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Celebrities / Re: Bill Cosby Found Guilty On All 3 Counts In Sexual Assault Retrial by Aadibros: 4:05am On Apr 27, 2018 |
greencard:Higher powers or not, question - is he guilty or not? Shikina |
Romance / Re: In Need Of A Relationship Counsellor. by Aadibros: 4:46am On Mar 24, 2018 |
Blissguts:let me know if you still need help. I hope things are fine with you now. Take care |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:10am On Dec 19, 2017 |
emmie14:Abeg no make me laugh you this young learner. When has speaking the truth mean that I am a man woman? You be serious olodo o. About advocacy, yes, it is high time men sat up in taking responsibilities seriously. Are you following the topic at all? Where and when did a man helping out with chores at home or loving his wife unconditionally mean that the woman is agitating for equality? O gbeni receive sense abeg. African man ko Bill Gates ni. If you treat a woman right, the story about her fight for equality will only arise when you try to make her feel less human. So as alagbara wey you be, use your African man anti-taboo brain and power take subdue your wife you hear. Abi no be person beloved pikin, sister, aunt, cousin, niece, friend, relative, colleague wey she be abi? Your comments so far impairs your claims about your unconditional love for your wife (if you have any). We dey talk of wife o not GF or baby mama. So read the topic well before you begin comment. Your yapping my speaking the truth wont change the truth. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 8:09pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88:we are same page. Helping in everything in the house as much as you can doesn't make you less a man. No mind the children wey dey waste their data on childish comments. Most are still waiting to buy jamb form and are here making comments on marriage matter |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 8:07pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
emmie14:I hope you ever grow up or wise. Remain your type of man ok. You think there is anything good about treating a woman less. Anyways, maybe I am truly not your type of man sha cos your own type get as e b. As u believe say wife shouldnt be treated as good as you want to be treated |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:57pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Jupxter:the man own dey come soon so make him continue |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:20pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
TimeMod1:Who dash all these boys data to come waste here abeg? |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:17pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Jrevelation:The woman's duty is to cook She is trained to based on our African culture, I agree. Even the times wives cook well, how many times wey the husband dey appreciate her or tell her say her food sweet? Abi na to just chop clean mouth then still go wait for bed own...mtccheew. |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:14pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Jupxter:Still doesn't justify the man who started the cheating in the first place. The woman isn't right to have revenged by making same mistake her man made. make the man too zip up. |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:08pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88:I agree with you biko. I was doing a lot of chores when I was living with my natal family. I didn't hands off in my conjugal family. A man is married to a woman to build a home with. Husband wey do chores no mean say him dey weak. Make him help out too because in a lot of cases the woman dey help you too with money matter for house. Except say the man dey too busy dey make billions like Jeff Bezos, at least the woman go hold her side. It is a different thing if your doing the chores makes her dump it all on you. Best case, do chores together and you will enjoy the companionship. From the chores, una go begin gist, from there wiping fit happen and na that unplanned type dey sweet pass. I dey tire for men wey dey halla say woman no sabi cook when them no even know how to pluck leave comot from the stem |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:03pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Jrevelation:As a man who cant tolerate a woman not knowing how to cook, I hope you also know how to make a lot of money and how to satisfy a woman? May she can tolerate you too. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 2:57pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
emmie14:When did it become a woman's bathroom and kitchen? My fellow men and their brain sha. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 2:54pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Jupxter:wetin even be all these women this women that? are men the ultimate? I also do not encourage a woman to throw in the towel without exhausting diverse means of reconciliation. However, abeg slow down in making we men feel that the woman should be the one begging to remain in marriage. A man should also put in effort to keep his lovely wife if he truly loves and cherishes her. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 2:48pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
Lawalemi:Then make them understand the challenge and watch them become the loving wife you need. I hope she scolds you too when you take out your anger on the kids because from experience, husbands even take out their anger on the entire family more than the wives. Moreover, I hope you don't disrespect her by scolding her disrespectfully in front of your children. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 2:45pm On Dec 18, 2017 |
124mumsy:Advice!!! |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 4:34am On Dec 18, 2017 |
Sanchez01:check his age, back ground, exposure, level of education (formal and informal), hence, his comment |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 4:11am On Dec 18, 2017 |
thotianna:That clearly tells you the age range and level of maturity of males who respond to topics like this. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 4:07am On Dec 18, 2017 |
Holysiner503:wetin this one dey talk again abeg? |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 4:04am On Dec 18, 2017 |
anonymuz:If only both of you wisely understand the institution. SMH :-( |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:53am On Dec 18, 2017 |
