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Stupedinluv:
Op say something we dont know already

African woman. ..
You too like bush things

zone20:
Former President Goodluck Jonathan on Wednesday met with Mr. Andrew Forrest, founder of The Walk Free Foundation, the world's preeminent anti Modern slavery body, in New Jersey. Mr. Forrest is an Australian billionaire and mining tycoon, and has pledged to give half his fortune to charity.

http://www.musbizubeat.com/2016/04/photos-goodluck-jonathan-meets-australian-billionaire-andrew-forrest/

The meeting is Goodluck's Foundation liaising with Forrest's to fight slavery and spread liberty across the world especially in Africa.

We don't just enjoy the pictures only, we love the story also.

#You_Welcomed

Toks2008:
In many families especially those of African descend,parents tend to believe that they have absolute monopoly over their children and you will see them express such autocratic disposition with words like "I am your mother,I am your father,we are your parents and we know what is good for you""

Yes i agree that most times if not all the time,they tend to believe they have our interest at heart but the unfortunate fact is that in most cases,they are only forcing down our throat what they belove is actually good from their self centered perspective.

The most bizarre twist to this is when they cross the line by wanting to dictate the tide of our emotions and will always want to lay down a module for our heart to follow thereby practically complicating the lives of their children with their autocratic,self centered and archaic mindset.

Here are 6 ways many parents complicate the marital future of their own children.

1.They tell us not to marry from a particular tribe::Like seriously! What has tribe got to do with matters of the heart? What if all the people i meet from my tribe are not what i want?i guess i must marry one of them just to boost my parents ego...Nah!

2.They want us to marry from a particular religion::This will make sense to some religion fanatics but i guess if my dad obeyed his parent i will not be in existence today. Religion as important as it is must never create a divide when it comes to matters of the heart and in-fact my growing up was fun as my dad calls me Lukman(My Muslim name) and i will gladly answer while my mum calls me by my regular name.Each of my siblings were christened the Muslim way in the morning and the Christian way in the afternoon During Christmas we enjoyed the chicken and during Muslim festivals we enjoyed the ram .

In-fact my dad loved my mum deeply till he passed on at 73 so in my own world i see nothing wrong in the wife and husband practicing different religion as long as there is religion tolerance..

3.They use their children as battle pawns::This one is indeed a very crazy one.Have you seen a situation where a parent realizes their son or daughter is in love with another person from a family they have discord with?

Please if you want to continue your fight just leave your children out of the issue,you have your life to live and your children hav theirs..please live and lets live.

4.They tell us not to marry from a poor background::This is the most pathetic of all and this usually happens among the rich and the poor. The rich parents believe every other person from a humble background is out to milk them dry so they tell their children to look for a fellow rich partner from a rich home and even when this becomes a Herculean task,they will resort to arrangee wedding thereby destroying the matrimonial lives of their children as the marriage usually breaks down even before it starts.

For the hopelessly poor parents,they will tell their children especially the females to shine their eyes and not bring home a poor guy thereby forcing their daughters to sell themselves to highest bidders who will see them as nothing more than a bought object and discard them when they are done with them. That is why many struggling guys shy away from visiting some parents of their partners because by the time they drill you and they find out you are still a hustler,your case is a sorry case .

5.They tell us that our stars do not match ::Chai! this one is beyond me. You will see a situation where some parents will take the name of any man or lady that comes into the life of their children straight to one baba,pastor or alfa to check if your stars match(Whatever that means) and most times these spiritualists will just tell them trash and they will come back to their child to say "Ehm,you see we went somewhere and they said.." Taarh! Rubbish and nonsense. Are they GOD?

6.They make insane demands from the suitors of their daughters ::This is seen in some tribes in Nigeria where they will give you funny list with items amounting to hundreds of thousands and even over a million not minding how you get the money and this has turned many ladies from such tribe to be objects used and dumped by guys who are not ready to go through that greedy and extortive process not because they don't love the lady but they just can't afford it.

Many children have eloped for life and some committed suicide out of frustration and many have killed one of their parent just to have their way so i will advice parents to respect their children's decisions and let them make their choices.Yes give them advice as parents but let them make their choice.

Hope this make sense.

wtf are you saying man?

totaldiva:
@donbenedict, u no get wok u dey do? I observe say u dey comment on every post here on nairaland. Go get busy!

How you take know if you get work.?

