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Incrizz:
Ahahaha Advark...
You ever heard the story of Daniel in the Bible? God answered him from day one but the answer to his prayers, an Angel, did not arrive till 21 days later..?
The truth is many years from now, you are gonna look back and say, "wow! Thank You LORD, You gave me what my heart desired!"
As for the lady, when you're ready, she'd come.

Amen and Amen to that Incrizz, thank you.
Dear future wife, i don't know what you are still waiting for. You better start coming my way o, i'm waiting patiently.

Incrizz:
You have now received of Him...

uhn? where is the lady?

Incrizz:
The LORD Himself has crowned your effort with success because you asked Him.

Amen sis

Incrizz:
That, is dependent on the guy. I am serious with you.
You need to fill her love tank properly before those trying times come. You've got to treat her righ but that, is very far from being a "yes man" (woman hate that with a passion)
One way to do that is to be honest and open and truhful always.
The right woman will stay and once that happens, she's going nowhere.

Being truthful, open and honest here doesn't mean having a leaking mouth though.
Just be real -women love that.

Hmmmm, thanks for the tip o. i'm going to try my best, my very best

Incrizz:
Aadvark once a woman is satisfied, she is satisfied lol..

lol, don't blame me o. i've seen fickle women. if ever i will marry, i pray to God for a wife who knows what she wants and stands by it. if that is not possible, God please don't give me a wife at all. na beg i dey o

To make matters worse, this new guy seems seriously interested in her. she thinks: "he comes to church, so the Jesus part is covered, and he's got nice teeth. i'm not sure he drinks and i don't mind him drinking a little. after all, its just 1% on my scale". so she bucks under the weight and goes with the new guy. Only to find out after some time that this one drinks any alcoholic liquid available. she's unhappy again, and has to leave to search for better.
POINT IS, women have what they want, and they try to find it. but when they do it is still hard to stay satisfied cos they remember what they dont have.
AGAIN, THIS DOES NOT REPRESENT ALL WOMEN, SOME KNOW WHAT THEY WANT AND STAY SATISFIED WHEN THEY GET IT.
Incrizz, i think that unsteady heart is natural. i think those few who are firm just defy it. think about Eve. . .

Incrizz
We're on the same page now, just that we are reading from opposite ends of the book, lol.

I'm glad u agree that the woman's decisions might be made from her ''point of view''. i'm also glad u know that her point of view might be ''myopic''.
I very well agree with u that women do have preferences, and that they spend time searching for the right one.
But then you will agree that sometimes they do find someone who meets those requirements. my point lies in that time they find.
Lets say that woman in your analogy finally finds a guy who's 90% Jesus, 9% white teeth and doesn't drink at all. she's excited and pitches her tent with that guy, and even seriously considers "moving the ministry to the permanent site". then there's this new guy in church who has a PhD, and his teeth aren't too bad too. she then remembers that she could have added PhD to her preferences earlier and begins to bite her fingers to that.

Point is, women's minds are easily swayed by what they see, as their soft hearts are wont to yearning for things they dont posses.
Pardon my generalization though. i know THERE ARE WOMEN WHO ARE DIFFERENT, who know what they want and stand firm when they find it. however, that is a small percentage.

And Incrizz, you no mention the wedding again. e gba mi o, me i wan chop party rice o. i don talk my own

Incrizz
You can be insistent sha, lol. well, lets say i'm forced to agree with u partially. one thing i've learnt from that example u gave is that women want something, but are not really sure what they want. even when they think they've found what they want in a guy, after some time, they realize there's something else they also want that the guy doesn't have. i've had a personal experience. maybe my views are flawed by that, but i believe that women are, to a greater extent than men, insatiable.
Women behave like a farmer who wants to eat corn, so he walks into his farm to harvest. he searches until finds one he thinks big enough to satisfy his hunger. but as he makes to harvest it, a thought hits him: that there might be a bigger one further on. so he moves on until he finds another big one. he's not sure if its really bigger than the one he left. at this point the only way to be satisfied is get one bigger than these two he has found. and so, on the search goes. . . . . .

