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plaetton:
So masturbation made you A neurotic?
Well, for your Info, a lot of serial masturbators are doing just Fine.

Your problems surely lie somewhere else.

Toks2008:
lol! ok just kidding though

Toks2008:
I know many l;ladies who have stayed chaste for years because they settle for masturbation.

Yes the more you do it the more you crave fore the real thing nevertheless the act also relieves you from having overwhelming urge to do the real thing and that is the part im ok with.

There was a time i was like ok i wil not ease off for as long as possible but then just after weeks i realize that every lady i see walk pass me oozes sex and i was like wow to even a flat ass then i began to ask myself if im normal.

[s][/s]If we all know the level of fornication that happens each day, we will not even try to rule out masturbating as a better alternative[s][/s].

Toks2008:
I m looking for a good wife so if you are available just let me know so that you can help me solve it.

You think i am the type of guys who pretend and form what they are not? i am a realist to the core, i love sex die and if not for the fact that i ease myself from time to time i would have been a nonentity in my area trying to woo any available lady.

Toks2008:
My [/s]brother[s] sister i agree and i am not debunking the fact that masturbation is not proper BUT NOT ALSO SINFUL.

We need to draw these lines, I hate sex outside marriage like poo but what will a man do when you are not married and you are feeling so Hot?i can't go to a LovePeddler or just call a lady in my domain just to sleep with her.

Se lets not over-flog this issue abeg. I cant remember the day i had sex last and trsut me, what kept me going is the fact that once in a while i ease out not by really jerking off but just thinking about sex within the confines of my marriage which is perfectly alright in my opinion.

plaetton:
We should be asking you?

Masturbation threads are usually opened by people with sexual hang ups and neurotics.

It is only sexual neurotics that worry about what sexual acts consenting adults comit in the privacy their bedrooms.

So, this thread, as usual, is cunning way of crying out for help and for self-validation.

Toks2008:
See i just so hate it when people come to nairaland to give an impression that a certain thing is bad without giving a solution.

Look here friends, i gave my life to Christ since i was 13 and i have practically lived a chaste life all the years of my life and i do not think anyone is more born again than me as we all are justified by faith and not by works.

Now i do not even understand the act of masturbating because i cant remember the year i ever touched my penile shaft in order to jerk off but i often use the power of imagination where i just think about a sex act with my ex wife and once i do that i get satisfied not because i am so so attached with my ex but for crying out loud that is exactly the best i could do,but then lets say that is still wrong which i will strongly disagree with, the question is this;

How does a sexually active young man or woman get over the urge of making out without fornicating?

I will slap anyone who tells me they should not think about sex and i will spit on the face on anyone who says they can control the urge of not easing themselves for days, months or even years.

In my opinion, masturbation is far far better than fornication but the point where its confusing is watching porn while u masturbate because by so doing you are lusting after a human which is the porn starts thereby committing fornication.

An unmarried young man or woman can not also be thinking about a tractor or football game while masturbating but of-course must think about sex with another lady or man which is definitely not his or her spouse/

The issue of masturbation have been over-flogged and i keep wondering why people who go against it cant bring out just a passage in the bible that forbids it.

joseph1832:
Story Story? Story.
Once upon a time?
Time, time!!

herald9:
[s][/s]

this is what you get when you spend your life smoking the bible.

You need rehab. We will you.

lygn19:
I am beginning to talk too much and it's not a good thing, if I continue like dz some people wud soon classify me as a chest beater as they call it, I explained above why I can't write ma reasons here, neither can I tell some people until it is feasible.

EasternPride:
You don't want zoo to break for ur own selfish interests, typical Igbo man.
Smh.

benjanjo1:
My dear, I don't sound or look like one. I don't jerk off and I certainly don't need your help.

benjanjo1:
Do I look like one?

benjanjo1:
Is that all? :-/

jtjohn:
Light should be number 1.............20 Likes if u support this point

WisdomCanada:
You people should just chill, in Baba's 100 days in office,

»» Baba will turn stones into bread.

»» He will turn water into wine.

»» He will jump from the highest skyscrapers in the country just to prove he is the chosen one.

»» He will impregnate all barren women so dey can conceive

»» Baba will even cut his own legs and give to the lame, plug out his eyes for the blind to see, and cut off his tongue so the dumb can speak.

»» Baba will even take your deserved punishment after u don commit crime. Iwu agada gbachiri uzor.

Let's give this man a break joor, He just got sworn it.

Edwardhead:
[size=20pt] You may not like GMB but it's silly to secretly hope he fails just to prove yourself right..his success is our smile tomorrow #ChangeIsHere [/size]

calebo101:
Some people think when we call GEJ Hero we just dey mince mouth? He is only a failure to those domiciled in the North and some parts of South West for reasons best known to them but definitely not on performance. To us he went and conquered and will forever be remembered as the man that deepened democracy in Nigeria.

Meanwhile somebody should ask the man from Ota... The shameless old man that slept with his son's wife these questions.

*****Where are the snipers Jonathan trained?....

*****How many people has he killed from his 1000 man death-list?....

*****Where is the interim Government you said Jonathan wanted to handover to?....

*****Has Jonathan handed over to the military as you claimed?...

Quenching another man's candle will not make your own shine any brighter!

jubenevamind:
HABA!! Take am easy now...
My General no be Magician now

kilokeys:
Pls som1 should tell President Buhari that it's almost 3hour since he took over yet we don't have light in my area,shebi he promised us light??even the queue is still here in this filling station and d roads are still bad,what has he been doing in there since he was sworn in..

and he is busy eating?

cramjones:
It is time to bomb the hell out of the creek boys starting with the murderer Asari!

Let's go there!

-CramJones

SFSNIPER:
I was misinformed or just not liked by a certain lady who use the first on me. She said she doesn't date non-commissioned soldiers only officers. I laffed at her anyway!

SFSNIPER:
They are not your class. They don't even know you exist. Sorry, no hard feelings!

SFSNIPER:
They are not your class. They don't even know you exist. Sorry, no hard feelings!

kokozain:
i dont think u are with ur senses when u read from nairaland that buhari came back from uk with 2 of his children schooling there and u are here spewing nonsense

Mogidi:
Very beautiful girls, I hope they have certificates sha

I hate unintelligent girls.

RockMaxi:


Now Jonathan will know what the human nature is. His eye don't clear now, no more praise singers.

advocates:
I feel sorry for your Truthfulness. You may not like him before now, but what is more important now is our prayers to get him succeed. His success is our success. This line of thought isn't too much to ask.