₦airaland Forum

NoToPile:
Same question I always ask, if the guy leaves her now she will be crying heartbreak up and down.

Honor ke? you are going too far seems honor is out of the equation these days.

Really sad, but what do I know. Many out there always want to form woke.

NoToPile:
Mtchew, I still can't understand why girls these days won't just respect themselves.

Roaming about naked in a boyfriends house.

I tell you. What if they no longer end up married. Where's the honor, where is the self-esteem.

DeJoeee:
My gf just developed this recent habit of going to the kitchen with only her panties and shower cap leaving her breast bare.

Sometimes she will wear my polo(which is long on her cos I'm much taller) with no panties
This is a girl who is naked shy as recent as december last year.

I'm not supposed to suspect her cos she's from a very responsible home and possibly my wife to be but the experience of others have thought me to suspect any new move of the other gender no matter how innocent.

Do I need to worry about this?

Please mods help push to front page for more mature advise . This issue is of big concern to me

And "possibly" your wife to be?. Women this is what you get when you have no value for yourself.

DeJoeee:
My gf just developed this recent habit of going to the kitchen with only her panties and shower cap leaving her breast bare.

Sometimes she will wear my polo(which is long on her cos I'm much taller) with no panties
This is a girl who is naked shy as recent as december last year.

I'm not supposed to suspect her cos she's from a very responsible home and possibly my wife to be but the experience of others have thought me to suspect any new move of the other gender no matter how innocent.

Do I need to worry about this?

Please mods help push to front page for more mature advise . This issue is of big concern to me

What's someone who's not yet your wife doing in your house naked? It amazes me how the definition of being responsible has been butchered over the years...

Bigcoconut:
Hello, guys
I don't want to bore you guys with long epistle. Yes, as the title suggests.

I travelled to Canada through the study route this January but I can tell you for a fact that I'm already bored with this place.

I'm redoing a 2 year program that I have already concluded in Naija but just because I want japa, I redid it. But that's not the issue.

The issue is that I'm working in a company but the department I was posted to was a physical demanding one..

To the extent that if I work for a day, I feel pain all over my body for a week. And this is seriously affecting my education because anytime i go to work, i wouldn't have the energy to do anything again as i would be so weak. but i have to work because i have bills to pay.

Nobody send you for here except you want sleep for cold outside.

Even half of my salary goes in the form of settling bills.

The work makes me depressed. This is not what I bargained for. .

For me to raise money for my tuition fees and travel expenses, at least I wasn't doing bad in Nigeria before i left. In addition, I hardly have time for myself.

My situation is even better, most of people who we came same time haven't found jobs yet.

My thinking is if I should ask for refund of my remaining tuition fee and relocate back Naija, or go back Naija and take some courses online, as there seems to be an option for that.

Why not try and find a better job or do other legal side hustle, if you are allowed. Apply for scholarships, talk to your program coordinator advisor, seek for help in every way possible. I understand your current frustrations, but this too shall pass, by God's grace. Think about why you started in the first place and all you have invested all the way. Once you finish with your degree, you should get a pretty good job, by God's grace, and this will only be history. All the best with your decisions and with your future endeavors.

J

How?

LIVINGICONREBOR:
See these children. Boy wey suppose dey conquer the world at that age, na marriage wey be him priority. Damn!! 🤔

And who says he can't conquer the world while married. Enough of this backward mentality.

When did the likes of MLK get married

Tadadobe:
Exactly you're right. By 30, that's when a woman fully developed and know what she wants right after she must've been piped and heartbroken by about 10 dudes in the hood. By that age she knows someone will come around to carry all her responsibility, at lease now she's enjoyed herself and nothing else to pick out there. She'll reward the innocent man with expired vagina and swollen sex each night that one ask for it.

You're really right. There should be law to arrest men that married women below 30yrs becus that is child abuse

Don't mind her

dazzlingd:
You are absolutely correct.
I’m not a bad belle , but this marriage will not last 10 years

Of course, it will even last for longer with immense blessings and prosperity by God's grace. If they were out there fornicating around, I am sure you wouldn't have found anything wrong with that.

TenQ:
It's obvious you never being to Al-Hikmah University.

Lol, okay.

padi94:
That means you know nothing about your religion even the elites that brought the religion to you most of their children don't wear the Hijab or carry it on their head Like you people. Na Una dey decieve Una self.

It's interesting to know that I know nothing about my faith. Could you please educate me, bro.

The elites aren't an archetype. Islam has its standards. That some people are falling short and still striving doesn't make them the prototype.

TenQ:
No sir!
Even from the gate, you'll be turned back. Have you ever been to Al-Hikmah University in Ilorin?

Na, that's not true. You just have to dress modestly.

TenQ:
Are you saying that it is possible for a lady to go to Al-Hikmah University or Crescent University for the same kind of exam without covering her hair?

Yes or No?

Of course.

TenQ:
I don't know how some people reason!
Muslims and hooliganism!

As a Christian woman, I enrol in Al Hikmah Islamic university as a student and I insist on not covering my head in their school. Is that not witchcraft!?

What are you not getting here. Those kids aren't enrolled in CU, they only went for a national exam, hence your argument here is faulty.

padi94:
You're the one getting it twisted, nobody tells her to change her religion... Don't wear the Hijab inside there finish... If not leave. Same with Muslim Institutions that says grls must wear Hijab to access their facilities.

You are the one not getting it here man. Her hijab is part of her religious identity. Not sure I know of such, I only know that certain Muslim schools make it obligatory for students and not non-muslim visitors.

padi94:
Yes it's a church... It's called Canaan land. CU is just inside. Its a prayer ground and you know how sacrosanct Muslim prayer grounds are. You don't just walk in there dressed anyhow.