Incrizz
it is true that there are single men who are ready for marriage, but most times it is because they want to search for the right partner. for women, it is different. there comes a time when just any man will do as husband. when a woman approaches forty and still a spinster, there's a fat chance she'll not get married but a forty year old man will have no problems finding a wife. i think that explains the desperation single women might display.
But that ur suggestion for ur pastor get as e be o. collect 5 numbers for inside church? lol.

@calling someone sweetie, hmmm. so he's the one?
SEARCH ABORTED! I REPEAT, SEARCH ABORTED!!!
lincolnburrows' head must have swelled to bursting point now, lol. anyway, congratulations o. when is the wedding? i know u want a small one but invite me o. nothing in this life is as sweet as party rice.

Incrizz
It wasn't just a borrow situation, or something that happenned only once; i lived there for years. my parents were like the older couple in the neighborhood, so they were usually in the thick of settling their squabbles. the point is, all women can't be good and supportive, just like all men aren't.


Your reply to bioteck though. una no go just gree say we scarce, lol. well then, how do u explain lots of women flooding prayer ministries just to get a husband? men don't do that, do they? kinda makes it hard for me and many other men to believe those stats on the internet.

Erm, when u said the hormones have cleared off now, u mean i should stop searching for your husband? cos i was just about searching with 4G, Lol.

Do have a beautiful sunday sis.

Hmmmm Incrizz, it is not a joking sturvs o.
At my former place of residence, i had a neighbor who was a teacher. his wife was a tailor. she used to earn a reasonable sum but not a kobo goes into helping the family. if at any point she's forced to spend on family matters, she records the amount and asks her husband to pay when he gets his salary. i used to really pity that man. sometimes he exhausts his salary the very day he gets it. so my dear, not all women reason like u.

You are correct with the frog thing, lol, i was just pulling ur legs with that proverb. but true true, husband scarce o.

Oya respond to bioteck's explanation.

Dear Incrizz, sorry if i put u on defensive there. i cant say i understand women and i never claim to. i'm glad that u already intend to be supportive to hubby and i know he'll love u more for that. However, my emphasis on being supportive was born out of things i've seen. Not every woman is like you, incrizz. i mean, i've seen women who decided to become liabilities to their husbands simply cos they think the husband should be responsible for everything.
so i'm glad u're different. keep it up sis.

As for the search, mehn! i got to see the trueness of this igbo proverb, ''the female frog carries its mate on its back because it knows that husbands are scarce''. lol, i blame buhari sha.
Anyway, let me continue looking for your husband. patience is key, lol. Hope u're having a nice day

Runaway bride. Lol,u're funny. just don't do it on a horse lest u and hubby break your necks. on a serious note tho, small weddings are cool. not the shakespearean ones tho, those ones are overly exclusive. how can just three people be present? i favour a wedding involving the couple, their parents, and a few relatives. and a dinner with them and a few invited friends afterwards.
opinion:small weddings are nice but dont take it to the extreme.

Age. under 21? whats he doing with marriage?
Under 33? for me, just before 30 is the ripe age for a guy.
34+? still cool.


You have nice expectations and i pray u find it all. however u must remember that none is spotless. so i suggest u arrange ur expections according to importance cos u might have to let go of some. say u have just the guy with all those qualities but he drinks once in a while, would u let go? so along with the expected,expect the unexpected, those few little spots that might dot our clear dreams.
Wish u the best Incrizz.
off2search4urHubby

Mehn! Incrizz, that is some list! well let me say what i think about them.

Working from home is really cool. gives you enough time for the kids. But don't wait for an 'already-made' man who can provide enough to enable u have plenty time for the kids. Perhaps you're just the support he needs to get him to that level. the wife is a complement right? well, its still up to u but men like that are few, not because they dont want that for their wives, but u know the economic situation.

