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for wetin, God forbid, I no fit forgive oh,

@poster,
There is no gainsaying the fact that your supposed baby is hiding something from you, A cheat will always want to go through peoples privacy but will not want people to go through her privacy, they will implement new laws or policy that will favour them and that is what she is doing using in the name of privacy to cover her ass. Just let her know that, that is an old trick you've played. definitely she has assassinated the love she has for you when she went for service, and is had wanted to correct the mess she would have told you the truth and if you want to lose her then I would have blamed you. But the signs are written everywhere even on her forehead that she is lying.

My advice is grab some balls take her unawares cos one thing is definite if she succeeds in clearing the air, then the phone is all yours, and she will come out with a new policy that will cover another secret of hers, therefore if she is not hiding anything i believe both of you have shared something more private than her phone. you have told about more confidential and private thing about your family and she has done the same, shared your private parts why should a phone issue be private thing now, be the MAN in this relationship

N.B: those people saying privacy should review their comment what is more private that sleeping with a girl? beside what will even be private on her phone? we are Africans and don't use any century to cover that. we are also educated like you

love is a mirage. gbam.

mutter:
The most important thing is that you think logically.
A virgin with bf and ex-bf?
Do you consider it possible that this girl could know her lies will soon be exposed and has cooked up this story.
It is very common among young girls that when they are ashamed, the day later that they claim they have been despoiled.
What disturbs me more about her is not her not being a virgin but her not being straight forward.

I like ur reasoning

Atiku, Atiku, Atiku

In 2007 under AC party he openly condemned PDP saying they are autocratic and other heavy words which i cannot quote exactly how he said it. But when i see the advert again I will try and quote him words for words. yet he is fighting under the same party he openly condemned.

Has anybody else seen the advert

what else are the yardstick, Nigeria is a failed state
A country where people know of their leaders loot and still can prosecute such leader
A country that has not been able to transform successfully from agrarian to trandisia in the development continuum
A country where there is no natural disaster and yet a worst hit state with natural disaster has survived the trauma
A country that cannot trained her citizens and develop her human resource for future occurrence
A country where certificate is all that matters
A country that a candidate can openly condemns a political party and later via for presidency next four years under the same part
A country where people opinion and voice is not heard
A country that local govt officials don't come to work

there are lots of criteria that show that Nigeria is a failed state

i will run four fifty. it runnnnnnnnnnnn 4444444444444444 uuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrr lllliiiiiiiffffffeeeeeeee

It is as simple as ABC. just tell them that rice will be for sale on your wedding day. that
A plate of rice with meat goes for 1,000
A plate of rice without meat sales for 700
Minerals 200
Alcohol 500
Dance 300
Seats 200

This will be your budget breakdown. and in this way you can get both gifts n money

You can simply tell him nope. and if he insists ask him questions like do you want me to give you a wrong No? or do you want me not to pick your call when you call or burn your credit if you call? you end with a firm statement like Sorry I can just give you my no. and I am serious about that.

violent:
Why not try contacting someone from her class to find out if those events actually happened, those kind of things aren't always secret.


I will also say in any case you are interested in keeping the relationship going forward, you should also remove the mails you two exchanged from your initial posts, it could land a big hard punch to your relationship later.

To me i believe that she has stalled the relationship

I like her cos she is a GOOD COOK, interested in others problem, social and moral

it is crystal clear that this babe is lying to you. and not only that she knows that you are obsess with her that is the reason why she can play you like that. I guess this is not the first time you have given her such a huge amount that was the reason why she increased her bill. here is the the pick
35k is enough to sort about 8-12 courses in nigerian univesity
65k is enough to sort about 18-20 courses and most of the courses ranges from 3k-10k
This are the reasons why I think she may need that money
1. to commit urgent abortion.
2. To sort many of her courses and keep the change
3. To finance a boy-friend who really needs money urgently
4. To solve a very untold problem.

Apart from these reasons I see no other reasons why she cannot proudly as for money from you like she has always done. Bringing of an electronic device into an examination hall is an offense but believe me i have seen offenses greater than this in my school like impersonation, attaching of written script etc and still this people are not taken to the panel. Lecturers are not that heartless. the worst they can do is to fail her. please tell her say you self don go school.
Bros, it is better she leaves your life than you paying that money otherwise get READY FOR A HEAVIER AMOUNT AND MORE SCAM FROM HER.

