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Romance / Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by acidtalk: 9:23am On Sep 29, 2015
REPLY TO THE ABOVE TOPIC.

https://www.nairaland.com/2631408/reply-reasons-high-number-single#38487936

THIS THREAD SEEM TO BE ONE SIDED WHILE IGNORING THE REAL REASONS FOR THE HIGH INCREASE OF SINGLE LADIES.
Romance / Re: REPLY TO: Reasons For The High Number Of Single Ladies In Nigeria. by acidtalk: 9:20am On Sep 29, 2015
Cutehector:
The economy in nigeria isn't helpin matters...

Its not always about the economy but more of our orientation. The economy is not perfect anywhere else in the world but people are firm enough to make the best use of the worst situation.
Romance / REPLY TO: Reasons For The High Number Of Single Ladies In Nigeria. by acidtalk: 8:55am On Sep 29, 2015
I stumbled across a thread stating the Reasons and Solutions For the High Number Of Single Ladies In Nigeria.

I will not totally write off the thread because the poster made some valid and interesting points. But however, I will say that article was totally flawed because the author made his judgment one sided and made us believe the growing success of the feminine gender is what is undermining the supposed success of the male folks.

Below I will alight the major causes of the high rate of single unmarried ladies and their ready male counterparts. I will ensure to be as brief as I can while outlining the most important points.


* High Ratio Of Female to Male:

The truth is most people can bring about this same topic stating or mocking the high number of unmarried single ladies usually forget that the last global gender statistic (2013) state that it is ratio 7:1. This means that their are 7women counted to every man.
The ratio of women to men is what makes it extremely difficult for every single lady to get a husband/partner.

Aside Islam that supports polygamy, every other religion and most culture across the globe frowns at it. Polygamy can even rarely be practiced in religion and cultural settings where it is permitted because of the high financial, physical and mental work that comes with it.

* Low Number Of Responsible Men:

For about a decade now, I have been blown away by the ever rising number of highly irresponsible men families now breed for our society to accommodate. There's about only 1 or 2 responsible male folks amongst a group of 20. The vices in the society have now become the norm in today's world. Vices such as; Gambling, Drug Addiction, Smoking, Womanizing, Fraud and even stealing. Habits or deeds we get punished for even on mere suspicion in the 70s, 80s and early 90s are now what are openly done and hailed at by our peers and society. Its now a norm for young guys to plait their hair, wear heavy jewelry, sag their trousers and wear heavy tattos. A man of 35 imitates and has a role model in the person of wizkid who is barely in his mid 20s. How shameful can that be in the eyes of a mature and ready to settle down single lady.

* Women Are More Loyal To Their Employers / Career:

When I saw on the other thread that HR tend to employ more women than men I just smiled because in reality this is absolutely true but most people do not know the reason why this happens. As someone with over a decade of Human Capital Development experience I will tell you that female employees are more dedicated to their jobs/employers than their male counterparts.

While a man can change 5jobs within a space of 4years you can easily find a female in the same organization for 10years. She is more concerned about building a career and job satisfaction unlike her male counterpart who is solely driven by the pay package.

* Women Mature Faster Than Men:

Unfortunately this is the bitter truth. You find a lady of 20years dating a man of 36years and you can readily observe the man is trying his utmost best to meet up with the maturity level of the lady 16years his junior. While a lady of 20years already has a mapped out plan for her life and future, a fully grown man of 36years is still struggling with the game console with his friends, jumping from one viewing center to a night club and arguing on soccer and other irrelevant things with his friends. The man only starts thinking of settling down when he is approaching 40years. Not because that his the path he wants to take but due to the unending pressure from family and older friends.