If that is the case, then I don't think CU has any business hosting a national exam or better still ask Jamb to only recommend Christian students to their center. Exam centers should be accessible to everyone regardless of their religious beliefs.

SmallDick99:
Which religious freedom?

Are you aware that their are Islamic states in this same nigeria? Ran by sharia laws, with literally no religious freedom to others.

Yesterday hisbah destroyed alcoholic drinks in Kano, I'm almost sure those where owned by Southern Christians living in Kano but I'm sure u won't see any wrong with those acts.

Muslims should be the last people clamoring for any religious freedom any where in the world, cause you guys are bunch of bigoted religious clowns.

Christians are 100 time more tolerable than Muslims and u can't deny that.

Islam is a cancer to the world and should not be permitted in any progressive environment.

Period!!

While I do not support any act of oppression against any faith or tribe. It's quite unfortunate you used the same brush to paint everyone. The issue at hand is of a student being denied her fundamental right to a national exam because of her faith, that's nothing but intolerant. Again, like I said earlier if CU was not willing to welcome all students regardless of their faiths, then they have no business hosting a national exam.

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CharleyBright:
Who is this Fulani terrorist dragging me?
Are u not supposed to avoid looking for trouble when u are fasting?
Anyway, that's when una dey look for trouble past.
Get off my back dumb northern miscreant

That's defamation right there. Of course, I will have your account reported. Sanity must be the order on this platform.

Komu1048:
So what am I to do with this? I said dem dey use am carry expo. We use to see them in exam halls.

a video of how she sat in the exam hall might have debunk that. She might have needed the hijab one way or the other to be overall best.

Indeed your hatred is beyond repair. Expo to become an overall best student? Dey play.

CharleyBright:
O really?
I don't like indians.
I don't like them at helm of global affairs.
Shitty bunch.

And who cares about what your opinion is

Komu1048:
All those girls that love wearing big hijab to exam Centres are olodo who want to pass by all means


During my school days, a lot of olodo girls wear hijab, that thing good for expo, else I don’t c another reason girls wear it.


Oyedepo will rather have the Centre taken from them than allow some olodo terrorist moving around causing nuisance to Gods University

Yes, she's a Muslim
https://muslimnews.com.ng/2019/11/15/another-hijabi-breaks-academic-record-emerges-overall-best-graduating-masters-student-at-ui/

You don't need to sound like a bigot to prove a point, okay.

MiztaDynameek:
It's a very simple thing to analyze but with the way many Nigerians reason based on the comments I see, we have a big problem.

Why force hijab into a place you already know is different from your religion.

Would same be accepted if a Christian goes to a Muslim place with what clearly shows a difference in religious beliefs. You want your child to attend a Christian school with hijab but you will never allow a Christian attend a Muslim school without hijab.

Go and see what is happening in Iran and Afghanistan

Obviously you are missing the point here. She isn't enrolled in CU, she only needed to write a national exam. If CU was not ready to be inclusive, why apply to host JAMB exam?

onegig:
Let me ask.

If a Polling unit for election was situated inside the premises of Covenant University, are you stating Muslim females would be denied the right to vote if their polling units were situated in this location? And that would be based on what criteria?

Jamb is a national examination, if you won't abide by the constitution of the country that grants every single citizen the right to religion then don't apply to be a center for such tests. It wasn't forced on them. Covenant applied to be a center. Also the candidates didn't select CU as exam centers, Jamb automatically picks centers for them based on their location.

We can apply logic without sounding like a bigot

I am not sure these people are ready to be logical.

padi94:
I no dey think straight, if them fix that exam inside mosque, we know that no woman wil enter there without Hijab.

Ordinary nairaland here them dey tell us to swear say we believe in allah before we enter thread to comment.

You mean that the exam center was a church?

oloyedewaris:
This is a place for national exam, not church exam


Its not their fault jamb gave that center

I don't know why they find it difficult to comprehend that..

Pierocash:
This religion of trouble have taken their madness to covenant University. They always disobey constituted authorities using religious clog as a means.

If a Christian dares wears anything like rosary, cross, or any attire depicting Christianity to access a Muslim environment,this children of hate and perdition will call it blasphemy,and murder the innocent Christian.

But see them ,always taking their foolishness to other religious environment and lord it over everyone.

Your level of hatred is indeed beyond comprehension. When does an exam center becomes a religious space. It would have been understandable if she was enrolled at CU, but she simply went to write JAMB. If CU is not ready to respect other people's faith, why host JAMB?

leroi01:
If you must attend an event In al hikma (Islamic uni) and the rule is to wear a hijab. Wear one or don't
Attend. (That's the choice . Those are the rights you have. )

Same applies to covenant (Christian uni). Obey the rules of engagement or don't attend.

Is it so difficult to understand?

There's no rule that oblige non-students at Al-Hikmah University to use hijab. She isn't a student at covenant University, she simply went to write JAMB. If covenant is not comfortable to respect other people's faith and regalia, then they better not host JAMB. It's as simple as that.

SAMUEL1947:
Hijab not allowed in exam hall, humbly removed it. Teach them the way of God not to disrespect elders. Be obedient

Do I need to remind that Nigerians have freedom of religion and beliefs.

Preventing her from writing exam is not only ridiculous but hateful. If covenant university isn't willing to open her doors to everyone regardless of their faiths. They better not host jamb exams.

Sometimes you will wonder what the whole religious freedom and inclusiveness is all about when some people still decide to chastise others because of their religious garment.

Jazakallahu khairan