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Visit https://africanentertainment.info/fighting-depression-as-an-african/ for more... Fighting Depression as an African A tiny boat bobbing up and down in a raging vast ocean. The licking waves slaps the belly of the boat and it capsizes The ocean is relentless, a wave engulfs the little boat tearing it into half. It begins to slowly sink into the dark under world. Drawn to the bottom by an over powering force. Unable to rise to the surface, sinking, sinking and sinking. Swallowed into the cold wet darkness. Despondent, dejected and hopeless. Depression. A condition of mental disturbance characterized by such feelings of hopelessness and inadequacy. These feelings to a greater degree are a drive force to suicide, lack of energy and interest in life. Difficulty in maintaining concentration and human interaction. I would know. I was once that little bobbing boat. Wallowing in dark thoughts, sinking in a black hole of self pity, heart ache and sadness. The most difficult time of my life when I had a miscarriage. The ordeal was horrific The Portal to Satan’s Lair I am quite familiar with the road to hell. I lost my baby under harsh conditions of a third world country health care system. The aftermath almost killed me. I sunk into depression for almost a year and nobody knew. I hid it so well from friends and family. As Africans, depression is considered as being weak. I remember after the whole ordeal someone asked me if I was okay. I told them physically I had recovered but emotionally devastated. They said what was important was my physical health and I will get over the rest. Wow. I never received post miscarriage counselling. Apparently my mental well being was not important. I mean they put me in the baby weighing room soon after my miscarriage. So I watched as they brought every new born for weighing albeit, I had lost mine within the same day. I cried every day for almost a year. I had no-one to talk to, after all nobody knew what I was going through. I wrote several suicide notes and toyed around with a few creative ways of offing myself. Life was not worth living, I was haunted by memories of my baby cradled in my arms. Everything was bleak, all black and white. In public I pretended to be all happy and smiles. Alone at home I would literally spend the whole day crying. African women are expected to be strong. We don’t crumble under such millennial white people conditions as depression. Look we are taught to endure abusive cheating husbands, to be the pillars of our homes even as going as far as mutilating our genitals to please men. Our culture is so patriarchally driven that women teach their daughters to further perpetuate this crippling system of society . Crying over a miscarriage is petty and weak. Hence I had to wince several times at the insensitiveness of my people. Someone went on to ask, ” Hey that baby you lost, was it a boy or girl?”, another, ” Are you going to name your baby after your miscarried child?” A healing wound that is constantly peeled and bleeds anew. Hello guys, I am trying to get through this, can you not remind me of the worst time of my life? That would be great. I stopped interacting with people, family and friends. I was withdrawn and could not stand crowds or public places. Although I pretended to be fine, If anyone bothered to pay attention there were tell tale signs of depression. Someone told me not to cry in the presence of my husband because I would pull him down in my misery and drive him away. He never knew. I started smoking. 5 cigarettes a day turned to an entire box a day. Somehow I could deal better. There is a time it got so bad that I emptied the drug cabinet and sat on my bed sobbing hysterically. I cried at how my life had come to an end. I was going to die. Those days there was an Econet free Twitter promo. I had no credit to call anyone so I reached out on Twitter. I tweeted ” Somebody help me. Please call me on this number immediately” I don’t know her but she called me,I was a mess, crying on the phone, I told her I was depressed and about to kill myself. I was 4 months pregnant and I had taken a good amount of chlophernamine tablets. She consoled me, told me it was okay and sent me credit to call for help. She kept checking on me. A stranger from Twitter saved my life. She said she will be praying for me. I just know her Twitter handle @lolo_sav. Thats her in the below image. The angel that saved my life. @Lolo_sav This piece is not a pity party attraction story. It is how we as Africans should take mental well being seriously. To be able to check on people especially those who have gone through traumatic incidents. Telling someone to pray about it and moving on with business as usual is unhelpful. I am a christian but there are down trodden moments where prayer doesn’t even suffice as a solution. Rather pray with them, encourage them, be patient and yes black people its okay for someone to break down. Do not judge them but be there for them. My entire pregnancy with Malik was terrifying because I was afraid of losing him. I had to stop smoking, went for counselling for the sake of my baby. I realised I had to live, my baby had to live and although I battled with depression I knew I had to live! Africans perceive suicide as stupid and selfish. In our Shona culture, if a person commits suicide they beat up the corpse with sticks as punishment. Some don’t even hold funerals because they don’t deserve it. Such a stoic and insensitive culture drives more suicide statistics because people suffer in silence. A people that tortures a soul by beating up its corpse. Depression is real by the time a person commits suicide, they would have been long dead. Malik saved me. The day I held him in my arms is the day the face of God shone in my life. Its the day I resurfaced and reached the shores. The birth of Malik was the day break after a long dark night. Let us pay attention to our loved ones, they maybe going through hell and fighting demons unknown to us. They may give subtle hints or reach out in a pseudo manner. Let us be alert. Depression is not a sign of weakness or shameful. It is a real condition. Zimbabwe suicide hotlines Source:https://africanentertainment.info/fighting-depression-as-an-african/
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Source: http://africanentertainment.info IMO Council: Onyema, Amaechi Woo Foreign Diplomats For Nigeria's Election …Says NIMASA Has Put Nigeria High to Win Council Seat In a bid to ensure that Nigeria wins the re-election into one of the highest decision making body of the International Maritime Organization (IMO), an arm of the United Nation (UN) responsible for global maritime regulation, the Minister of Transportation Rt. Hon. Rotimi Amaechi and the Minister of Foreign Affairs, Mr. Geofrey Onyema has called on all Heads of Foreign Missions to support the country’s quest as it seeks election into the Category C of the IMO Council. Speaking at the Cocktail Dinner in honour of Foreign Missions organized by the Federal Ministry of Transportation and the Federal Ministry of Foreign Affairs at the yesterday in Abuja, Mr. Onyema said that as a key player in the global maritime industry, Nigeria has played active leadership roles in ensuring the development of the sector not only within the country but also in the entire West and Central African sub region. Mr. Onyema assured the global maritime community on Nigeria’s readiness to ensure optimum performance through curbing piracy, preventing marine pollution, reinvigoration of its ports and capacity building. “I wish to inform you that we have enacted proactive policies that conform to global best practices in the maritime sector. More specifically through the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency (NIMASA), we have domesticated a number of IMO maritime safety conventions with a view to ensuring maritime safety and security not only in our domain but in the entire West and Central African Sub region” he said. In the same vein the Minister of Transportation, Rt. Honourable Rotimi Amaechi said that Nigeria has taken a lead role in African maritime sector, adding that the Regional Search and Rescue Coordination Centre (RMRCC) in Lagos, coordinates Search and Rescue (SAR) activities in Nigeria and African sub region which comprises of, Togo, Benin Republic, Cameroun, Congo, Democratic Republic of Congo, Gabon, Equitorial Guinea as well as Soa Tome and Principe. He added that the Federal Government has approved the establishment of an Integrated National