* Most Men Spend More Than They Earn:

Its so unfortunate to know that most men actually live far and above their earning. They spend to impress people who they eventually find out do not even send them. It has been discovered over and over that women have more saving culture and financial intelligence than their male counterpart. It isn't really about the number of cars in your barrage, expensive closet or gadgets, what really matters is your actual self worth in terms of liquid cash and investments. In most cases a woman and a man earning same salary and equal number of years, you find out the female has more assets and liquid cash while the male has more liabilities and debt incurred.

* Most Men Are Too Laid Back:

A lot of men tend to give up too easily after a few setbacks in their careers and businesses. It is then they start to blame the economy, their parental upbringing and background, lack of sufficient support from family and friends and even spiritual attack.

So many guys resort to heavy drinking and smoking after a few disappointments in life which now develops into an addiction. Before they realize it, they would have wasted a decade or two of their productive life.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 8:52pm On Sep 27, 2015
eyinjuege:


Why jump to conclusions about a stranger you don't know? Do you know if she has something burdening her heart and felt if she had a good meal and spend on herself she would feel better? And maybe that didn't work to ease up whatever is troubling her.
Many people spend money while they are unhappy, atimes buying things they don't even need. Some find it therapeutic to their souls and if it works for them well goodluck to them.
They don't do it to impress strangers and do it for themselves. If any stranger however decides to be impressed, then good luck to them too since it obviously takes so little to impress such.


You sure have a point. But unfortunately, that was far from it. Can't start giving every bit of details to avoid being petty for a guy.
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 9:53am On Sep 27, 2015
FruityLass:
Not all ladies...

She might be timid or so.
I like me amala well well smiley


The lady in question came alone. Timid because she is on the same table with other guys? That's inferiority complex.
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 8:33pm On Sep 26, 2015
avasweet:



It's pretty annoying....@least for once in a lifetime let's be celibate.....relatnship isn't all abt sex...there is lot to do other dan sex.... I hate it wen men reason like 1kobo =sex....

I won't come here and form holier than thou. If I see the righ hole rich now, I will drill it almost as if my life depends on it.

But the sickening thing is how these boys have made sex a priority. Most especially the dependent and jobless ones. You have no business being fed and living under your parents when you are already a pro in sex. Once you can drill the hole the you are old enough to pick the bills.
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 8:16pm On Sep 26, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Lol, so what was she supposed to eat rice with? A fork? Chopsticks?

So you think spoon is the right cutlery to eat rice?
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 8:15pm On Sep 26, 2015
avasweet:



Must every lady you spend a kobo on pay with sex??...... some men ehn....some times I don't blame lesbians cos men are sometime horrible

Don't generalize because even as a guy I opposed his sense of reasoning and even marvel at the myopic way most guys of this generation reason when it comes to relationship and sex.
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 7:18pm On Sep 26, 2015
Cherlene:

Good evening

Depends actually on SEVERAL factors.

Cherlene
can you let us know 2 or 3 factors that may warrant such wastage?
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 6:42pm On Sep 26, 2015
KashyBaby:
When a lady is on her date, we are very conscious how we.look like when we're eating and we don't feel that "hungry" when we're on date.we prefer to look good than have a bloated tummy..

If that's the reason then why order for something you won't finish? That is WICKEDNESS!!!

As for the lady I encountered today, no one brought her so why should she send strangers if she really worked for her money? Why waste your money based on what others will say or think of you? That's COMPLEX!!!
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 6:32pm On Sep 26, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Lol, she must be watching too much tv & stunting for you, trying to appear like a "classy lady" by not finishing everything on her plate.

If the leftovers are too much, then ask for them to be put in a doggy bag, so you can give them to the homeless on the street- no waste.

Don't take her out again until she's for real. Wth? Or order her a kiddies meal next time you take her out grin


It didn't happen to me personally. If she was really classy, she should have known spoon is for cereals and NOT for grains (I don give FREE tutorial to 95% of nairaland supposed big babes).

