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Carcholce:
Rubbish!

You don’t obey her, you tame her to obey you.

Wannabenz:
I made a post about finding out that my wife is an Ogbanje before.

*Since I found out she no longer hides it from me and she even tell me before hand.

*On the previous post, someone adviced me to never follow her to thier meeting.

*I do realized that whenever we had arguments,that they do visit her, because her mood will change and after some minutes she'll fall asleep and then I'll be hearing what she's saying with them(I'm only hearing her part and replies) but from hearing her side I do understand the conversations.

*There's was a time we had an arguments she was really upset so in there conversation they were like saying something maybe to do something to me and she was telling them that she loves me and that anything they do to me that it's her that they're doing it to then she said something like "Maybe I no longer loves her...then she told them to do something so I can love her again.
---If you recall from the previous post, There's a place I mentioned that if someone had asked me on January 1st about getting married this year I would've never believed it. When I heard that part I realized this people actually did some work on me that made me to marry her. I did the introduction on February 11 and the other part on 22nd Feb this year.

*This girl was my 4th girlfriend as at last year,She knows other girls that I was seeing. The truth is I wasn't even serious with her because she was the youngest of all my girlfriends. I know about her on June/July last year and we got married this February,it broke almost all my other girlfriends heart because of what they were writing to me when they learnt about my marriage. I still miss them though.

*I do record thier conversations on my phone just in case I might need it in the future which she's not aware of.

*Since the day she told them not to do me anything that she loves me,she also told them to work on me so I'll love her again (mind you,I never stopped loving her it's just that whenever I told her to do something and she didn't do it...I'll just stop talking to her so it seems like it hurts her so much.

---since that day I keep telling her to tell them to grant us massive wealth as a joke. I don't know if she has been telling them,one evening like that she was entertaining her customers via phone and I didn't like it because I felt like she's not giving me attention and it's no longer business hours so I had to pretend like I was upset and went to sleep.

After some moments she was discussing with them(her fellow Ogbanje brethren) and I overheard her saying she's coming back. She woke me up and told me to open my mouth which I did,she spit in my mouth. I asked her what is it for and she told me she's going back to the meeting and that she'll tell me in the morning, I said Ok...I went and spit it out immediately at the toilet.

The next day I told her I spit it out and she was very upset,I said na because say I no give you dirty slap na why you still get mouth dey talk.

Then she said it's for the massive wealth I was asking,that she has been asking them to give her the stuff for a very long time and now that got it that I have wasted it.

I think she went back to their group that evening and it didn't go well with them,they told her what I'll do to appease them.

*She never got the stuff again since then.

The scariest part is,on the day she went and brought the stuff,she told me she fall and broke her arm and that I should help her to stretch it. It scary to me because it shows that whatever happened to them over there is applicable to happen to them in the physical form.

pretydiva:
Autopsy should be conducted on him. I honestly don’t know why young artists are dying these days. May God rest his soul🙏

Pamfresh:
Please I need mature minds advise on this topic.
My family recently discovered that my younger brother who has been in the seminary and was supposed to be a reverend father in few years time has a very big gambling issue.

Over the years, he has accumulated a gambling debt of 2M (borrowed majorly from loan sharks). When I discovered about the incidence, I hesitated involving my retired dad and mum




because of the shock they might get hearing about this but when I discovered I couldn't pay the debt alone, i had to involve them. Thank God they handled it calmly. My dad and I have offset 700k debts already but I recently discovered that he is still borrowing and betting even recently (someone that has access to his details revealed this to me today). I am totally devastated and I don't know how to relay this to my parents to avoid heart attack. The gruesome part of the whole story is that he is JOBLESS because of his seminary school journey (which he has willingly pulled out from because of this issue).