Surveillance and Waterways Infrastructure Protection which will ensure security in the Nigerian maritime domain. To corroborate the Ministers’ stance, the Director General of the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency, Dr. Dakuku Peterside said that Nigeria occupies a special position in the African Maritime sector based on the length of its coastline and the attendant volume of trade. According to Dr. Dakuku Peterside “Nigeria has a coastline of over 850km, and 65% of the cargoes heading to Africa would end up in Nigeria. We are the first country in Africa to enact a Coastal and Inland Trade Law (Cabotage Law) and we are likely going to be the first to enact and anti-piracy bill and so we are committed to taking shipping to the next level”, he said. The Indonesian Ambassador to Nigeria, Mr. Harry Purwento and his counterpart from Syria, Mohammed Abo Serriah, commended Nigeria’s achievements in recent times and pledged support towards the election in to the council seat. They said aside supporting Nigeria’s bid they would also canvass for votes for the country after seeing the strides being made by Nigeria in the entire African Maritime Sector. Nigeria through NIMASA is seeking election into the Category C of the IMO council which is coming up later this year. Nigeria lost the seat in 2011 however unprecedented improvements have been made in the past 2 years which puts Nigeria in a stead to clinch the seat of one of the highest decision making body of the IMO Council. ISICHEI OSAMGBI Head, Corporate Communications, NIMASA https://africanentertainment.info/imo-council-onyema-amaechi-woo-foreign-diplomats-for-nigerias-election/
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Source: http://africanentertainment.info IMO Council: Onyema, Amaechi Woo Foreign Diplomats For Nigeria's Election …Says NIMASA Has Put Nigeria High to Win Council Seat In a bid to ensure that Nigeria wins the re-election into one of the highest decision making body of the International Maritime Organization (IMO), an arm of the United Nation (UN) responsible for global maritime regulation, the Minister of Transportation Rt. Hon. Rotimi Amaechi and the Minister of Foreign Affairs, Mr. Geofrey Onyema has called on all Heads of Foreign Missions to support the country’s quest as it seeks election into the Category C of the IMO Council. Speaking at the Cocktail Dinner in honour of Foreign Missions organized by the Federal Ministry of Transportation and the Federal Ministry of Foreign Affairs at the yesterday in Abuja, Mr. Onyema said that as a key player in the global maritime industry, Nigeria has played active leadership roles in ensuring the development of the sector not only within the country but also in the entire West and Central African sub region. Mr. Onyema assured the global maritime community on Nigeria’s readiness to ensure optimum performance through curbing piracy, preventing marine pollution, reinvigoration of its ports and capacity building. “I wish to inform you that we have enacted proactive policies that conform to global best practices in the maritime sector. More specifically through the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency (NIMASA), we have domesticated a number of IMO maritime safety conventions with a view to ensuring maritime safety and security not only in our domain but in the entire West and Central African Sub region” he said. In the same vein the Minister of Transportation, Rt. Honourable Rotimi Amaechi said that Nigeria has taken a lead role in African maritime sector, adding that the Regional Search and Rescue Coordination Centre (RMRCC) in Lagos, coordinates Search and Rescue (SAR) activities in Nigeria and African sub region which comprises of, Togo, Benin Republic, Cameroun, Congo, Democratic Republic of Congo, Gabon, Equitorial Guinea as well as Soa Tome and Principe. He added that the Federal Government has approved the establishment of an Integrated National Surveillance and Waterways Infrastructure Protection which will ensure security in the Nigerian maritime domain. To corroborate the Ministers’ stance, the Director General of the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency, Dr. Dakuku Peterside said that Nigeria occupies a special position in the African Maritime sector based on the length of its coastline and the attendant volume of trade. According to Dr. Dakuku Peterside “Nigeria has a coastline of over 850km, and 65% of the cargoes heading to Africa would end up in Nigeria. We are the first country in Africa to enact a Coastal and Inland Trade Law (Cabotage Law) and we are likely going to be the first to enact and anti-piracy bill and so we are committed to taking shipping to the next level”, he said. The Indonesian Ambassador to Nigeria, Mr. Harry Purwento and his counterpart from Syria, Mohammed Abo Serriah, commended Nigeria’s achievements in recent times and pledged support towards the election in to the council seat. They said aside supporting Nigeria’s bid they would also canvass for votes for the country after seeing the strides being made by Nigeria in the entire African Maritime Sector. Nigeria through NIMASA is seeking election into the Category C of the IMO council which is coming up later this year. Nigeria lost the seat in 2011 however unprecedented improvements have been made in the past 2 years which puts Nigeria in a stead to clinch the seat of one of the highest decision making body of the IMO Council. ISICHEI OSAMGBI Head, Corporate Communications, NIMASA https://africanentertainment.info/imo-council-onyema-amaechi-woo-foreign-diplomats-for-nigerias-election/
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Source: http://africanentertainment.info IMO Council: Onyema, Amaechi Woo Foreign Diplomats For Nigeria's Election …Says NIMASA Has Put Nigeria High to Win Council Seat In a bid to ensure that Nigeria wins the re-election into one of the highest decision making body of the International Maritime Organization (IMO), an arm of the United Nation (UN) responsible for global maritime regulation, the Minister of Transportation Rt. Hon. Rotimi Amaechi and the Minister of Foreign Affairs, Mr. Geofrey Onyema has called on all Heads of Foreign Missions to support the country’s quest as it seeks election into the Category C of the IMO Council. Speaking at the Cocktail Dinner in honour of Foreign Missions organized by the Federal Ministry of Transportation and the Federal Ministry of Foreign Affairs at the yesterday in Abuja, Mr. Onyema said that as a key player in the global maritime industry, Nigeria has played active leadership roles in ensuring the development of the sector not only within the country but also in the entire West and Central African sub region. Mr. Onyema assured the global maritime community on Nigeria’s readiness to ensure optimum performance through curbing piracy, preventing marine pollution, reinvigoration of its ports and capacity building. “I wish to inform you that we have enacted proactive policies that conform to global best practices in the maritime sector. More specifically through the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency (NIMASA), we have domesticated a number of IMO maritime safety conventions with a view to ensuring maritime safety and security not only in our domain but in the entire West and Central African Sub region” he said. In the same vein the Minister of Transportation, Rt. Honourable Rotimi Amaechi said that Nigeria has taken a lead role in African maritime sector, adding that the Regional Search and Rescue Coordination Centre (RMRCC) in Lagos, coordinates Search and Rescue (SAR) activities in Nigeria and African sub region which comprises of, Togo, Benin Republic, Cameroun, Congo, Democratic Republic of Congo, Gabon, Equitorial Guinea as well as Soa Tome and Principe. He added that the Federal Government has approved the establishment of an Integrated National Surveillance and Waterways Infrastructure Protection which will ensure security in the Nigerian maritime domain. To corroborate the Ministers’ stance, the Director General of the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency, Dr. Dakuku Peterside said that Nigeria occupies a special position in the African Maritime sector based on the length of its coastline and the attendant volume of trade. According to Dr. Dakuku Peterside “Nigeria has a coastline of over 850km, and 65% of the cargoes heading to Africa would end up in Nigeria. We are the first country in Africa to enact a Coastal and Inland Trade Law (Cabotage Law) and we are likely going to be the first to enact and anti-piracy bill and so we are committed to taking shipping to the next level”, he said. The Indonesian Ambassador to Nigeria, Mr. Harry Purwento and his counterpart from Syria, Mohammed Abo Serriah, commended Nigeria’s achievements in recent times and pledged support towards the election in to the council seat. They said aside supporting Nigeria’s bid they would also canvass for votes for the country after seeing the strides being made by Nigeria in the entire African Maritime Sector. Nigeria through NIMASA is seeking election into the Category C of the IMO council which is coming up later this year. Nigeria lost the seat in 2011 however unprecedented improvements have been made in the past 2 years which puts Nigeria in a stead to clinch the seat of one of the highest decision making body of the IMO Council. ISICHEI OSAMGBI Head, Corporate Communications, NIMASA https://africanentertainment.info/imo-council-onyema-amaechi-woo-foreign-diplomats-for-nigerias-election/
