₦airaland Forum

onatisi:
yes baba mi , i just dey ,how are things ?lets pray nigerians dont sell their future for 2kongos of rice and 500 naira glo recharge card as they did in 2015

onatisi:
kwankwanso major ambition and object now is to win the state , he is not too concerned about who wins the presidency , he only wants to be in control again . it will be a miracle if the sitting governor wins again

Homeboiy:
I fear sharing ideas with people around me

Cos they use it against me in future

prestigiouslady:
Unemployment..
Losing my job late last year was a very low low point for me
Coping with life as an unemployed single mother..Taking the responsibility of a child alone..
9/10 out of every man out there just want to mess with your body cos they're of the opinion that you shouldn't have a choice as a single mom...And not all single mothers are promiscious...some are just victims of circumstances
It's really depressing.
But my child keeps me going.
2019 I strongly believe will be a positive turning point for me..

Homeboiy:
I hate everything around me

An only child, life is not sweetening me


I hate everything around me


I TRY TO BE HAPPY BUT IT'S ONLY WHEN AM WITH PEOPLE


IF NOT BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS, I WOULD HAVE BE LIVING A LIFE OF I DON'T CARE

UyaiIncomparabl:
I just had one yesterday.

IamPlato:
and when the work is not coming?

IamPlato:
and when the work is not coming?

IamPlato:
Where Do I Even Start?

1. Having So Many Ideas And Plans But No Income To Push Them

2. Look For Job To Help But Still It Didnt Come

3. People Are Hardly Willen to Assist You. You Just Weak

4. Some Girls Just Disturbin Your Life

5. No Money No Happiness

graciamore:
hmmm my plenty problems... no love from HUBY and no job..just here thinking and depressed

Lukewarm:
I am at crossroads in my relationship life right now.

On one hand, I've got this great dude I've been with for some years. Everyone thinks he's perfect for me because he's ready to be responsible and settle down, then he also plans for the future.

But the problem?


I guess the main issue here is lack of compatibility between you and the first guy which can be due to poor communication.
He hears you but hardly listens to you.
I think you should talk to him about it.
One big mistake many of us make is loving someone how we think they should be loved and not how they want to be loved.
Love grows and you can grow to love him but you have to talk to him.
If he doesn't change then maybe you might have to walk away because your happiness matters the most.

You can reach me via 07053331484, so we can talk more
We don't seem to have that connection or chemistry. I find it hard just telling him I love him. But everyone keeps ringing it into my ear that he's one of the good guys and there are quite a few out there. So I promised myself to respect him and hope that is enough to keep a marriage going.

Then on to the minor thing:
1. He's a traditional guy. He believes all a woman needs to do is cook, clean, and conceive. He believes a lot of things are frivolities and a wife has got little to no say in the house.

This really badgers me.

But hey! He's one of the few good ones available.....right?

Then I got a shocker.

I met someone 2 months ago and its been a totally crazy and new experience for me.

It's the first time I've seen someone share the same warped sense of humour I've got. First time I'd meet someone that shares a lot of common interest with me. First time someone will creep into my subconscious and make me smile or even lol at something goofy he did or said.

Now, it's got me thinking:

Is respect really enough?

But my family is having none of that second thoughts. It so happens they'd conveniently bring up the story of a really distant aunt that lost her opportunity to marry by saying No to someone and is still a spinster at 45.

And it really isn't helping matters that my new POI is from a different tribe and isn't set for settling now.

So conflicted.


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janefrancisca:
Pressure from family and friends to get married as if husbands are sold in shops.
Graduated years back and still no good job. The little one I am managing is not footing my bills and I don tire for daddy give me.
I am sha just managing myself, God know say I don tire

AeroplaneApple:
After nysc in it's been very had getting employed. I know alot of graduates have once passed through that phase and some are still in this stage. So, during December 2018 I got a business idea that was targeted at the festive period. I thought I actually got the plans right but along the way it all happened like a movie. A boy I didn't know his family that I thought I could help by employing him and paying him daily with feeding eloped with some of my proceed. I almost ran mad that evening when I discovered the boy had been gone for more than 4 hours with some of my proceeds and the money he was supposed to get catfish with a Taxi
I was hit with a bad debt. I always pray I will see the boy again.

CaptainMitch:
I think I am an alcoholic, I drink too much, I am looking for a way to quit totally, I have been drinking steadily for close to 13 years, I wish I could quit.

Kdon2:
My wife.

Yyeske:
Ganduje cannot be investigated by the federal government for now, he has immunity from investigation. Tell the court that gave a ruling that the Kano state house of assembly not to investigate the bribery case against him to do the needful so that the house can investigate and finally impeach him so that he can be tried.

Bundaweber:
4mn for 25 acres at ovia n/east ? where's the location. I mean which community