) i was due for nysc....i know she would need more of s3x nd i wont be around so reject it...buh i will do the needful...passing out soon.....thanks a lot guys...all your comments are eyeopener
You are a lucky man if you meet her intact when she's back.

Goodluck ma person.
RomanceRe: Help..i Wanna Stop Bei by 9jaSceptic:
Guy pllss you don't wanna regret this when she finally dumps you,In this phase of the relationship you've lost control of the relastionship and the relationship is controlling you already , you're now a No Control Guy and girls hate sissies .

Just Be Calm try f@*king her if you haven't.

Reduce the no of calls per day

Take it easy if she finds out you can't live without her YOU'RE DONE FOR.

SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE, i used to be a player too until i decided to be serious with this girl, showed her all my love and she decided to call it quit with me.

I NO EVEN NYANSH AM because i dey see am as ADA but she wan still live CARO life.
RomanceRe: Help!! Need Your Advice Badly by 9jaSceptic: 7:53am On Dec 29, 2013
Please don't return her call, please don't beg her, just give her the silent treatment, delete her numbers if you'll be tempted to call.

LET HER BE!!!

I learnt the hard way..
Christianity EtcRe: RCCG To Start 100 Days Fasting in January 2014 by 9jaSceptic: 11:31am On Dec 27, 2013
Omooba77: I'm not the spoke's person, but go to all the Provincial offices, they have staff, maintenance staff,engineers................etc. Not to talk of RCCG camp (Redemption camp) that employs more than 2000 people. God bless you sir, we can always believe in what we want..
Reduce the no of church houses being built on every nook and crany and let firms who can employ a significant amount of labour make efficient use of these premises and there'll be growth in the Economy as a result of the unemployed or underemployed resources( Premises where church are built) which are now employed and efficiently employed respectively.
Christianity EtcRe: RCCG To Start 100 Days Fasting in January 2014 by 9jaSceptic:
Nigerians muslim fast for thirty days yearly And Christians fast for 40 days and Forty Nights, But that don't make either of these people the richest, the most successful, the least successful in life, Adherents of both religion experience good and bad(both fall sick, both die, both progress) of life as they trasverse this temporal abode called earth, fast all you want, there can never be stable electricity next year, stable power , end to corruption In 9ja.

Fasting is not the Solution to 9ja's problem, tell you GO to invest in the Unemployed youth of his church who'll be fasting for the purpose of getting a job and reduce the number of church houses been built, so that firms that needs these properties turned to church house could make efficient use of them and reduce unemployment and little or nobody will need to fast.



Fast all you want
RomanceRe: A Sequel To The Thread "Is Someone Having Sex With My Girlfriend" by 9jaSceptic(op): 10:26am On Dec 27, 2013
hotmolo: No man... Don't make advances. Jst b a casual frnd. Contactin 1s in a wyl
.
I don here ma nigger, thanks bruh.
RomanceRe: A Sequel To The Thread "Is Someone Having Sex With My Girlfriend" by 9jaSceptic(op): 10:23am On Dec 27, 2013
Shir£ll£ baby:
u are a damn bad player..OMG!now i see..believe me dat shit hurts lyk crazy!
I'll try that, but if she makes the mistake of coming back , hmm .
RomanceRe: A Sequel To The Thread "Is Someone Having Sex With My Girlfriend" by 9jaSceptic(op): 10:19am On Dec 27, 2013
Impulse80: I bet this guy didn't nyash that girl, which time guys go wise up? Aim for the center of her legs and she wont dream of leaving you.
Yes oo ma nigger i didn't get to yansh her ooo, like seriously.
RomanceRe: A Sequel To The Thread "Is Someone Having Sex With My Girlfriend" by 9jaSceptic(op): 12:57am On Dec 27, 2013
hotmolo: Das d best way to make her realise her loss. Cos she wil see u move on nd b happy wit sum1 else.
Hope it won't be as if i'm stalking her, and give her the irreplaceable idea?
RomanceRe: A Sequel To The Thread "Is Someone Having Sex With My Girlfriend" by 9jaSceptic(op): 10:41pm On Dec 26, 2013
babatunde izbad: Dont try to impress her bro. You need to get over her and move on. But make sure she's still a friend thou
why do we still need to be friends?
RomanceRe: A Sequel To The Thread "Is Someone Having Sex With My Girlfriend" by 9jaSceptic(op): 9:23pm On Dec 26, 2013
Ma people she just replied me with "Not " that means it's over i think i don't need to go on a f.ucking spree to relieve myself of the heartbreak or start chasing girls about, that can make me fail in life and she'll be glad she left me , all i need do now is to work on me and better my lot and make her see what she just lost in the nearest future.

When she replied with not my reply was no shii.

