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Zzor:
some women are very wicked,i cried reading this,dont hate your dad,it is the handwork of that devil you call step mom.My prayers are with you. mynd44, lalasticlala, seun, please push this to the front page

am dieing inside...

duduade:
Na WA o..

This is sad

Why are the elderly ones this wicked.. This is so unfair

It's such actions that pushes someone into arranging their deaths..



Na to arrange people to treat their fuckup..

Implicate them and blackmail them

I can assure you that your father might not include your name in his will o..

If you ratting them out to church people you will have to be armed with evidences.. Lots and lots and lots

that's my plan...

Hello... I had to get another account to put this up. Some people might still guess who it is though... I'll go straight to the point...

I lost my mom when I was a month away from 2 years(NOV 2000) and since then I have had to live with my dad as a single parent, my senior cousin (male, soldier now) came (2001) and took up taking care of me.. my dad later got married (2003) to a younger woman (21 years younger) I was 5 then, and I can still remember clearly the marriage and everything that happened around that time.
in 2000 My dad was among 6 people choosen from the six geopolitical zones to got Germany on an advance course on digital transmitters by NTA(which he worked for till 2016 when he retired) and were supposed to move to either Lagos or Abuja upon their return. Few days after he came back my mom died(mom worked as a senior caterer with shell, and was on maternity leave as at the time she died). Daddy refused to leave me behind to go Abuja as he was meant to, despite his mom's, and my maternal aunties plea that he should take the chance and go that i''ll be fine, instead he insisted to stay back and took the option to be put in charge of maintaining transmitters in the whole South south(meaning he travelled a lot). The faint knowledge I have About the time when it was just me, my dad and my cousin is that I enjoyed and never lacked anything, I was always by my dad's side... Untill 2002 when I was 4, I remember a younger woman from church (I tought was mom)always coming to visit dad, we got close and in 2003 they got married and I was joyous feeling mom was back from were ever she went a soon as she was married hell broke loose!! Worst when she gave birth to her own child 2004 Nov.. I was put behind and my dad became a monster, he made me believe I was being trained in God's way.. I was beaten for the slightest thing as talking to a neighbors kid, playing, I was put indoors and this alone is a major instrument to my being shy.. I noticed that my brother wasn't treated that way, but as small as I was I convinced myself that maybe am stubborn as they say I am.. the next kid (a girl) came 2006, my step mum became something worst than what she was before, I was starved, abused physically, was stopped from taking lunch to school.. and irrespective of the fact that I was 8 and had to attend lessons till 3, I was hooked on the meal I ate since morning (that was most atimes few slices of bread..) till about 4 when I came back home.
it was on a day like this that I came back home and found no one. Dead hungry as I was, went and picked up tho biscuits from the carton of biscuits meant for only my step Brother who would be picked up one while I stayed behind for lessons. I innocently was eating the biscuits when my step mum came back with my dad, saw me eating the buscuits and descended on me. the duo beat me till my cousin who was there since 2001 came back and was begging them to atleast least allow me eat, but the beatings kept coming till my dad pick up his wife's heel shoes and broke by head with it. I lay there feeling nothing but only seeing hands descending on me. My cousin seeing me in blood pushed my dad away and took me outside, poured water on me before I came back to myself.. there was a big cut on my head that needed stiches, but my dad refused to stich it and I ended up carrying the wound for months in pains before it finally healed(till today i still have occasional boils like 2 times a year on that spot). My step mum has broken my head too because I was playing with my dad's old working stick. I have been taken to our pastor not knowing what's wrong, only to be asked were our coven is, my own father calling me a witch.. Wit time I start convincing myself this woman couldn't be my mum.. in 2007 my dad was transferred to Enugu Zonal center. And I could at least breath as the Bible carrying monster was far away. But my step mum became worse and more determined in maltreating me, the starving was uncountable and as a 9 year old I have slept outside the house because as usual I came back from school, found no one and we t to wait in my neighbors place, my step mum came back and I ran home to finally eat since morning but was told to go back, the gate was locked and only unlocked for my cousin when he came back.. by cousin had to pass his little food out of the window for me to eat ..my neighbors had gone for tarry night and I ended up crying myself to sleep in our car as my ever careless step mum had left it unlocked.. waking up and finding myself in the dark Alone by 4am, I was scared, ran out and yelled for the gate to be opened, my cousin on hearing my voice took the keys and opened the gate for me. since then my cousin who more or less had been treated like me was made to leave home and I was defenceless against my stepmom and the unlucky times my dad came home
I have been pushed emotionally since I was little, sent to a Fedral government college without provisions, while my siblings get the best of everything... My dad was instrumental to my dropping out of my first university.. he kept telling me how he isn't my dad and how my mom forced herself on him, and how I am the cause of his troubles, of how am like the badluck in his life, he's tied me up and beaten me for sometimes things I haven't done or slight things like loosing my pen..he sees me as being good for nothing.. for that reason he seldoms gets me clothes, shoes or anything...
I have endured it for since 2003.. and now am 21 in another university that I have to suffer to survive...he's 60 years now and has threatened to stop my fees.. by any means we(him) are not poor at all.. I have decided that enough is enough I am not taking it anymore..
I have decided that either we get into an agreement about school or he settles me and I leave or I am going to spill out everything that has been happening since i have been little to people, starting from the church council, to the branch church the both are senior pastors in, to his siblings who know nothing about this, to people who would strip to him of his duties if they get to hear it... I have served this people as a slave,I have been loyal and have kept mum about my pains while my three younger siblings get the best of everything..... I need advice on what to , my step mum just turned 41 and there is no sign that they'll change... I take marijuana to help calm the urge not to commit suscide an tired of it..i can' keep smoking.
Please advise me on what to do.. thank you

