Can it?

I need extroverted friends, preferably females

mrssomebody:
I think we find it difficult making friends too..I need new friends..pm me if it's not too much stress because I understand how hard getting to know new people can be.

I sent you a pm.

To anyone else looking to make new friends, please send me a pm. Want new friends as well. Extroverted, fun people welcome too

justine94:
My Gf of Almost 3 years, her Ex still calls her anytime he likes even though not Frequently, she once told me she felt bad about him that he did nothing to her, she so much believe him to an extent he calls her to tell her things that he Dreamt about her life.

She says most of his Dreams comes to Past while they were Dating then. When she went back to school, she told me he called her to come see him but she declined.

I know she loves me very much, she has proven it to me beyond any reasonable doubt but she still has a Soft Spots for her Ex.

Its making us have issues most times. Of recent i saw a dialled log of her ex on her phone. She said she wanted to check on him. It weakened me alot.

But she said it was nothing, even though the ex is actually helping her kid bro for his admission. She claims she only called to tell him that the brother has written his PUME exams...

When i look at her, I have this feeling she still have a soft spot for her ex..i told her can she see her ex call and not pick it up, she could not ansa. I asked her if she still loves him, she could not ansa, she only tell me she cant go back to him, that she loves me..

I know she won't go back to him, but i know this to be sure she still have a Soft spots for her ex..and her ex knows this very well, so he calls her anytime he likes knowing fully well he knows how to talk to her for her to listen.

Anything he tells her she believes him, notwithstanding, anytime he calls her ,she tells me that he called her, am just confused.. I have already told her i cant continue again becuase i cant continue to hurt my self....

Please i need advice

And the bolded should be the most important thing to you because at the end of the day you have to look out for yourself and your sanity as there appears to be a kind of triangulation going on. It might be innocent from your girl's end but her inability to have a complete emotional detachment from her ex is not a very good sign.

You could give time to see if she's able to detach emotionally. And I'm wondering is the ex still single?

LordKO:
Your introverted nature isn't the main cause of your obvious intolerance towards your stepmother in particular and her daughter (your stepsister) in general. Your sociopathic nature is. If you can strive and conquer the negative attributes that made you a sociopathic person - they negative attributes are so glaring from your message - you'll automatically begin to rapport with them, regardless of your introversion. Most introverts are either sociopathic or psychopathic people, but they hardly know or acknowledge this bitter truth.

This is an interesting perspective. Care to shed more light on the introvert-sociopathic angle?

@OP You've gotten a lot of good advice already. Just try to tolerate and be friendly towards your step mum's daughter and gradually warm up to your step-mum as well. Goodluck