I'm hurt but i don't beg for things like that, if it doesn't come natural it's not worth having.
I suspect one guy has beem scoping her lately..

#Teamfreshair
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Did Not Call Me by 9jaSceptic: 8:59pm On Dec 26, 2013
2s£xy:
You are inexperience...

Rule 1: Forget all those Romance Movies you watch about a man treating a woman like an angel and almost kiss her azz.

IF you do that in the real world, you will bleed! And that's what you are already experiencing.

Rule 2: Don't ever let a girl know you are crazy about her... Else you will lose your value/worth.

Rule 3: Say "I love you" like once a month. Saying it too frequently devalue its worth.

Rule 4: Stop calling a girl too often, at least once a week or once in 2 weeks.

Rule 5: Don't depend on just one girl... Have them in varieties. Always give a girl the impression other girls want you if she doesn't.

Rule 6: Don't pet a girl and if you have the chance, fvck that cunt as bad as possible. If you don't, someone else will. Do not be decieved, they want it that bad.

Rule 7: Mr Nice guy is NEVER appreciated by this daughters of Eve. You would regret it if you act contrary.

Rule 8: LOVE YOURSELF MORE than any girl in the world cos no girl would love you so. If you have money, don't give her... Instead, walk into any restaurant and eat to your fill. Spend money on yourself

this doesn't mean you should give when they need, but not when the want. There is a difference between want and need.

I could go and on and on, buddy.

But I would leave you with this:
https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman
You're life saver she stole my heart now i'm in Deep Poo, but i'll heal.
RomanceRe: Is Someone Having Sex With My Gf? by 9jaSceptic(op): 8:49pm On Dec 26, 2013
vizkiz: and a maqa b like grin



people dey ur house...shey u no qt ur own room nihuh Abi nah face me i slap u una dey live?
Yes ooo Omo Baba Olowo Na Flat we dey stay and i don't have my own room yet, happy now?
RomanceA Sequel To The Thread "Is Someone Having Sex With My Girlfriend" by 9jaSceptic(op): 8:48pm On Dec 26, 2013
So i noticed some changes and decided to talk to her and sort things out check out our chat.

So chatted with her on whatsapp , check out the conversation , what do you think?

Me:hey

Her: Yeah

me:where r u?

her:On ma way to xx

Me:why didn't u let me know when u were going

Her: You didn't ask me to tell you when am leaving

Me:Okay

Me: Babe what's happening

Her: As in

Me: Okay keep acting i'll talk if u don't want to
you were giving me an attitude today

Her: I wasn't

Me: okay you don't call or reach out like u used to
you just do as u please

Her:In what sense

Me:at least let us just ve a matured convo
you know
it's not like it used to be
let's just trash tinz out
life is too short to be unhappy
or staying with the wrong person

Her:What things are we trashing out

Me:our "supposed relationship"
cause it doesn't seem to me like we in one
f u not happy anymore
we can discuss the reasons or cause
if the differences and issues are reconcileable we sort things out
if not we just love ourselves enough to let eachother find happiness

Her:I don't understand

Me:what part
??

Her:The last part

Me: as in
Maybe you not into me anylonger
and you don't know how to let go or tell me
it'll be wise if we just discuss things as two Adults
and save eachother
the punishment of unrequited love
or a one sided relationship
because swts truth be told
i'm at my breaking point
never wanna discussed this with you
but i just felt i should pour out ma heart

Her:What breaking point

Me:babe pls let us discuss the issue at hand
Breaking point i.e. limit

Her: See if you don't understand me anymore its advisable to let me go and you get someone you can understand that all I have to say

Me: see that's an example of what i'm saying
u didn't ask questions or
think about how we can make tinz work
it's just very obvious you no longer interested

Her:If you say so

Me: that's all you ve to sayhuh

Her:Yeah

Her: What do you have to say

Me: Are you still interested?

Me: Give me a definite answer

She's yet to reply me, what do you guys think?
RomanceRe: Is Someone Having Sex With My Gf? by 9jaSceptic(op): 7:05pm On Dec 26, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: Now that she's still around invite her to ur house before she returns to schl next year and posses ur possession ...men wey dey outside now dey vex o! grin
RomanceRe: Is Someone Having Sex With My Gf? by 9jaSceptic(op): 6:58pm On Dec 26, 2013
bisiopinion: hahaha good for her.
That digit ain't on whatsapp ooo, i can't see ya.
RomanceRe: Is Someone Having Sex With My Gf? by 9jaSceptic(op): 6:43pm On Dec 26, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: She came to ur place, instead of u to straff her and find out for yaself..u dey ask us..jonzin man grin
You no trust wettin save am today be say pple dey house i no be dulling guy i just been dey save am before but now as i see am ah no trust am again, na to play my game now mk sure say i make register , that is if she's already having sex omo na with love hate thing i dey write ooo.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Did Not Call Me by 9jaSceptic: 6:41pm On Dec 26, 2013
ope30: tanx very much, the problem now is that we are not in the same state now. till February before i can be able to go to the state she is.
Talk to her on the phone and be serious ask her if she's still interested or not make a decision if you want to continue or not, reduce the number of times you call a day now.
RomanceRe: Is Someone Having Sex With My Gf? by 9jaSceptic(op): 5:48pm On Dec 26, 2013
-Mr Cork-:
..Bro...if the punnny no longer tight...truss me....she cheating,,