Mskrisx:
Sin city? O town? Sorry....
Never heard of such places talk more of visiting.

Okay.

Mskrisx:
Hahaaaaa Abi?

yap Wish I'll be the lucky one and btw You happened to ever visited sin city? O town

nurez305:
President Buhari's meeting with Chinese officials has brought so many benefits to Nigeria, and some of the agreements signed include: 1. 长，水利部苏莱曼阿达姆部长和国防部长丹阿里， 长，水利部苏莱曼阿达姆部长和国防部长丹阿里， 长，水利部苏莱曼阿达姆部长和国防部长丹阿里 2.，长，水利部苏莱曼阿达姆部长和国防部长丹阿 里， 他来到中国人民共和国长 3.，水利部苏莱曼阿达姆部长和国防部长丹阿里， 他来到中国人民共和国进行国事访问行国事访问长， 水长长，水利部苏莱曼阿达姆部长和国防部长丹阿 里， 他来到中国人民共和国进行国事访问水利部苏莱曼阿 达姆部长和国防部长丹阿里， 他来到中国 4.人民共和国进行国事访问部苏莱曼阿达姆部长和国 防部长丹阿里， 他来到中国人民共和国进行国事访问长 And additionally，水利部苏莱曼阿达姆部长和国防 部长丹阿里， 他Lagos来到中国人民Calabar共和国进行国事访问 他 Its a very positive development, especially that number 4.

Incase you don't understand chinko, here's an interpretation of what he wrote

Mskrisx:
Dear lord,u know how much this lady called Mskrisx loves good things.

Bless this their may marriage with joy undiluted..

When it gets to my turn same you that holds the universe together will hold mine and make it sweeter.

Above all, bless my destiny and my hustles that will never lack what it takes to add colour and beauty to a home.


Congrats Ali Baba may your joy know no bounds cheers!

You are ready

DonMaxxy:
You Okoroawusa sent your son Ahamefula Brendan Rochas to study at University of Manchester in UK.

You Okoroawusa messed up IMSU with a frivolous and fradulent free education in which you extort non-Imolites to augment the salaries of IMSU lecturers thereby robing peter to pay paul.

You Okoroawusa use IMSU at your will to confer useless honorary doctorates on your pals and hausa brothers.

You Okoroawusa announced plans for four new universities in Imo state some time in the past. One of them is the one you called "Loyola Jesuit University" a Jesuit private university which you said will have a campus in Ngor Okpala. Imolites are yet to see these universities.

The same you Okoroawusa donated land worth #100mill to Orlu catholic diocese for their proposed Trinitas University at Awommamma.

The same you, Okoroawusa auctioned out govt edifices like the Imo concorde hotel to some investors, your family members.

Now, this same you Okoroawusa deceided to open your own private university in your home town Ogboko, with Imo state money.

Meanwhile, the roof at arrival hall at Sam Mbakwe Imo airport is leaking. I dunno whether it has been fixed.

Okoroawusa, you only decieve those who dont know you. I know you very well. We have met before at your Rochas Foundation College close to Ray field in Jos, this was before you were even elected as Imo governor.

Thank your God I aint Imolite. I would have ambushed you one day and smash ur ugly rotundious face and nothing will happen. Some angry youths for deal with you at Mbaise some time ago. if not that the elders pleaded with them.

I trust the devil, he will handle you when the time comes.He will hang you with that towel you always hang round your neck for hyperdeception of poor Imolites who voted for you.


I dont care if any Ideato is annoyed and comes here to spew shit. Take it or leave it; una son just dey fp .

You missed a part
Imsu is on strike because of No salary since Jan both academic and non academic staff
And differently He introduced tuition fees worth "180,000".
#Verified

400billionman:
My dear i tire. A lady came to my house and spent 4 weeks, she refused cooking or shopping for the house, even when i offered her money. But she eats the one i cook, claiming we aint married. Did little or no house cleaning.

She kept claiming visitor for 4 good weeks and mind you she didnt offer sex.

What kind of mentality is that ? She put pressure on my cooking, shopping and doubled my chores while offering nothing in return.

