₦airaland Forum

So I have to visit the INEC office to complete a transfer process? We are not a serious people in this country.

Nigeria's liberation is not in ballot boxes. The people know what to do whenever they're ready.

The permission of whoever will take care of your mother needs to be sought. If you have never taken care of an elderly man or woman, feeding them, making them their favourite meals, engaging them in small talks, or even changing diapers, and so on, you should calm down and learn. Even if you are going to employ a maid and pay them, you still need to be patient; otherwise, you may come home one day and find your parent halfway gone to the world beyond. No be by gra gra or cho cho cho.

Imagine someone who spends almost his entire day in the office raising shoulders 😂 The first step to prove this so called love for your mother would be to resign and spend at least 80% of your time with them. Anybody with an extra room and bed can invite whoever. Lol. It is insanity to think and demand that another person do your job for you because you married them with yam, coconut, and a keg of palm wine.

Do by elections for Tinubu, let's test SOMETHING. Then you will understand the difference between APC party agents (aka Amaechi-laptop-gengs) and real Nigerians. Did you see anybody going out to vote anywhere apart from professional APC agents and card carrying APC members? Nigerians understand the genesis of their problem and they're patiently waiting.

Now you people will understand why the fraud boy invested heavily in media. Even the boys in his camp, including those who collected Amaechi laptops can't relate with these bogus news. 😂 It's that unfortunate.

descarado:

See picture picture of me representing my kwantri
Na world remain

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Stopitttt

Nozarashi:
Same mission schools where nuns cover up from head to toe. Once they hear Muslim like dis.
Whatever happened to love your neighbour as yourself?

Even as pentecostal Christians, we were made to abide by the rules of Catholic schools managed by nuns. So what is your excuse as a Muslim?

descarado:
I dey here o dey pump iron
I wan be Miss Olympic

Ahaha... I will be waiting for your gold medal shine
Na you go win am. Should I expect pictures? ☺️

descarado:
The problem is the position of the fibroid.

Some have given birth to kids with fibroid.

He is highly tensed up. 3 months and he is already worried this much. Now the fear has materialised to reality. How you dey?. My babies are doing well,right?

Exactly my concern as well. Anxiety has set in, and that is even more problematic.

Yes, my sis. I dey fine, and so are your babies o. How have you been?

pocohantas:
Maybe the wife knows or suspects something is wrong or they were already tensed.

Very true and valid

GentleJ87:
I’m also facing the same challenges, my case is I have been married for three years now my wife took in, it enter Etopic the Dr recommend for a CS to remove the twins pregnancy which we did , Since the year 2022 till now my wife never conceive again , we started running some text , both HSG and many I can’t remember, her tube is okay only that the Dr told me one of her womb has been damaged because of the etopic , but he said she will conceive with the remaining womb and bear children as much as we want, after some months of waiting we carried another text it shows she has PCOS because she is hairy, my doctor said most hairy ladies is immune to PCOS , they have place her on diet since then till now nothing has been achieve . Honestly I’m weak and tired of all this issues , we have gone to traditional means all of them are busy collecting money from us.. I have been looking for a means to bring this to Nairaland but was ashamed to do that . My wife was 26yrs before we got married . Please you guys can help me too because it making me sad and frustrated, my marriage is three years old .

Firstly, there is nothing to be ashamed of. You need a good doctor or hospital to properly diagnose your wife. Your doctor’s claim that one of your wife’s wombs is damaged and that she can conceive with the other should concern you. Women have only one uterus (womb). Maybe you misunderstood your doctor?

If her womb is truly damaged (likely due to the surgery), the solution is to stop stressing her and avoid wasting your money on herbs. Seek professional guidance.

FameGlory:
Wait o.

Is it the same sex that our mothers warn us not to have when we were young that you said married couples trying to conceive will now have to do 3-4 times weekly to prove to a random gynaecologist?

This life ehn.

Hmmm...

Yes o. There is only one definition of primary infertility, and that is having regular and consistent sex for a year without success for women before 35 years old. For women above 35 years, it is 6 months.

Gynaecologists usually discourage couples from undergoing these so called fertility tests prematurely. The knowledge of the test results will make it more difficult for them.

3 months of sex simply means three cycles. In one year, out of the 365 days, there are only about 12 chances of getting pregnant. Anything below that is too low to confirm anything, whether the tubes are blocked or not.

You started trying 3 months ago? No licensed doctor or clinic will attend to you.

Primary infertility is diagnosed/confirmed after one year of regular and consistent sex without success. After one year without success, you will still need to prove to a gynaecologist that you have been having sex 3-4 days weekly.

Whoever told you to go for HSG etc. after only 3 months of trying has ruined your family. There are certain tests you should avoid especially when you haven't made serious efforts to conceive naturally. Too much knowledge can ruin you. There are many women roaming the streets with blocked tubes and fibroid, yet with babies. Know what they did differently? Many of them have never heard of HSG or submucosal bla bla...

I know a manipulator must surely adopt the Igbo narrative. I would have sworn the lady was from Akwa Ibom or another South-South state, but a criminally-minded manipulator always has a way of twisting narratives to swindle the thoughts of co-manipulators.

A 70+ year old shameless tout endangered the lives of several people and all he got was government endorsements and "to err is human." A 20-something year old aggressive poor lady endangered the lives of a few persons and you banned her for life and sent her to kirikiri. Guess what? Fellow poor yoots who are currently in their 20s, eating the rotten leftovers from the KWAM1s of this wicked and corrupt clime, are berating their fellow poor yoot.