...is she dark skin?
angry
Yes she is oo ma nigger i dey boil as i dey so.
RomanceRe: Is Someone Having Sex With My Gf? by 9jaSceptic(op): 5:44pm On Dec 26, 2013
My nigger i don dey plan how i no go be the loser i don dey try arrange package as i go take go their sch ooo, because i don invest so much make i no get returns ma nigger Love Is wicked.
EducationBowen Uni Students Plsss I Need Your Helllp!!!! by 9jaSceptic(op): 5:44pm On Dec 26, 2013
Please guyz i'm gonna be in your sch for the weekend next year hopefully for a programme, Please which hotel is not too far and affordable in your sch environs, please your help is highy needed.

Please Help.
RomanceIs Someone Having Sex With My Gf? by 9jaSceptic(op): 5:22pm On Dec 26, 2013
It's a long distance relationship when i saw her today she looks like a typical runz girlz , she couldn't maintain eye contact with me, her composure was terrible she was just behaving how girls do when they've started having sex, i just noticed some changes in her behaviour . She didn't even stay for long, she was a virgin.before she left for her private sch, and she doesn't even sends me now , My People has someone started f.ucking my belovethhuh What more signs can i look out for? i really love her
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Did Not Call Me by 9jaSceptic: 2:29pm On Dec 26, 2013
ope30: i dont even call her but hardly before i pick her call when she call, she will now say she dont even knw i will pick her call that she just want to say hi, last night she call uncontrollably wen i pick it she said she is not begging me to pick her call but why dont i tell her her offence instead of telling my friend what she did not do and she cut the phone. pls i dont understand and i dont tell my friend anytin
When she calls you now answer her call , tell her you need to have a one-to-one discussion with her, then talk to her about her sudden change in attitude and ask her if she wishes the relationship continue , if yes tell her she need to be more committed that you can't be the only one trying to make it work that you'll need her cooperation so it can work, you listen to her side of the issue after that ,tell her you love her and kiss her.
And don't start calling four times in a day again maybe in the night and if you see improvement on her side you can change it to morning and night and note , not everyday let her call you too.

But if she says NO let her go you'll find a better person.
RomanceRe: When You Tell Her/him I Love You And You Get No Reply by 9jaSceptic: 9:17am On Dec 25, 2013
quivah: Can I help you grin?
I want you.
RomanceRe: We Treat Our Ladies Wrong But Get Extremely Mad When They Leave Us by 9jaSceptic: 7:17am On Dec 25, 2013
pweetixandy: may i RePlace her?
Teaser, Well we clould be friends though.
RomanceRe: When You Tell Her/him I Love You And You Get No Reply by 9jaSceptic:
quivah: Story!!
Leave her to the man who deserves her. Coz to her ,you don't!
Quivah !!!
RomanceRe: We Treat Our Ladies Wrong But Get Extremely Mad When They Leave Us by 9jaSceptic: 11:08pm On Dec 24, 2013
Amen bruh i can relate to that , i'm going through the same ish now it's Sad mein.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Did Not Call Me by 9jaSceptic: 11:53am On Dec 23, 2013
going thru almost a similar ish, i love her so much and i fumbled by showing her 100% , but i'm learning from here, i already deleted all her numbers on my phone , i already blocked her on my whatsapp, i aven't called for close to three days neither has she, i think i'm doing well.

Ladies wettin una want, why do you guyz despise gentlemen so much.
RomanceRe: Do Girls Date Married Men Because Its Risky? by 9jaSceptic: 8:28am On Dec 23, 2013
WackyJ1: I love the way this adorable girl makes her points..

Whether you guys are following ethics or not, there are some churches that are well known for such though the only one i know of is BLW, you cannot be saying that is it the church's fault of is it not the church's fauly because you cannot be preaching God's word and your church is developing a reputation for being a church where guys go to to score chics or feast their eyes..

The only thing you can say is that, names shouldn't be mentioned
Guy i need to talk to you, i like your response to the guy who was asking if his gf was cheating, i also realised some of my mistakes. We need to talk.

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