The last time a lady tried that stunt with me she wished she could vomit and recycle the meal back because I ensured she ate it all. Na food wey I no even dey chop so I couldn't help her in eating out of it.
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 6:27pm On Sep 26, 2015
sweetorgasms:
@OP i took her on a date becaus i want to spend on her, so whether she waste food is non of my buzziness, what matters is that i made her happy[b], at the end of the day, na her pusssy go pay 4 d wasted food[/b].


Can we ever have a topic on Romance section with the bolden appearing on the 1st page. Why do young folks of today believe everything about relationship must automatically translate to sex ? Why
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 6:22pm On Sep 26, 2015
happykidArotiba:
the worst thing* Most of them are poverty stricken


This couldn't be said any better.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 6:21pm On Sep 26, 2015
Aminat508:


Noting. pls chck my signature




I have seen it. I pray I remember so I can do my "widow's might" towards that course. May God Almighty heal the child.

Have they written an official letter to the Kanu Heart Foundation informing them of this boy?

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Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 6:18pm On Sep 26, 2015
buygala:
ok

I no buy gala are are you booking space?
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 6:16pm On Sep 26, 2015
Aminat508:
Ok

Why book space?
Romance / Why Do Ladies Waste Food On A Date? Guys How Do You React To This? by acidtalk: 6:14pm On Sep 26, 2015
It's a normal thing to take your date or partner out on a date every now and then.

Then question now is: HOW DO YOU REACT WHEN YOU TAKE A LADY OUT ON A DATE AND SHE PRACTICALLY WASTE THE MEAL?

Which do you do?

1) Instruct her to finish the food / drink?

2) Order for a take away pack for her to carry along the remnant?

3) Keep quiet and pretend there's absolutely nothing wrong?

4) Vow never to take her out again.



So today I felt like eating amala so I drove to one of the most popular "high class buka" on the mainland. On getting inside, the place was full to the brim. I and a few other people after placing our orders had to stand a few minutes waiting for the next available seat.

Eventually I sat close to a guy and opposite a lady. My first impression was that they both came together. So here this lady is using her spoon to play with her meal. After a few swallows this lady stood up without practically eating ANYTHING. Meat, rice, plantain all wasted.

As soon as she stepped out I then realized she came alone. Myself and the other guy were both dumbfounded because why on earth will a struggling young lady come and DASH a "buka" owner (one of the top 10 most popular local eatery in the whole of Lagos) your money all because you want to form for guys on the same table who you most likely never meat ever again. If you can use your spoon to cut your meat, what happened to your hand? The rice and plantain?

Early this year I was in an eatry when a guy and a lady had a very heated argument because of this same issue of food wastage. It took myself, an elderly lady and an equally very young and pretty lady to cajole the lady to either finish her meal or get a takeway pack to carry it along. The guy swore and threatened that neither himself or the lady will leave that place unless she finishes her meal because she was the one complaining of being hungry and made her order. Eventually, she ate the meal finish, emptied her bottle water and even dean shwepps 35cl without any sign of over feeding.

the question is: why do ladies waste food on a date? And what will be your reaction as a guy?


Cc: lalasticlala farano

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Family / Re: My Story My Regret Pt2. by acidtalk: 5:30pm On Sep 09, 2015
Okay! I saw a thread you contributed on, was impressed with you honesty and maturity. Went to your thread topics and Vola! I saw this.

As for me: NO MATTER HOW ANNOYING OR DEPENDENT SOMEONE MIGHT BE, I TRY TO ALWAYS RETURN CALLS AND TEXT MESSAGES. FOR NO REASON IN PARTICULAR, I NEVER GO TO BED WITHOUT RETURNING MISSED CALLS AND UNRRPLIED MESSAGES.


So sorry for the death of your sister and friend I can only imagine how you will forever live with that guilt. As for your dad, trust me you shouldn't feel bad. You were just a young and stubborn born with the usual young trait.