Who will rescue you people?

JuanDeDios:
It's not. A weak naira isn't a problem. An unstable naira is a problem. If we can keep the naira stable (even if it's N2000), businesses can plan and things will improve.

Even if it's 2000 una. Businesses can plan on what? Poverty?

inoki247:
Lol the truth dey bitter even for Ketu, Yaba, Jibowu, gbagada, Alapere, Ebute Metta, Ogudu, Ikeja, Oga with that amount he no certain he neva add agent agreement money yet....

Maybe Inside Iyana Ipaja, Egbeda, ikotun, ilasa, Alagbado, Mushin Sha..

Remove Ogudu, Yaba, Ketu, and Ikeja. You need #2m upward for a standard mini flat (excludes agency, agreement, and caution)

Mabuggi88:
And with that portfolios, he's the best suited? What concerns those certification with fire fighting or Safety services?

He simply moved a step higher. He was the number two man before this appointment.

The reward is okay, as long you don't come back crying when doctors, soldiers and lecturers demand a better pay. We don't want to hear that Nigeria is broke.

All this wahala because some of us refused to vote Teenuboo Ole??

dominique:
Even when the drugs were less than 2k, there were Nigerians that were too poor to afford it just as there were well-to-do Nigerians who could afford the expensive one for 10k back then. Anybody that cannot afford Coartem should go and get Amatem. It's no where close to 10k and it's just as effective

The same Amartem you are telling the poor to buy now will also be so expensive that you will ask them why they are not resorting to "agbo" when the cost of Amartem outpaces their income.

The truth is that a lot of basic necessities that were once affordable for the poor are no longer within their reach. Has there ever been a time when a malaria drug like coartem was considered a luxury? We know which drugs were considered luxuries, and coartem was never one of them.

There will always be people who are poor, but why glorify the fact that more people are slipping into poverty at a faster rate than ever before?

If you're replacing coartem with amartem, how then do we replace eggs, fish, etc? Abi egg sef na luxury?

But while he was alive and in power, some criminals said he was the best thing since sliced bread. Those same criminals are now in power, and they’re telling you they’re transforming your economy, and you believe them again. Rinse and repeat. Will you ever have sense? No, you won't.

The common man believes he’s defending his tribe and culture, but for Lagos politicians, it’s merely about retaining power and the fear of losing their seats to opposition parties. Politicians will continue to manipulate you people as long as many of you fail to use your critical thinking.

If these same politicians need to align with the devil to gain power, they will. You’re the ones obsessed with tribalism, they aren’t. If they have to learn the Igbo language to appeal to Igbo traders, they will. Stop hating your fellow humans in your misery. The politicians you’re defending relate well with others, they wear traditional Hausa and Igbo attire for campaigns from late Buhari, to Tinubu, Sanwo, etc 😂, but you can’t because of those same politicians.

Nigerians are yet to realise that APC-inflicted poverty is the reason they can no longer afford dstv subscription. We will blame everybody (mtn, oil marketers, banks etc.) except the main culprit. Shey na until the evil party kpai everybody before we go get sense?

Image123:
Are you okay at all? Is emancipation the worship of trees, rivers and statues you and your neighbors made? Why are you using phone and internet by the white man? You should have emancipated yourself by using the town crier still.

The white man religion is probably the only reason someone has not used you for money ritual.

greypencils:
This man is slowly becoming the worst Yoruba Oba ever.

...because he doesn't want cannibals to harvest and eat his heart out?

fmlala:
A Muslim that wants leadership position can become an Imam and a Christian Pope if desperately desires to lead but for the traditional stool, leave that for the traditionalist ( An Oba in Yorubaland is called Alase Igbakeji Orisa)


I am a Christian and would rather leave that part for the traditionalist or I join politics and become Governor or President to serve my people.

You are not a Christian. The King is the custodian of the Yoruba culture, not the custodian of Yoruba religion (Yoruba religion does not exist). Any indigenous yoruba man can become a King in his domain. Whether you're an atheist, Christian, or pagan shouldn't matter.

If you want to rule your religion, go and become a priest or attend the equivalent of a Bible School in Ifa shrine and leave the throne for people who are ready to serve the people, irrespective of their religion. A King does not serve the same role as a Pastor or Imam. This should be common sense.

Exousiang01:
This one has sold himself to foreign religions.

Its just shameful to travel round the world and see people practice their ancient religions but you come down to Africa and Africans can't even remember what their ancestors believed in.

Go to Scandinavian countries and see them maintaining their culture and beliefs.

An African man has no mind of his own. Not even their kings

You want your Kings butchered for an Oracle that didn't choose them? Your politicians handpicked these people, you did nothing. When they die, then you remember our vain culture?

Dangote and propaganda. Big headlines, little impact. Una go dey shout crash on top the usual N25 reduction? Senseless bunch.

These senseless bunch will crash petrol price from N918 to N916 and run to the media, all for the noise and propaganda. When will you people ever have sense? If N918 to N916 means crash, so what do we call N200 to N1000??

The government will keep using this man to press una muumuu button like toys. The goal is to deflect and shift your anger away from the government. Can't you people see? Same template with cement, PMS, now this? Our muumuu never do?