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Sex: Is It For Fun, Pleasure, Love Binding & Commitment by ademate(m): 3:39pm On Dec 07, 2016
I was embarrassed and disturbed when a lady told me that sex is for fun. No spiritual attachment or serious commitment to someone u had sex with.
What really happened is that I had a relationship with her for two years. At the beginning of the affair, we had sex as covenant and commitment binding which I made up my mind not to have sex again with any another woman, which still stand on with high optimist to settle down with her.
I can't count how many times we had sex during these two years. One day she decided to asked that we should practice abstinence to avoid unwanted pregnancy, and to stop fornication btw us. I was disturbed we had argument over it but later I agreed to her condition, No sex till marriage
Some months later she breakup from me gives some uncomfortable reasons, we drag the issue to high places, I was asked to let her go.
Recently, I asked her to let us break d covenant btw us, she said she broken it already because after she asked for abstinent she had had sex with two guys thereafter, claiming she could not cope with her libido pressure, that I should go and find solution to myself. I was confused to know this because she accused me of not helping her spiritual ability to grow during our relationship bcs of sex. Plz help me, Sex is for FUN or Game. I welcome ur comments and solutions. Thanks.
Re: Sex: Is It For Fun, Pleasure, Love Binding & Commitment by McBrooklyn(m): 3:39pm On Dec 07, 2016
cheesy grin




Never had sex before though, so I don't know_shit about it lipsrsealed
Re: Sex: Is It For Fun, Pleasure, Love Binding & Commitment by herzern1(m): 3:40pm On Dec 07, 2016

Re: Sex: Is It For Fun, Pleasure, Love Binding & Commitment by Aniker(f): 3:40pm On Dec 07, 2016
cheesy
Re: Sex: Is It For Fun, Pleasure, Love Binding & Commitment by DeLioncourt: 3:45pm On Dec 07, 2016
lol. Sex is different things to different folks.
And it depends on who its done with.
With someone special, it means a lot...but a one night stand is..well, a one night stand.

As for your ex...my guess is she was sleeping with someone before she asked for the so-called covenant.
She just wanted to end things with you. Or maybe you weren't hitting it ryt wink wink
Re: Sex: Is It For Fun, Pleasure, Love Binding & Commitment by QueenSuccubus(f): 3:57pm On Dec 07, 2016
grin


Sex... This is only topic that everyone is willing to listen and contribute something tongue tongue
Re: Sex: Is It For Fun, Pleasure, Love Binding & Commitment by Nobody: 3:58pm On Dec 07, 2016
Human sacrifice doesn't stand so there is nothing like covenant. The lady used the same scope I used on another lady. so move on. I was shweeping another lady when I asked for abstinence. I broke up with her 1 year before I told he r officially. don't fret.

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