Nairaland General › Re: Upload Your Christmas Selfie Pix Here (xmas Show Off) by Abbey2sam(m): 5:00pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Make i buy land here
Not for sale |
Romance › Re: What Men Want But Won’t Ask In A Relationship by Abbey2sam(m): 4:57pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
If i open that link make i no come back from France again |
Romance › Re: Do Women Ever Look Past A Man's Physical Appearance? - An Inspiring Story! by Abbey2sam(m): 4:54pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Babasessy: I know looks or physical attraction are important when finding a life partner. But its important to sometimes look at attributes beyond physical appearance to decide whether to move forward in a relationship.That would be called "compromise." Looks do matter to a degree but....It is good when people can come together in love despite one or both not being the other's set "type", yes, but it's also not bad when someone can't do that. You can't fault someone for not being attracted to someone.
In the online world normally the first impression you get of a person is a picture, and most people won't even bother to look at the profile if the picture doesn't fit the mold they have created to be a good match. Maybe you find out this person is funny, has a big heart, hard working and so on. That might make up for some of their other shortcomings. Well lets face it, looks fade but whats inside will always be there.
There are women who value other things much more than a man's looks. They are most attracted to intelligence, personality, financial stability and other attributes. Looks may be secondary to them, but still play a part in their evaluation of a potential partner
People live and learn. Some learn faster than others. Some repeat the same mistakes time and time again. As we age, most of us learn what is most important to us. We learn not to expect perfection. At the same time, we learn there are some chracteristics we value in a partner that must be there. For most people, this will require a self-evaluation. We think about past relationships and what was right or wrong in those relationships. We hopefully pull something from that to use in building new relationships.
I concur that attraction has to be there, but there has to be much more than just attraction. In my experience, finding someone you're compatible with and enjoy being with can lead to an attraction growing. Attraction is only part of the puzzle that makes a successful relationship. It helps to launch relationships, but it can also be a piece that comes later, after other pieces have fallen into place and the relationship is coming together.
The story of Tim Femi Oladipo, is quite inspiring hence, I decide to share it with you. Read excerpts from his Facebook Timeline below:
[b]Take a very good look at the pictures to your left!
Yeah! That was me! Yeah! Timothy Oladipo fresh off the African boat (well plane) in my grand entry with shirt made out of pillow cases! in August of 1987!
The most pronounced and prominent part of my body was my head and the excited geeky smile that I touched ground in London Heathrow!
It was almost 2 months after this that I met my wife who was born and raised in England! Can I be honest with you now? I probably wouldn't have married me seeing this geeky smile and what seemed like a hunger stricken body. Ah!
But when everything disqualifies me in the Natural sense (as in the packaging) Shola looked beyond the physical and saw the positive contents. A year after she said yes to me in marriage almost 27 years ago!
The dude to the right is what a lot would probably dream of as a husband material in our today's world because society has taught us to not add value to life or relationship but only to go for the 'refined' 'signed and delivered' man or woman.
Hardly would any woman have said yes to the guy who's life belongings and worldly wealth were put in a calendar bag! Oh No!!!(Does anyone remember those bags?) . Oh no! Some would think I was not toshy or oity-toity enough, or even swaggy enough to be introduced to their friends!
What has befallen our world today? Why do we always desire the finished products? Why are more and more people no longer willing to strive and struggle to build a home together? I doubt if any other woman would have been able to carry the grace on my wife to put up with my inherent African madness, or my unrefined self before I get to where I am today... Mind you I am still very far from where I should be!
People please be reminded that the package may look wrong, but the content might be glorious... And the package may look wonderful and the content awful!
Chose today not for the world, but from God's own perspective for you.
