₦airaland Forum

Rikze:




The summary is: Nothing is working in Nigeria aside corruption.


With the rot in the country and the fact that Nigerians are truly angry with the ruling class, even if you bring the best coaches in the world, we will continue to fumble.


The overall spirit in the country is very low. No thanks to Buhari and co.

Gaskia God will bless you for this quote
you made my day with the quote.

Steep:
when a husband leaves it is a choice, it is not a matter of forgiveness or unforgiveness.
Also for adultery, divorced forgiveness can set in if that person is repentant.

Romans 1:28 read it well, holy spirit will help u.
Amen

Desusi:
Any marriage foundation that is not well laid will surely have problem. This is the basis of the problems highlighted in example highlighted in your post.If however there's trouble after doing the will of God before the marriage, then leave the rest into God's hand. If your wife or husband walk away, call God into the scene, He will restore the loss wine,when it finished.

The issue is now that while waiting, what happens? Alot I guessed, then can some of us really "wait"? 30,35,40 after Divorce is still waiting oo!!

philip0906:
God bless. Verse 15 is where the answer lies.

There is also a 'but 'that say but God has called us to peace.vs15b
So how about the peace God has called us into ?
And remember follow peace with all men without which ............

Steep:
marriage is not what one can walk into and walk out from at any time, such mentality is a rebellion against God the originator of marriage.


1 Corinthians 7:11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.



7:12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.


7:13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

7:14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

7:15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.


When a partner leaves a marriage then the other partner is free.

@op nice scriptural insight, I love this bible text well and I will like it also to that Mat19, but I wants us to know one thing in marriage that this Corinthians has a 'but' so also "Matt 19" but in all let us liken all of it to the concepts of 'forgiveness' that no matter what happens this concept must come to play.
We all know our errors and lots of shortcomings to God and out of these abundance of errors and shortcomings he still chooses to forgive us.
So we have all been reading the lord's prayer where one of the verses says forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who tresspassed against us, to me where this verse come to play mostly is the issue of marriage.

One thing I want you to know is that economy of today is tending towards digitilization and tech way, take this advice NYSC is not a must if you long term goal wouldn't be affected by not doing it.
There are many folks out there making it big without NYSC, Moreso in Nigeria of today anything can be bought through kudi, owo and ego.
I comment my reserve.Lol

Don't worry by the time they give you jamaare as ppa you will know..

Hmmm, the devil's you know....
Only fr the wise not casting aspersions on nov one though.

If I win this phone ehn nah my friend I go give, I have a nice phone but he needs one!

gasparpisciotta:
That smile that showed the deal had been sealed

Only the wise will know what these pictures mean.
May I never be the person they are waving to downstairs...
I rest my case.

immortalcrown:
Approves?

As the God Almighty?

I thought the approval is by voters through casting of votes.

Can't voters choose without his approval?

Does winning depend on votes or on his approval?

These questions are plain. No tribal or hate speech in any of these questions. But fools are using sentiment to misinterpret the questions as hatred.

Exactly my mind, He said and I quote" I can assure you he is coming back" so this man is the new pilgrimage Nigerians are queing for...
Wait I wants to ask something how much has Tinubu saved to warrant his going ND coming down all over Nigeria.

thatigboman1:
From the still video we watched. Let me make my observations because that is the most authentic video on Internet at the moment.
Please let us concentrate on my observations. Then u can add your comments.
The whole incident took place on the front row. Areas reserved for the VIPs for the occasion.
Bianca Ojukwu was sitting 2 seats away from
Gov Obiano. I observed the seat is not even the cushion chairs like others on the front row.
One, I wonder why Obiano's wife wasn't seating with Obiano (Obiano's chair was a 2 seater and Obiono sat on one part. so even if Mrs Obisn came late, she should have gone to sit with her husband (which was where she sat after the slap).
And those critisizing Bianca, u watched the video. Madam was on her own on seat (she was even clapping at that point when Mrs Obiano came.
No one knows what Mrs Ibiano told her (have, u just stand up from your self and go to someone's else and insult and ptovoke her .
Mrs Obiano got what she deserved.
Lalasticlala, seun, mynd44 frontpage please.

