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Na women love dey for Na Wetin concern make man dey carry love put for head! I taya o! I no tok say make man no love but carry am put for head. Man loves by heart Na woman dey use am do head tie dey show am like MTN (everywhere you go)!

harjay1986:
bro I keep saying it, Men should stop getting marry to woman they love .... she will capitalize on that love you have for her rather marry the one that loves you more than you do for her..... these one tend to be reasonable

Bros the effect is for a while to bare not eternity! What’s the difference in you sleeping and not waking up to life again. What will happen to that children, will they die?! My brother, do the needful at the right time!

jboy2014:
My brother, we are on the same shoe, before I got married, you will never believe this kind thing can happen to you, for me the only thing keeping me from divorce is the effect on the children and my mother, right now I envy single people and babydaddy....

What people would say! Bros where are those people when you are suffering and like you said couldn’t walk in public due to what you’re experiencing at that time. Did those people ever for once call you to give you ordinary garri to drink? Please bros, the best thing is to file for a divorce coz that woman can kill you at anytime. I will always put you in prayers!

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.

Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.

I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.

There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.

In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.

Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.

The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.

Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

Old man pikin @madridguy na exactly Wetin I c b dat. If woman don too know about your everything bro You are as good as dead! This your wife don carry you and she don c say you no even carry weight at all!

madridguy:
You saw the sign immediately after wedding but you failed to act then. Do you know what? Your wife is cooking something big for you but she need to send your family very far away first. I hope you act fast.

Firstly, I would say you caused it right from the courting of a thing. Woman who dey act like this will be the one to kill you. From the look of things I can say you are not up to 50yrs of age so the woman just dey wait make you reach 50 before em finish you since wey b say properties don full ground wey she go inherit with em pikin. Abi I no dey yie say na only God dey crown man effort for relationship matter . She dey act like dat to scare your siblings away from you that’s just the tactics. Beware dis woman fit kill you o! My best suggestion abi na advice b say make you find one small woman outside give belle make u use am shock em life and em family life . Introduce the other woman to your siblings coded. If your woman won dey give u headache for house form business trip give am go meet your second woman go collect fresh air and peace of mind. No follow your woman argue and no too dey slow make em no dey fit suspect your move or doings. U b man bro just shock am that time wey u knw say the oda woman don almost born or already don born call your madam family and your family together introduce new wife. Bros your madam go act mad at first but believe me bro dem no born am she go gentle last last wey your family don shift side with the second woman. And e go pay make u do am now wey ur pikin never grow to know things better as every children go mingle together na only dia mama go dey get issue but you go flex! My 1naira wey I fit give u b dat.

Richpet85:
Please do not mind my english consider any error as typo but I honestly needed a sincere advice.

My marriage will be 8 years by September 2022. The journey of marriage has not been rosy and sometime I feel I made a very huge mistake by marrying my wife. I met her in April that year, we date for 6 months and we finally got married Sept same year. Prior before we got married I took her to meet with my siblings since my both parents were late specially our 2nd daughter who her husband sponsored my secondary education. She was cool with my family and never raised any concern during this period of courtship.

Suddenly a night of our wedding everything changed. That same woman that took care of my family as hers turned into directly opposite of who she used to be. To cut the story short, she started dispising my family and the thought of their sight irritates her.

She started by complaining about my sister's son living with me before we got married, her mum and other of my siblings to the point that anytime my eldest sister visited she will leave my house with tears.

My wife also ensure she send all my siblings and relations away from me and my house no go area for them. But what confuses me was that she doesn't behave in a similar manner whenever her own siblings or her mum visits our home. Her behaviour towards my family has destroyed the joy we once had as siblings. The marriage has produced 3 kids of which my last child is less than a month old. Anytime she put to bed her mother has always been the one coming for OMUGOO. None of my siblings can come to my house because of her attitude towards them.

I can't tolerate it further am dying silently as am typing this msg her mum, her immediate junior Sister are in my house and every where is very peaceful. If they were my mum or sibling my house would have been burning by now.

I made conscious effort to kill and ignore this feeling but anytime I see her mum and sister. I feel very depressed in my own house. There are other ill behaviour she have which I can tolerate but seeing myself separated from my siblings because of my wife is my greatest Marital night mare.

I am sincerely fade up with her but my kids are my greatest weakness. The thought of leaving my house and go far away from her or rather travel abroad and leave there permanently has recently overcrowded my mind. But I can't stop thinking about my kids, their future and what they will turn into if she is to raise them alone.

Don't forget I have provided her with everything needed to be comfortable in marriage, house, cars, business etc mostly importanly I am not cheating on her, I don't smoke, I don't keep late night and I don't have friends because she has sent everybody close to me away from my life.

I need a mature advice and no insult please.

I am emotionally trumatised and feel so depressed.

Do you not portray any of this? My brother reason well before you cast that stone. Being a politician doesn’t makes one evil. We’ve got so many of us who are way worst than those we tagged politician and come to think of it. Are you not also a politician in your clan?