Asnafsaeed:
lol.the nyamuri flat.head even said "the yoruba have few Muslims", no they don't have any Muslims at all!!

im 21 and am thinking about a good future for my kids in their land of nativity and we are currently working towards it
...how old are you what move have you made since? Who is the we?calling people names?

Well in the past I have made posts about the Niger Delta..
This one is for the entire southern Nigerian basin.
Southern Nigeria before crude oil was discovered was just usefull for sea trade route for the export of ground nut which at that time was what was the main product that kept the economy running. The North was favoured with almost everything, from Dams, to military headquarters, airports etc and even the name "NIGERIA" has it's root from the NIGER river up north.

Oil was discovered in the NIGER DELTA basin in the 1950s and coal in the SOUTH EAST in 1909 and was already exporting coal to italy and United kingdom, While the NORTH made NIGERIA rich by being one if the biggest importers of ground nut which at that time was running Nigerias young economy.


Fire down to when it was discovered that the crude oil in Nigeria just like it's coal was better in quality than those mined elsewhere. That's how everyones torch was pointed towards crude oil and coal was abandoned, the groundnut pyramids started disappearing till what was sustaining Nigeria was just crude oil... This crude oil can be found in some parts of Yoruba land, some parts of Igbo land and most of the Niger delta..

Fire down to over 60 years since oil was discovered in Nigeria, it has single handedly been the boat carrying Nigerias economy. So much that even when precious stones and minerals were discovered in the North it was and is still being mined privately. But what can youruba land, Ibgo land and the Niger Delta boast as archievments from feeding the countries economy for over half a century...? Nothing instead our land have been wasted and lay bare while all we do is make noise and the AREWA COMMUNITY FLAUNTS RICHES?

To the North we are just money generators and like generators all we can do is make noise while they do whatever they want to us... Critically looking at the map of the southern basin of Nigeria, you will see that we all need each other if we want to survive.

Look at the map below more critically .
Looking at the Yoruba land The creation of ODUDUWA will be greatly resisted by the Nigerian government for obviousr reasons. The SW has been Nigerias major route to the open sea since before lord lugard was governor and if ODUDUWA should leave Nigeria first the Federal government will quickly annex it from it's eastern and northern boarder and even adopt Nigeria's civil war style by blocking the water ways and that will result in a war that will cost lives and fill our lands with our worst nightmare "The fulani" they will take precaution by making sure they settle as much of their brothers into yoruba land to for stall further threats of a break.. what will make the invasion of ODUDUWA more possible is that the two other regions the Niger Delta and Biafra will not resist the government from sending troups into their land because to them it'll serve the yoruba people right...

Looking at Biafra the breaking out of biafra will be resisted by the fg and like it's already happening they will stop at nothing to stall a breakout by biafra and it'll be easy because it's just to send troups from North South East and West and what biafra has been scared of all might come through.

Looking at the core NIGER DELTA, this region has all it takes to survive but with most of the arsenal of Nigeria being in the North, it'll be very easy for NIGERIA to come in from Yoruba land and Igbo land and quench the resistance..


