How do you feel when the above happens , my official girl doesn't reply me when i tell her I Love Her she just replies with I've Heard, on the other hand the Girl I Play(Adult tinsz) with is waiting for me to say it once, she has told me several times expecting me to reply but i just tell her I care.

What's the implication when your lover doesn't reply your "I love yous" with the same gesture?

Your official grl frnd don't reply your "i love you". And you don't reply the girl you play adult things with "i love you" (is that what you mean?). Well either way, it creates doubt in the relationship.
For me, i'll feel very fraustrated. And even loose trust in my partner.

It's either she doesn't really love you or shes just being careful.

Lots of stupid guys throw those words around even when they don't mean it.

Cykik: Your official grl frnd don't reply your "i love you". And you don't reply the girl you play adult things with "i love you" (is that what you mean?). Well either way, it creates doubt in the relationship.
For me, i'll feel very fraustrated. And even loose trust in my partner.

Yes that's what i mean oo, the one i'm unserious with tells me every now and then and i've never replied once, while my own girl doesn't even tell me that.

Just confused.

This guy dont even know what Love is. he feels when he gets an e r e c tion,thats love. *spits on thread*

SQURA: This guy dont even know what Love is. he feels when he gets an e r e c tion,thats love. *spits on thread*

Calm down jorr, go check your Waec results before you start using NL Romance section, what's the correlation btw what we're saying and your reply?

Do u xpect a reply when you say i love u?

Check her phone, there's a surprise there for you

Nolongthing1:

Yes that's what i mean oo, the one i'm unserious with tells me every now and then and i've never replied once, while my own girl doesn't even tell me that.

Just confused.

seriously? How do you expect a reply when you dont give the fake grl friend a reply. Any way. why play with the unserious grl frnd feeling when you don't love her. Just tell her you don't love her and stop wasting her tym or you concentrate on her and see if she's better than your real gf.

And for your real gf, what if she ain't interested or what if she's doubting your love for her. You should think of this,(how does she react when she sees you, is she hapy or sad?.........when you're with her, how does she react.
Ask your self more questn. Compare her with the other girl. Some girls act like angels. So its up to you to know who to let go.
Am sure you feel awkward for her not replying.
Btw. When u don't reply the fake gf, what are your reasons. And what if thats the reason your real gf ain't replying.
Goodluck.

Nuzo':
It's either she doesn't really love you or shes just being careful.

i don't think so. Why is she trying to be careful when she should have been careful from the very start by saying "no" to the relationship. It's simple, she don't trust you ,just lyk saying"i don't love you".
Some grls be lyk "i love him dearly but i don't trust him". Then what is she waiting for, why not quit it. Forget about being careful.

karma is a bitch.who knows,your so called official gf is also taking u as a plaything.i dey laff.

Cykik: seriously? How do you expect a reply when you dont give the fake grl friend a reply. Any way. why play with the unserious grl frnd feeling when you don't love her. Just tell her you don't love her and stop wasting her tym or you concentrate on her and see if she's better than your real gf.

And for your real gf, what if she ain't interested or what if she's doubting your love for her. You should think of this,(how does she react when she sees you, is she hapy or sad?.........when you're with her, how does she react.
Ask your self more questn. Compare her with the other girl. Some girls act like angels. So its up to you to know who to let go.
Am sure you feel awkward for her not replying.
Btw. When u don't reply the fake gf, what are your reasons. And what if thats the reason your real gf ain't replying.
Goodluck.

Hmm if i tell the other girl i don't feel the same way about her "she fit craze oo" the last time she came to my place sef she did the dishes after futile efforts by me to dissuade her from doing it, She really loves me but i don't feel the same i just like her, She even brought souveniers from the party she went to for my sis , and you know women naw my sister is already telling me she likes her.

As per my real gf she's just too unpredictable we didn't talk for two days i sent her a message on the first day morning telling her how much i miss her she didn't reply , only for her to call me last night after the regular how was your day ish, she then asked me to send card to her i was like wtf tho i didn't said that i asked her if that was why she called just to ask for card , well twas few mins before 11pm so i told her i couldn't go out anymore, well i'm starting to think she might be playing me, but I Love Her Though.

Nolongthing1:

Hmm if i tell the other girl i don't feel the same way about her "she fit craze oo" the last time she came to my place sef she did the dishes after futile efforts by me to dissuade her from doing it, She really loves me but i don't feel the same i just like her, She even brought souveniers from the party she went to for my sis , and you know women naw my sister is already telling me she likes her.

As per my real gf she's just too unpredictable we didn't talk for two days i sent her a message on the first day morning telling her how much i miss her she didn't reply , only for her to call me last night after the regular how was your day ish, she then asked me to send card to her i was like wtf tho i didn't said that i asked her if that was why she called just to ask for card , well twas few mins before 11pm so i told her i couldn't go out anymore, well i'm starting to think she might be playing me, but I Love Her Though.

listen to your self. How can you love sm one that takes you for a fool.. Maybe its high time you focus and start seeing what others see. Which kind of love will blind your eyes to focus on the bad side and leave the good side. Please don't wait until maybe your best friend values the love ur unserious gf is giving you. Pls am like a sister that will tell you when a grl is playn with your feelings. You are completely in the danger zone.

