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Trouble started in the home of Mrs. Grace Adebiyi (not real name) in Akowonjo area of Lagos when she noticed a strange discharge from the private part of her eight-year-old daughter, as she slept on the night of Sunday April 12, 2015.

“I would not have been worried if not because that I had noticed she was walking awkwardly when we were going to church earlier in the day. But when I asked what was wrong with her, she said nothing,” the woman said.

But that night, as Comfort (not real name) slept, her mother decided to investigate what was wrong.

“It was then I noticed my daughter’s private part was chafed. I was worried, what could have happened to her?”Adebiyi said.

The worried mother roused her daughter and asked her what had been happening to her but the girl told her nothing happened.

Adebiyi said, “I told her to go back to sleep but my mind was not at rest. The following morning. I asked her again if anybody had been fingering her and if that was what caused the way she was chafed and could not walk properly. She told me nothing of such happened.

“I then threatened to take her to the police station.
That was when she told me that she could only tell me if I would not beat her and if I would not confront the person who did it. When she told me, I nearly collapsed.”

The name the little girl mentioned was that of their 45- year-old tenant, Victor Aneke. Before the incident, Mrs. Adebiyi and the Anekes, who had been living in the house since 1999, had been having a running battle over unpaid rent.

Victor actually admitted to our correspondent that he owed at least N200,000 in rent backlog. Also, Mrs. Adebiyi said when she noticed that her daughter was too frequent in her tenant’s apartment, she warned her to stop going there.

“But I was not worried about sexual abuse because I
knew the man’s wife was around,” she said.

The house is a kind commonly called ‘face-me-I-face-you’ in Lagos. One of the apartments in the building is used by Mrs. Adebiyi and her children. Her husband has been away on a long trip for many months. The woman said she did not know what to do, as she was afraid of confronting her tenant about such a allegation all alone.

She notified child rights activists. When a test was conducted on the girl, a doctor at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital’s Sexual Assault Referral Centre in Ikeja said that the girl had been raped a number of times.

Our correspondent, with child rights activist, Esther Ogwu, in tow, later paid the Anekes a visit in the course of the week.
After a warm welcome, Victor and his wife launched into a narration about how their landlady had been making their lives unbearable over their outstanding rent.

Victor said he only loves children and thus allowed Comfort to sleep and watch cartoons in his apartment. Asked why he would allow the child stay in his apartment for extended periods of time even though he was not in good terms with the girl’s mother, Victor said other children also come to his apartment to play.

Victor said, “The woman always quarrels with me because she wants me out of her house but her husband is a friend and he told her to leave me alone.

“Telling her daughter to accuse me of molesting her was her latest ploy to send me out of this house. I have never touched the girl because she is like a daughter to me.”

While Victor spoke, his fuming wife, Joy, pleaded to have a say during the interview. The woman was angry that her husband could be accused of such “dirty crime”.

“How can she ask her daughter to lie against my husband just because she want us out of this house?”
she said. “Let me tell you the truth, since my husband had an accident in March 2013, he has not had an erection.”

Her husband nodded as she made the revelation.

However, later, when our correspondent went out and was alone with Victor, he said “I will treat you well if this report could be written to show how innocent I am.”

Ogwu said the defence Joy put up for her husband was not tenable.

“She probably knows that her husband did it but and would rather protect him against the law.

“We may not be a law court that would judge him, but we will pursue this case to as far as needed to prove that the victim was not lying. We have interviewed her and we have no doubt that she is telling the truth.”

The case has been reported at the Ipaja Police Division. Victor who was initially arrested was released on bail on medical grounds.

The police spokesperson, Mr. Kenneth Nwosu has said that investigation is still ongoing in the case and the suspect would be charged to court as soon as findings are complete.

https://punch.cdn.ng/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/Victor-the-suspected-rapist-360x407.jpg

Source: www.punchng.com/feature/super-saturday-crime/my-husband-no-longer-has-erection-he-cant-rape-wife-of-rape-suspect/

That guy Bleep up, is he being forced to marry?
Being the man, he could av arranged things well for himself.