Marriage is not a child's play, and you don't get to chose only your favourable parts! [/b]
http://amazingstoriesaroundtheworld..co.uk/2014/12/do-women-ever-look-past-mans-physical.html bros 1987 na different thing o this is 2015 in the making change is constant bro....Btw, you did have a big head |
Phones › Re: MTN Still Sales Mb At This Price by Abbey2sam(m): 4:42pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
parrotibaba: n u forgot to finish d post b4 typing gibberish, what an a$$!! are you mad? Is something wrong with your tick school Skull . people like you will always fail...can't take simple correction.....dumb a$$hole |
Christianity Etc › Re: Photo: Seun Kuti Mocks The Redeemed Christian Church Of God by Abbey2sam(m): 4:18pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
hazyfm: Pls who is Seun Kuti? one a$$hole that live close to my house in France |
Phones › Re: Airtel 1+1 Promo...for Those Not Eligible by Abbey2sam(op): 4:05pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Lagusta: What's the code nah (android) for android *437*1# = #2000..........4gig For blackberry *440*161# = #1500 .....4gig incase your not eligible, kindly call them... They will help you out Enjoy |
Phones › Re: Airtel 1+1 Promo...for Those Not Eligible by Abbey2sam(op): 3:59pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
N:B for you to keep enjoying this offer after the first activation, you have to make sure that you renew it automatically, i.e you load the card and leave it maybe a day to the expiring date, you will be renewed automatically.its a one time offer, you won't be able to enjoy it again if you don't do auto renewal |
Phones › Re: Airtel 1+1 Promo...for Those Not Eligible by Abbey2sam(op): 3:52pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Abdstrakt: Does the Airtel blackberry plan work on other devices? it works on all devices....including modem |
Phones › Re: Samsung Galaxy S2, S3, S4, Note 2 & 3 Expert by Abbey2sam(m): 1:12pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Joshkid: Hw much can i get s4(Used) 35k, 36k, 37k 38k, 39k, and 40k depending on the seller and how clean the phone is btw, i have a note 11 for sell, very good for HD games 40k, it's in perfect condition you can add me on whatsap 08065696008 please only biznez |
Phones › Airtel 1+1 Promo...for Those Not Eligible by Abbey2sam(op): 1:09pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
This thread is for airtel costumers who are not eligible for their on going promo 1+1 comprises of blackberry bundle and android bundle the blackberry bundle is #1500 for 2gig which means you'd be giving 4gig to last for 60 days
the android package is somewhat the same, but it's 2k for 2gig +1 though which means you'd be giving 4gig to last for 60 days too...i guess we all know all this
now the good thing is if your not eligible, you can give their customer care a call, tell them you want to enjoy their ingoing promo , the costumer care representative will send your number to the appropriate department... They will call you almost immediately, but the process may take upto 24 hrs
I'm currently enjoying my 4gig blackberry package, i don't even care if it last just for a month
enjoy... |
Phones › Re: Samsung Galaxy S2, S3, S4, Note 2 & 3 Expert by Abbey2sam(m): 12:51pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
mikky4all: Pls my s3 will always hang whenever am playing real football 2013 on it. Pls what can I do to this becos its frustrating. buy s4 |
Phones › Re: MTN Still Sales Mb At This Price by Abbey2sam(m): 12:41pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
parrotibaba: it's d same thing ...mb= mobile data ,it's our way of not always typing data or mobile data every time how can mb = mobile data mb means megabit, that's 1k kilobites =1 megabites 1k mega bites = 1gig ikgig = 1 terabyte |
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Romance › Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by Abbey2sam(m): 11:30am On Dec 12, 2014 |
ritababe: He asked me if i bought the shirt for him and i told him no, that its a gift from marriage ceremony.
The next thing, he took them and walked to waste basket and dispose them there.
I asked him why he did that, but without saying anything, he quietly walked out on me and closed the door.
I don't understand. Is it a sin to give your boyfriend something they gave you in a ceremony? You kinda domb sha..... inshort you mumu |
Romance › Re: She Can't Sleep With Lights On by Abbey2sam(m): 11:27am On Dec 12, 2014 |
She can have her own room, that's if the husband wouldn't mind |
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Ayefele Marks 17yrs Of Car Crash That Crippled Him, Shares Sad Photos by Abbey2sam(m): 10:50am On Dec 12, 2014 |
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Politics › Re: APC Considers Fashola As Buhari's Running Mate - Channels TV by Abbey2sam(m): 10:46am On Dec 12, 2014 |
[size=38pt]muslim- muslim candidates, A.P.C must really be clueless to consider that in nigeria, if they try that it's a walkover for GEJ[/size] |
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Ayefele Marks 17yrs Of Car Crash That Crippled Him, Shares Sad Photos by Abbey2sam(m): 10:38am On Dec 12, 2014 |
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Celebrities › Re: I Am The Sexiest Man In Nollywood - Benson Okonkwo [pictured] by Abbey2sam(m): 10:02am On Dec 12, 2014 |
waternogetemeny: [size=28pt] Just listen to ur self... Are u sure ur not the homo? That guy is straighter than all ur male ancestors put together.