Case solved na.dsame reason y u kant tel d ladi u r into adult thngs wit i love u is dsame reason ur gf 2 kant tell u i love u.ur gf is telllin anoda guy i love u nd may b, d guy dnt love ur gal.u on d hand u r tellin ur gf i love u bt she kant reply bck because she wants d i love u 4rm d oda guy nd nt u.d ladi u r into adult thngs wit is dyin 4 ur i love u but u kant reply bck because u dnt love r nd wants d i love u 4rm ur gf.kant u c dat all of u r confused sori 2 say

So you love her yet you're cheating? Ok well the thing is, just as you have your no2, you are her no2. funny how things work huh? Lol. Nb: I aint saying she's cheating as well tho that's one option. She might just be hanging on to you till she finds her no1 . Bottom line bruda is that she doesn't love you.

Although, if the relationship just started or she's had bad experiences then maybe she is just too careful.

Lol funny!!
Some people sha
You are playing another girl's feelings...and still complaining of Another prolly playing on yours
..
Karma is a bitch na
You get what you give..

Better concentrate on the girl that gives a f about you..coz this ya real gf aint real...I don't think she Cares!

So as not to lose both ways!
But seriously? You are cheating on the girl you claim you love?! Love indeed.

gunners160: Case solved na.dsame reason y u kant tel d ladi u r into adult thngs wit i love u is dsame reason ur gf 2 kant tell u i love u.ur gf is telllin anoda guy i love u nd may b, d guy dnt love ur gal.u on d hand u r tellin ur gf i love u bt she kant reply bck because she wants d i love u 4rm d oda guy nd nt u.d ladi u r into adult thngs wit is dyin 4 ur i love u but u kant reply bck because u dnt love r nd wants d i love u 4rm ur gf.kant u c dat all of u r confused sori 2 say

Don't be sorry bro!! You are so right

But this dude here is the confused one!
@op remember the saying"you dont know the value of what you have till you lose it"?? You about to go practical on it..

quivah: Lol funny!!

But seriously? You are cheating on the girl you claim you love?! Love indeed.

Love indeed!

@op
She knows...

Skinni10ne:

Love indeed!

@op
She knows...

She knows op doesn't deserve her love?
I truly hope she knows..

Adaeze003: So you love her yet you're cheating? Ok well the thing is, just as you have your no2, you are her no2. funny how things work huh? Lol. Nb: I aint saying she's cheating as well tho that's one option. She might just be hanging on to you till she finds her no1 . Bottom line bruda is that she doesn't love you.

Although, if the relationship just started or she's had bad experiences then maybe she is just too careful.

See I Love Her but body no be firewood it's a kinda LDR tin and she doesn't allow ne touch not even a simple kiss for close to 4yrs of dating..*covers face*

quivah: Lol funny!!
Some people sha
You are playing another girl's feelings...and still complaining of Another prolly playing on yours
..
Karma is a bitch na
You get what you give..

Better concentrate on the girl that gives a f about you..coz this ya real gf aint real...I don't think she Cares!

So as not to lose both ways!
But seriously? You are cheating on the girl you claim you love?! Love indeed.

I love her buh she no dey gree me touch am.

Big.game:
This reminds me of an episode from HIMYM titled 'Hooked'
Op you're are playing with another girls feeling, she is on your 'hook', someone is playing with yours, you are on her 'hook', a boy somewhere is playing with your real GFs feeling she is on his 'hook' and the cycle goes on......
Tell the girl you are toying with, how you truly feel about her. Every other thing should fall in place.
karma's real you know

You wan kee the gurl ? It'll hurt her so bad i don't feel the same way about her , the thing is she is my ex ,so she was still a Virgin when i was dating her so sometime around April wen we were chatting on whatsapp she told she she has started ving Se.x i was like wow so invited her over , one thing led to another we started kissing , before she knew she was on the bed with me we did it, and ever since we've done it like 4 or 5 times and she has been confessing Love to me ever since and i've never said it back since then so she takes it as if we're already back but me i know it's not like that.

I feel Bad.

Nolongthing1:

I love her buh she no dey gree me touch am.

Story!!
Leave her to the man who deserves her. Coz to her ,you don't!

That your relationship with your so-called real girlfriend is 2mins away from heart break-your heart break ofcourse,not hers. You've been dating a girl for 4years and she isn't still sure enough to validate her feelings for you by replying "I love you too"?

HIAN!!!

You see bros,this LDR thing can not be handled by everybody,maybe she's tired of the whole thing and just keeping you around the way you're using self pity and some fringe benefits to keep that other one.

quivah:
Story!!
Leave her to the man who deserves her. Coz to her ,you don't!

Quivah !!!

9jaSceptic:

Quivah !!!

Can I help you ?

quivah:
Can I help you ?

I want you.

gunners160: Case solved na.dsame reason y u kant tel d ladi u r into adult thngs wit i love u is dsame reason ur gf 2 kant tell u i love u.ur gf is telllin anoda guy i love u nd may b, d guy dnt love ur gal.u on d hand u r tellin ur gf i love u bt she kant reply bck because she wants d i love u 4rm d oda guy nd nt u.d ladi u r into adult thngs wit is dyin 4 ur i love u but u kant reply bck because u dnt love r nd wants d i love u 4rm ur gf.kant u c dat all of u r confused sori 2 say

Case solved!

Nolongthing1:

Yes that's what i mean oo, the one i'm unserious with tells me every now and then and i've never replied once, while my own girl doesn't even tell me that.

Just confused.

what goes around comes around

Nolongthing1:

See I Love Her but body no be firewood it's a kinda LDR tin and she doesn't allow ne touch not even a simple kiss for close to 4yrs of dating..*covers face*

You are the biggest fool at least 4 guys have phucked ur official gf in the past 4 yrs that she did not even allow u to hold her hands...mumumaga like u