For the bleaching part, i totally agree with u. i dislike 'bleachers'. its a sign of an ebbing self worth.

Now alcohol. Hmmmm, does there live a guy who doesn't drink? well i cant say. i don't understand your total disdain for it tho. i mean, there are men who drink once in a while, like twice or thrice a year. maybe it has to do with the view of alcohol u had while growing up. but i support u if u mean those who have a habit of drinking.

Jesus. not much to say. its really important to be united spiritually.

davodyguy:
Some of us have been watching matches via phone to tv using Hdmi technology for a while now.

We have this IPTV android apps and when we are streaming live matches on the phone, we get it displayed on the TV big screen, without cast screen

without cast screen? how? pls explain

Incrizz:
Huh? Lol...I'm ready for a husband!
Sweetest Hubby I am ready for you, come come
I used to think I can go through life without being married
(God forgive me my sins *sign of the cross*)

Lol. I think i'm your direct opposite. i used to think i cant go through life without getting married, now i think i can.

well, i guess the best i can do for you is to help you search. Oya give me your specifications of an ideal husband

thatbiggirl:
So as usual, Infinix continues dropping phones faster than Nollywood drops films. They recently released a phone called the Hot 4, it is part of their Hot Series according to their site, but don't be confused, the Hot 4 is different from the Hot S and also different from the Hot 3...ehm please don't be lost in this hotness. Most times before you even safe up to buy their latest phone they surprises you with another one!!
So what make the Infinix Hot 4 different from the Infinix Hot 3? To start with, Hot 4 comes with 2GB RAM and it has a massive 4500mAh while the Hot 3 has 300mAh. So below are pictures of a table i did showing the major differences. I hope this will help you make a well informed choice.

i think the hot 4 has 4000mAh not 4500

incase of FP

OK. You need a child but you dont want to be a babymama, and i suppose, like most girls, you're not ready to settle down with a husband.
So what do you now want us to do about it?

heykims:
L8 has 1GB RAM

he said l8 plus not l8

please dont name any of your dogs b*hari, lest they become dull and senile

MizMyColi:
All the best in your buying decision.

Gracias mi hermana. i will mention you and let u know my experience if i do, which is very likely

Elxandre:
I will, later in the day.
Battery low.

i appreciate you and MizMyColi addressing my question. all i need to know is whether l8 plus' processor is enough to give my a smooth experience. as long as it does, i'm ok with it. or do you think that guy complaining was right? i await your verdict

MizMyColi:
[font=Georgia]Okay let's even agree presumptuously that you are right about L8Plus having an MTK6580 chipset.

1. Since when did chipsets become much of an issue? I thought it was basically about the number of processors and RAM for everyday users?
Please stop making the chipsets ish come off like it's one big deal.

2. If my W4 also uses mtk6580 like the L8plus; and my w4 despite spotting 1GB RAM never gave me issues to be worried about like hanging; how much more a 2GB RAM?

The best bet is to hear from people who have experienced the L8 plus. That is why I pointe aadvark to that thread.
Experential knowledge is always better.

thanks a lot sis for allaying my fears. i think i will go through with it after a little more research. i really don't care much about camera and i think i'm ok with 8mp.

suzan404:
I don leave arsenal.....I don port to man utd,,arsenal dey vex me

welcome to the true shade of red baby

you said it has 4G LTE, then you wrote 2G/3G when writing out the full features. which one do you now want us to believe?

ennyhola:
thats because I am being truthful

so i should leave it then? what phone of the same price range with that much battery would u suggest?

ennyhola:
the phone is over hyped joor!! 2gig ram,and it is always hanging!

now you are scaring me. i plan to get this phone in a week or two, do u advise me to leave it? you're the only one that has complained about it hanging. pls reply

Bia, GloriaNinja na BiafraBushBoy, biko unu be careful-uo una sef na this thread o.

he never ''experrerit'' tho