PLEASE NOTE
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Any group that tries to leave alone will be overpowered for sure and what that means is that the other remaining two groups will not have a chance because Nigeria and the western world who have been making money over the years from Nigeria especially the UK will do all it can to make sure we stay together for their selfish reasons..
Another one is that if you look at the map, if ODUDUWA , BIAFRA and the NIGER DELTA break out Nigeria will automatically be land locked and international trade will be impossible through sea will be for them . So they will stop at nothing to keep us together even when it has favoured only them for over half a century..

The only way each of the three groups can be leviated of it's pains is by breaking out of this place and that will be together the three of them.. it'll be hard for the government to resist forces from NE NW NC, SE SW SS it'll be overwhelming for them and they know it . That's why all Nigerias amouries are in the North, Defence headquarters North, Capital North, military and para military acadamies still in the North.. they know the only way to keep us together is by making sure there is confusion and keep us talking and hating each other... Anyone who spends time talking hardly thinks...

If igbos hate Yoruba it means they'll help fight them
If the yoruba's hate ibgos it means same,
Same with the Niger Delta...

It's estimated that enugu has 2 billion metric tones of high quality sulphur free coal still unmined and in demand..this alone can support them.
Niger Delta has wildlife , crude oil and fertile land that can support it.
Youruba has hundreds of unmined resources and a very popular trade route that might never die...
And only God knows the number of unmined minerals we have under all of us..because we have been blinded my crude oil...

CONCLUSION
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The southern basin had a common trade system that's why it was easy for lugard to join us with the North who had a common religious system.. obviously the union has favoured the North Which is larger.
If we ever wish to leave this place it'll be together or it won't happen at all.. the igbos can have access to sea through trade negotiations within the three of us. Imagine a place with a visa free movement for it's citizens...we have absolutely nothing to gain or but just loses if we keep fighting.

The yorubas have a few muslims but that should not devide them amongst themselves because last last you can't compare Muslim UAE to Muslim Afghanisan..

The igbos should solve their problem at home and everything will be fine.

The Niger Delta, has diverse people who for years have lived together peacfully and if some European countries with
numerous tribes can live together then it shouldn't be a problem.

Borrow a page from the North while you are busy sharping mouths they sharpen brains and even when we are in average heavily built people than they are, they have since from the time of the holy jihad used thier brains to steadily get what they want ...


To the lucky few who get to read this before the MODs probably want to take it of remember that your kids will never forgive you if they find out you had a chance to give them a better life but you spent it fighting...

Real soldiers are made for times like this..

Long live ODUDUWA
long live BIAFRA
long live The NIGER DELTA

COMRADE ABAS

Except it's ODUDUWA huh? Biased fools

Goodmarlian:
If you want your unrealistic Niger republic to happen then go and sand fill the creeks that are dividing you people or you because you are not going with portharcourt no inch of igboland should be added to that map.

does it matter if it's realistic or not? What's there to be fair man? What do you care? So since yours looks real to you, you can trample others who are suffering too?... That's selfishness on your part and wickedness on the part of your tribe.... After you leave me Nigeria, and say we live too, instead of looking for a way to look for a way to foster growth by fostering things like visa free relations. We'd rather guard our boarders, because wickedness runs in your blood .....we are all suffering, and even ehwh you have nothing to gain, you wish yourselves good but others suffering.... Go check yourself again

No one will remove this one...

manlawal:
Cloud699999
I once had similar experience when I lost my mum , in fact we saw her shadow and hear the foot step , she will always come at exact time we close at shop and come home. I will advice you to burn incent every night Yoruba call it turari. What happen is she yet to be aware of her demise because I don't think she died of a natural death , couple with the fact that if she have children she might coming to check on them as they always come every Thursday evening to check on their child before they finally depart. What you are experiencing is a tip of an ice berg to what she saw.

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaa

DICKstractor:
Bro where do you stay in Akwa Ibom. I stay in Eket

uyo

FuckTheWorld:
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You must be a complete d0lt!
So, you think I'll read all those nonsense you typed
I don't waste my time with senseless fools.

no you won't read them, like I Said you are lazy and even to read tires you(that's if you can read o), why would you progress? A always cursing mouth has nothing to offer .. carry on, am not expecting you to read this one too....

olajizz01:
See this one with warped brain.


