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GloriousGbola:
actually there are differences

Ezra is the ceo of a financial services company with oyibo investors in an industry that does not want controversy

it is an industry where they expect ogas at the top to be sober, suited up and def not wearing make up and painted nails. i am sure a lot of board members were already uncomfortable and ezra did not do himself any favors by thinking his brilliance was all that was needed to carry the day.

any issue with simi ends with her. she is a tier c entertainer , but issues with Ezra can come back to bite his company and partners. esp in a conservative nation like nigeria when they are looking for one regulatory approval and the person to sin off on approval says no be that company wey dem oga dey knack pu**y cat

in the end his termination imho was more about Risk management issues the controversy brought to light.

if i recall, i had said repeatedly that everything Ezra wrote was just shit posting. cringe, gross, but ultimately just shit posting.

but the feminazi brigade are cut from the same cloth as the banger boy brigade. mirror imags with a focus on bringing people down.

It is still the same digging they did for her that they did for Simi. I don't see the crime there.

Anyone who was not sufficiently outraged then should not be outraged now. All Ezra did was ask for the money he borrowed his female friend.

That was also a form of silencing. Silencing that cost him his job and affected his social reputation

Simi on the other hand had to do was apologize for her out of pocket posts and not lie. 2012 was a different time. Instead she was still playing Victor. So you tell people to STFU when the accusations you were jumping all around turned out to be fake and then lied.

She went full Princess Kitana mode and feminazis egged her on. Well the time to play victim has sailed.

People will learn the importance of giving each other grace after this incident and that's what I'm most glad about

GloriousGbola:
What they are trying to do is bully a person who does not share their views into silence. create an environment where their own view is law and the only view that can be voiced. That is how you create an echo chamber. Today it is Simi, tomorrow it could be someone else with a much tamer but still unacceptable view to the banger boy mob.


its easy to knock simi because false rape accusations are a sensitive issue. but that is not what this is really about. it is about shutting up people who do not share the opinions of the banger boy mob. today simi , tomorrow someone who says women are as competent as men in the work place.

How are they shutting her up? I don't like these tactics you people use

Will you say this if a man was guilty of saying what Simi said? For lying about her tweets not being perverted?

So because she said stop graping women her pedo adjacent tweets should be unlooked? Her unprovoked anti Igbo tweets nko. So it's bullying her into silence to show that.

Anything you say you either apologize or you stand on that. All this bullying talk like say na secondary school person dey

You're villainizing banger boys what about the rabid feminazis that ran Ezra out of the app?

I don't like partia. Without consistency chaos is the only outcome

izzou:
Him even defending Tinubu on security just spoilt all his chances.

Just accept it. Be sympathetic to it. Condemn it and put a voice for him to do more.

Instead, you are telling us that people have always been kidnapped.

Pheeeeewww. He goofed a lot

He's like all these overzealous bouncer and bodyguards that in the attempt to impress 'oga' do the work wey nobody send am

GloriousGbola:
even if i did not state it explicitly, you should realize i am referring to social media tech moguls. ironically the ezra who you chose to refer to is a tech mogul whose niche is heavily regulated by the government.

social media is not - and that is why we are having this drama day in day out.

there are a lot of articles out there about how the likes of mark zuckerberg and the ultra rich ban their children from using devices because they are fully aware of the witches brew they are serving up to end users

All I'm saying is we cannot be playing this card now and did not play it when Ezra was on the hot seat.

What was Ezra's crime? He was going to ask for his money from a friend/lover. Said person proactively put him on Twitter blast and people dug into his tweets from the same time line Simi's own was dug. He was found guilty both in the court of public opinion and also his employment place.

Nobody was accused of being jobless then.

If a male musician tweeted that about a 4y.o girl 13-14 years ago nobody will be saying this all of you are saying here.

And that is the double standards that we want to call out. It is that alibi that gave her the hubris to type what she typed initially, a grave miscalculation on her part

What's good for the Jews should be good for Uganda.

semid4lyfe:
Lol. Wetin be this? You dey sleep type abi wetin cos how can you absolve Simi of blame in this issue?

See Simi is not one random Nigerian with 500 followers. She's a big Nigerian artiste with a huge following and lots of influence. At that level, her words carry weight so she gats dey circumspect and not post recklessly.

When she made that initial tweet, and was challenged about false rape accusations against men, she should have acknowledged it, and said something like "false rape accusers should be made to face the full wrath of the law", c'est fini. But instead she deflected and doubled down, and that drew the ire of Nigerian men.

