well op, I think most people here start out with a survival job for about 2-4 months before landing their dream jobs. Ofcourse its different experience for different people. My first job wasn't survival job at all, and I got it 6 days after landing. its not all bed of roses though. but overall, its worth all the efforts. I am currently working in the same field I was in Nigeria.

my take on this issue, I relocated abroad some 4 years ago, and I worked in one of the banks in Nigeria prior to my relocation. My last role at the bank in Nigeria was a BM. right now, I also got a bank job here about 6 months after landing, and I have had promotions about 3 times in 2 years here. I am a step away from being a BM here as well. so relocating does not mean you will never get to the level you were in Nigeria. it might take time, but trust me Nigerians are good anywhere.

so when people view people relocating as though they are leaving their good jobs back home to suffer here, that's not true.

if you succeed in Nigeria, you will do better here. if you have the opportunity go for it, if not make the best of Nigeria.

I think Canada Will better for you, There are lot of opportunity here, if you come to the University of Alberta for instance, It was recently ranked as the 4th best university in the World.

Also, Alberta province has oil, and the Calgary region is full of oil industry meaning you can easily fit in.

Thirdly, The prime minister is considering granting extensive stay to student after their studies and the time of studentship can easily be counted toward their PR application.

So make the right choice.

Take care!.

You probably need to pray for her or make i see a pastor soonest.