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I was embarrassed and disturbed when a lady told me that sex is for fun. No spiritual attachment or serious commitment to someone u had sex with.
What really happened is that I had a relationship with her for two years. At the beginning of the affair, we had sex as covenant and commitment binding which I made up my mind not to have sex again with any another woman, which still stand on with high optimist to settle down with her.
I can't count how many times we had sex during these two years. One day she decided to asked that we should practice abstinence to avoid unwanted pregnancy, and to stop fornication btw us. I was disturbed we had argument over it but later I agreed to her condition, No sex till marriage
Some months later she breakup from me gives some uncomfortable reasons, we drag the issue to high places, I was asked to let her go.
Recently, I asked her to let us break d covenant btw us, she said she broken it already because after she asked for abstinent she had had sex with two guys thereafter, claiming she could not cope with her libido pressure, that I should go and find solution to myself. I was confused to know this because she accused me of not helping her spiritual ability to grow during our relationship bcs of sex. Plz help me, Sex is for FUN or Game. I welcome ur comments and solutions. Thanks.

It is so sad to know that some people u look at as Godly,undiluted and God fearing and someone you can depend your life upon because you seen them with some spiritual qualities or what you thought that they possessed a standout qualities among their peers, NO! Don't trust them why because they don't trust themselves because they knew what they are and it is difficult to stand by their words.


They repent when things are not working for them They are full of hypocrisy agendas and they can asked you for one quest, fight you bcs of it. You will feel that they meant those things as covenant or Objective (especially sex). please never stay and wait for the end result. They will not fulfill it for one month.


By the time you will find out from them; they you called you fool and they will mocked you because to them is a fun and game. They will be telling you that did you meant them as virgin or are you the first man in their life, they cannot kill themselves, Sex is sweet while this is they fight you for. They don't care if u put your life in danger bcs of them, what they desire is their set goals, if u cry for years they will never changed their minds bcs they never feel guilt or ashamed of it.


They knew how bad they are and they will still be blaming you for what you both did or agreed on. While you are keeping to promise of abscent And they have gone ahead to enjoyed themselves with another man. While you are hoping they are keeping to their words. Never believed any Bros or Sisters from your Church or Mosque as true Xtian or Muslim. By time you are start deepen into each one of them you will see surprises. It is strange to honoured God with their life.



When you now retaliate, they call you names, wicked, satan, devil, and many more. They will begged you as if you have made them lose their life, which they have lost initially. when asked them to fulfill one bit of what you when through for them, they will cry calling God names as if they always seen God face to face. This is a lesson l learned from a church member, so sad!

legendte:
All the successes recorded by GEJ and Jega have been thrown to the waste bin by this illiterate called Buhari.
Lord why did you punish us with this man.

Before u open dirty mouth for comment find out the truth first! Bible says "find d truth it shall set u free" read this: punchng.com/oke-mimiko-trade-words-alleged-arrest/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

This is a fake news nothing like such a story on saharareporter this is rumour

IVORY2009:
Some people will not be able to eat and sleep today, and we do hope Trump treats everyone equally, on like Obama who was one sided, nice one frm one of the strongest governor frm the south-west!


kakaraka Governor!

U are welcome into anti-christ ruling

Anti-Christ has won the Election Christian be Prepare

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I wonder to read some guys comments here, I want to asked them how many companies in Nigeria paid 100k as start salary for graduate in Nigeria. The mindset of corrupt leaders has planted in many Nigerian youths has made them to be thinking beyond their capacities. How much is your father had in his account when he decided to marry your mother. Is it until u have billions like politicians. U want to live life like politician while your father is not one. When do u think u will get that job of 500k per month. Do u know d set of people u collect such amount now in Nigeria, level 17 and councilors. u are just a graduate expecting 500k job in two years, how many working experience do u have. If u allow salary to determine ur next level, many of ur younger brother who learn trade, artisans and security operative receive 20k as salary and they have build their family still be waiting for 1million Naira job bfr marriage by 40yrs u will have first Son.