Nobody forced her to make sweeping statements about men. Nobody hacked her account. Nobody dug up a private diary. She said what she said publicly, lots of men felt insulted and reacted publicly. It's simply a case of action and consequence.

You dey talk about vicious smear campaign. No be she start am with that silly outburst against men based on the mirabel story which ultimately turned out to be false? You dey ask who get time to go through 20 years of post history? Bro, na Naija be this and the majority of youths are unemployed. In addition, celebrity dragging na clout and engagement magnet. Also, when she positions herself as morally superior and comes at men like that, people will check her history to see if her past aligns or to find dirt to throw at her. Na so social media, especially X be.

It's too convenient to label everyone who has criticized her as toxic and bitter. Some people are dragging her out of spite. Others are reacting because they feel insulted. These two truths can co-exist and we shouldn't reduce every pushback to a coordinated hate mob.

Because of this Simi issue wey go die down in a week, you want FG to come down hard on tech moguls? Lol. Wetin that one go achieve? Tomorrow, FG will use that same energy to regulate social media, the only active opposition platform and silence the citizens who criticize them. Think am well o.

There's absolutely no need to turn Simi into a helpless victim of an online mob. She insulted men. They challenged her. She doubled down, deflected and told them to STFU. People piled on, and are holding her accountable to face the consequences of her action.

She go dey alright last last, and hopefully she go use the experience get sense too.

No mention of Tech moguls when Ezra dey chop him draggings. He faced real world consequences. No sympathy, no nuance. Nobody factored the archive and archeological work that occurred then. He was fair game. E reach Simi turn story don enter am

These are the issues

DissTroy:
If only he knows the number of times I've been termed a misøgynîst, wøman bëatër, gåy, încël and other such names over the years on Nairaland for statîng the obvîous by råndom females when they lóse the argument.

The other female råntîng here over the past two days would have ûséd the gåy or încël tag 8 or 5 years ago in hopes that I'll cower .

I'v stated here that I do not hide my stance on these issûes. I never pander too to women on these issues. From WhatsApp to Facebook, you'll find me stating these things. Including in-person situations. It has sieved many would-be troublesome women from me and the good ones come close.

For me it's like where is the consistency? I'm 1000% immune to all shaming language. I don't even care atp because anyone with that mentality is not worth having around in any capacity

I just want to know if you have a moral compass or do you want the freedom to do what you falsely believe men have been getting away with

Cos we're talking about pedo tweets and she is still being painted as some type of martyr.

How can someone that frowns at a 21 y.o dating a 35 y.o expect me to take them seriously when they're defending a 24y.o that says a 4 y.o is harassing them

izzou:
The Bolded here is underrated...

Any partner that will not respect you enough in public to keep quiet when asked is going to be a problem.

I don't blame AG for anything, but the fact that Simi kept on tweeting without considering how he was being embarrassed and disrespected by people tells a lot about the kind of person she is.

They are insulting your husband because of your tweets. You cannot even stop, or even defend him at any point. Rather, you continued typing....No nau.

Your Bolded is very important to me. I can never embarrass my wife outside. If she fvk up, I correct her inside, but she dare not drag me in the mud outside, abeg

The amount of dummy missions you will get sent on if you don't have some level of control on your woman. AG will be feeling it right now

I've seen people get into all types of bad situations cos of their unruly wives or girlfriends. Fights, Debt, Legal problems

I would never stick my neck out for a babe that does not do what I say, I'm not a tyrant so if I ask you to do something 9 out of 10 times it's actually for your benefit and not mine.

I saw her thirsty tweets about J.Cole and I just dey shake my head. If you a star in your own right don't think you can do better than a woman who is thirsting after someone that won't piss on her if she were on fire then I don't know what to tell you

Amigoos1:
This is complete bullshit. I get it women are evil and the cause of all the misfortune on Earth. Long live the redpill.

You people just want to overlook hypocrisy that's why una dey always use all this emotional and shaming language

I'm sure you're one of those that were angry Rudeboy used Police to look for that broad that falsely accused him of grape.

Amigoos1:
Do you yourself care about issues that don’t directly affect you? Please tone down the sexist misrepresentation.

Relax and put your Superman cape down.