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Source: http://africanentertainment.info Dear Senator Magnus Abe, I read, this morning, from the wall of my friends who are your supporters the piece you authored concerning your visit to the reception of a colleague, Senator Ideozu. You raised a few issues that require response from some of us your admirers and fellow party men. Firstly Sir, I haven't read where anybody insulted you simply on account of your visit to Senator Ideozu, what I had seen however, are opinions on the events that transpired at the reception. Sir, by your piece, you painted a picture of yourself as a man who abhors enmity, who seeks reconciliation and who would rejoice with those that are rejoicing. On the strength of these, let me take you memory lane Sir. Recently, your brother, associate and friend from your LGA & community, Chief Victor Giadom was made the Deputy National Secretary of our party, the APC, one expected that in the spirit of rejoicing with those who are rejoicing, you would be the first person to extend congratulatory message to him, sadly, till this very moment, we have not read a piece of such congratulatory message from you nor a solidarity visit to celebrate with him. Recently too, another of your brothers, Hon.Oji Ngofa was made an Ambassador and was publicly celebrated in PH by people from both far and near, again, I expected you to extend message of felicitation to him, but sadly, you failed to attend that occasion even when an invitation was duly extended to you. Continue reading here https://africanentertainment.info/dear-senator-magnus-abe/
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Source: http://africanentertainment.info Dear Senator Magnus Abe, I read, this morning, from the wall of my friends who are your supporters the piece you authored concerning your visit to the reception of a colleague, Senator Ideozu. You raised a few issues that require response from some of us your admirers and fellow party men. Firstly Sir, I haven't read where anybody insulted you simply on account of your visit to Senator Ideozu, what I had seen however, are opinions on the events that transpired at the reception. Sir, by your piece, you painted a picture of yourself as a man who abhors enmity, who seeks reconciliation and who would rejoice with those that are rejoicing. On the strength of these, let me take you memory lane Sir. Recently, your brother, associate and friend from your LGA & community, Chief Victor Giadom was made the Deputy National Secretary of our party, the APC, one expected that in the spirit of rejoicing with those who are rejoicing, you would be the first person to extend congratulatory message to him, sadly, till this very moment, we have not read a piece of such congratulatory message from you nor a solidarity visit to celebrate with him. Recently too, another of your brothers, Hon.Oji Ngofa was made an Ambassador and was publicly celebrated in PH by people from both far and near, again, I expected you to extend message of felicitation to him, but sadly, you failed to attend that occasion even when an invitation was duly extended to you. Continue reading here https://africanentertainment.info/dear-senator-magnus-abe/
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Source: http://africanentertainment.info Dear Senator Magnus Abe, I read, this morning, from the wall of my friends who are your supporters the piece you authored concerning your visit to the reception of a colleague, Senator Ideozu. You raised a few issues that require response from some of us your admirers and fellow party men. Firstly Sir, I haven't read where anybody insulted you simply on account of your visit to Senator Ideozu, what I had seen however, are opinions on the events that transpired at the reception. Sir, by your piece, you painted a picture of yourself as a man who abhors enmity, who seeks reconciliation and who would rejoice with those that are rejoicing. On the strength of these, let me take you memory lane Sir. Recently, your brother, associate and friend from your LGA & community, Chief Victor Giadom was made the Deputy National Secretary of our party, the APC, one expected that in the spirit of rejoicing with those who are rejoicing, you would be the first person to extend congratulatory message to him, sadly, till this very moment, we have not read a piece of such congratulatory message from you nor a solidarity visit to celebrate with him. Recently too, another of your brothers, Hon.Oji Ngofa was made an Ambassador and was publicly celebrated in PH by people from both far and near, again, I expected you to extend message of felicitation to him, but sadly, you failed to attend that occasion even when an invitation was duly extended to you. Continue reading here https://africanentertainment.info/dear-senator-magnus-abe/
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Dear Senator Magnus Abe, I read, this morning, from the wall of my friends who are your supporters the piece you authored concerning your visit to the reception of a colleague, Senator Ideozu. You raised a few issues that require response from some of us your admirers and fellow party men. Firstly Sir, I haven't read where anybody insulted you simply on account of your visit to Senator Ideozu, what I had seen however, are opinions on the events that transpired at the reception. Sir, by your piece, you painted a picture of yourself as a man who abhors enmity, who seeks reconciliation and who would rejoice with those that are rejoicing. On the strength of these, let me take you memory lane Sir. Recently, your brother, associate and friend from your LGA & community, Chief Victor Giadom was made the Deputy National Secretary of our party, the APC, one expected that in the spirit of rejoicing with those who are rejoicing, you would be the first person to extend congratulatory message to him, sadly, till this very moment, we have not read a piece of such congratulatory message from you nor a solidarity visit to celebrate with him. Recently too, another of your brothers, Hon.Oji Ngofa was made an Ambassador and was publicly celebrated in PH by people from both far and near, again, I expected you to extend message of felicitation to him, but sadly, you failed to attend that occasion even when an invitation was duly extended to you. Continue reading here https://africanentertainment.info/dear-senator-magnus-abe/