Folzye:
I don't trust this government at all, states are owing their workers, even NYSC we heard sometime ago are planning to cut down prospective corp members intake. I doubt the authenticity of this news. Another government scam

Continue in ur hatred, till good things pass u by. Those who hate Jesus Christ received nothing during life and after His death, I pray that u will not regret at d end

jeeqaa7:
did you read what i wrote at all... typical apc fanatic ..... i said show me one ... your opinion could be false... make i use my eye see

D condition for d loan is NYSC discharge certificate, land property and a guarantor worth d amount. Is real!!!

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Dottore:
Wetin be this one again
If you are jobless or bored and feel like walking the streets in the name of protest, then your efforts should made towards the release of many innocent people who are unfairly and unlawfully incarcerated and wasting away in various detention facilities not some heartless, looting, thieving, good for nothing clowns trampling on the heads of the sorry and poor electorates

It is now clear that Igbo and south south people were confused people. They were agitating for Biafra sovereignty and they were support Nigeria criminals. PMB has once asked u people "WHAT ARE THE REAL THINGS IGBO AND SOUTH SOUTH WANT?

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The further Ekweremadu/saraki keep pretending as if they are not aware or partakers of crime of amending the house rule illegally in support of the agenda that brought them in, the more they erode their integrity..... the day the evil plan of denying the electoral rights of other senators who are representives of tangible number of the people and supporting the actions with forged document or the rule, our democracy was demoted many times over... so why the wailing? To further deceive the masses through ethnic or other divides?

These criminals called themselves senators believed that without them in government nothing can't be done. And their myopic supporters who suffer these politicians greediness, insincerity, a devil workshop, never open their mind to see wrong character in them. How can a senator and governor forger a document for his selfish ambition and a Nigerian youth will blinding supporting such politician, bcs he hate one man call PMB, I will conclude that such youth is not different from corrupt politician, such youth as be able to acquired all what he/she got through corrupt means such examination fraud, sleeping with lecturers, bribe d lecturer, stealing from his parents or neighbour etc

SeverusSnape:
No be only yam; na cocoyam.

Ekweremadu, Nothing, I repeat, Nothing will happen to you.

I hope u will be able to stand by your when it punishment either by law or by God judgment start to take it cause !

A Nigerian accountant and part-time pastor in the United Kingdom, Samuel Kayode, has been sentenced to nine years in prison for stealing £4.1million. Kayode was sentenced on Friday by Woolwich Crown Court in South London for defrauding Haberdashers’ Aske’s state schools in the UK. The part-time pastor, who earned £57, 000 per annum, was convicted after being found guilty of £150,000 theft and £3.95million fraud. Out of the £4.1million, only £800, 000 was recovered from him. Described as “dishonest” and “greedy”, the court heard how Kayode lavished the stolen money on four women, his wife, Grace; a second ‘wife’ in Nigeria, Olubunmi Halima; and two other women in the UK. British prosecutor, James Thacker, said he also bought luxury cars including a Mercedes, an Audi TT sports car and an Infiniti car with the money. The court also heard how for seven years the convict looted the accounts of Haberdashers. He was said to be secretive, locking himself in his office to work late, “after arriving in a Mercedes, wearing £500 Gucci shoes and carrying a Louis Vuitton briefcase.” Thacker said the father of four from Ilford, East London, was too arrogant to admit his guilt even after he was caught red-handed in 2012. Kayode tried to blame the crime on his late wife and a junior colleague, saying that they conspired to tarnish his image by transferring the money to his account in revenge for his adultery. His crime was exposed when a school cleaner stumbled across some of Kayode’s documents. The cleaner was said to make an anonymous call to the schools’ Chief Finance Officer, Yvonne Smithers. The accounts manager started work at Haberdashers’ – which has links with the public schools of the same name – in 1997. According to the prosecutor, Kayode started using the BACS money transfer system (a system in the UK for making payments directly from one bank account to another) in 2006, to put “tens of thousands at a time directly into a joint account held with wife Grace. He then spent up to £98,000 a month.” Apart from spending money on his wife’s health care until her death in 2013, Kayode also signed documents showing he was making investments with Halima, and renting flats in Kent for ‘partners’ Toyin Lawal and Yetunde Turtak.
punchng.com/uk-jails-nigerian-pastor-nine-years/

happney65:
Why not in a Hall?This does not make sense at all..Calling them out like Primary school students..Rubbish..Zoombies will defend this..Awon werey.. omolola15