The difference is I don't pretend like I do, I don't act like I'm empathetic or concerned or fight for the victimized

I don't play defense and pretend a 4y.o girl can harass a 24 yo man, and act like it's cool for a 24 yo woman to lust after a 4 yo boy

I'm asking why Simi is being defended and Ezra lost his job. If you cannot see the double standards here then you're beyond redemption

If you like call me sexist for saying the truth that one is your problem

Ballzproblemm:
Side by side 🇺🇸🤝🇮🇱

I dey wait for kickoff ngl

DissTroy:
Adekunle use to warn her to delete some of her hot takes, but her response was always to publicly dismiss him. He had no control over her and she was hailed by the same herd as independent.

https://x.com/i/status/2026373459123519548

Friendly exchange? Maybe. But there are screenshots of more serious takes.

Just like that yenta that accused Rudeboy and was on the run to Ghana or whatever when shit got real.

Any wife you cannot tell Ajuwaya and she comply will surely bring embarrassment to your life, and it will be you running around to pick up the pieces. it's not if but when. E sure pass death

DissTroy:
One of the féminìsts who doubles as lawyer tweeted "Men don't need consent".

https://x.com/i/status/2026342420590338241

I said it here earlier that women don't care about nothing that does not directly affect them disproportionately and or a man is the perpetrator

I have never seen them angry about Child abuse, maiming and beating of househelps , Infanticide (They even invented an excuse for it: post partum) False accusations, Paternity fraud

The same people that rain fire and brimstone about consensual relationships between two people above 21. Are defending a 24 y.o lusting after a 4 y.o. Cos 'perpetrator' woman, 'victim' boy

Her response does not surprise me one bit. She's only confirming what we already know to be true.

raumdeuter:
Regarding the Simi issue

I think tagging US authorities and trying to get her deported is too far

Tach her a lesson about her hypocrisy but not to damage her life. Simi is not Adeife.

Simi might be a hypocrite but she is not a rapist nor a false accuser

disstroy what do you think

I'm not a fan but sometimes lessons need to be learned. This is the monster these people have made

Plus her response. I don't know who advises these people. When we say women need guidance of their men it sounds sexist but e get why

DissTroy:
Iamoyindamola, our boy, David, files a restraining order against the false rãpe accuser, Adeife. She's not to contact him, send emissaries, mention him, or refer to him via proxies to emotionally gaslight him.

Only contact and communication will be through his lawyers and in court.

https://x.com/i/status/2026318197809430773

Damn! This boy is moving different. No emotions at all. He's gotten several followers and men of note pushing his case.

What is the amusing thing in all of this is when they see a Black man or black footballer with a white woman they will drop their usual snarky remarks of how they should not cry when these women accuse them of sexual assault or violence and here they are fighting for their rights to falsely accuse you and you do nothing about it

KingTom:
Ekun nla! They can't silence you!!!

Lmaoo e no serious like that. I just wan make them dey see their hypocrisy

If person you been dey support or defend dey fantasize about loloxin 4 y.o pikin I would expect a logical person to retreat and abort mission.

Now they've dug up her Igbo unprovoked bad belle tweets as well and we have proof that she was actually on pervert time and not innocence when she tweeted those noncey tweets

Kikelomogbenga:
This post is filled with so much nonsense. Comparing Simi tweets to Ezra just shows how our of touch with reality some men are. This is wizkid who posted this about a 14yr old girl how many outrage did it spark. The guts to even talk about hypocrisy.

Who is stopping you from being outraged

I'm just amused seeing your Borussia Dortmund Coven doing girl's girl over nonce tweets. It's one thing to unlook but to defend is just crazy.

It's sensible to you that a 24y.o is saying that they're being harassed by a 4y.o

Anyway expecting accountability from feminists and feminazis is like expecting the oceans to dry up

raumdeuter:
Wetin A40 dey write wey he dey collect ban

E follow for why I no too dey post for this yeye site again. I'm just sick of the fvckery

Kikelomogbenga:
This post is filled with so much nonsense. Comparing Simi tweets to Ezra just shows how our of touch with reality some men are. This is wizkid who posted this about a 14yr old girl how many outrage did it spark. The guts to even talk about hypocrisy.

Defending a 24 year old claiming a 4 year old is harassing her is the illogic is expect from you feminazis

Ezra lost his job BTW and nobody is standing in your way to drag Wizkid

We're not defending noncery like you hypocrite feminazis

Kikelomogbenga:
This post is filled with so much nonsense. Comparing Simi tweets to Ezra just shows how our of touch with reality some men are. This is wizkid who posted this about a 14yr old girl how many outrage did it spark. The guts to even talk about hypocrisy.

You're defending a 24yo that said a 4 year old was sexually harassing her. That tells me all I need to know about you feminazis.