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https://africanentertainment.info/articlepurpose-precedes-marriage/ PURPOSE PRECEDES MARRIAGE. THIS ARTICLE IS LONG BUT IT WORTH READING TO THE END ESPECIALLY TO YOUTHS...... "In you I find more than what I seek for in a woman. I wish to have a sister like you close to me for the rest of my life. You are godly and Godfearing, beautiful and wonderful. I will only be a liar and a pretender if I look away from you. Will you please be my wife?" He finally landed. The garden was very peaceful and colourful that afternoon, as Michael and Oluchi took a walk round the flowers. Her heart melted when those words landed on her ears, and of course she could not say a word at that moment. When she finally spoke, "I will think and pray about it," was her reply. . She got home that day, knelt down and she prayed. "Lord, is he the one? Is this your will for my life? Lord please open my ears to hear you, give me your word as usual. Speak to me in the language I will understand, Lord." This she continued day and night. Her heart was drawing closer to him. Yes, he was handsome, committed and spiritual, but those qualities does not take the lead when it comes to knowing the will of God. One has to seek God's face in the place of prayer and in the study of His word, to know His mind. . "Lord, what is your mind?" She continued her request. The more she prayed, the more it appeared as if God is saying yes, but God has not yet spoken. One night she laid on her bed to catch some sleep, and then she had this dream of herself and the brother walking down to the altar. This was not from God, it was only a thought inspired dream. When she woke up, she gave no attention to the dream, she already knew that her heart desired him, and that dreams could come from one's desire, thought or imagination. This made her to pray the more, and then God gave His reply. As she was meditating one evening on the word of God, she slept off, but quietly, the Holy Spirit woke her up by dropping a scripture in her mind. When she opened and read the scripture, she was cold. "Not everyone who say to me 'Lord, Lord', we enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father which is in heaven." Matthew 7:21. . She didn't need any other interpretation, she already understood what God was saying to her concerning him from that scripture. But as a wise sister, she met a matured Christian sister who was overseeing her life and explained everything to her. When this other sister prayed, she heard God speak to her about the brother in question having no vision. This was a confirmation from God that the brother was out of His will for her. . Hmm! so lack of vision could make someone not to be approved by God for marriage. This brother was spiritual and committed, yet God saw an empty future in him. Probably he has been so occupied with religious activities, but never care about what heaven is saying concerning his life. . Excuse bro! Are you like him? Many of our brothers in their early or late 30s, even 40s, are praying down fire for life partner, but they have no vision in life. Are you one of them? Please what is your purpose for living? Where are you heading to in life? You desire a sister like Oluchi, but do you even pray like her to get instructions from God for your life? What will be your position in that marriage if God should give you such a sister? Won't you quench her fire and passion for God and then turn her into a full house wife? Think about it you who is looking for a wife. Have you discovered the reason why you needed help in your life? Have you yet seen your areas of weakness where she can fit in? Why were you born a male? Have you discovered that fact? Do you yet understand the responsibility of the man in the home? Listen! You may be clustered with spiritual activities like brother Micheal, and committed in so many things in your church, but yet, God is seeing a man scattered inside of you. A man without clear direction in life. . And to you my dear sister, how do you go about this issue of choosing a life partner? Is it just his spirituality you are looking at? The way he leads worship and prays? The way he handles Sunday school, preaches or play instruments? Perhaps, his fat salary, expensive car and his outfit? Don't be tempted by looking at those things. Yes, they are nice and wonderful, but what is God saying concerning him? What future are you seeing in his life? What purpose of God is he fulfilling that you will have to be a help to him? Think about it, and don't think God is in support when you have not been able to settle these questions. . Are you already making a mistake? Why the rush when you can retrace your step and seek His face? A broken courtship, even at the point of marriage, is still better than a broken marriage. Read Full article via the link below https://africanentertainment.info/articlepurpose-precedes-marriage/
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https://africanentertainment.info/articlepurpose-precedes-marriage/ PURPOSE PRECEDES MARRIAGE. THIS ARTICLE IS LONG BUT IT WORTH READING TO THE END ESPECIALLY TO YOUTHS...... "In you I find more than what I seek for in a woman. I wish to have a sister like you close to me for the rest of my life. You are godly and Godfearing, beautiful and wonderful. I will only be a liar and a pretender if I look away from you. Will you please be my wife?" He finally landed. The garden was very peaceful and colourful that afternoon, as Michael and Oluchi took a walk round the flowers. Her heart melted when those words landed on her ears, and of course she could not say a word at that moment. When she finally spoke, "I will think and pray about it," was her reply. . She got home that day, knelt down and she prayed. "Lord, is he the one? Is this your will for my life? Lord please open my ears to hear you, give me your word as usual. Speak to me in the language I will understand, Lord." This she continued day and night. Her heart was drawing closer to him. Yes, he was handsome, committed and spiritual, but those qualities does not take the lead when it comes to knowing the will of God. One has to seek God's face in the place of prayer and in the study of His word, to know His mind. . "Lord, what is your mind?" She continued her request. The more she prayed, the more it appeared as if God is saying yes, but God has not yet spoken. One night she laid on her bed to catch some sleep, and then she had this dream of herself and the brother walking down to the altar. This was not from God, it was only a thought inspired dream. When she woke up, she gave no attention to the dream, she already knew that her heart desired him, and that dreams could come from one's desire, thought or imagination. This made her to pray the more, and then God gave His reply. As she was meditating one evening on the word of God, she slept off, but quietly, the Holy Spirit woke her up by dropping a scripture in her mind. When she opened and read the scripture, she was cold. "Not everyone who say to me 'Lord, Lord', we enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father which is in heaven." Matthew 7:21. . She didn't need any other interpretation, she already understood what God was saying to her concerning him from that scripture. But as a wise sister, she met a matured Christian sister who was overseeing her life and explained everything to her. When this other sister prayed, she heard God speak to her about the brother in question having no vision. This was a confirmation from God that the brother was out of His will for her. . Hmm! so lack of vision could make someone not to be approved by God for marriage. This brother was spiritual and committed, yet God saw an empty future in him. Probably he has been so occupied with religious activities, but never care about what heaven is saying concerning his life. . Excuse bro! Are you like him? Many of our brothers in their early or late 30s, even 40s, are praying down fire for life partner, but they have no vision in life. Are you one of them? Please what is your purpose for living? Where are you heading to in life? You desire a sister like Oluchi, but do you even pray like her to get instructions from God for your life? What will be your position in that marriage if God should give you such a sister? Won't you quench her fire and passion for God and then turn her into a full house wife? Think about it you who is looking for a wife. Have you discovered the reason why you needed help in your life? Have you yet seen your areas of weakness where she can fit in? Why were you born a male? Have you discovered that fact? Do you yet understand the responsibility of the man in the home? Listen! You may be clustered with spiritual activities like brother Micheal, and committed in so many things in your church, but yet, God is seeing a man scattered inside of you. A man without clear direction in life. . And to you my dear sister, how do you go about this issue of choosing a life partner? Is it just his spirituality you are looking at? The way he leads worship and prays? The way he handles Sunday school, preaches or play instruments? Perhaps, his fat salary, expensive car and his outfit? Don't be tempted by looking at those things. Yes, they are nice and wonderful, but what is God saying concerning him? What future are you seeing in his life? What purpose of God is he fulfilling that you will have to be a help to him? Think about it, and don't think God is in support when you have not been able to settle these questions. . Are you already making a mistake? Why the rush when you can retrace your step and seek His face? A broken courtship, even at the point of marriage, is still better than a broken marriage. Read Full article via the link below https://africanentertainment.info/articlepurpose-precedes-marriage/
