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Op it is because you no fine

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Senator nkor?
House of reps nkor?

Well laid out points and as a graduate of a Federal university I agree with all your points.

Perspectives:
Thanks man, you see, about your points:

1. I think am being true to myself, I know exactly what I want in a woman, and am being flexible about it, I know I can't mould a human being.

2. Am also being realistic with my expectations , I know there's no perfect woman out there.

3. Am ready to tolerate someone but you know we all have limits.

4. Am also ready to discipline myself to be a better man.

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Now, this is where the issue lies, those things I mentioned above are all about me. The question I would like you to answer are as follows :

1. How am I sure that she's also being true to herself, not expecting me to be perfect and all that.

2. Even if she's all good and everything right now, what's the probability that she won't transform into something else after marriage.

3. If she's not perfect or meet up to my expectations, is it okay to take the risk and tie the know hoping we'll work it out along the line (at least we say no one is perfect).

4. How will I know of she will stay true to me in hard times.

5. Can I be certain that a particular woman will be faithful through her character in this age of pretence. Even if she seems faithful, how will I know if her ex won't come back and try to have way with her even after marriage or even some random guy when am busy.

So many other questions running through my mind but they are all based around the fact that is there a way to know a woman who won't give you problem in your married life because obviously it is no longer about love as it used to be in those days.

Brother take a deep breath

You sound panicked.

Look in this life you can't always have it your way even though it make seem other do. You are striving to have a good marriage and a good mother for your future kids too.


You are worried she would falter, abandon you or worse. You are over thinking this and its understandable.

Confidence helps a lot too that you'd get through rough times and it seems to me that you don't know where to find a good wife from....lessen your standards(beauty, Intelligence etc) that is the beginning of your compromise.


If you do pray then pray to God that you make the right decision

Look man...I ain't married but I believe that being true to yourself, being realistic with your expectations of a spouse, tolerance and discipline can keep a marriage.

If you need me to explain more just mention

Not bad..its actually beautiful.
Hope its actually practical with those doors

But wow those pictures are better than reality

Their entry salary is pathetic .........just like their network. Else the other are actually impressive.

A whole President una no get respect for am.
how e go better for us... they say charity begins at home.

Since I was born

Boss dad be like
That's my son.

Guy your wife fine oo

There is only one reason why it doesn't make sense and it is because

IT DOESNT MAKE ANY DAMN SENSE

Where are the pictures of the plant?


Where are the pictures of the buses'

All in one paragraph.... if not that what you actually wrote made sense I wouldn't have bothered to read.


If you want more people to read...arrange it in paragraphs. My opinion tho and fantastic writeup

won't be surprised if it was due to poor visibility cos of the rain.

Thank God no lives were lost.

The only thing falling is my sanity

Op why you dey lie say more pictures dey your blog? I was really interested in seeing more pictures and you disappointed me.

Is this life?

"he didn't get caught so he ain't cheating by default"
Dafuq is this logic I just saw??

As if men don't also do it....this pissed me off is that why he should announce it online for everyone?

Old school urban planning

justpeehay:
Why would you wanna spend that much on a car?

Hahahaha my own even small sef, BTW a GTR costs $89k

Wooooah....this is true beauty, forget how the back looks. Seems its based on their older models from the 1920's

I would rather buy a Nissan GTR Godzilla for $100,000 approx.

hmmm

Nice one op, and to the mods too for moving this to the FP.

Many people do not realise this but it'd help them.

Come to think of it, the reading culture is dead in this country and expo culture is now in vogue.

Yea like for real....how did you all get in??

Qriousity:
You seem to be suffering from an optical malady. Does this look like a romance section? Don't make me vociferate at this unholy hour.

Qriousity:
You seem to be suffering from an optical malady. Does this look like a romance section? Don't make me vociferate at this unholy hour.

God you just made my day with this comment

Ha this issue needs to be trashed on, what if a lady friend whom you aren't intimate with volunteers to cook for you?

TheWiX:
Lies

What is wrong with you??
ok first let me hear your truth

Welcome to our blessed nation Nigeria, Hahahaha how can we expect to grow and move this nation when we would rather rather employ incompetent relatives or friends who will only bring about resource wastage

Ahswear our mindset in this country is messed up.

And op this is most prevalent in government agencies.

BTW self employment for the win....never give up. Don't lazy about, every breath you take should be towards making yourself better. shikena I have nothing else to say. I'm out....