Curious345:
Ok oo.

Tinubu is a

1 thief

2 baron

3 mafia

4 killer

5 cultists

6 occultists

7. Emperor

8 homosexual

9 hypocrite


10 ethnic jingoist.


11. Looter


12. Proud

Congratulations bro!
Remember say pesin wey go become big for life na from one struggle to anoda em dey take start em life. Go ask our politicians na so dem start too. You’re going places bro!

Easylion3569:
My girlfriend last saw her menstration last month, its been 30 days and 4 day since she last saw it.. So i was wondering why, and i had to visit a chemist who gave me a pregnancy test tools called 'accuracy'..
he told me how to use it, and what the various line display means.
so i called my girl and told her to urinate small on a small cup, followed the instructions and two thick red line showed..
and the chemist said two line is positive..
i'm still schooling i don't kno what to do now.

everything i have worked for, how i have planned my future is now trying to fade away.
i cant even hold my tears

Bloody Fulani man claiming to be an easterner.

Ibkhaleel01:
I am afraid that many of my Igbos who are declaring Kanu innocent & picking on Malami for his statement against IPOB involvement in the destruction of Lagos during the last endsars violent protests are acting like ostriches.

Theye have forgotten Kanu's broadcasts instructing his group on the targets to kill & destroy on the eve of that destruction in Lagos.
We must recall too that many of his trusted inner caucus aides & commanders were arrested shortly before him & they all sang like cannaries.
Again, Kanu was arrested with the help of Interpol & other world security organizations including Britain that were already on his trail for terrorism which made him to escape from London to Ethiopia first, then Kenya.
What was he running away from Europe for & if these international security organizations including Interpol do not have reasons to believe that Kanu is a dangerous criminal & terrorist, why would they join Nigeria in the hunt for him?
Besides, Kanu was arrested with his phones & communication gadgets. Only God knows the volume of implicating information & details the DSS must have retrieved from them.
No matter what one does in life, let the crime you are ever accused of not be murder or treason.
The state is bigger than all the component parts & citizens put together because if there is no state, their is no citizen & the life of the state must be protected before that of any individual.
That's why the president takes an oath to protect & defend the state during his swearing in. Those asking Buhari to divide Nigeria are ignorant or pretend to be ignorant of the fact that he is under oath to defend & protect the unity of the Nigerian state.
Kanu may be released through a political settlement with Igbo leadership if they can speak & make guarantees with one voice to the federal government. But it has to be through a plea bargain not this ill advised emotional blackmail & grandstanding in South East by many South Easterners!

If you guys have problem celebrating mawlid the. Live it for those who wants to. As simple as that!

RightChannel:
Do you know Islam more than the OP? if not because of him that is making this your room lively every Friday, this section would have turn to a desert. Is the OP too a "keferi"? You and your second I won't mention his name always love fighting with one Babahakemat everytime and you're from the same Islam, is that what you inherited from Muhammad? The OP condemning celebrating muhammad you sit down there typing rubbish with your keyboard as if you know Islam more than the OP. You this keferi master calling someone a keferi

Guy you don watch India film tire! I hail una o!!!

tommy589:
In the absence of fuel they now ride horses. Just like in India movies. This wickedness just brought back the memory of the villain Gabba Singh,riding with his bandit members to kill and loot.

Bread and Hollandia yoghurt. But I have seen one Hausa man like that taking akamu, pineapple, yam, akara and banana all mixed together. I said to myself dis wan na boko haram na so I japa for my lyf jejely b4 e carry em bomb com out!!!

I include this in my prayer point! Baba God do your magic in my life make I get money buy dis car!

Kindly send a budget cost/benefit analysis for 5 Hectares of hybrid palms to adeyemic18@gmail.com. Tnx

1.8

But you use confirm guns to fight IPOB abi?

Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/we-fight-insurgents-with-locally-made-rocket-launchers-airforce

And this yeye government can’t flex their muscle to bring down Biko haram and the remaining of the bandits terrorizing the Norths in general or are they telling us they are good with the damages caused by their book haram brothers?

fergie0o1:
DAILYPOST

What does other country singers sings on?

Plead:
Trash. The only things Nigerian singers sing about are women/love and drugs/money/fraud. Quite pathetic.

wale377:
Yeahh that’s Lagos

correct that’s tapa street for Lagos island

Kriss216:
Are you sure this is the same bridge?


The house was not there after constructing the bridge.

The mast was not there before constructing the bridge.

Hmmmm

The house and mast was actually there. It was due to the angle to which the pic was taken! When you look at the pictures well enough then you’d see a black roof and when you zoom out you’d eventually see the mast far behind the depth of field.

Quality20:
Benue is in d North Central, but because of its proximity and border with southeast they now do almost everything igbo ppl do. Tufiakwa. Abeg join benue with south east. We northerners don't associate with this evil culture

Na ona side for north dis tin take plenty sef con dey use Alhaji imam cover am say na u sabi God pass... I c u finish!

