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Romance › Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by abidem4real: 9:58pm On Aug 12, 2025
irumole1975:
Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.

Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.

Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.

Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego
You say wetin?! Only a stupid man forgives a cheating wife. Cheating is an habit and there's no way it's stopping besides, no real man would ever trust a cheating wife again. In marriage, when trust is gone, everything becomes worthless. It's easier for a wife to forgive her cheating husband because man is a provider for his home and of course he has the tendency and authority to marry more than one wife and as a result, it would be understandable for the affected wife.
Crime › Re: NDLEA Officials Wait For Service To End Before Arresting "Prophet" by abidem4real: 6:57am On Aug 11, 2025
Politics › Re: Tinubu’s 2-Year Record Has Surpassed PDP’s Performance Under Obasanjo — Bwala by abidem4real: 7:12pm On Aug 08, 2025
Romance › Re: Lady Calls Out Boyfriend For Sending An Ai-generated Message For ” GF Day by abidem4real: 4:51am On Aug 08, 2025
DyshApp:
A Nigerian lady is getting attention online after posting the message her boyfriend sent her for Girlfriend’s Day and revealing that AI wrote it.

In the video, she used the popular sound saying “Let’s hear it from the man of the year” while showing off the long romantic text.

But the twist came when she revealed the first part of the text, which reads: “Sure! Here’s a warm, sincere message you can send to your girlfriend for National Girlfriends Day”
Women and their entitlement Sha! Even if the message was copied, the fact is that the message represents the lady's personality before the guy and how the guy feels about the lady. Let the gender in skirts always try to be grateful to the ones in trousers
Sports › Re: Osimhen Joins Galatasaray For Turkish Transfer Record Of €75 Million by abidem4real: 8:11am On Aug 01, 2025
SlavaUkraini:
I would have preferred it, if this guy had moved to the Premier League...

Turkish League seems like a step backwards...

That's the retirement ground for Ace Players
I think those stupid English clubs couldn't see the prowess Oshimen gets
Romance › Re: I Cheat On Her Every Time I Step Out; Maybe It’s Karma From Her Past: Man Says by abidem4real: 4:28am On Jul 30, 2025
Chilipepper:
I cheat on her every time I step out — maybe it’s karma from her past”: Man opens up about toxic relationship pattern, says he hopes she leaves him because “she deserves better”
It's no big deal. Cheating is masculine stuff and it's natural. A well-to-do man is potentially polygamous even if he decides not to cheat, cheating would look for him. Let's just stop making a mountain out of a molehill.
Crime › Re: Police Beat Activist, Comrade Okhani In Edo (Graphic Photos) by abidem4real: 4:40pm On Jul 27, 2025
[quote author=nlfpmod post=136246684]Disturbing Video Source:
wonder Nigerian police men are termed criminals in the comity of sane nations. They are just an emblem of the government of the country
Travel › Re: FRSC Operatives Accused Of Mounting Road Block To Harass Worshippers In Kubwa by abidem4real: 4:34pm On Jul 27, 2025
ogugwa1992:
FRSC OPERATIVES MOUNT ROAD BLOCK TO HARASS WORSHIPPERS ON SUNDAYS IN KUBWA, DUTSE AXIS OF ABUJA