By the way, you should be glad people address you as Sir and Oga. So many extremely Rich men with all their wealth aren't respected. Its a Honor and Grace from God.
Politics / Re: Is This Story Between Dangote And Benson Idahosa True? by acidtalk: 10:59am On Sep 07, 2015
trippleKAY:
Can I ever stop weeping? My MOTHER has been confirmed to be a permanent patient since i took her 2 yabaleft
Politics / Re: Is This Story Between Dangote And Benson Idahosa True? by acidtalk: 4:43am On Sep 07, 2015
trippleKAY:
oh! I weep for MY MOTHER's miserable life... SHE talked abt IDAHOSA like his her God. Dis hw hw she curse me and my siblings unknwinly . SMH 4 her!

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Politics / Re: Is This Story Between Dangote And Benson Idahosa True? by acidtalk: 4:38am On Sep 07, 2015
tohpahz:


MY FATHER nids to be at borno fighting terrorists.. To put his anger to good use.

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Romance / Re: Pls I Need Your Suggestions by acidtalk: 6:27pm On Sep 06, 2015
obiak4:
Ymodulus,acidtalk,surveycash,lalastical don't follow me am boring

Thanks for recommending me, I am honored. She can start by going through my past threads I believe she will find some Intresting, Educative, Entertaining, Witty and some "Annoying".

However, I am less active these days as the forum is becoming a shadow of its self with less beneficial threads and comments outdoing the beneficial ones.

Once again thanks.
Politics / Re: Is This Story Between Dangote And Benson Idahosa True? by acidtalk: 6:19pm On Sep 06, 2015
BULLSH1T!!! FVUK1NG BULLSH1T!!!

Must some 1diotic brainwashed bigoted ignoramus brain drained religious slaves always think and spread crap?

Why didn't idahosa prophesize or pray for such for his own children instead of a stranger? Weren't his own children in financial mess and laundering charges as well as property scuffles amongst themselves some few years back?

Must you M00rons give glory to mere mortals instead of God (The Supreme being)? Why should it be a man to pray for you to succeed instead of God who in the distributor and giver of wealth, glory and success?

Pastors are behind the failure of 98% of broken homes today. Reason being people run to their pastors instead of God for help and direction.


OVER MY DEAD BODY WILL GOD ALLOW ME TO SEE ANY SITUATION THAT WILL WARRANT ME TO GO KNEEL BEFORE ANY MAN IN THE NAME OF PRAYERS.


I DARE ANY AND I REPEAT ANY RELIGIOUS LEADER IN NIGERIA TO COME OUT AND CLAIM HE IS HOLIER THAN ME.



I NO BE SAINT OH! BUT I SURELY HAVE A CONSCIENCE, FEAR GOD AND ACT RIGHT.


IDAHOSA KOH! IDIRANU NI!!

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Politics / Re: Where On Earth Is Chief Oladeinde Fenandez? Nigerian's Truly Richest Man. by acidtalk: 2:48pm On Sep 02, 2015
And the Great Anthonio Deinde Fenandez is gone forever.
Autos / Re: AWOOF ALERT!! Clean customized Nissan Altima Going For 590k by acidtalk: 7:07am On Aug 29, 2015
THE POSTER IS A FRAUDSTER.
HE INSISTS OF THEM CALLING AND SMS IN PRIVATE SO HE WON'T EASILY BE BUSTED.

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Autos / Re: CLICK HERE!! TO BUY ANY NIGERIAN USED CARS WITH 1 YEAR WARRANTY by acidtalk: 7:02am On Aug 29, 2015
THIS GUY IS A FRAUD.
NO ONE SHOULD CALL OR SMS HIM.
HE KNOWS HE WILL EASILY BE BUTSTED IF HE COMMUNICATES HERE THAT IS WHY HE IS INSISTING YOU CALL AND TEXT HIM.


SELLING THAT ACURA AND SIENNA FOR BELOW N850,000 EITHER MEANS THE CARS HAVE NO BATTERY OR ARE IN A TERRIBLE STATE.