So, you’ve already concluded he did that right?

Righteousness2:
You may Escape the Court of Humans, but you cannot Escape the court of GOD ALMIGHTY.
There will be no need for CCTV on that side.

Ensure you repent from such act and Desist from it.

I laff ���� person wey won marry Nigerian celebrity no knw say na wahala em dey call? You know even marry celebrity sef no b big wahala b dat one? Madam just forget ol dis negative prayers cos China sef no pray dat kyn prayer !

saphiere:
It will never be well with Davido if he does not do the needful.

This is for every girl out there to learn a lesson


Davido has daughters. May this he has done to Chioma and many more be upon his daughters in Jesus name I pray Amen.

Davido, I redraw peace from you wherever you are. You shall have no peace until you do the needful.

Nice one boys

Location pls!

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Cool

Lanrelagboi:
https://unilagefiwe.com/residents-motorists-excited-as-apapa-gridlock-eases-off/

They should have stick with the cameroonians, Malians and the likes since unset rather than trading with the south since they know they make more profit from that end.... And your mumuish self says the federal government owns the oil. Please can you tell me how?

thebosstrevor1:
FFK Always talking nonsense.

The south does not own oil, the federal government owns the oil unlike the food, hardworking Northern farmers are the owner under a cooperative system, the cooperative can decide to transport their produce somewhere else and it wont affect their pocket.

There are lot of buyers of farm produce from northern Cameroon, senegal, mali, niger and chad. The revenue they make from these markets alone is more than the revenue from the southern market in Nigeria

First mumu from the North don talk...

Igboarecriminal:
it's just a intimidation tactics. If they meant business he will have been arrested but the Attention seeking junky FFK just want to trend. Igboho is a scavenging criminal we have many of his type in the North, but we don't give them authority to kill innocent people. Igboho is done, his brothers have already forsaken him for 2023 ambitions

BIG LIE!!!

Ravon:
https://brandspurng.com/2021/02/18/nigeria-exits-recession-real-gdp-rose-by-0-11-in-q4-and-1-92-in-fy-2020/

But this foolish government for tag IPOB terrorist and also freeze SINDAY IGBOHO’s account but den never reason to call all this northern criminals terrorist but find dem name to be BANDIT.


Abeg if u get money to take japa from dis country abeg do with all pleasure...

MASTAkiLLAh:
Not all bandits are criminals – Zamfara Gov.

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/regional/nnorth-east/443593-not-all-bandits-are-criminals-zamfara-gov.html

Make the mumu governor tell me say e no sabi say na how the school dey messed up b dat before the abduction. The school itself na dungeon which is really a key to making the terrorists called bandits to attack it.

God abeg no dey look us like dis!

Chiefpress:
GOVERNOR ABUBAKAR SANI BELLO VISITS COLLEGE OF ABDUCTED STUDENTS IN KAGARA

...PROMISES THEIR SAFE RESCUE

Governor Abubakar Sani Bello has paid a visit to Government Science College, Kagara in Rafi Local Government Area of Niger State where 27 students and 15 others were abducted by armed bandits.

Governor Sani Bello consoled the family of the student that was killed during the invasion by the bandits while assuring the relatives of the kidnapped victims of their safe return as government is on top of the issue.

"Our priority right away is to get the kidnapped students and 15 others, as well as the NSTA abducted victims unharmed", he said.

He said kidnapping has become a daily occurrence in the state and called on the Federal Government to intensify efforts and employ a new strategy to checkmate the menace.

According to him, payment of Ransome is not part of the state government's policy as obliging to the bandits demands will only but empower them with the resources to purchase more arms.

The Governor added that he was opened to any other form of negotiations including giving a new lease of life to the bandits who chose to abandon their criminal tendencies and embrace positive and humanistic lifestyle.

He expressed gratitude to the Federal Government for the swift response assuring that he would remain constantly in contact with the presidency on the security issues in the state until it is rid of these miscreants.

The Governor directed that the school be secured and rehabilitation work carried out on its structures while the management of the school should keep monitoring the students.

Earlier, Dan'asabe Ubaidu, the principal of the college narrated how the incident occurred to the Governor and the number of students that became victims to the armed bandits.

Ubaidu said that the 15 abducted were staff of the college and their relatives comprising of four male, four female and seven children.

Governor Sani Bello, along with his Deputy, Alhaji Ahmed Mohammed Ketso, Members of the State Executive Council and high-profiled security officers were part of the visitation.

The College, established in 1969, presently has a total of 650 students.

For yorubas to leave Lagos to go get education for Niger I don die with this your sense oooo

Kaduna1stson:
What's bad about it, doesn't he remove his cloth at home?

He was trying to topple a good northern president.

We northerners cannot sit idle and allow the SW to paint our president bad. This same president built the Lagos to Maradi Niger Republic train tracks to ensure that the yorubas travel to Niger to get education and tourism.