DissTroy:
Someone called out Simi in 2012 (when she was 24 years old) for always tweeting about molésting little boys, but she doubled down, insisting she's also a child (at 24):

https://x.com/i/status/2025941362034565161

She instead gaslighted that the 4-year-old boy was sexually hårrassing her.

Simi knew what she was doing and enjoyed it. Her defenders (including on this thread) insist she did no wrong.

The same people that wanted to kill Ezra and that pastor are defending her . You can always count on their hypocrisy about these matters which is why it's hard to take them seriously

We're supposed to overlook a potential nonce because she asked men to stop r@ping women. As if one is in the way of the other

Mind you this is someone that said her tweets were not perverted the previous day. Sufficient digging showed she was called out on it at the time and she clarified that these were indeed perverted tweets

This is a reminder that nobody not even women will ever hold themselves accountable like they hold men and expect men to hold each other. The thing is society has given them a ready made alibi, so they can be perverts in plain sight, there's no male artiste that can tweet that and not be sleeping with one eye open as we speak

What has become very apparent to me and more dastardly and sinister is that a lot of women do not really care about crimes unless they are affected and or the perpertrator is a man. If majority r@pists were women, women would not care, hell they would try to shush it so it doesn't make them look bad

Perfect example, we are all aware of our Igbo madames and how they maim and brutalize their maids (victims mostly women) the first thing they will ask when such news breaks out is "where is the husband?" "arrest him too" all that feminism, fight the patriarchy talk flies out the window and that is when they suddenly remember you are the head . Even the most militant feminazi

And I'm like hold up so you mean you're that much of a savage that the men you pretend you're better than must train you to not beat your fellow young girl to death. Educated Naija women that you would expect to know better. Watch them embarass you in real time

Same thing we are seeing with this Simi bants, The accused na woman, potential victim boy. Two crucial ingredients in women in general not giving a fvck which is overkill cos they only need one ingredient to not give a fvck

This also explains why they do not give a damn about false accusations cos it ticks the two boxes required for them not to give a Bleep. Female Perp, Male victim

Disclaimer: Not all but quite a lot of them move this way and it's quite interesting to observe

Shegzdave:
This is still bad for business considering that they would co-host the world cup

The question is 'would the tourist even feel safe there?'

There will be casualties if FIFA decides to go on with it and they continue with making statements

They might strike a deal for there to be some kind of ceasefire till after the World Cup. These countries are football crazy. Disrupting a WC that is making a return after 40 years makes no sense

Kaczynski:
If El Salvador can do it, It should not be a big deal for Mexico.

Mexico case is a little more complex than that

DissTroy:
"I don't encourage predatory age-gap relationships. 18 is not an adult in my books." after being outed for supporting Simi, and a Paul Okoye's false rãpe accuser.

Same person cheering an 18-year-old Regina Daniel for marrying a 60+ years Ned Nwoko.
She chastised anyone who criticized them and insisted Regina must be allowed to enjoy.

https://www.nairaland.com/5343260/nigerian-man-marries-older-oyibo/2#80987073


Men, you need to realize these people aren't accountable. They change the rules as they like.

Lol. Spot em got em

Season starts by March for me. Everything is for nought if we don't go on a deep CL run

Quite impressive and nuanced speech from Kompany on the Vinicius debacle. Very intelligent guy.

Racism is not something I think will ever die though so all these speeches while thoughtful are ultimately futile. If I jam an Argentinean I'm half expecting the racism.Na part of their culture for there.

How the hell is Tatum only weeks from return. What are they giving these athletes today

I'm surprised no one is mentioning Jaylen Brown in the MVP conversations. The Celts were projected to win 41 games. They are trending for 55. There should be a real conversation now about who is actually better Jaylen or Jayson (I'm leaning towards Jaylen btw)

etidy:
The KDs stans on this group have gone quiet.

Only you get problem with Westbrook and OKC, Draymond and the warriors, Low-key beefing Steph from your burner accounts, beefing Kyrie from your burner, Beefing harden, beefing Brooklyn nets, beefing phoenix suns, you're not even a full season into your Houston rockets tenure you don they thrash your team mates.

Great basketballer, poor leader and a very insecure person.