Afonja you are talking about didn't depend on your cursed oil,if Nigeria wanted to balkanize today ,we will even celebrate it in big way.

What could you account for your cursed oil your greedy leaders have been mining more than three decades now,our region was better off before the advent of your cursed oil boy.

watch your cursed mouth cursed boy, at least we have cursed oil...what do you have?? Cursed brains?? ... Well afonjas are known to trade blames and curse people!! Carry on cursed soul....
Curse on .. SMH, what can affonja cursed hands show to nigeria as somthing nigeria can rely on? Except for advocating cursed leaders!!

FuckTheWorld:
Don't be stupîd!
70% of Akwa ibomites are living from hand to mouth doing menial jobs (riding okada, taxi, playing pool, lottery and bet) and that's what you're proud of?

You need brain check.

no I think you do need a Brain check sir!!...

Define menial jobs? Lol even European countries have menial jobs, I think you are a lazy person, because I don't see why somones job would be menial to you... Mhen you even call taxi menial? Playing pool a job? Are you educated sef? Please if you aren't please come to akwaibom education is free, it'll sharpen you failing brain.... Why am I even talking to you? Laziness can be spotted in your hand writing... Aww poor you ndo iyeh? Sorry. But wait o
Are you the 70%, do you have a bro or is your father among the 70%, ...... Lol its paining you

Akwa-ibom people have multiple jobs bro, I know people who are street sweepers in the wee morning hours and and office workers from 8...

And Mr fool! The ain't no okada in the state capital except your dad is riding one!!!, It's there in the Village no doubt.. but like I said an average man who rides okada has a big farm I'm the village, did yiu expect him to stay at home after planting and wait for harvest doing nothing? My uncle's 3 of them are farmers who are tapping from an Akwa-ibom agric fund! And are doing very well..

Look bro, if you are poor in akwa-ibom, you are either lazy, or like you said into bets and lotto trying to make double money..

Hand to mouth, you are funny o!! Is it your community that makes the 70% hand to mouth folks?......

Lol, education is free, and university fees are subsidized to the bearest minimum!, The only enemy of akwa-ibom now to me, are people like you and the silly flauctuating naira..

Come to think of it, have you visited akwa-ibom before? If you have name one place you visited and somone you spoke to....

Can your state dream of an airline?, Peace? Yeah we enjoy peace here, good roads, free education, agric funds, jobs ... Bro during the last world cup my darling state put up public display TV's all-over for us to watch matches.. you need to be an Akwa-ibomite to be an akwaibomite!... We love ourselves a typical akwaibomite is very hospitable

What's the name of you state sef, say it if you are proud... If you don't then I can bet you are living from hand to mouth....



Uhm were can I have a brain check? Please? I need a full medical checkup to enable travel abroad...

Mumu..stop being jealous pray for your state and leave us alone!!!!!

HitSong:
True talk

goat have you visited akwa-ibom before?
If you haven't shut up!!

fashrola:
Because he's not sharing money as Akpabio... Youths of nowadays wants quick money without working for it


He's teaching the Akwa Ibom Youths how to fish......

truth! �� Am a witness!!

If only we could be our own country!!! My akwa-ibom, I love akwa-ibom...
After election fights, the leaders that sift through the ballot box seem to be doing a good job... Carry on sir, I pray your sucessor follows the footpaths others have created.

FuckTheWorld:


NIGERIANS and celebration of mediocrity.

500k seedlings
Something a small private farm can boast of.
Useless people.

Akwa ibom of one of the states getting the highest FG allocations monthly with little or almost nothing to show for it.

In a sane country, with the amount Akwa ibom receives every month, Akwa ibom SHOULD be as developed as Johannesburg, Addis Ababa at least.

This useless old fool generation leaders are complete failures.

brp? At ths time when interstate travel is banned and we aren't primarily a cocoa producing state, the number of seedlings is highly commendable!!... visit akwa-ibom and see how things are for yourself.. sometimes I wish we could be our own country... We seem to be different from others, thanks to good Governance! Learn to appreciate. Even if you don't, we akwa-ibomites who are enjoying it will!.... SMH the amount your state recieves is enough to turn it into ghana at least. Abuja ain't even close to Addis Ababa and you feel we should be Addis Ababa?..lol, sometimes shs I feel am in Europe each time I pass roads and structures!!!, Talk for yourself, leave us alone.