I am tired of these senseless people of Biafra what would be that thing PMB will do that would satisfy u greed and self-centred region. If d man organised d meeting inside Hall u will be first ppl to complain of spending your money, doing in economical way u are still at peace, very soon most u are going to develop high pressure and that would be ur passort to hell

We are all guilt of these laziness and lack of vision, everyone want to make money, buy big houses around world, have thousand cars. But it is difficult for a nigerian millionaire to buy acres of lands to promote agriculture. Rather they all want to be oil dealer, collecting subsidy. Niger Delta oil is only resource and office job we are looking for. Among d commentator is agitating that oyinbo should have a parcel of land in nigeria. That is one of bad orientation Nigerian youth has grown up with, his father do not have a reasonable source income, he/she is living in poverty, he is fighting for d land that he/she never a plan on how make use of it. If all Oyinbos we even take over Nigeria as whole and we all return to colonial era maybe we wake up from dreams.

What I can tell my fake brothers from south east and south south people is that if u are not comfortable wit PMB govt and APC.
D only solution to ur pains is to waiting till 2019 and beyond organised yourself and with best mumu governors among u to register a Biafra/Ijaw political party and present araridokubo or ur drunkard president GEJ again for presidential election or u position ur party as opposition party to present govt.
Your agitation on facebook, nairaland, and phone calls to radio stations can't solve ur pain. Be with your sorrow till next election biko!

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richidinho:
He started the cleanup with a paltry $10m while $5bn was donated to rebuild North East

U igbo or ijaw to greed and that why u do sort of business when govt even ur man GEJ did nothing u did come online to complain a man start cleaning what u and ur militant cause for urself u have boldness to open ur mouth to complain abt N5m or N5bn. D day u die it's greediness that killed u, that d greediness is consuming u and ur land.

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Ontarget:
Why wouldn't northerners vote against their own when there is a better option and part of their own too?

What makes APC choose PMB among the primary contestant
Atiku
Kwankaso
Isa
Buhari
Okorocha

D result show these attribute of Buhari
Popularity
Integrity
Command
Acceptance
Education/qualification
Corrupt free
Experience
People trust
To mention few.
In 2019 mention three hausa who has all these qualities even in south region of Nigeria
Truly, some Theocratic in south region may have some these qualities but what is their political influence and experience can work for them.

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There was a lady in my church that we are dating, I told her initially that I don't want some youth excos to know about it till when we are ready to do the wedding (d only misunderstanding we had is argument). During this period we have had a lot of intercourse. But we always blamed ourself after the show. She was accusing me that I am the influencing her to sex. One day, we were together in her room talking suddenly I slept off, changing my position I noticed that she is also slept in half naked, I was tempted, starting romancing her breast, she pretend for a while later woke up starting shouting and accusing me of her misfortune. Telling me that she is no longer have interest in d relationship. Later we settled, said she want to practice no sex, no romance. Two months of no sex or romance, I asked what the is purpose of the action. She said that is what she want. Four months later(making 6 months) I said I couldn't continue with d condition, (trying to determine d purpose) she asked to get another woman for sex, and I should tell her that I have a woman I want marry. I was beginning feel suspicious about her action. I told her if trying quit d relationship she informed our pastor wife (but d story of sex was kept of report)which she later did. Since then, I been begging her. She was saying she did not have any feeling for me, no percentage of it. Recently one of her friend asked me about d affair I let her know what happened, that her friend said she would talk to her, later d lady in question said she did not say we should break up but have space btw us then but now that her friend has involved we should continue as friend. Last week friday I sent a message to her that I want to settle down by September this year. She now telling that she is yet to develop any feeling for me. Saying she if she marry me she can do any sort of things in marriage. D only problem I have now is that as I am making efforts elsewhere the effort is not working either by spiritual reason or by distance or by family even taste, all these is pushing me back to her. This is trouble what can I do?