I REPEAT THIS DUDE IS A FRAUD AND ONLY WANTS TO DUPE GREEDY AND DESPERATE FOLKS.

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Politics / Re: My Take On The NNPC Appointment - Cramjones by acidtalk: 4:59pm On Aug 04, 2015
Vicotex:


I AM A JOBLESS BIGOT WITH A HOPELESS FATHER AND USELESS MOTHER. I AM HATING ON MY PRESIDENT BECAUSE I KNOW MY FATHER CAME TO THIS WORLD TO WASTE. HIS LIFE AND THAT OF HIS CHILDREN WHICH INCLUDE ME VICOTEX
Politics / Re: My Take On The NNPC Appointment - Cramjones by acidtalk: 4:47pm On Aug 04, 2015
I still pity those who are vouching with their lives that Buhari won't perform when deep down their hearts they know he will be the best president Nigeria has ever had since 1985.


I WILL SWEAR WITH BARCANISTA'S LIFE THAT BUHARI WILL TRANSFORM MAJOR FACET OF NIGERIA WITHIN A YEAR AND SIX MONTHS.

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Career / Re: The Number Of Persons That Lost Their Jobs In Nigeria:The Second Quarter Of 2015 by acidtalk: 4:30pm On Aug 04, 2015
Happiness87:
I AM JONATHAN'S 5EX TOY, how far
Career / Re: The Number Of Persons That Lost Their Jobs In Nigeria:The Second Quarter Of 2015 by acidtalk: 10:53am On Aug 04, 2015
Happiness87:
can't you see, MY FATHER IS still foolish, what does your write up have to do with this thread,

Try to raise nonsense sentiments.
Have you seen the list of oil importers and you didn't see Tinubu's and other APC coys.

have you seen the list of generator importers and you didn't see, ApC businessness men.

you are very foolish, now get some sense


Career / Re: The Number Of Persons That Lost Their Jobs In Nigeria:The Second Quarter Of 2015 by acidtalk: 7:55am On Aug 04, 2015
Some few months ago (just before the election). I came up with the below thread and while the wise learned from it, the fooolish ones condemned me.


THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW BEFORE FEBRUARY 14.


* POWER : The power situation of the country will NEVER improve if this government remains in power as the money bags supporting this government are the sole importers of fuel and diesel and the make billions of naira in profit everyday by gaining from the epileptic power situation of the country.

* SECURITY : Billions are budgeted for security but yet nothing to show for it especially in the North East of the country. Jonathan has politicized the military and made it equally Corrupt. The military, police, sss only flex their powers at the opposition and harmless citizens.

*YOUTH EMPOWERMENT : Sure P and the like are money siphoners the government setup to siphon money. Those who needed to benefit from it aren't as every penny is being embezzled by the same government.

*TRANSPORTATION: Before you that pointing at the railways which is Jonathan's ONLY achievement, ask yourself if that is the same kind of coaches us in this present day world. Brazil, Czech, Venezuela, Mexico and others just resuscitated their rail transport and each country spent FARLESS than what our government claimed to have spent and with a more modernized end product.

* ECONOMY : Nigeria's economy is SINKING SERIOUSLY. Whether you believe Charles Soludo, Sanusi Lamido, and other economist or not, the truth remains that an economy tsunami is about to take place in the coming months. Over 30% of government workers, banks, oil and gas, Marin, insurance, fund managers, manufacturing will be out of job in the next few months. Ngozi Iweala and others can twist figures and refute the truth as much as they can but the truth is about to unviel itself soon.


https://www.nairaland.com/2126250/facts-should-know-before-february


NOTE: THE ECONOMY HAS SERIOUSLY BEEN DESTROYED BEFORE BUHARI TOOK OVER AND WILL NEED NOTHING EARLIER THAN ONE YEAR TO STABILIZE THINGS FOR PEOPLE TO BEGIN TO SEE REAL CHANGES.

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