Please my fellow nairanders, how do I handle this problem? I'm fed up

Moyinoluwa35:
That's why I left Nigeria airforce ..thank God am better now, spent two years was receiving 128k monthly as a second lieutenant, but the envy , hates and death threat was much cos I did not give room to the oga at all, am working in another govt place am okay , money is not everything but peace of mind is all

Sunnyrado:
Hi, my name is sunny I am a single man and I have never been married before neither do I have children. I am 43 years old from akwa ibom State, I am looking for a serious minded woman for marriage from any tribe, I don't mind a single mother too . 08163341407
Thank you

Wujio:
God forbid. Nairaland males. Lolz. Make i run

Wujio:
I have given jobs to guys on this forum with housing and feeding. It was abused. I was messed up. I have given up to twenty jobs to guys. I have like eight guys on the forum earning 40-120k. I havent done anything for females. A society should take care of its females too

omolola100:
Send me a pm

omolola100:
Moba

omolola100:
Moba

omolola100:
What part of Ekiti?

omolola100:
Portable Na mad man
Monke Ko. Monkele ni

Jossyfine:
Good afternoon Everyone,
(For mature minds only)
I seriously need a spouse for my elder sister preferably a widower. She just clocked 40 and seriously wants to have her own family cos she feels age is no longer on her side and feels bad when ever I come around with my kids.

She is seriously against having kids out side wedlock, I believe we have goldly men here that are either widowed or know some one that sincerely wants a mature woman.

If any is interested kindly send me an email.

Shalom

sukkot:
oh this is an amazing case. This is the soul of a mighty warrior with power and authority and so this person is going to be if not already a person of substance and power and wealth however this person because of the Luna placement is going to eventually fall into a ditch or a pit of sorts and then into darkness and obscurity .

Basically the soul of a powerful and mighty person who is going to come crashing d





own into a ditch

HelpfulBro:
I'm 18 and last night I just had my first sex, I was so hyped up about it, I been dey talk to myself I'll give her different styles based on p*rn I've been watching and my guy advised me to take this oil... Samsu oil



He didn't tell me how to use it and I went and used the whole bottle on my little man, when she came in the conversation was going well and she was fair and sexy, I couldn't even hold the erection as I was sending her the money before we begin na just small thing for my little man to spring up but I held it in.



I convinced her to give me a Mouth Gig and it was hard but immediately as she put it in her mouth I couldn't feel sh*t, I was like wtf is going on, omoh she laid down and I started to finger her and she was moaning but my guy just went soft. It was like immediately as I couldn't feel anything I just lost interest



She asked to take sometime and I did then we got to it after about 40 mins then my dick was semi hard again and enough to penetrate so she put a condom on it and I did successfully and she was riding me and I started hitting it and she was moaning



I switched her to missionary and she still kept moaning then I put her two legs together in front and started hitting it dip to a I hit a wall 😂 and she shouted. All this didn't last 3 mins though but I couldn't still feel anything, I was stroking and asking myself where's the pleasure when I switched to missionary it just went soft again and I was angry and she tried stroking but it didn't come up



I waited 3 hours moving round the room for the the stuff to die down, I even took a bath but it didn't come up. I tried watching porn but it didn't come up and occasionally I get small bursts of arousal but it goes down almost immediately



So now I can say I'm disvirgined but not at the same time? What do you think I did wrong experienced people, next time I wouldn't take anything.


Pls mature responses before you comment, I'm serious with life, I have a business and I have plans for my future so don't try to insult me bosses 🙏

hisexcellency34:
Has this guy returned the NDDC money he looted?

wondarkid:
My dad was treated for haematuria as he was peeing out blood and at a time he found it difficult to pee ,I had to rush him to general hospital where had a catheter insert in him to pass out urine.

He was on Admission for a week before he had a clear urine and was discharged with the catheter still in his bladder ,everything was okay after like weeks he started peeing blood again through his catheter,I had to take him back to the hospital and the same procedure was done ,the doctor said he had gross haematuria ,he did some test ,his PSA was checked

The doctor said it might be cancerous so he was adviced to do a Postrate biopsy,which was done and it was confirmed he has no cancer and nothing cancerous but he had benign (BPH) enlarged Postrate

The doctor advised we do a prostratectomy surgery to remove his Postrate so he can have peace of mind ,my dad is 67 and I know the effect of the surgery comes with erectile dysfunction

I want to ask if anyone has experience this ?? And is prostactetomy a good solution to his condition??

Puss360:
Lemme sit and read comment while covering my nose😜😜😜...
Talented321, come and talk your own

Opanka44:
Let me go straight to the Point.