A pure ladies [size=48pt]and you're? He's cheerleader I guess[/size] |
Celebrities › Re: PHOTOS: 5 Pictures Of D’banj Kissing Female Celebrities by Abbey2sam(m): 9:58am On Dec 12, 2014 |
[size=38pt]we call this peck in France, i don't know about nigeria [/size] |
Celebrities › Re: I Am The Sexiest Man In Nollywood - Benson Okonkwo [pictured] by Abbey2sam(m): 9:38am On Dec 12, 2014 |
[size=68pt]GAYS EVERYWHERE[/size] |
TV/Movies › Re: Actress, Ejiro Okurame Regrets Acting Unclad In Movies by Abbey2sam(m): 9:34am On Dec 12, 2014 |
In badoo's voice...........
[size=58pt]Story For The gods[/size] |
Celebrities › Re: Comparism Between Patience Jonathan And Aisha Buhari by Abbey2sam(m): 9:24am On Dec 12, 2014 |
I will go for Aisha Buhari.....this is a first lady material.....
i can proudly say to my American friends that "this is my first lady" |
Crime › Re: Abuja Maid Strangles 3 Year Old Girl To Death by Abbey2sam(m): 9:24pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
Transfer aggression..........
employers should treat this maids like human being, treat them like your child, sister....treat them like family..
I condemn the actions of this maid, i will never try to justify a tin like this |
Celebrities › Re: Brotherly Love: Ramsey Nouah, Kunle Afolayan, Gideon Okeke Share Selfie. by Abbey2sam(m): 1:42pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
Nice pix |
Family › Re: (Pic) Mother And Son Bathing Together; Motherly Love Or Child Abuse? by Abbey2sam(m): 1:37pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
Nonso23: Do a little mental exercise. What if the case depicted in the picture shows a man bathing with his daughter what will be your verdict? finally someone is making sense.... buh the fact remains that our minds are corrupt, so we Hardly see the fun they are having together as mother and son.... like you said "imagine reverse is the case" |
Crime › Re: Policemen Get 2-yr Jail Term For Losing Rifles To Free Food by Abbey2sam(m): 10:57am On Dec 11, 2014 |
mperoakeem: u nko... We're all family [size=48pt]ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY[/size] |
Celebrities › Re: Wow! Someone Asked Tonto Dikeh's Michael Awolaja To Make A Gold Casket (photo) by Abbey2sam(m): 9:21am On Dec 11, 2014 |
Make boys no just know the cemetery |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo Carpets Jonathan As ‘woman Wrapper’… Controlled By Patience, Dieziani by Abbey2sam(m): 9:18am On Dec 11, 2014 |
He'skinda right though |
Crime › Re: Policemen Get 2-yr Jail Term For Losing Rifles To Free Food by Abbey2sam(m): 9:06am On Dec 11, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: Please, Your Advices Are Needed by Abbey2sam(m): 12:23am On Dec 11, 2014 |
Guy if I give advise eh! !! You go leave the girl
so no advise |
Romance › Re: What Is The Most Ridiculous Thing You Have Overhead Sombody Say? by Abbey2sam(m): 12:17am On Dec 11, 2014 |
ted1741: A police officer stopped a pastor for speeding, the pastor asked him: how did u know I was speeding, the officer told him the man above (an officer in a small aircraft with stop watch/timer that records speeds of moving vehicles). The officer simply said the man above and the pastor said, "oh, if he said so, it must be true that I was speeding because my God does not lie and as a pastor, I believe in Him 100%. The police officer said, no I don't mean God, just officer in the aircraft. The true man of God retorted, u son of a bitch, i never speed and wasn't speeding, now can i go. abeg come interpret this your joke.....cuz I no understand am |