I dunno why these South Africans are doing this?
Are they no more Africans?

sholikay:
Original poster's fool..
They post meaningless and lackadaisical write up..

Can't stop laughing.
Are you now insinuating that d Op is a foolish fool?

mizskyhigh:
Gracias

You are welcome

adeiza4u:
if not God i would have fail d exam as I lost my mum 4 days before d exam but I thank God and all of u all for ur advice and help. God bless U all.

Accept my condolence for this. It is well with & God will comfort you & always be there for you.

Gboliwe:
There's this man who is much older than me like 7yrs older. He never shuts up his mouth about how he knew when my mom used to bath me like this and now I can't even respect him. Lol.

Bwuuuaaaaaahhhh!!!

Can't stop laffing...he wants to keep reminding you of your humble past ni.

dejt4u:
Wenever she recharge her phone, at least 50% of the airtime is mine.. ..

Drniyi4u:
Lol

PARTNERS IN CRIME

Are you still into self servicing?
if YES, then the first thing is for you to get a means of STOPPING it. Self-servicing affects the psychological state of a person, it affects your view on sex....

Also, you have to work on your mind. If you can get a Psychologist or Sex & marraige Counsellor, then, it's a goid idea. Open up to him/her (preferably HER)

Theeldah:
Awwwwn...hope she got better soon enough?

Wow!!
Thanks a lot dear, She's better now. That sickness was around Nov-December.

delishpot:
OP your mom is realy special. my own plenty o. Esp when I grew up. I cant list just one sef. I go fill a book.

Thanks brother.

But you can as well tell us one out of the many list of good things mama did.

OkikiOluwa1:
When I was 7, she flogged me 24 bula of koboko and rubbed pepper on my face cos I smoked weed & later went to swim in a strange river that swallows people.
Last Bullet
That act reset my stubborn brain to factory .
My life come set well, well...

___________________________________________
Thanks so much mum...

This really got me laughing louder. A 7-year old boi smoking weed, chai!!!!

In the spirit of the Mother's day Celebration should make us really appreciate our Mum for one thing or the other in your life. What can you say your Mum did for you & that you would NEVER forget?

Ps: Mine were those Exam times in secondary school, when I'll read overnight & my Mum would sit beside me.
Slightly dozing off, she will tap me & even beg me to read, that it's just a lil more time before the Ecam ends.
Throughout the exams, she usually do my house chores for me.


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MrDoGood
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Slept on a bench beside her sick bed overnight even during my exam.

LOVE
MONEY
HONESTY

Ewuro4:
So let's cut to the chase here ; To go back or not?? Definately

Complicated but this is very simple IMO... One thing I've learnt overtime in marriage is to never fight your parents' fight? This is not her fight.

Her mom has made her stance clear about domestic violence and he's definately a rude & wounded snake with big ego, let him continue though.

The mom knows this and they ( mom & him) are both playing silent mind games.

Your comment makes a lot of sense,but this your monicker get as e be oooioo

dejt4u:
abeg, add me here:
07069671622

shap Guy

StealthyMe:
Thanks for the reply

You are welcome brother.

StealthyMe:
Pls does this work only on 5.0 ? Has anyone on 2.3 or 4.0+ activated the calling feature?

Yes now...I use 2.3

@Op, this is a beautiful one and am thankful to you for helping.

Honestly, I love this pix and I don't just know why am happy for you.
I wish you well.

Kudderich, come here and comment.
dejt4u, good of you, but u don fall in love yakata....chai!!

qinbeauty:
lmao

lol

@hatux, am not trying to discourage you but let me start by saying that the bulk of the work rest on your brother, I mean his willingness to learn. Honestly, crossing over to science is not an easy thing.

Let him be strong in his decision, if he is not too happy with it, let him go back to commercial class.

icecalm:
not so, I am always available, just mention. is just that I had some things occupying me.

Same thing with me but I'll start making myself available from now.