Men dey endure things.

fool

sorry

93damsel:
1. Living in the same room or sleeping on the same bed with a man who is not married to you (it is abomination)

3. Wearing the engagement ring of a man u don't knw his family (you are wasting your time and blocking Goes blessing)

4. Cooking food regularly and washing clothes for your boyfriend (slavery attitude)

5. Disobeying your parents for d sake of a man you are dating (it is stupidity)

6. Giving sex to a man simply because he promised to marry you (haba! Na u be d oldest woman on earth)

7. Sending your unclad pix to ur boyfriend (shame on u that is wot he will tell you whenever u tell him is over)

8. Why will your boyfriend beat u and u saying I can't do without him (hmmm you need deliverance)
Don't be too desperate in the matter of relationship as some people will be desperate to read the next number not noticing that no 2 is missing. All things will come to place at Gods appropriate time.

Get a man "bia" to the fvcking "tch"

enlightenedmind:
Firstly, there is no evidence Buhari ever collected that money from them. He was warned sternly not to take loans from the EU or US.
Secondly UK aid is OUR MONEY. UK can never aid Nigeria because to put it simply all it has is ours. Our exploited wealth. We know this so they should please come up with another deception because this "aid" one has ran its course.

Are you OK?
.
Nobody have the rights to stop him from accessing loans if the needs are credible.

Secondly, it is Aid not loan.
.
And finally, UK aid not yours foool, they can withdraw that anytime and you said you was exploited?
Well sorry for your Ignorance, it's your problem not theirs.

onila:
not many of them hate it but there are some few good guys here like corey n james. it shows they have good upbringing, classy, respectful and raised in a Christian home. every decent guy shld hate BJ's, anal. and only like missionary

I don't like bj because I don't like loosing control and anal is gross, I hate it.
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Marry Me.

efilefun:
Some e-goats who were given birth to just yesterday would also come on here to spew dust, Those with good memory would surely remember this!!!

*How PDP ruined Nigeria.
1. PDP met a bag of rice at less than N2500 in 1999 but left it at N11,000 in 2015 when they left power.
2. PDP met the Dollar at N60 when they came in 1999 but left it at N220 in 2015 when they were leaving.
3. PDP met petrol pump price at N11 when they came in 1999 but left it at N87 when they were leaving in 2015.
4. PDP met a bag of cement at less than N400 but left it at N2000 while they were leaving in 2015.
5. PDP met a tin of milk at N15 in 1999 but left it at N130 when they left in 2015.
6. PDP met only OPC in 1999 but left us with Niger Delta militancy, MASSOB, IPOB, BAKASSI, and Boko Haram as at when they left in 2015.
7. PDP was ushered in with a free and fair election in 1999 by the military but dey left us with b-box snatching, rice sharing for campaigns, & political killing.
8. Life expectancy for Nigeria was 65 years when PDP came in 1999 but PDP left it at 42 years in 2015.
Correct Me If I'm Wrong

I just have one question,
WHO IS PDP?

engrrichie92:
I've not had sex since the beginning of this year
My new gf's a virgin and won't let me
I Dont patronise hawkers and I really wouldnt want to cheat on her
I'm so hornyyy that it affects my productivity @ work...
I'm not sure I can wait till wedding night which is what she's proposing...which is not even anytime soon
what makes matters worse is that she allows the kissing and the smooching and when it seems like she's on the same cloud with you and you both are ready for action..she just turns off and that's the end
any complete and sexually active man can imagine how frustrated that can be!
I love this girl and I love sex too
please help!!!!
Matured responses,keep sermon for religious section please

I don't know for you oo
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but for me, I'm throwing her ass out early in the morning like waste from yesternight.

Tufiakwa, for this kind condition wey naija dey so

tushgirl:
Pls I just need to share this and seek you guys opinions.
I have been friends with this guy(mutual friend)for a very long time.He helps me with a lot and I tell him all my secret,we are very close cause he is like a big bro to me.
Recently,he started having problems in his relationship and broke up with his girlfriend.
He then told me"he loved me" and ask me out,that he wanted to tell me since but he has been to shy to admit.
I didn't give him a specific answer that day,i told him to give me time but I won't lie...immediately he said those words every feeling of friendship likeness I had for him disappeared,he irritates me now.

Yesterday I called him and told him my mind saying I wasn't interested but this guy broke down in tears begging me to reconsider him.

I'm confused

Advice pls

Cc farano rocktation lalasticlala

You know what you want to do,
Even if you agree, it wouldn't be a relationship because you may not be happy.
Move on, but just know that what goes around comes around.
It may be your turn tomorrow.

oya for turning him down

Mann Up, if you interested in her, tell her or just stop already. . Iyam tired of this.