Front page??
This will need like a astronomical telescope before it can hit front page.

With the political sky filled to the brim with black rains waiting to be poured with great water and thunder!
I would like to ask because I have been thinking out loud....
My question is what does the constitution says If Nigerians decide not to vote at all during the general election of the country??
Because left to me we aren't suppose to even bother ourselves about voting because we surely know that voting can't solve the numerous problems of Nigeria.

Toor he don happen....
All you people with "my bestie" syndrome, well from experience if a guy speaks ill of another guy in the presence of a female bestie, then my dear you already have a "passport just waiting for take off date" .

gotnel:
No where in the Bible that God condemn polygamy.
So, the answer to the question asked by OP is capital NO.
However, the circumstances surrounding your life as a man could be that of the one that makes you goes polygamous.
Monogamy is very much better.
But, if you find yourself married to the wrong partner and you have enough economically and your mind is functioning properly to handle two household, don't hesitate to give polygamous practice a chance.
Many men have perished simply because of not wanting to go polygamous and their wives sent them to early graves.

As for the offspring of a polygamous man, everything is about how he organized himself around his children.
Even, children of same womb, with a father who is not organize will have problems with the man property.
May God help us to understand what is happening around us better.

Until u show me your statistics!
You may be right but may not be valid

DukeEmmy:
Please did you use a mobile phone or laptop?

Well let's say we used both cos when we opened the site we used laptop but in completion we used phone to upload the cv

My friend has done it, cos I helped him there was no issue while registering.

Highly anticipating...

lolobukkie:
Hi
Would like to get a few nysc crested vest in ibadan if available for sale asap
Thanks

Chat me if you still need it number in my signature

Space booked..
I go happy oo, I need money to travel down to southwest

For the first time in the history of Nairaland, I saw some good and educative comments.
Let me put mouth by saying wait o, in this economy some people still dey manage get two wives shey Dat means buhari never sapa us well well be that.
Second, try address the need or your need of why do I need to marry second wife if not that all of us nah sex sex sex thing dey worry us, the issue of second wife would have been addressed if you pray very well before entering the marriage, marry your friend, check all that needed to be checked like red flags, body count, cooking skills, relationship with family members, relationship with friends, anger management amongst others and by also having in minds that no perfect marriage anywhere in the universe, spouses are meant and bound to create problem for each other, so owing to these facts and reality if you enter marriage you go enjoy.
Just marry your own problem, manage the problem, face the problem and die bin the problem shikena.
Third, have you people ever ask yourself what happens to kids that comes from two wives marriages?? Especially if one of the folks either the wife or the husband has much property then if you know you will prefer to stay with your one problem.
Overtime have discovered that you cannot even finish the problem from one wive family, not to talk of two-wives family.

I pen out...
Criticism are welcome I wan learn before I enta that thing called marriage

No score from my end too.

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Has anyone gotten feedback from the nestle job tests?

Message me Mr Abel if u can work I'm Ibadan.

Was is painted or it was sprayed as foundation fr paint

wordapostle:
American media house (CNN) is doing the thinking for many people especially Africans, Russia has done nothing compared to what America and UK has been doing for decades with no one condemning them.

Everyone is blaming Putin because America is using the power of media to propagate their sublima messages framing Putin as the evil guy.

If you really follow the news of Russia vs Ukraine from 1997 you will understand the present day happening.

Nevertheless, war may not be the only option for peace.

Rip to the dead
And safe trip back home to our African Brothers and sisters.

U can make it easier for us sir if you can send the excerpts you read fro. 1997 sir .
Cos it's only Nigerians that are always at fore front of casting aspersions, so if US and UK had done bad must Russia also do the same.
I feel like biting your head right now.

Seriously guys, if we need this huge madness and greediness to stop we need to start trending this house rentage money.
Let us trend it like #end sars.
Let's save legit hustlers from becoming ritualists
Appropriate bodies should swift into action before it gets out of hand

DrGoodman:
So Northern support is the only way to become a president in Nigeria?

That's why you people keep election criminals in that country.

When illiterates are the only people choosing who will rule over educated people, the country is Oving towards a heavy crash.

Kai this kind response they make me spend all my alawee on beer