https://leaders.ng/2025/07/27/frsc-operatives-mount-road-block-to-harass-worshippers-on-sundays-in-kubwa-dutse-axis-of-abuja/
This is a government agency acting in accordance with the law. Some people are just delusional about religious stuff, acting as if they know God more than Himself whereas God Himself doesn't know them.
Churches and Mosques are quite outnumbered in the country yet they are filled with absolutely devilish people who are terrorising the peace and well being of the people particularly on the alter of politics, secret cults and the host of others.
The good the FRSC is doing to the populace is far better than what is obtainable in your so called worship places.
Romance › Re: Man Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Bride Was Sleeping With Rev Father. by abidem4real: 5:57am On Jul 27, 2025
EmekaA125:
A business man, Mr Chibuike Nwandu has cancelled his wedding slated to hold on August 2nd, 2025 after a shocking revelation which dealt a big blow to him. He discovered that his wife to be, Miss Chidimma from Ukpor, Nnewi South LGA of Anambra State has been having affair with a Catholic Priest even after introduction. He called off the wedding and equally cut ties with the lady.
Sometimes I wonder the rationale behind the creation of women. They came into this world and made it a hell to live in. They are all just the same. She who claims to be different has just not been caught in the act.
Sports › Re: WAFCON Victory: President Tinubu Holds Video Call Session With Super Falcons by abidem4real: 5:07am On Jul 27, 2025
Infoguy666:
https://news360ng.com/wafcon-victory-tinubu-phones-super-falcons-video/
Congratulations to the Queens. More big wins in the future 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo's Daughter, Priscilla And Juma Jux Expecting First Child by abidem4real: 9:26am On Jul 25, 2025
voiceoftheupcom:
It’s
https://eyesoflagos.com/iyabo-ojos-daughter-priscilla-ojo-and-juma-jux-expecting-first-child/
That means the crop has been planted before the showcasing of the union, taking a proper look at the level of the pregnancy. All the same, congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
Family › Re: Man Conducts DNA Test After 15 Years,finds Out He’s Not Father Of His 5 Children by abidem4real: 6:12pm On Jul 24, 2025
thorpido:
5 children? The man must be dumb! Even without a DNA test you should be able to tell if one or two are not your children.
Hmm! It's easier said particularly when you have never been swindled by the cunningness of the bitches called women. He who wears the sandal understands how it pinches.
Nairaland General › Re: Five Things I'll Never Do In My Entire Life: by abidem4real: 8:55am On Jul 24, 2025
Rrchrd:
I know the country isn't for the fainted heart but...
1) I'll never kill
2) I'll never date a married woman
3) I'll never steal
4) I'll never smoke
5) I'll never bow for any god.
Take it or leave it, 2&3 are inevitable for real men!
Politics › Re: Tinubu: Nigerians Happier, Faring Better Than During PDP Era – APC Chieftain by abidem4real: 1:00pm On Jul 18, 2025
Maxymilliano:
https://dailypost.ng/2025/07/17/tinubu-nigerians-happier-faring-better-than-during-pdp-era-apc-chieftain/
Where are Amadioha, Ogun and Sanponna? They have a duty to perform on this speaker ASAP
Politics › Re: Your Father Was The Best! Nigerians Pray For Umar Musa Yar'adua's Son As He Weds by abidem4real: 10:54am On Jul 17, 2025
Chilipepper:
"Your father was the best president" Nigerians shower prayers on son of late former President Umar Musa Yar’adua as he weds.
Truly, the man was the best. I give it to him 💯

The only truthfully president Nigeria ever had
Politics › Re: LG Crisis: Adeleke Wept For 15 Minutes In Our Meeting — Osun Commissioner by abidem4real: 8:06am On Jul 17, 2025
press9jatv:
https://thenationonlineng.net/lg-crisis-adeleke-wept-for-15-minutes-in-our-meeting-osun-commissioner/amp/
Crocodile tears! Why is he crying over a self-made problem and of course the problem whose solution lies in his hands? This is stupidity of the highest order I suppose.
The issue is as simple as following the rule of law nah
Politics › Re: Marketers Protest As Dangote Moves To Crash Cooking Gas Price by abidem4real: 7:46am On Jul 16, 2025
adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/Marketers-protest-as-Dangote-moves-to-crash-cooking-gas-price
Hmmm! Clearly, Nigerians are enemies of Nigeria. They are so greedy and shameless. Someone is trying to make life easier and here some fools called marketers are spitting nonsense about monopoly. If monopoly is all about bringing prices of things down to the bearest minimum, then it's the best way to go.
May Dangote have the real zeal to do this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Politics › Re: Reps Move To Strip President Of Power To Appoint INEC Chair by abidem4real: 6:39am On Jul 13, 2025
adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/Reps-move-to-strip-president-of-power-to-appoint-INEC-chair
This definitely cannot happen particularly in a situation where we are having the current spate of defection from the opposition to the ruling party. When the ruling party has already had the overwhelming majority, every political permutation falls within its domain and therefore, the bill in question is dead on arrival
Crime › Re: Man Reunites With His Mother After Spending 26 Years In Prison On Death Row by abidem4real: 10:08pm On Jul 11, 2025
bobonla:
How can u jail a mechanic for repairing a gen. Omo no justice in this country ajeh.
Meanwhile i like my girl built like this
If you like your girl built like this, then you have to work very hard so as to acquire a ride like the one she's standing in its front
Politics › Re: Shettima Is Right, Tinubu Has No Power To Remove Fubara – ADC by abidem4real: 9:47pm On Jul 11, 2025
Bobloco:
.....replies Presidency



