iammo:




El Rufai is a small boy in politics and if not for buhari tsunami of 2015 he wouldnt have became a governor, Tinubu has being a major force since 93 with the SDPs his contacts extends nigeria, west africa and argueable africa.. he has loyalist in both PDP and APC, even US and UK embassy visits him from time to time

There are two powerful western power brokers who have access to chatam house and western powers and thats Tinubu and Obasanjo, just a phone call from Obasanjo , Atiku was made PDP flagbearer and given visa ban waiver to US, and twice Buhari intentionally made Tinubu the chiarman of his presidential campaign team because he knows tinubu's influence, even Ghanians Presidents first ever visit was to Tinubu after he deployed his machinery to boot out thier former president


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Stop taking Ogogoro. Bear parlour analysis

Scenes at the etihad when Arsenal and Utd go through

Scenes at the etihad when Arsenal and Utd go through

dominique:
Liverpool that has not lost at anfield since 2017 is now losing to a team that struggles with bottom table clubs

I spoke too soon, they're catching up fast
3- 4

You really spoke too soon
Arsenal are bottlers

Ilamina with thy bomb

Seconded

Isinweke:



You must be following your qur'an.
We are talking of science

What do you know about science

Shut up when people are having intellectual conversation

Very cheap

At least specify the kind of food ilamina

I just bought condolin and I'm seeing a thread about it your gf is a right handed girl.

The earth is flat jor. Look at life? It moves forward in an arrow of time. Not in a spinning Globe of time. So not even time supports a Globe.

There is nothing to be scared about. Jumia is trusted

Nyamuri:
God forbid we core northern vote for a nyamuri flat.head for presidency!! Let them keep deceiving themselves, they think we are fools.. ur in for a shocker walahi

Why are you so obsessed with Igbos

Lafiya Kuwa?

Don't even try what you are thinking. You might resign from your work

Note- Arsenal have Zero ucl

Can never be my club

victorian:








I'm not manipulating him. He simply came into my life when. I'm pissed about men. And he knows I'm not those idle young ladies out there, who doesn't have anything doing. He knows I'm not jobless and I think he has asked someone who knows me about me. I'm suspecting his cousin, must have told him things about me.
His cousins likes me, and has always wanted to date me but we didn't date because I had no feelings for him.

Later I realise him and his cousin who's my friend are family.
And also I'm the kind of lady he wants, a plump fair hardworking lady.
His mum lives with him, he has invited me several times to come meet his mum to show how serious he is but I'm the one always turning down the offer and postponing it.
If he has hidden agenda, I will know. I'm spiritual.

I'm just making it hard for him, cos I'm angry at guys and he looks like the kind of guy who gets things easy. I want to know if he will get pissed and leave me alone. Cause that was my initial plan. I'm not ready for any guy to come use sweet raps on me, but he's not letting me go. Hes that persistent and patient. He doesn't take no for an answer.

He said something, he said he's the one that wants me , and his spirit accepts me since he saw my pic on his cousin's profile of friends . And I'm not the one chasing after him, like the way othe ladies do a round him and that's what makes him want me more. And he knows I have been thru hell and back but he still want to make me happy if I can give him the chance.

So I feel he's hell bent cause no lady has told him no before. He gets them easy. While me? I'm in a situation where I dont Care anymore.

You woo me? I will say no! Especially if sex is involved.. If you like stay, if u like go. I honestly don't care. That's my state of mind as I type.

So any guy coming for me must be patient and show consistently he wants me or else i will be indifferent about it.
Due to pressure here and there and his own pressure, I'm thinking about him properly and have decided to give us a chance.


Then you feel he's too weak?

My dear it's only a guy who behaves weak that can win my heart.

Even my pastor don understand that part of me too. Before he used to be all tough and all to members and workers. When he tried it on me, I queitly withdrew from him and became cold. he noticed. He is now all smiles, kind and soft in his approach to me. You treat me soft? I will be soft. You treat me harsh or I don't care? Me sef? Will be I don't care too.

What u throw to me is what u get.
All the hard tough guys trying to woo me, behaving they are every woman's dream , I didn't choose anyone. I simply withdrew after the first date.

I wish you luck. It's seems you are both compatible.

Waiting to see you people invitation on nairaland

miteolu:
His media team doing what they collect salaries for.

How does this your comment correlate with the topic

Some people are born bitter

victorian:








I'm back!
Service was awesome. Happy Sunday.