Mann Up, if you interested in her, tell her or just stop already. . Iyam tired of this.

kenonze:
Because your people needs you sir. We are test running you for 2023

If nobe say I like you, you for collect one.

DivaFiva:
Actually, I've got bigger balls called boobs

Exactly my point, so you think genders must be equal cos we all got balls but you forgot we don't use balls but brains and y'all got fish brains.

Go through all my posts here, it's all an advice, take it.
Get a man before it's too late

DivaFiva:
I will submit to him and him alone.
Not to the men in my community, my male co-workers, my brothers or uncles...just because they have "my type at home" or they have balls.
Get your self a chill pill... Dawg.

Ohh shoot, now you think you got balls like them too and they just tryna act?
.
oya dab

cnwamo:
“In a patriarchal society, all heterosexual intercourse is rape because women, as a group, are not strong enough to give meaningful consent.” — Catherine MacKinnon.

This justifies what I said at the beginning of page 2
Most of them if not all are LESBIAN bitches

Most of these women fighting for equality are strong Feminists and according to RESEARCH, 90% of them are gays and they need the rights to take charge of their female counterparts.
Abi nobe lesbian takeover period we dey for naija?
I no blame una, na una papa and mama wey no gree una near boys at tender age and now you are pouring the heat on men.
Go get a man and submit to him...BIATCH

DivaFiva:
I'm about to attempt to persuade our men to subscribe to the feminist ideology. Sorry it's kinda lengthy

Assumptions: An already thriving economy

1. Reduced Malnutrition and Child-Hunger: When more mothers become salary earners, it is no surprise that kids tend to eat better. As a man, seeing your kids healthy and agile, especially when it causes less strain to your pocket should be a welcomed relief. You were once a kid, think of all the things your mother bought in periods she had more than enough. Unless your mum was deadbeat or abusive, the gain was shared by her and her kids and usually the gain was better food or cooking equipment.

2. More Productivity: The idea that "women are worth less" begins from childhood but it begins to resonate with us as teenager( which by the way is one of the worst periods we face due to hormonal changes and insecurities attached) and as young adults we already believe that so, we act accordingly. In secondary school, a lot of us can attest to the fact that more often than not that more girls were top of the class. In the university however, we lose trail. If women are taught to be more confident in their abilities, we create a more productive economy.

3. Shared responsibility: Believe it or not a lot of Nigerian women are not comfortable asking their significant order for money EVERY little thing. Some of you guys actually love and crave being the SOLE provider because of the power and control ( it gives) over someone else's life especially when they get a good enough pay. With equality, abusive partners lose that power as well...The power that keeps the woman silent in pain. Slowly but surely, men may never have to pay for wives because it sorta cheapens our worth especially when men literally take bride-prices to mean ownership.

4. Freedom of Expression: Some men would love to be as you are... Wear whatever (pink jeans), talk however (loud talkers who smack their lips) even in adult hood without being looked down on or referred to as a "woman" as though it is derogatory. Some men are natural CAREGIVERS who would be satisfied being a nurse, a cook or a stay-at-home parent but society would not let them be great. When women are equal, gender lines are blurred a bit and people are more likely to come around to accepting you for who you are.

5. Your daughters: As at now, it may be convenient for you to say "Men are superior" until your daughter pick up the equality struggle from where older women (and men alike) left off. It's time we make progress with this and that's if we want to eventually be a highly functional society that makes the best out of majority of her citizens both men and women.

6. End of Hypermasculinity: Most men would rather just be masculine rather than going through the trouble of proving that they are "MEN" over and over again. I know it can be exhaustive, trying to hold back tears when what you really feel like it is to cry and feel better afterwards. I know it is harder for some men to ask for help because of the EGO and hyper-masculinity urges. Some of our men would grow up thinking it is manly to frown and play less so your kids can respect you. Yeah..(:|) try FEAR! When they grow old, they tend to resent he father more often for the scars he caused them.

When I heard about the gender equality bill that was declined, my heart sunk but I needed to get the word across so we can know.

Oya add your two cents...or even add to the list.

NO I DON'T SUPPORT IT BECAUSE Y'ALL BIATCHES STILL EXPECT ME TO TAKE YOUR
COAT, OPEN CAR DOORS FOR YA, GET THE BILLS AND BE ROMANTIC SO NO, YOU DO THOSE YOURSELVES AND WE CAN PASS THE BILL.