https://dailypost.ng/2025/07/11/shettima-is-right-tinubu-has-no-power-to-remove-fubara-adc-replies-presidency/
Honestly, Nigerian political class is just a bunch of morons. Why is it that they have to capitalize on Shettima's statement to confirm Tinubu's abuse of power as unconstitutional? Does Fubara not have a sound lawyer to prove his case beyond reasonable doubt if truly his removal is unconstitutional? Why has NBA not taken reasonable legal steps to restore legal sanity in Rivers if truly Tinubu's action is unconstitutional? If the aforementioned things have been done and yet the competent court says Mr President does it right, then how do we crucify Tinubu for what he did? Shettima is just saying that for political reasons and of course because he has fallen out of love with Tinubu.
All hands must be on deck if truly we all want this country to work because all these Nigerian politicians are just political players at the detriment of the masses.
Family › Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by abidem4real: 7:57am On Jul 11, 2025
eyesoflagos:
Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity of His Kids



https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/07/11/man-devastated-after-discovering-wifes-affair-with-pastor-questions-paternity-of-his-kids/
The word "pastor" is a scam and an illusion of grandeur. The word is deadlier than the devil himself and I hate it with passion. Believe it at your own peril🧏🏽‍♀️🧏🏽‍♀️🧏🏽‍♀️🧏🏽‍♀️
Politics › Re: FG Secures $747 Million Loan For Lagos-Calabar highway by abidem4real: 6:53am On Jul 10, 2025
adenigga:
Source: https://vanguardngr.com/FG-secures-$747m-loan-for-Lagos-Calabar-highway
Haaaaaa! That huge amount of money on currently needless road! Nigeria has been finally mortgaged!🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆
Foreign Affairs › Re: "Where Did You Learn To Speak So Beautifully?" - Trump Hails Boakai's English by abidem4real: 9:41pm On Jul 09, 2025
fergie001:
US President Donald John Trump & President Joseph Nyumah Boakai of Liberia



President Boakai is one of five African leaders invited by Trump to discuss security, economy and trade.
That Trump's statement is stylishly rude and derogatory. Why is he surprised that someone could be soundly educated in Africa and in particular Liberia? Trump is proud and I can see his downfall nearer than expected
Foreign Affairs › Re: "Where Did You Learn To Speak So Beautifully?" - Trump Hails Boakai's English by abidem4real: 9:35pm On Jul 09, 2025
Ironfaceman:
Is the president going to be there. Scared they might reopen his Chicago cartel case.

Come to think of it tinubu has been avoiding America even his son..
Tinubu was not invited, so he couldn't have been there. Chicago or no Chicago, he is your president whether you like it or not for there is no man without sin. Is your Almighty Trump clean? If not that Trump's criminal case was carpeted by the US legal system, he should be in jail now.
Meanwhile, there is no single holy politician in Nigeria left. If you want to hate, do with some sense
Christianity Etc › Re: What Is The Fate Of Our Ancestors Who Did Not Hear The Word Of God by abidem4real: 10:44am On Jul 06, 2025
tctrills:
For no fault of theirs, our ancestors did not hear about Christ or Christianity would they be punished for that or would they be given a second chance?

It is written
Timothy 2.3-4
For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour;

4 Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.

Also
Romans 10:14
How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?

No one preached to our ancestors so is it the will of God that they also be saved and come to a knowledge of Him?
What I see here is religious illusion and bamboozlement which has enslaved humanity from the time immemorial

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