@ bolded? That's exactly what I need but getting such guy is like a fat man walking through the eye of a needle. Honesty and faithfulness has become herculean traits to see in guys.
Dishonesty, lies, messing up with different shapes and sizes of babes is the order of the day.

Anyways I'm happy and at peace I made my stance clear on this guy, so he won't feel is business as usual with babes he has been dating or dated before.

Been insecure? Yes I am, I won't lie. Especially when it comes to falling in love with a good looking guy who has almost everything going for him. Hopefully I will fall in love one day with him.

One funny thing about him, when he's worked up about my fears and insecurities in saying yes to him, he will then change his phonetics to pidgin language. I will just laugh in my mind and say to myself I don frustrate this guy too much. Lol and he still will not let me be.

The day he said he's travelling to US for one week and will be back. I broke up with him that day before he got on his flight. Immediately he got to US after like a day or so, he called and was trying to convince me to change my mind and I shouldn't see him as a player and unserious. That judging him just like that is wrong. If not that he loves me, he knows how many babes who are waiting to be with him. I screamed go and meet them nah, shuuu! Why waste your time on me? See me see trouble o!

Then he started with pidgin again. Saying its not my fault. That he vows he will be there for me. And I'm too strict Lol.

Anyways it's well jare.

Then Pre-wedding pics?

I don't know about that one o. I'm not a fan of pre-wedding pics.

But we will still take some everyday pics when we get to that bridge

I hope it works perfectly well for us .

Thanks on the best wishes. You are kind

Happy Sunday to you too

Honestly and faithfulness is also a Herculean trait in ladies too.

You're really manipulating this guy. The guy is too week for my liking, are you sure he does not have any hidden agenda to be this patient. I hope it's not true.

So we still have ladies in Naija that does not give a f**k about pre-weeding pics

mamajj17:


My dear not about Hardness, but they are Lazy Ass

For sure. I mean it's hard finding a partner

Legionx:
I got a medium size gen, TV, GOtv and all that... Which is probably why the ladies are showing interest...

How can I forge ahead when all I see is ass, laps and thighs whenever I step out...

When one thinks, he has seen or heard it all, then expect something else from Nairalanders.

mamajj17:


My dear i tell you jare, Men in Europe are mostly USELESS, mostly are into Money, Material things and Sex...Especially when they are into Single Mothers.

Lol.
Life hard everywhere

victorian:








That's Europe

When Nigerian men in Nigeria travel abroad ,their mindset change in most cases and they see life out there in different views.

Well, I have made up my mind on someone here. He's very persistent and patient. He has argued endlessly and passionately why he's the right one for me and he vowed he won't be like the ones, I was unfortunate to have come across with in my past.
So I hope he will keep to his words and not mess up like most Nigerian men living in naija do.

I have zero patience for games and mind tricks being played by men and hes completely aware already.

Anyways nice chat with you.

About to sleep.dear. Tomorrow is church service and My lovely deep wine lace gown is ready, lemme go worship and dance for my God . He deserves it and much more.

OK o, Have a lovely evening ahead. Goodnight.

Not just traveling abroad. Even traveling within Nigeria makes you see life in a different view.

I think what you need is a honest, faithful guy. But if you keep judging guys with your past experience, you are bound to lose the good ones. And you are likely to be very insecure.

Sha, I pray its work out for both of you. Don't forget to send pre-wedding pictures for us

Good morning

victorian:









Nope she made responsible choices of not aborting her kids, when she realised she trusted the men, hook line and sinker.
Her son posted an emotional piece on her birthday recently, saying He's so grateful and thankful to his mum for not aborting him or throwing him away when he was just a foetus and he said she made him the man he is today. She made his life very comfortable and gave him the best in education and took so care of him. He went on and on praying and praising his mom. As in ehn? I felt tears run down my cheeks as I read on.
That's one responsible decision she made,which some men out there are too callous to even think about.
How women think is this: our children will not leave us, if we love and train them well but a man will leave especially when they are so Randy collecting anything on skirts. A woman who marries a Randy man, is not married. She's still single in the real sense of it. Because such man can take a walk at anytime.

Then back to my friend, she also made a wonderful decision of getting to the peak of her career. Still climbing up the ladder of success. I see her becoming a notable figure later in life in the corridors of power in Abuja by God's grace amen.

Her only flaw was believing the lies of men, that's the only flaw I see in her and thank she's wiser now.

Any man coming into her life should be ready to love her kids, like herself.