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https://africanentertainment.info/articlepurpose-precedes-marriage/ PURPOSE PRECEDES MARRIAGE. THIS ARTICLE IS LONG BUT IT WORTH READING TO THE END ESPECIALLY TO YOUTHS...... "In you I find more than what I seek for in a woman. I wish to have a sister like you close to me for the rest of my life. You are godly and Godfearing, beautiful and wonderful. I will only be a liar and a pretender if I look away from you. Will you please be my wife?" He finally landed. The garden was very peaceful and colourful that afternoon, as Michael and Oluchi took a walk round the flowers. Her heart melted when those words landed on her ears, and of course she could not say a word at that moment. When she finally spoke, "I will think and pray about it," was her reply. . She got home that day, knelt down and she prayed. "Lord, is he the one? Is this your will for my life? Lord please open my ears to hear you, give me your word as usual. Speak to me in the language I will understand, Lord." This she continued day and night. Her heart was drawing closer to him. Yes, he was handsome, committed and spiritual, but those qualities does not take the lead when it comes to knowing the will of God. One has to seek God's face in the place of prayer and in the study of His word, to know His mind. . "Lord, what is your mind?" She continued her request. The more she prayed, the more it appeared as if God is saying yes, but God has not yet spoken. One night she laid on her bed to catch some sleep, and then she had this dream of herself and the brother walking down to the altar. This was not from God, it was only a thought inspired dream. When she woke up, she gave no attention to the dream, she already knew that her heart desired him, and that dreams could come from one's desire, thought or imagination. This made her to pray the more, and then God gave His reply. As she was meditating one evening on the word of God, she slept off, but quietly, the Holy Spirit woke her up by dropping a scripture in her mind. When she opened and read the scripture, she was cold. "Not everyone who say to me 'Lord, Lord', we enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father which is in heaven." Matthew 7:21. . She didn't need any other interpretation, she already understood what God was saying to her concerning him from that scripture. But as a wise sister, she met a matured Christian sister who was overseeing her life and explained everything to her. When this other sister prayed, she heard God speak to her about the brother in question having no vision. This was a confirmation from God that the brother was out of His will for her. . Hmm! so lack of vision could make someone not to be approved by God for marriage. This brother was spiritual and committed, yet God saw an empty future in him. Probably he has been so occupied with religious activities, but never care about what heaven is saying concerning his life. . Excuse bro! Are you like him? Many of our brothers in their early or late 30s, even 40s, are praying down fire for life partner, but they have no vision in life. Are you one of them? Please what is your purpose for living? Where are you heading to in life? You desire a sister like Oluchi, but do you even pray like her to get instructions from God for your life? What will be your position in that marriage if God should give you such a sister? Won't you quench her fire and passion for God and then turn her into a full house wife? Think about it you who is looking for a wife. Have you discovered the reason why you needed help in your life? Have you yet seen your areas of weakness where she can fit in? Why were you born a male? Have you discovered that fact? Do you yet understand the responsibility of the man in the home? Listen! You may be clustered with spiritual activities like brother Micheal, and committed in so many things in your church, but yet, God is seeing a man scattered inside of you. A man without clear direction in life. . And to you my dear sister, how do you go about this issue of choosing a life partner? Is it just his spirituality you are looking at? The way he leads worship and prays? The way he handles Sunday school, preaches or play instruments? Perhaps, his fat salary, expensive car and his outfit? Don't be tempted by looking at those things. Yes, they are nice and wonderful, but what is God saying concerning him? What future are you seeing in his life? What purpose of God is he fulfilling that you will have to be a help to him? Think about it, and don't think God is in support when you have not been able to settle these questions. . Are you already making a mistake? Why the rush when you can retrace your step and seek His face? A broken courtship, even at the point of marriage, is still better than a broken marriage. Read Full article via the link below https://africanentertainment.info/articlepurpose-precedes-marriage/
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https://africanentertainment.info/articlepurpose-precedes-marriage/ PURPOSE PRECEDES MARRIAGE. THIS ARTICLE IS LONG BUT IT WORTH READING TO THE END ESPECIALLY TO YOUTHS...... "In you I find more than what I seek for in a woman. I wish to have a sister like you close to me for the rest of my life. You are godly and Godfearing, beautiful and wonderful. I will only be a liar and a pretender if I look away from you. Will you please be my wife?" He finally landed. The garden was very peaceful and colourful that afternoon, as Michael and Oluchi took a walk round the flowers. Her heart melted when those words landed on her ears, and of course she could not say a word at that moment. When she finally spoke, "I will think and pray about it," was her reply. . She got home that day, knelt down and she prayed. "Lord, is he the one? Is this your will for my life? Lord please open my ears to hear you, give me your word as usual. Speak to me in the language I will understand, Lord." This she continued day and night. Her heart was drawing closer to him. Yes, he was handsome, committed and spiritual, but those qualities does not take the lead when it comes to knowing the will of God. One has to seek God's face in the place of prayer and in the study of His word, to know His mind. . "Lord, what is your mind?" She continued her request. The more she prayed, the more it appeared as if God is saying yes, but God has not yet spoken. One night she laid on her bed to catch some sleep, and then she had this dream of herself and the brother walking down to the altar. This was not from God, it was only a thought inspired dream. When she woke up, she gave no attention to the dream, she already knew that her heart desired him, and that dreams could come from one's desire, thought or imagination. This made her to pray the more, and then God gave His reply. As she was meditating one evening on the word of God, she slept off, but quietly, the Holy Spirit woke her up by dropping a scripture in her mind. When she opened and read the scripture, she was cold. "Not everyone who say to me 'Lord, Lord', we enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father which is in heaven." Matthew 7:21. . She didn't need any other interpretation, she already understood what God was saying to her concerning him from that scripture. But as a wise sister, she met a matured Christian sister who was overseeing her life and explained everything to her. When this other sister prayed, she heard God speak to her about the brother in question having no vision. This was a confirmation from God that the brother was out of His will for her. . Hmm! so lack of vision could make someone not to be approved by God for marriage. This brother was spiritual and committed, yet God saw an empty future in him. Probably he has been so occupied with religious activities, but never care about what heaven is saying concerning his life. . Excuse bro! Are you like him? Many of our brothers in their early or late 30s, even 40s, are praying down fire for life partner, but they have no vision in life. Are you one of them? Please what is your purpose for living? Where are you heading to in life? You desire a sister like Oluchi, but do you even pray like her to get instructions from God for your life? What will be your position in that marriage if God should give you such a sister? Won't you quench her fire and passion for God and then turn her into a full house wife? Think about it you who is looking for a wife. Have you discovered the reason