KD needs to grow tf up. I kinda see now why Draymond got in his face and called him the B-word. Certain things you should look people in the eye and say if you ever want respect amongst men

If he fails to as much as get to another conference final game after hopping from loaded team to team we're going to have some touchy conversations about where he stands in the pantheon of all-timers

https://x.com/Mylovanov/status/2023020207275720910?t=JIyBggU3F8KWRVL9Ha89wQ&s=19

What's the thought process of going to Russia? if any, at this point in time. He's lucky to even be alive. I don't know which kin engineering work lamba they gave the poor chap. Vlad wey dey find as many meat wey e fit put for blender as possible

Olowunl01:
Exactly, I was very surprised at people's take on the matter, especially for Naija where on a norms Sophie shouldn't be in position to dictate custody, no man would subject himself to a court battle for joint custody if they have good access to their child, you think Sophie wouldn't use access to the child to spite Davido & Chioma? Especially seeing that Davido cares for the child.

Good to see someone else sharing similar sentiments, I was starting to thinking maybe its me being bias having experience similar in close quarters.

He wasn't seeking full custody, but joint custody for his child who he foots the bill, Naija must have becomed more westernised cos I grew up with that as a given for men in Nigeria.

A lot of these babes just dey find sperm donor. Nothing really consign them with say father dey the pikin life unless they are financially struggling that's when they start announcing that he's a deadbeat. A lot of them talk like semen is not essential in a child's conception

Using the drowning of a toddler is diabolical work. One would think children have never died under the care of single mothers before, If the girl was a toddler I wouldn't even side with David cos any child under 7 needs the mum more than the dad tbvh so even if the court denies him custody e no too matter.

However past 10 there's a level of independence a child has from the mother and actually needs to be around the father more, especially if na boy. Visitation can never suffice for that

David is a better man than me, I am not going to no court over my own child. Like say court dey when e dey impregnate Sophia. Doesn't he have like 4 other kids? Sheiit. I wish I would. The money wasted on lawyers rather keep it and spoil the other kids I have access to, If you don't want me to have joint custody, congrats you've signed up to be a single mom while I focus on starting another family. The other kids deserve an emotionally stable dad

I will have to charge it to the game that I gave my seed to a wicked woman and move on because only a wicked woman puts any type of obstacle on a man being with their kid (wtf parenting can you parent a child with visitation)

izzou:
I don wake up.

I saw that Ghanaian and Kenyan authorities wan arrest am sef.

I watched some. Even a woman with kids..

Haewww

I used to be sympathetic towards revenge p0rn till I found out this sympathy na one way street. There's no video of actual knackin so everybody go dey alright

A lot of some people serious girlfriend even wife is just one hello from white man away from being fried like egg. Girls they had to chase, wine and dine before they even saw her drawers. Niggas will learn this game by force

[quote author=obainojazz post=138455301]Na them

A group of men in Algeria captures a black child and humiliates him:

“You blacks are nothing more than dirty slaves, our slaves. You should be grateful we let you live.”

Anyone who thinks white people are racist has not met the average Arab/Muslim yet.pic.twitter.com/ZoKF9ZHaNQ

— Dr. Maalouf ‏ (@realMaalouf) February 12, 2026

them. I'm always amused at black people focusing on white racism and unlooking Arab racism. Which is the undisputed heavyweight champion of them all

Asian and Indian also follow before you even start to talk of white

izzou:
It could be staged, my brother.

Staged una

Better wake up

BlueRayDick:
There's this Russian guy on TikTok by the name yaytseslav_official whose content is centered mainly on him meeting random African girls at an aafrican store or on the streets; he approaches them to tell them they look good and from their either collect their number or show them wads of cash and ask them to follow him to his apartment.

Most of the ladies almost always follow him with little or no persuasion. They would show up at his crib and feel relaxed like it's no big deal.

Omo, watching the video just gives a cringe of low self esteem from those African ladies. More like they just assent to the guy's unorthodox approach without much thought simply because he's white. One can tell that they would've been vexed if a fellow black had approached them in such condescending manner no matter how cute he may be.

The guy literally records them for his own amusement and post their videos on his social media for views. 😭😭

Lmaoo. Na today

I'm always surprised when I hear about white incels. If you're a white man that takes a shower and small money to not be a hobo you will run through Black women like sonic coins.

All that talk about how we treat oyinbo women better is all projection. They love white 🍆 all while shaming milk men.

When Travis Kelce dumped that Bussdown it was worldwide wailing by them. They spent months hating Travis and Taylor Swift. Some said he fumbled her to get with average milk. The delusion

Look at that Danish Deception guy. If say na black man, will he see shishi from Naija babe talkless of Igbo woman for that matter

She Says Dating White Men Is a "LEVEL UP" 👇 pic.twitter.com/ZIIGnCK9Nu

— Chez Chardé (@ChezCharde) January 20, 2026

Check the two images. Same person within 3 year span. I actually pity the poor sap chasing these ghetto gaggers