I'm dating my Boss's younger sister who happens to be the last born from a polygamous Background. We've known for almost two years. She claims to love me so deeply and she knows I also love her in return.
In December last year, I saw a chat on her WhatsApp. A chat with her acclaimed ex-Boyfriend. Before I saw the chat, I had been complaining about the constant communication

You suck a woman pussy
My bro you are a dead meat


between her and same ex because each time I checked her call log, I would see same guys calls everyday. So when I saw dis chat, I told her that I had broken up with her. I made it clear to her that, it would be an act akin & tantamount to stupidity if she's multi-Dating while I'm loyal to her and her alone. I can't share u with anyone. She begged, cried , knelt down and apologized. I was so scared that day because she almost died in my apartment. She has a health condition (A Hole in the Heart) and whenever her mood is affected, it triggers a negative response. It's a very sad medical condition. And doctors have told her that she can die at any time. But I've always encouraged her that there's nothing God cannot change and there was no point getting worried about the situation. I went further to tell her that, in Life everybody is a walking corpse. We'll all die at some point in our lives, it is only the date of our death that we don't know. I forgave her that day and we reconciled.
The main issue now is that, I have introduced this same girl to almost everybody cos I'm so proud of her even though she still behaves like the last child that she is. My neighbors, friends & few family members. This girl said we can get married and build our lives together and even if it's garri, we'll drink and keep pushing. However, her attitude and actions seems to be in direct contrast to her words. She has never introduced me to anyone as her guy. She also works in her elder sister school. We both work in same sch. Our colleagues are aware of our relationship. So I told her that we are adults and whatever we are doing should be made know to her elder sister who she is currently living with. I asked that she tells her sister about our relationship since her sister is the one to approve or disprove it. I have a very good working relationship with her elder sister who is my Boss and the elder sister had jokingly told me last year to hurry up and pay her sister's Bride Price and that "Any devil that will stop me from paying her sister's bride price is a Bastard". We just laughed over it.
This girl has refused to inform her sister about us, she has never introduced me to anybody. When she comes to see me at my house, I can't walk her to the road cos she said she doesn't want her sister's Husband to accidentally drive pass and see that she visits me.
She hasn't allowed me to have sex with her. She claimed to be a virgin and that I must wait till our wedding night. I make her happy in bed, I give her head, suck her pussy, suck her breasts so well but she can't do same to me. At the end of the whole thing I won't be able to cum and my scrotum will start paining me due to excessive accumulation of Semen. What she does is to tighten her both legs & ask me to climb her and use my dick to rub her clitt so I can release. But I don't release at all. I also doubt if she's a virgin cos she can't allow me to penetrate and verify her claim. She is 28 and I'm 33yrs. I noticed she masturbates a lot cos any time she comes, she always want me to use my fingers on her clitoris and ensure she cums. I do everything she wants but she can't reciprocate. I'm fed up with everything. I cannot boldly beat my chest and say she's my girlfriend and she hasn't ever told any of her friends about me. I'm handsome and well-educated, neat, honest and have almost all the attributes she wants in her man. So why is she not Proud of me??
I have decided to break up with her and I've warned her never to come beg me or go to my friend's to tell them to mediate between us pls. I'm too good to be in such terrible state.
The psychological impact alone is really very Terrible. She makes me feel less of a man.

illicit:
He might be a Christian but he was obviously a not born again

AntiChristian:
Nope!
But it was a wonderful experience!

I wasn't qualified as they actually needed humanities whereas I did sciences.

I scaled through the state test in Abeokuta Ogun state and qualified for the Lagos regional test.

That’s a great experience bro

I was adviced to apply for the sciences related positions then.

It was really interesting from Abeokuta to Lagos.

Those that qualified in Lagos would then go for Abuja HQ test.

AntiChristian:
Nope!
But it was a wonderful experience!

I wasn't qualified as they actually needed humanities whereas I did sciences.

I scaled through the state test in Abeokuta Ogun state and qualified for the Lagos regional test.

That’s a great experience bro,

I was adviced to apply for the sciences related positions then.

It was really interesting from Abeokuta to Lagos.

Those that qualified in Lagos would then go for Abuja HQ test.

Youdontknowme01:
I have this bump on my chest, it has been there for over a month and I’ve tried my best to seek medical attention and done all I could, please with respect I’d appreciate if you can help me know what to use
Thank you

Please i really need help

AntiChristian:
I remember about a decade ago when I applied for their graduate job...NPF!

dapadawee:
How does you