why you needed help in your life? Have you yet seen your areas of weakness where she can fit in? Why were you born a male? Have you discovered that fact? Do you yet understand the responsibility of the man in the home? Listen! You may be clustered with spiritual activities like brother Micheal, and committed in so many things in your church, but yet, God is seeing a man scattered inside of you. A man without clear direction in life. . And to you my dear sister, how do you go about this issue of choosing a life partner? Is it just his spirituality you are looking at? The way he leads worship and prays? The way he handles Sunday school, preaches or play instruments? Perhaps, his fat salary, expensive car and his outfit? Don't be tempted by looking at those things. Yes, they are nice and wonderful, but what is God saying concerning him? What future are you seeing in his life? What purpose of God is he fulfilling that you will have to be a help to him? Think about it, and don't think God is in support when you have not been able to settle these questions. . Are you already making a mistake? Why the rush when you can retrace your step and seek His face? A broken courtship, even at the point of marriage, is still better than a broken marriage. Read Full article via the link below https://africanentertainment.info/articlepurpose-precedes-marriage/
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Ahead of the 2019 general elections, Nigerian youths in the Diaspora have joined the call for a youthful president of Nigeria. Their stand followed a recent summit in Enugu, where a coalition of South-East youth groups, threw their weight behind one of them, Iheanachor Ezeakor for presidency. The youths had said at the Enugu summit that those above 50 years should give way for the younger generations to remedy the ugly situations in the country. Speaking on the developments, Ezeakor, at a media parley in Enugu, said he was humbled by the enthusiasm being shown by Nigerian youths over the 2019 election. He said, “I want to salute the enthusiasm, the determination of the Nigerian youths to take their destiny in their own hands. I have always said it that this is no longer the time for the youths to sit on the fence and complain. “I’m happy that we are now experiencing political awakening on the part of the youths both at home and in the Diaspora. They have all keyed into the desire for a young President of Nigeria. “When I returned to Malaysia recently to do my final clearance with my former school, I was shocked to see Nigerian youths running all over me; they came with the same message, that Nigeria needs a youthful president. “Like I said before, I’m yet to take a decision on these endorsements, but my joy is that Nigerian youths, scattered across the countries of the world are now very ready to take up the challenges of leadership in Nigeria.” Ezeakor stressed that “we cannot allow Nigeria to continue in this manner. The youths all over the world are known to be system changers. Our own should not be different. “It is not enough to sit down and blame government everyday; we cannot.... Read full article here at. https://africanentertainment.info/youths-in-diaspora-call-for-youthful-president-in-2019/
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Ahead of the 2019 general elections, Nigerian youths in the Diaspora have joined the call for a youthful president of Nigeria. Their stand followed a recent summit in Enugu, where a coalition of South-East youth groups, threw their weight behind one of them, Iheanachor Ezeakor for presidency. The youths had said at the Enugu summit that those above 50 years should give way for the younger generations to remedy the ugly situations in the country. Speaking on the developments, Ezeakor, at a media parley in Enugu, said he was humbled by the enthusiasm being shown by Nigerian youths over the 2019 election. He said, “I want to salute the enthusiasm, the determination of the Nigerian youths to take their destiny in their own hands. I have always said it that this is no longer the time for the youths to sit on the fence and complain. “I’m happy that we are now experiencing political awakening on the part of the youths both at home and in the Diaspora. They have all keyed into the desire for a young President of Nigeria. “When I returned to Malaysia recently to do my final clearance with my former school, I was shocked to see Nigerian youths running all over me; they came with the same message, that Nigeria needs a youthful president. “Like I said before, I’m yet to take a decision on these endorsements, but my joy is that Nigerian youths, scattered across the countries of the world are now very ready to take up the challenges of leadership in Nigeria.” Ezeakor stressed that “we cannot allow Nigeria to continue in this manner. The youths all over the world are known to be system changers. Our own should not be different. “It is not enough to sit down and blame government everyday; we cannot.... Read full article here at. https://africanentertainment.info/youths-in-diaspora-call-for-youthful-president-in-2019/
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Ahead of the 2019 general elections, Nigerian youths in the Diaspora have joined the call for a youthful president of Nigeria. Their stand followed a recent summit in Enugu, where a coalition of South-East youth groups, threw their weight behind one of them, Iheanachor Ezeakor for presidency. The youths had said at the Enugu summit that those above 50 years should give way for the younger generations to remedy the ugly situations in the country. Speaking on the developments, Ezeakor, at a media parley in Enugu, said he was humbled by the enthusiasm being shown by Nigerian youths over the 2019 election. He said, “I want to salute the enthusiasm, the determination of the Nigerian youths to take their destiny in their own hands. I have always said it that this is no longer the time for the youths to sit on the fence and complain. “I’m happy that we are now experiencing political awakening on the part of the youths both at home and in the Diaspora. They have all keyed into the desire for a young President of Nigeria. “When I returned to Malaysia recently to do my final clearance with my former school, I was shocked to see Nigerian youths running all over me; they came with the same message, that Nigeria needs a youthful president. “Like I said before, I’m yet to take a decision on these endorsements, but my joy is that Nigerian youths, scattered across the countries of the world are now very ready to take up the challenges of leadership in Nigeria.” Ezeakor stressed that “we cannot allow Nigeria to continue in this manner. The youths all over the world are known to be system changers. Our own should not be different. “It is not enough to sit down and blame government everyday; we cannot.... Read full article here at. https://africanentertainment.info/youths-in-diaspora-call-for-youthful-president-in-2019/
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Ahead of the 2019 general elections, Nigerian youths in the Diaspora have joined the call for a youthful president of Nigeria. Their stand followed a recent summit in Enugu, where a coalition of South-East youth groups, threw their weight behind one of them, Iheanachor Ezeakor for presidency. The youths had said at the Enugu summit that those above 50 years should give way for the younger generations to remedy the ugly situations in the country. Speaking on the developments, Ezeakor, at a media parley in Enugu, said he was humbled by the enthusiasm being shown by Nigerian youths over the 2019 election. He said, “I want to salute the enthusiasm, the determination of the Nigerian youths to take their destiny in their own hands. I have always said it that this is no longer the time for the youths to sit on the fence and complain. “I’m happy that we are now experiencing political awakening on the part of the youths both at home and in the Diaspora. They have all keyed into the desire for a young President of Nigeria. “When I returned to Malaysia recently to do my final clearance with my former school, I was shocked to see Nigerian youths running all over me; they came with the same message, that Nigeria needs a youthful president. “Like I said before, I’m yet to take a decision on these endorsements, but my joy is that Nigerian youths, scattered across the countries of the world are now very ready to take up the challenges of leadership in Nigeria.” Ezeakor stressed that “we cannot allow Nigeria to continue in this manner. The youths all over the world are known to be system changers. Our own should not be different. “It is not enough to sit down and blame government everyday; we cannot.... Read full article here at. https://africanentertainment.info/youths-in-diaspora-call-for-youthful-president-in-2019/
