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1.2m. I'm in Ajah axis

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I was going through a post made by uber of Facebook and some comments about the possibility of ladies getting pregnant while already pregnant.
Some said it's possible and in most cases leads to the birth of unidentical twins.

To the medically inclined peeps in the house. What do you think?

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...more like a darker version of Bobrisky

In all these, I will have to blame Jude.
Dude acting like a kid....You wanna beat a grown man bcz he's your kid bro? Apart from being one of his employers
, He's supposed to be the calm one bringing about peace. Unfortunately, he's the mayweather

Do you believe in blessing? If yes, then it will be foolish to say curses don't exist.

Now, I'm a Christian and I've been able to witness first hand deliverance services and what really happens in the spiritual realm and how this is highly connected the physical. The spiritual controls the physical.

It's possible that the wife is possessed against her wish and also possible that she's fully aware. Either way, she may be the best prayer warrior you have ever seen but her prayer is just a facade.

She lied against you thereby causing you to lose your job yet supports you financially? She's definitely possessed and the spirits at work won't stop until she sees you down.

Yoh need to be cleansed and delivered from the spirits that have held you captive.

Listen to the pastor that has given you a spiritual word of wisdom. What's the point visiting someone to help you out and you don't believe and heed to his instructions?

Hold up!

Popsy'Popsy's salary as an engineer monthly is 400k and mumsy takes care of 80% house expenses yet popsy doesn't have a car? So what does he do with his money? Old man has got a big secret which is probably in alignment with his mistress and baby.

They have obviously fallen outta love. Which is very sad btw.

Are you this only child? You need to talk to both of them and let them quit hurting themselves. It will get them nowhere.

Is mumsy having an affair too? What do I know?

Lagusta:
Did someone above me say cool

This is not cool at all....

This marriage is sure to crumble....

They are too immature for marriage, they would surely have fights and quarrels, how would they handle that??

If its due to pregnancy, no wahala, how would that "boy" be responsible enough to take care of them?? I mean both mother and child??

Well, all the same, I wish them all the very best.....

Sure to crumble?

Na you wan crumble am?

I'm a Christian and even though the bible only allows divorce on infidelity grounds. I still think this is so unfair to the husband.

Why didn't the wife bring up the issue while they were courting?

Does it mean the lady can't have sex at all?

As important as the message this dude passed, I still think this dude was also trying to get hooked.

He wanted to text or call but realized he had no one.

A single pharm tech.

So ladies, there you have it.

Dad kissing his baby.....Damn!! I thought I saw yanshhhh

1shortblackboy:
my friend i hope u know what a joke is.. this is nothing but a joke it comes from d nigerian culture of yabbing our friends and family. If u recieve yabbings as an adult ur expected to laff it off cus it contains no malice. Unless ofcourse ur a baby then u start crying

Your comment made me lol.

There are expensive jokes bro. I've seen a situation where two friends got into a big fight cos one of the carelessly joked about a secret the other shared with him.

Making some jokes could land you into big trouble or make you lose respect or someone's trust.

shotizzy:
how do you know, yesterday marks one week I masturbate last, and this morning I discover I had a wet dream, the devil is a lier...

It's just your body system trying to adjust to a new way of life.

Just pray about it.

Porn0addict:
Glad, someone referred me to this thread. I created a thread on this issue yesterday. Good to know I have people I can learn from.

https://www.nairaland.com/4036415/porn-addict-needs

My story is below:

Help guys!!! I am a 25 years old guy who is seriously addicted to pornography. I spent 5 hours watching pornography and masturbating yesterday. 2 hours in the afternoon. 3 hours at night.

It started 10 years ago with a porn DVD a friend lent me after I finished secondary school. Since then I have been in this mess. It affected my results in the University. During normal school days I miss some lectures due to masturbation. When it is exam time, I partake in it even more. Thereby I procrastinate reading till the day before exam or some hours before an exam starts. I was very brilliant in secondary school and even in my Part 1 days.

Even during my NYSC days, I continued.

I am a freelancer and I work from home. I was supposed to be working on projects worth hundreds of dollars with a various deadlines but I spent 5 hours out of that time watching porn. Working at home has been a sort of disadvantage like I have power on my laptop and I have access to good internet too.

I don't think working outside will solve it. When I was on 400 level IT. I wake up as early as 5 am to get to work early. Yet I can watch porn from 11 pm to 4 am. Valuable time that I could have spent perfecting my web design and programming skills. So, I sleep in the bus in the morning and the evening. I also sleep at work during my break time then. Getting an outside job won't solve it.

I am an introvert who hardly talk to girls. I am kind of shy and hardly look anyone in the face. But I am financially comfortable, average looking with taller than average height. I dress okay but not flamboyant. Girls try to talk to me at times but I don't respond well due to my shyness.

I feel like an hypocrite. Among my friends, I go to church the most and they have a kind of respect for me since I don't sleep around, drink or indulge in other vices. But I masturbate almost everyday. These guys may not sleep with their girlfriends for a week. But me, I hardly go without masturbating. Deep inside me, I know I am far worse than them.

When I gave my life to Christ, the urge went away for about 2 weeks and I was very happy with my life generally. But I fell back to it again. A lot of times, I feel so guilty that I can't pray. I was one of those mocking our chaplain in secondary school when he talked about the hazards of masturbation. This was because I hadn't engaged in it then and I didn't know the consequences.