Jupxter: Lack of Trust - same with men Nagging - husband check yourself, you sef know say you don change. Trying to Domineer the man - then there is something critical you are missing Emotional Abuse - story. Men's highest definition of this is sex related Verbal Assault - as them no too get physical strength, na the one dem get wey dem dey use. so you sef no dey too find their trouble. Emotional Stonewalling - this one na story Lack of Restrain - guy quiet abeg. where you dey copy all these fake ambiguous talk from? Lack of Sensitivity - guy quiet abeg. where you dey copy all these fake ambiguous talk from? Lack of Care - guy quiet abeg. where you dey copy all these fake ambiguous talk from? Disrespect - same with men Too Much Talk - baseless point Intolerance - applies to both. also depends on how she has lost her patience over drawing your attention to same thing Bad tasting Meals - you can work with her on this. Different women grew up in different family set ups and circumstances. As you feel say woman must suppose cook well, hope say you sef get better money to spoil her. We expect the world but give little. Boring Sex - too much porn. Why not patiently teach her rather than jump at it the way you watch in porn. Abi you no know say them dey pay those people heavily just to act? Moreso, I hope you are even as good as the guys you watch to because some women may just give up on bringing out their all in bed because na the same men go say she be bad girl say she don dey hide herself since. While for some, maybe as she even decide to get fired up in the game, the guy go do him 1 minute come out. Nothing dey annoy women for even weeks like that...lol. Them go just kuku decide to lock up make the man do him 5 minutes press up comot :-( Rudeness - applies both ways Disloyalty - guy you just dey talk same thing with different words. where you copy all these things from? how old u b abeg make I ask? Lack of proper Hygiene - not good but can be improved on 8 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:43am On Dec 18, 2017 |
MrHistorian:When your wife dresses very well, na still you go begin suspect whether she dey go outside. Na why some women go kuku relax. Some also try to stay away from he goats wey full everywhere. so they rather play low. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Aadibros: 3:39am On Dec 18, 2017 |
Chuks9000: While I agree with some of what you have written. However, I have the following responses to share. 1. Men should be patient to truly understand why their wives give those excuses about sex. She could be stressed out or have hormonal issues. Also, women's urge for sex isn't same as men's - medically explained. Husband go do all the romantic stuff to him GF to arouse her but e go just command him wife like sacrificial lamb wey suppose just spread for bed. The question is, how sincerely has he tried to communicate with her to understand why there is a change in how she responds to sex compared to the early times of their marriage? She may be unhappy with the man or certain situations. Also, why wont she lose her urge if her husband only comes to her or becomes nice to her when he needs sex? All your yarns no be excuse for the man to begin go outside him marriage. Like someone correctly said, even when the wife give am daily, man wey go go outside still dey go. 2. I understand and have experienced that behavior but trust me, she is not happy about a lot of things. So if you know how you were so loving before you married her to get the best of her, do same and more to find out why she is happier when you are not around. You annoy her and don't genuinely repent and you think settling an issue ends in love making. Then look for a prostitute not a wife. Nothing justifies a man staying out to drink. It is not in a man's DNA!!! 3. Your third point no even clear. 4. Reactions are effects of earlier actions. 5. The man should learn to love his wife and family the way he need from day 1. I am against either of the parents taking out their anger on innocent children, but this doesn't apply to females alone so don't make it a female thing. Bottom line, it is not a man's world!!! I don't know where that bull crap came from. Why should a husband treat his wife like he is doing her a favor to be married to him? What the heck do you think you give her or do for her that she cant get more outside too if she decides to go out the way men stupidly justify their reasons for going out? Some men annoyingly say it is to answer a man's name. which dirty name? you be Dangote or Jeff Bezos? How much you even pay for bride price or dowry? How much your best wedding even cost? The earlier we start treating our wives as wives, the better. Happy wife, happy home!!! Why because they are the support. Nothing lasts long without good support system. Shikina!!! 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Blessing Liman, Female Military Pilot by Aadibros: 9:15am On May 23, 2013 |
obadiah777: WHY SHE WASTING HER LIFE LIKE THIS ? THIS IS WHAT SHE NEED TO DO. STOP TRYING TO LIVE THE WHITE MANS DREAMS BY FLYING THAT INSTRUMENT OF DEATH. FIND A NICE MAN, GET MARRIED AND GET A NICE WHOLESOME CAREER Ur brain contains only one palm kernel and ashes 3 Likes |
Music/Radio / Re: Chaz B Leaves Inspiration FM by Aadibros: 7:19pm On Mar 08, 2013 |
No one is irreplaceable |
Family / Re: I Beg You In The Name Of God, Please Help! by Aadibros: 7:47am On Feb 23, 2013 |
D mumu na scammer jare. All lies. He has sent like 3 posts yet didn't say any gadem reasonable thng. Stl had gut 2 discredit NL. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Picture Of Genevieve Nnaji And Her Handsome Father by Aadibros: 12:22pm On Dec 15, 2012 |
Ifilinwa: That house doesn't look enticing @all, nd d couch is dull.. Gene should do something in that house How ur own house dey? Akpako!!! 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: Court Reads Ojukwu's Will, Bianca Gets Lion Share by Aadibros: 10:05am On Dec 01, 2012 |
dayokanu: You dis idiot, wot hv u achieved in ur life? FOOL!!! |
Politics / Re: Court Reads Ojukwu's Will, Bianca Gets Lion Share by Aadibros: 10:02am On Dec 01, 2012 |
dayokanu: It's evident daat u r a poverty stricken wretched bastard. U hv nothing neither does your generation. Who aare you to say he neva achievved anythng? Nobody in your family haaas eva achievved wot he achieved. Am sure your family members won't mind claaiming to be his children just to get maayb d door of his dog's kernel. |
Politics / Re: Court Reads Ojukwu's Will, Bianca Gets Lion Share by Aadibros: 6:41pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
seanet01: So oju iku is this irresponsible? He have a child outside without his family members Knowing. Ha God Bless Awolowo, he taught to be morally upright even in Death See ds idiot ooo, is awolowo ur father or is he related to u? At least he admitted her to be his dauther even in death. I sure people like u for do born throway |
Family / Re: No Child After Marriage: How Long Can You Wait? by Aadibros: 7:15pm On Nov 22, 2012 |
Sagamite: Guy u r definitely not married or frustrated in ur marriage 2 Likes |
Family / Re: No Child After Marriage: How Long Can You Wait? by Aadibros: 7:11pm On Nov 22, 2012 |
Hanihairy: mtcheew.....wen u don use contraceptive destroy ur womb u dey dere dey cal God.....God get ur tym U r d only fool on this nairaland. |
Family / Re: No Child After Marriage: How Long Can You Wait? by Aadibros: 7:07pm On Nov 22, 2012 |
sylve11: 95% of the people who commented on being patient are hypocrites. My friend keep quiet there. Lil child like u wants to talk when elders r talkn. U better focus on ur social studies assignment 2 Likes |
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