I will suggest you send her the same text telling her that you are tired of the relationship, and you want to move on and then check her reaction. sometimes a girl might want you to push harder that will the reason why she uses the word break-up. some people use that world loosely not knowing the gravity of such words. so play along with her, affirm the breakup and see her reaction. do not call when you affirm the breakup let her lead and you will simply follow

if we should go by the records, man u have been more successful for last two years, and with the gunners defends not be stable anything can happen. with current form, gunners don't really have that killer pointer except for the wonders of Nasri (the best performer so far in premiership) I honestly believe that Fab should start this game as it help to curtail Man-U's threat. Man u on the other hand are just an average team but can spring surprises, in monday's match i think Man U will beat gunners. this are my predictions

Arsenal

Strong point: Good football
Weak Point: Lack finishing
Strong Man: Nasri
Weak Man: Kosileny
Strong Position: Mid field
Weak Position: Defence
X-factor: Fabregas

Man U
Strong point: focused team
Weak Point:
Strong Man: Vidic
Weak Man: Carrick
Strong Position: Wings
Weak Position: Attack
X-factor: Ji Sun Park

Prediction Man 2 Arsenal 1

you guyz can pity his KONJI-tion and link him to a babe. even if say na mad one 4 Yaba left

i can't marry a wife dat cannot cook. although i can cook, but my wife should know how to cook. because this is one major quality every woman MUST have

huh the heart of a woman or a man can never be known. my guy face your programm for now and don't bother alot about her cos what you will find out will end up being your destruction. don't ding on her yet when you don't have the heart to accept the news

@miss toch

nobody is being harse on anybody but giving her correction straight from the heart. we have nothing to gain or lose in her life style but she should note one thing, that every human respects a girl that can cover her legs. but for a cheerful giver she is just a ,

@poster

iron sharpenet iron, and nairaland members do the same to their self take this criticism serious are they are constructive and not destructive to you

Dear K,

I remember the first name i usually call you, that name meant a lot to me, I was not into you at first but later you proved me wrong, then i fell deeply in luv with you that i could do anything for you. I wanted us to build inseparable pair but i guess that was not your wish. You don't respect people even after i knew of some bad thing you intended doing i still forgave you. but your likeness for guys, Well I honestly wish you well cos I will be able to stand another guy maltreat you. I will always feel you. But i don't think we can come back again.

facebook abi. i hate everything about it

@poster,
there is nothing in life that destroys more than self deceit, and i believe that is what you are doing to yourself. how old are you if i may ask, you've been in a relationship for four year, without real problem except for the fact that the guy has not made his intention about marrying you clear. If marriage is your motivation then darling prepare for enough s3x from guys because even this new guy i sense will jilt you very soon. therefore I will advice even if you deceit everybody don't do that to yourself. Sex and marriage should not be your yardstick

@viva
I am speechless about your comments. it's obvious that with people like you the created would have regretted of making human a free thinking and rational being. And to my own opinion you cannot be somebody's role model. it not an insult but just an observation. the truth should be told to our self, the fact that you want or like SEX should not reduce you to lower creatures. even in animal kingdom some do have pride. after all at the end you will get tired of sex and the body will worn out. if you don't respect God, respect your body

don't mind them, that was nice of you some how you might have saved somebody's marriage

invisible!:
^^^^sometimes marrying a cheat can be fun, ask some women. They say its boring to stay with a man who is not inventive, who is predictable with the missionary style and who is not interested in 'dirty' pre-intimacy. Men that stray learn all these and more and are ready to tickle their wives with what they keep learning from new partners, abi?

by their writings you shall know them

up blues, I pray we keep up with this form

Many Nigerians answer white names because they had early and enough contacts with the white people mostly from Efik, Calabar, Cross River etc while most people preferred to answer these names because they adopted new faith and they feel that their former names will dedicated to idols. for example name like Nmor, Alusieke, Nwaeke, eke, etc
why some people are outcast who just migrated to other location and decided to change their names. while some people just bear the name because it is foreign