Would you believe the picture below is akwa-ibom?

24SEVEN:
But sincerely aren't Akwa Ibomites wasting their resources unnecessarily?

Look at the sparsely populated environment and tell me what vehicular traffic warrants such infrastructure. Can the money be used for something more pressing and/or beneficial.

Why do people who suddenly struck wealth resort to wastages.

we live in peace here, and the state is utmostly beautiful, I pass spots everyday and am still wowed.. God has blessed us with good leaders!!.... Let em build it o.. we need them.. out state needs them. He's building it for the future bro, ain't no waste

You see this shit hole called nigeria?, Leave while you can... It can never be better. Quote me and I'll tell you reasons...

I pity those that'll remain when it's time to repay all the loans we owe.....no body respects your right to life, as those charged with protecting it are the very ones taking it...

As soon as you can, leave!!!

If you like behave yourself, I still don't trust you!!

Never will I trust a woman, never!!

Nope, it's their nature... Even the best are unfaithful!! ...
Any one who trusts a woman can trust that a Lion born an an raised in the wild can be a friend

SarkinYarki:
This case the pilot is actually to fault , he should never have taken off in that kind of weather in a chopper not equipped with the right equipment for such blind flying

yeah bro but mother nature does not tell you what's it's planning especially on long haul flights, not he didn't crash at a home base. Somone cleared him for that flight and he must have been briefed.
Even the best get unforseen scenarios

gambia:
You are a complete fool, I can read frustration all over you, onye nzuzu.

doesn't stop you from beobe a fool, you can cover it up, but we both know that you know that in this case you have been foolish

yusfatedeeprof:
“Aviation in itself is not inherently dangerous. But to an even greater degree than the sea, it is terribly unforgiving of any carelessness, incapacity or neglect.” Captain A. G. Lamplugh

Hope you get my point..... Yes truly there are events(Act of God) beyond the capacity or control of any human, it's is fundamental in Nature, we categorise them as Natural disasters

.. but in this case I blame mother nature.

Stellly02:
Na dark shield dey the glass wey make am think instead of to look??

do you know what thick fog means?... Go to YouTube and watch it

gambia:
Is he a baby pilot? Suicide mission on point.

sgut up, must you be stupid?
Oya pick your car and drive through thick fog at high speed and see wgaw it is... If you tell me why didn't he slow down, I'll ask you, do you know that an airplane slowing down will stall and fall to the ground? .... Read books and stop being silly olodo

Hifeylove:
Was it his dead body that came out to grant this interview? To tell us he thought he was going up while going down? A pilot?

every registered aircraft has what is called flight data recorder and cockpit voice recorder inside a small book called Black box, somwere In the aircraft...

The flight data recorder, records everything single thing you do, in a graph like or other ways, and records everything the plane does in a graph like stafe.

While the cockpit voice recorder records every sound that is made within the proximity of the cockpit.

So putting everything together you can tell what the pilot did, at what time, and at what state of mind.

stagger:
Spatial disorientation. Was the pilot not instrument-rated?

your instrument eating really comes to play in landing, and not in thick fog over mountains... With terrain proximity warning system confused... Mother nature is to be blamed bro.....

Are you an aviation enthusiast?, If you ate, you should know that spatial disrientation comes to play if you are a pilot and looking ousideo helps but not in this case with thick fog... Let me explain, do you know that you can walk in a plane while the pilot is undergoing a 30degree bank without knowing it?... Because you wontw fall.. or if a plane is crashing and falling out of the skies, that somonso who doesn't know what's going on can actually be walking and laughing because unlike the movie's tell us, things don't fall over?... I blame fog... It'll suprise you that fog and birds are a pilot worst nightmare and not even engine failures

yusfatedeeprof:
Aviation like the sea is not inherently dangerous, but just mercilessly Unforgiving of human errors

I dusagdis bro.... Mother nature can be annoying too... Do you know what thick fog in a speeding car means? Then yhint about it in a flying high speed car

bro4u:
Abeg tell me something else, even in low visibility the pilot ought to have known when the plane is descending or ascending. How can you tell me my blind uncle won't know when he's falling from the sky?? Motion necessarily don't need sight to affirm.

you won't if you are in an airplane except you look outside which in his case was covered in fog

She turns you down you, you should say praise God!!!
You have been saved from inheriting an overstretched bitch...
Right now, the only thing that can make me cry if it turns me down is money