But the men coming don't want such responsibilities as usual. So forget about what u said on hiding under the guise of not having time for relationship, that's pure bull shiiit!

I know how men in Nigeria are. Thank God I was smart enough not to be knocked up and left with kid or kids. If not? I know how men think and behave.

That's why I don't bother myself on relationships. Even though I'm about to make up my mind to start one due to lots of persistent urgings from neighbours and friends to at least give one guy amongst all the guys coming a chance in my life.
If not? I don lock up since! And I would have thrown the damned key about men and relationships away.

They all know I'm doing well. I'm happy, I'm content, I'm glowing, I'm at peace, I'm rising to greater heights without a man, but all to the glory of God who made it possible for me and also for my friend too.

She's still young, full of life. I call her swagallicious mom! .

Anyways I pray God will keep blessing her in every area of her life in Jesus name Amen.

She's a good woman and a great parent to her kids.

I have come to terms in seeing single mothers everywhere. If only u know how some men sweet talk women to get pregnant for them, painting it like they want to marry the women . You will be shocked to your bone marrow .

Some Men are not saints at all.

You made some points. Tho because of your long write up, I have no choice but to agree with you.

But which one is Nigerian men Go to Europe, I bet you'll prefer this same Nigerian men

victorian:





That's the pure truth and pure reality about Nigerian men.

I have a childhood friend, lady. Yes I agree she made certain mistakes on the kind of guys she fell in love with and ended up having three kids for two men. One in secondary school, the other during university days.
She trusted the wrong men, got pregnant, gave birth to her lovely kids, training them with herself join.

She's one of the kindest souls I have ever met. This my friend is very lovely woman inside out. But no man is ready to marry her and assist her care for her kids.

She's very sexy, very kind ,focused in her career and hardworking. She has great job in one of the federal ministries in Abuja. One will think getting pregnant in secondary school will make her a drop out. But she struggled to continue her education and trained herself to masters level in the university.

God has blessed her so well and she sef didn't seat back and bemoan her fate way back. Most times I think about her and just wonder why are some men ungrateful. Why don't they value good sexy women. Some men not all. It gives room to really wonder.
So don't even start, Nigerian men fear responsibility like plagues. Quite a number of Nigerian men not all sha

It's not just Nigerian men. The challenges and drama of single mothers is what most men can cope with.

And btw your friend have demonstrated in multiple occasions that she is incapable of making responsible choices. And she's likely to hide under the guise of “I don’t have time for a relationship and need to focus on my kids.”
But your friend is damn hardworking and focus.


I hate seeing single mothers. It's a tough one

They are still considering the possibilities

baby124:
Well... the fact that he works with a multinational company does not mean he is rich. People know how to easily estimate other people’s earnings and expenses. I understand you need help from your brother but don’t automatically assume that he is rich. He’s just a salary earner my dear. He probably can not afford to take up all this responsibility and that’s why he did not even start.

It’s your parents duty to take care of you all and your brother is only obligated to chip in when he can. Problems of 5-8 people on one persons head is enough for him to run away. If na you nko? You think he doesn’t have expenses for his own family Don’t blame the wife, blame your parents for not carrying out their responsibility adequately. Wife is trying to make sure her kids don’t experience what you people are experiencing.

Does your brother send money to your parents, if he does then he’s trying. Nothing is stopping you from reaching out to him to say hello and visiting him. Your parents can also talk to him to be closer to the family. I think he has run away because he cannot shoulder all the problems and I don’t blame him. He has a wife and kids to care for. If something happens to him tomorrow, after he has spent all his money on your problems. Will you take care of his children and their problems? Are you financially capable?

Whether the wife cooks or she doesn’t is not your business. Your brother did not complain so why did you go to their house to abuse their privacy with gossip? You see why sometimes people prevent others from coming into their home? The wife cannot estrange her husband from his family if he doesn’t want to be estranged.

Exactly.

victorian:





Lol


She really try

Which man she expect will carry the load of those 4 kids!

She's in the wrong country, if she thinks a naija man will willingly train her kids even with her pussy join.

In big 2019 you're still having this kind of mindset

So yahoo yahoo guys too dey Nairaland
Wonders shall never end.

Abusite sha no dey carry last she knew something was fishy since the time he talked about a federal contract, hostel etc. she was just playing along

Lesson learnt

Nice one from Ganduje

Ilamina:


What are you l,ing for

I mean you Lose

Merit123:
Them pass?

obviously