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Burna Boy’s Manager paid me N50,000 to rob Mr 2Kay- Suspects https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/ Tunmise Omotore, a gang leader of the suspected robbers, who allegedly attacked artiste, Mr 2kay at his room in Eko hotel and suite has opened up on how they pretended as room service to rob their victim. Damini Ogulu AKA Burna Boy has been declared wanted by the Lagos police as suspects claim he paid them to rob Mr 2Kay. The paraded suspects, Balogun Ademola, Obina Igwe, Tunmise Omotore and Joel Kantiok were arrested after they were allegedly contracted by the Nigerian singer, to attack and rob his colleague. According to Punch, Omotore said “On that day, I was at home when Joel Kantiock (Burna Boy’s road manager) called me on the telephone and said Mr. 2Kay had to be beaten up. He said Mr. 2Kay had issues with Burna Boy. On getting to the hotel, he gave me the room number where Mr. 2Kay was. ”He led me and three others, including one Sunny, to the elevator and told a security man to open the elevator for us. “We posed as room service officials, entered his room and beat him up. We tied him up and collected his phones, a wristwatch and some other things. I was paid N50,000.” Joel Kantiok, however, denied that Burna Boy directed him to arrange for the gang to attack Mr. 2Kay, adding that he was not aware of any disagreement between the artistes....https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/
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Burna Boy’s Manager paid me N50,000 to rob Mr 2Kay- Suspects https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/ Tunmise Omotore, a gang leader of the suspected robbers, who allegedly attacked artiste, Mr 2kay at his room in Eko hotel and suite has opened up on how they pretended as room service to rob their victim. Damini Ogulu AKA Burna Boy has been declared wanted by the Lagos police as suspects claim he paid them to rob Mr 2Kay. The paraded suspects, Balogun Ademola, Obina Igwe, Tunmise Omotore and Joel Kantiok were arrested after they were allegedly contracted by the Nigerian singer, to attack and rob his colleague. According to Punch, Omotore said “On that day, I was at home when Joel Kantiock (Burna Boy’s road manager) called me on the telephone and said Mr. 2Kay had to be beaten up. He said Mr. 2Kay had issues with Burna Boy. On getting to the hotel, he gave me the room number where Mr. 2Kay was. ”He led me and three others, including one Sunny, to the elevator and told a security man to open the elevator for us. “We posed as room service officials, entered his room and beat him up. We tied him up and collected his phones, a wristwatch and some other things. I was paid N50,000.” Joel Kantiok, however, denied that Burna Boy directed him to arrange for the gang to attack Mr. 2Kay, adding that he was not aware of any disagreement between the artistes.... https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/
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Burna Boy’s Manager paid me N50,000 to rob Mr 2Kay- Suspects https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/ Tunmise Omotore, a gang leader of the suspected robbers, who allegedly attacked artiste, Mr 2kay at his room in Eko hotel and suite has opened up on how they pretended as room service to rob their victim. Damini Ogulu AKA Burna Boy has been declared wanted by the Lagos police as suspects claim he paid them to rob Mr 2Kay. The paraded suspects, Balogun Ademola, Obina Igwe, Tunmise Omotore and Joel Kantiok were arrested after they were allegedly contracted by the Nigerian singer, to attack and rob his colleague. According to Punch, Omotore said “On that day, I was at home when Joel Kantiock (Burna Boy’s road manager) called me on the telephone and said Mr. 2Kay had to be beaten up. He said Mr. 2Kay had issues with Burna Boy. On getting to the hotel, he gave me the room number where Mr. 2Kay was. ”He led me and three others, including one Sunny, to the elevator and told a security man to open the elevator for us. “We posed as room service officials, entered his room and beat him up. We tied him up and collected his phones, a wristwatch and some other things. I was paid N50,000.” Joel Kantiok, however, denied that Burna Boy directed him to arrange for the gang to attack Mr. 2Kay, adding that he was not aware of any disagreement between the artistes.... https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/
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Burna Boy’s Manager paid me N50,000 to rob Mr 2Kay- Suspects https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/ Tunmise Omotore, a gang leader of the suspected robbers, who allegedly attacked artiste, Mr 2kay at his room in Eko hotel and suite has opened up on how they pretended as room service to rob their victim. Damini Ogulu AKA Burna Boy has been declared wanted by the Lagos police as suspects claim he paid them to rob Mr 2Kay. The paraded suspects, Balogun Ademola, Obina Igwe, Tunmise Omotore and Joel Kantiok were arrested after they were allegedly contracted by the Nigerian singer, to attack and rob his colleague. According to Punch, Omotore said “On that day, I was at home when Joel Kantiock (Burna Boy’s road manager) called me on the telephone and said Mr. 2Kay had to be beaten up. He said Mr. 2Kay had issues with Burna Boy. On getting to the hotel, he gave me the room number where Mr. 2Kay was. ”He led me and three others, including one Sunny, to the elevator and told a security man to open the elevator for us. “We posed as room service officials, entered his room and beat him up. We tied him up and collected his phones, a wristwatch and some other things. I was paid N50,000.” Joel Kantiok, however, denied that Burna Boy directed him to arrange for the gang to attack Mr. 2Kay, adding that he was not aware of any disagreement between the artistes.... https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/
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Burna Boy’s Manager paid me N50,000 to rob Mr 2Kay- Suspects https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/ Tunmise Omotore, a gang leader of the suspected robbers, who allegedly attacked artiste, Mr 2kay at his room in Eko hotel and suite has opened up on how they pretended as room service to rob their victim. Damini Ogulu AKA Burna Boy has been declared wanted by the Lagos police as suspects claim he paid them to rob Mr 2Kay. The paraded suspects, Balogun Ademola, Obina Igwe, Tunmise Omotore and Joel Kantiok were arrested after they were allegedly contracted by the Nigerian singer, to attack and rob his colleague. According to Punch, Omotore said “On that day, I was at home when Joel Kantiock (Burna Boy’s road manager) called me on the telephone and said Mr. 2Kay had to be beaten up. He said Mr. 2Kay had issues with Burna Boy. On getting to the hotel, he gave me the room number where Mr. 2Kay was. ”He led me and three others, including one Sunny, to the elevator and told a security man to open the elevator for us. “We posed as room service officials, entered his room and beat him up. We tied him up and collected his phones, a wristwatch and some other things. I was paid N50,000.” Joel Kantiok, however, denied that Burna Boy directed him to arrange for the gang to attack Mr. 2Kay, adding that he was not aware of any disagreement between the artistes.... https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/
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Burna Boy’s Manager paid me N50,000 to rob Mr 2Kay- Suspects https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/ Tunmise Omotore, a gang leader of the suspected robbers, who allegedly attacked artiste, Mr 2kay at his room in Eko hotel and suite has opened up on how they pretended as room service to rob their victim. Damini Ogulu AKA Burna Boy has been declared wanted by the Lagos police as suspects claim he paid them to rob Mr 2Kay. The paraded suspects, Balogun Ademola, Obina Igwe, Tunmise Omotore and Joel Kantiok were arrested after they were allegedly contracted by the Nigerian singer, to attack and rob his colleague. According to Punch, Omotore said “On that day, I was at home when Joel Kantiock (Burna Boy’s road manager) called me on the telephone and said Mr. 2Kay had to be beaten up. He said Mr. 2Kay had issues with Burna Boy. On getting to the hotel, he gave me the room number where Mr. 2Kay was. ”He led me and three others, including one Sunny, to the elevator and told a security man to open the elevator for us. “We posed as room service officials, entered his room and beat him up. We tied him up and collected his phones, a wristwatch and some other things. I was paid N50,000.” Joel Kantiok, however, denied that Burna Boy directed him to arrange for the gang to attack Mr. 2Kay, adding that he was not aware of any disagreement between the artistes.... https://africanentertainment.info/burna-boys-manager-paid-me-n50000-to-rob-mr-2kay-suspects/