Now I am so unproductive. I used to be very innovative and creative, brimming with several ideas that a lot of people look up to me. But now, I hardly have time for anything. It's just from one deadline to another. I know I can finish my jobs comfortably but pornography takes a huge chunk of my time. Plus after you masturbate, you get depressed and you don't have that deep motivation to work fast and accomplish lots of things in little time.

It's been 10 years now. My life is wasting away. I have started facing that marriage pressure from my parents. On the outside, I look perfectly okay and many people admire me. They come to me for advise and financial aid. But on the inside I am dying. I know I have a lot of potential in me. I know I am not meant to be mediocre. I don't want to live that average life of just earning some money, marriage and death. I know I am meant to impact a lot of people. I had a lot of plans that went dead.

Sometimes I even have suicidal thoughts. I feel death will be better rather than this misery. I have tried a lot of things but I can't just stop. The worst part is pornography make me see women as sexual objects some times. A lot of Nigerian men also hold this viewpoint but I know it is terribly wrong.

Sometimes after listening to Christian tapes and messages, the urge goes away for two days but it comes again and I fall. I don't to fall at all.

Maybe I will just start listening to Christian tapes and music 24/7. But I can't concentrate on work if I do that. Or I could just take 2 hour breaks to listen to Godly messages.

Few tips bro
1. Pray about it every day and night.
2. Find something you love doing apart from watching porn and try to do it more.
3. Watching porn video is the root of masturbation and no matter how hard you try to stop masturbating without putting an end to porn, you may not make any headway. avoid porn like plaque and any movie that is xrated
4. Masturbation makes you feel lesser than a man, puts you deeper in the introverted cave, strengths your shyness, erodes your confidence and self esteem, affects your memory negatively, destroys your conversation skills, alters your sexual performance, makes you look older than your age, shrinks the he'll outta you....and on and on and on......think about all the negative effects and resist the urge of watch porn first. Stopping masturbation becomes easier afterwards.
5. Start with a day target, 3 days , 7 days ,30 days. Chances are you might have a relapse in between but don't give up.
6. Rewards yourself with a nice treat after any target completion. You go see a movie, go to restaurant and have a good treat.
7. Make having a relationship a priority. Start talking to people more than you ever did. Your skill may have become rusty but keep trying.
8. Use rubber band reminder caution. Put a rubber band on your wrist. Anytime you feel like watching porn, masturbating. ...just give yourself a hot snap and smile.
9. Christian audio books and messages will help too and try to read books about that interests you.
10. Pray more about it.
11. See the act as more of a betrayal to yourself.
12. Don't judge yourself or curse yourself thinking it will make you stop. Won't work. Instead see yourself as a better person when not indulging in the act.
13. I bet you agree with me that you are a happier and more productive person when you go 3 days without it.

Nb. You might start experiencing wet dreams few days or weeks after withdrawing from masturbating. No worries. Pray about it every TIME. It will just pass and you won't even notice.

You can pm me.

introvertme:
pacho is a farggot!!!!

chai c wetin money fi do

I been de suspect oo,cos e no dey ball with women for the former season

Yeah. He's gay like that.

Jorge is another smart guy I like....

David is just an arrogant, brainless dude... he no dey think well before he acts

Chepe is a man of few words...

wapadunk:
That Chepe and Pacho nah confirm Rogue. Can't wait for Mexico story.

Damn. ..Pacho na my guy...I just dey feel Jim gangster swag.....

Walks like a boss

The level of hypocrisy and bad belle in this country is alarming

. Since when did it become a crime for a king to appreciate his queen ?

..does appreciating his wife stop him from discharging his duties as a king?

Segadem:
exactly my thought

We just don't appreciate the good that our people do and we always try to bring out the flaws in any act of good.

He only tried to create awareness so that others may follow the same thread.

You will be surprised to know that some Nigerians are aware of Texas flood but not of benue flood. Same people will not see any issues when Mark of facebook or any otger celeb in other coutries put up same awareness .

Whether pr or not. He's done no bad.

Question1:
Hey,
I used my official School Transcript and I got my visa.

Though I was scared to hell!
However, make sure you submit whatever was listed on CAS.

Thanks so much.

Congratulations

Cc justwise and co.

Hello,

1. Does UK embassy accept school notification of result for visa application as my certificate is not ready?

2. The academuc transcript I intend to submit carries the address of another school. I hope this won't pose any issues?

NB: year of graduation - 2010

NwaAmaikpe:


It's a disgrace to the Nigerian Police Force that policemen guard a mediocre like Davido.

Unto what?

Legends and Superstars like Fela had no police guards,
Nelly Uchendu didn't have any,
Dan Maraya Jos had none
Chief Stephen Osadebe didn't too,
Onyeka Onwenu at the peak of her career had none.

It is a shame that once you can afford the allowances of policemen, they will be assigned to you.
Now, petty Yahooboys in Ekpoma even have police escorts.
SMH

This is really a shame.

You called Davido a mediocre?

How is he a mediocre? Kindly explain

Oyindidi:
She advised us her children not some rapid dog

Obviously, You are not one of his children because if you were truly, you would not call some people rabid dogs.

I guess op never factored in the possibility of his so called bad friend's presence on nairaland or members of his gang.

Already, you have set the ball rolling as regards exposing them unknowingly to you and its a bit dangerous for you cos you used a bad means....

Not frightening you, but if you wanna expose them...do it right and anonymously. For your own protection.