All thks to president Buhari. He caused this. If he had closed d borders/airport earlier. This would hv been avoided.

What do politicians take us for sef?

beamtopola:

Ha, oga now now you don dey prescribe. You dont even mention nitrofurantoin na ciprotab

I had same issue. I used ciprotab and it cured me

This is very ridiculous

@oP,I did all these when I had my children except taking alcohol. Pple still doubt I hv had 3 kids. It causes no harm to you. Best of luck

@all,my post is a true life story & not cooked up. I will answer ur questions: the man is in his early 50s and he's not wealthy at all. After our marriage somebody told me he's been married wt kids but when I asked him he vehemently denied. I told my pastor and right there in d church, he denied and sworn it was not true and I was advised to believe him. He's 1st son is 25. Abt his wives & children not asking of him, dat was d 1st question I asked d woman and her children. She told me his family did not tell her where we lived.I hv never met d 2nd but I met d 3rd when ds man had a police case in 2008. When I got to d station and told d police I was d wife they told me a woman had come who claimed to be his wife too but I showed them my wedding ring and they allowed me to see him. I challenged him but he denied d woman. But I noticed that throughtout d period, d woman was always @ d station. We never talked but she's older than me. After d police case, I reported to my parent & pastor, they invited his family, held a meeting and thet all denied.but he has had 2 other police cases which this same woman also showed up.
My problem is why shd he take my son of all d children. My son is 11years. He's 2nd son is in Lagos as a conductor. He did not train any of his children. Even while we were together, I was footing my children's bills. I hv even gone to Bond fm to seek for advise on a radio programme. With that programme, I was able to get the schl he enrolled my son but when I got to the schl, they told me d father has warned them never to allow me see d boy. But they confirmed the boy was there. Allattempts I hv made has proved abortive.

I have a job.

@clemz85,how wld I know what he has been doing to them? Dat wld hv been my 1st question if I had been told about his past. I even told him about the guy I wanted to marry who got someone pregnant and I quit d relationship and after then I met him. I myself went thru hell with him but I was just persevering because of my kids.

I got married to my husband in 2001. He never ever told me he has had failed marriages (neither did his family told me and we wedded legally) but there was a time an incident happened and i got to know one of his former wives but he denied there was any relationship with this woman. So i let it go. But last year 2012, a friend invited me to a party where coincidentally i meant his 1st wife who told me what i had never heard before about a man i had lived with for 12 years. I got my evidences by investigating privately and meeting the 4 children the woman had for him. They were his photocopy just like my own children. It was this woman who told me there were other 2 women + me = 4 wives. She had 4 childred, 2nd had 3 children, 3rd had 2 children while i already hv 3= 12 children. My world almost collapsed. the 3rd was the one i had met before which he denied.

I could not bear the pain & deceit. So i moved out of the house. But he came to where i moved to when i was not around and took my 1st son since February this year and to date I have not set my eyes on my boy. It is pertinent to note that he had once denied being the father of this boy. Now am bearing the pains this man has caused me.

What do i do now? I dont know where he lives and he has changed all the tel lines he uses.

I have met his family members they confirmed what they thought would be a forever secret and promised to get my son for me but up to the time am writing this nothing has been done by them. i have wasted lots of money visiting and calling them all to no avail.

Can anyone in the house help me pls.

I got married to my husband in 2001. He never ever told me he has had failed marriages (neither did his family told me and we wedded legally) but there was a time an incident happened and i got to know one of his former wives but he denied there was any relationship with this woman. So i let it go. But last year 2012, a friend invited me to a party where coincidentally i meant his 1st wife who told me what i had never heard before about a man i had lived with for 12 years. I got my evidences by investigating privately and meeting the 4 children the woman had for him. They were his photocopy just like my own children. It was this woman who told me there were other 2 women + me = 4 wives. She had 4 childred, 2nd had 3 children, 3rd had 2 children while i already hv 3= 12 children. My world almost collapsed. the 3rd was the one i had met before which he denied.

I could not bear the pain & deceit. So i moved out of the house. But he came to where i moved to when i was not around and took my 1st son since February this year and to date I have not set my eyes on my boy. It is pertinent to note that he had once denied being the father of this boy. Now am bearing the pains this man has caused me.

What do i do now? I dont know where he lives and he has changed all the tel lines he uses.

I have met his family members they confirmed what they thought would be a forever secret and promised to get my son for me but up to the time am writing this nothing has been done by them. i have wasted lots of money visiting and calling them all to no avail.

Can anyone in the house help me pls.

Outright wickedness! This woman must be insane to have beaten her own blood in this terrific manner. What if the boy is not hers? How soon some women forgets the pains of 9 whole months and the day they were btw life and death, day of delivery! um i really feel for this boy.

This is quite worrisome.

Sad beginning of GEJ's new term. May God help us.

This is quite worrisome.

Sad beginning of a GEJ's new term. May God help us.

So sorry for Toni. Parent interference in marriage could be very frustrating whether from the man or woman's family.
How could they have thrown her out with the child? That's wickedness. If they never wanted her, where were they when they got married? That child will never be happy with Nice's mother when he's told this story in future. Moreso, lots of men are ingrate, love them with your whole heart when they are nobody, they throw you out or frustrate you when they finally become somebody!

Great Actor. May your soul rest in peace.

postinor does not work for everybody. it did not work for me the 1st time i took it. I got pregnant even when i took it 1hr after. I missed my period for that month and had to go for D&C

I have a 2 1/2 yr old boy with one sided swollen testicule. I tried checking on the net and got to know that it is called hydrocele. I have taken in to the hospital and has been scheduled for surgery. Is there no medication for this ailment and how safe is surgery for such a small boy.

counting on your advise.

So which is the highest paid bank?

I was on my way home when a woman driving an old Peugeot 505 in front of me brushed a young girl driving a very clean Honda Accord. This young girl got out of the car and started insulting the woman, who was old enough to at least be her mother or Aunt. All efforts by passers-by to pacify her proved abortive as she said the car was bought by her boyfriend,  I just watched and sympathized with the woman. She told the girl she'd fix the car but it was already evening, getting late and she had no money on her unless the girl followed her home if her hubby could
help. The girl kept screaming as people tried to beg on behalf of the woman.The girl blatantly refused and decided to call her boyfriend saying: Baby, a stupid woman just hit my car". The car you bought me. The man appeared
in no minute ready to please his girlfriend by raining insult on the woman. On getting there, he started shouting, "Where is the stupid woman that hit your car", only to realize that the woman was his wife.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO

1. Inability to provide for the family
2. Not appreciating the efforts, labours and provisions made by the wife
3. Not minding the little things that matter in the woman's life
4. No consultation with wife before final decision makings are done
5. Not caring about the spiritual well being of the wife and family
6. No time for communication
7. Too much demand for sex
8. Not trusting the wife on opposite sex relationship
9. Not trusting the wife on money related matters
10. Care for his family morethan the wife and children etc

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1. Laziness
2. Backbitting and gossip
3. Lack of care for the extended family
4. Disorderliness and dirtiness
5. Late preparation of meals
6. Pride etc

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