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��� *FOR OUR MEN*��� 19 ways to fix your wife - when she is falling apart! . Your wife can be dying in silence while still performing her wifely duties. You will need to know her to know when she needs to be fixed. . When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Children, can easily sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be battling with something you are not careful enough to see. . A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart without fixing her and making her better and happy. If you discover your wife is falling apart, watch out and fix the following: . 1. CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM You might be her problem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not tell you. Ask, let her talk sincerely . 2. BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES Get to know how her work load is killing her. Regardless of whether she stays at home or goes to work, do you know what she does all day? If you don’t, ask her. Her to-do list is probably overflowing with tasks that far outweighs her time and energy. . 3. BE APPRECIATIVE Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife . 4. GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand. . 5. GET MACHINE Get all the machine needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford)... Read all article by clicking on the link below � �http://africanstoriess..com/2017/11/daily-tipsways-to-fix-your-wife-when.html Kindly share to other groups �� African stories Team ���
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��� *FOR OUR MEN*��� 19 ways to fix your wife - when she is falling apart! . Your wife can be dying in silence while still performing her wifely duties. You will need to know her to know when she needs to be fixed. . When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Children, can easily sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be battling with something you are not careful enough to see. . A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart without fixing her and making her better and happy. If you discover your wife is falling apart, watch out and fix the following: . 1. CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM You might be her problem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not tell you. Ask, let her talk sincerely . 2. BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES Get to know how her work load is killing her. Regardless of whether she stays at home or goes to work, do you know what she does all day? If you don’t, ask her. Her to-do list is probably overflowing with tasks that far outweighs her time and energy. . 3. BE APPRECIATIVE Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife . 4. GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand. . 5. GET MACHINE Get all the machine needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford)... Read all article by clicking on the link below � �http://africanstoriess..com/2017/11/daily-tipsways-to-fix-your-wife-when.html Kindly share to other groups �� African stories Team ���
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��� *FOR OUR MEN*��� 19 ways to fix your wife - when she is falling apart! . Your wife can be dying in silence while still performing her wifely duties. You will need to know her to know when she needs to be fixed. . When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Children, can easily sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be battling with something you are not careful enough to see. . A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart without fixing her and making her better and happy. If you discover your wife is falling apart, watch out and fix the following: . 1. CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM You might be her problem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not tell you. Ask, let her talk sincerely . 2. BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES Get to know how her work load is killing her. Regardless of whether she stays at home or goes to work, do you know what she does all day? If you don’t, ask her. Her to-do list is probably overflowing with tasks that far outweighs her time and energy. . 3. BE APPRECIATIVE Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife . 4. GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand. . 5. GET MACHINE Get all the machine needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford)... Read all article by clicking on the link below � �http://africanstoriess..com/2017/11/daily-tipsways-to-fix-your-wife-when.html Kindly share to other groups �� African stories Team ���
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��� *FOR OUR MEN*��� 19 ways to fix your wife - when she is falling apart! . Your wife can be dying in silence while still performing her wifely duties. You will need to know her to know when she needs to be fixed. . When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Children, can easily sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be battling with something you are not careful enough to see. . A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart without fixing her and making her better and happy. If you discover your wife is falling apart, watch out and fix the following: . 1. CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM You might be her problem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not tell you. Ask, let her talk sincerely . 2. BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES Get to know how her work load is killing her. Regardless of whether she stays at home or goes to work, do you know what she does all day? If you don’t, ask her. Her to-do list is probably overflowing with tasks that far outweighs her time and energy. . 3. BE APPRECIATIVE Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife . 4. GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand. . 5. GET MACHINE Get all the machine needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford)... Read all article by clicking on the link below � �http://africanstoriess..com/2017/11/daily-tipsways-to-fix-your-wife-when.html Kindly share to other groups �� African stories Team ���
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��� *FOR OUR MEN*��� 19 ways to fix your wife - when she is falling apart! . Your wife can be dying in silence while still performing her wifely duties. You will need to know her to know when she needs to be fixed. . When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Children, can easily sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be battling with something you are not careful enough to see. . A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart without fixing her and making her better and happy. If you discover your wife is falling apart, watch out and fix the following: . 1. CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM You might be her problem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not tell you. Ask, let her talk sincerely . 2. BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES Get to know how her work load is killing her. Regardless of whether she stays at home or goes to work, do you know what she does all day? If you don’t, ask her. Her to-do list is probably overflowing with tasks that far outweighs her time and energy. . 3. BE APPRECIATIVE Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife . 4. GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand. . 5. GET MACHINE Get all the machine needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford)... Read all article by clicking on the link below � �http://africanstoriess..com/2017/11/daily-tipsways-to-fix-your-wife-when.html Kindly share to other groups �� African stories Team ���
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