timibofa:
Turkey is in the present day Europe and partly in Asia.
•Apostle Paul was a citizen of Turkey because Tarsus exists in Turkey.
•Christianity existed in Turkey for about 1,023 years while Christianity has only existed in Nigeria and Ghana for 172yrs starting from when Rev. Birch Freeman came to Badagry in 1842.
•The seven churches Jesus spoke to in Revelations 2 & 3(Ephesus, Smyrna, Pergamum, Thyatira, Sardis, Philadelphia and Laodicea,) existed in the old Turkey.
•The disciples were first called Christians in Turkey(Antioch)
•Turkey once had the largest Christian auditorium in Europe called Hagia Sophia in Constantinople.
•Mary the mother of Jesus was taken to Turkey by Apostle John and till date, her room has become a tourist centre.

TURKEY TODAY

•Present day Turkey now has 96% muslims & 0.02% Christians(less than 130,000).
•The Hagia Sophia(once largest church in Europe) was taken over by muslims and converted to a mosque for over 400yrs and later used as an Islamic Museum

WHY CHRISTIANITY COLLAPSED IN TURKEY

•Emphasis on doctrinal differences weakened the Turkish church.
•Rivalries amongst denominations
•Petty politics in church coupled with ethnic biases.
•The Turks were building big cathedrals instead of building men.
HOW IT HAPPENED

•Osman Ghazi discovered the disunity amongst Christians and used it to fight a Jihad that led to a mass genocide of the Armenians, the Hellen and Turks of that day. In fact, the weapon of war used was designed by a Turkish Christian.
•Many Christian women converted to Islam to save their lives and some were raped and killed.
•Osman Ghazi started the Ottoman empire which gave muslims political post and made it a religion of the state.

IS NIGERIA/GHANA HEADING THE WAY OF TURKEY

•Virtually all the mistakes the church in Turkey made, the Nigerian/Ghanaian church have made it.
•We are building Cathedrals at the expense of discipling men.
•Disunity amongst churches
•Ethnicity in the church
•Denominational rivalry, etc.
•Sharp division along doctrinal lines

MORE FACTS

•The spiritual foundation of Turkey is stronger than that of Nigeria/ Ghana and Christianity existed for over 1000yrs in Turkey unlike ours which is just 172yrs but Islam Radicalism uprooted it. If it can happen in Turkey, it can also happen IF we are not careful.
•The menace of Boko Haram has destroyed a lot of churches in the Northern Nigeria and it may take another 200yrs to evangelize Borno State alone.
•There is a secret agenda to Islamize Nigeria and other African nations as contained in Abuja declaration of 1989.

DON'T SAY IT CAN'T HAPPEN HERE, IF WE DON'T RIGHT OUR WRONGS AS A CHURCH.

SOLUTION

•HEART-FELT Intercession
•Aggressive evangelism- the terrorist reached out to the youths in the norths first and gave them AK-47 and bombs, if we had reached out to them on time,
they'll be carrying BIBLES today.
•Mission support:-God is holding the church responsible for Boko Haram, yet we are blaming the government. If we had supported missions and
missionaries, we would have those insurgents to Christ long ago.
•Unity of the church is key in winning this battle. The last but not the least christians should be actively involve in politics. Enough of these muslims political office holder with islamic adgenda.

ARISE CHURCH & LETS DO THE NEEDFUL!!!

Some Nigeria christian goes to church not bcs of love of God but, what were seeking after: money, miracles, and testimonies. New generation only preach prosperity, no more salvation. Nigeria Christian do jump from one church to another looking for a pastor that performed miracles. Is not in nigeria, east, a pastor building church buried people under d church foundation...tell what would be happening in such a church, can such pastor preach salvation. If christian fail in nigeria, God will not judge pastors alone but all christians in nigeria, what d purpose pastor collecting money from a politician for, penticoastal, hate C n S, winners believes they are only gospel church, redeemed don't want to see jehoval witness. Is this how Jesus Christ handle his ministration...my brother thank you for this eye opener message, God continue supporting u Amen.