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easy4beno:
Few words for you ma broda..Love should not be measured, concluded and judged by a single action of val's day.!

You're right ...

oreholuwah:
Because u are assisting her family in one way or the other doesn't give u any right to insult them,because she has a boyfriend now she shouldn't go out with her friends again,must everybody know what u did for her and her family. I think girls should go into relationship with more mature minds

She made me upset I said everything out of anger I would call to apologize and tell dem I was sorry...

easy4beno:
Few words for you ma broda..Love should not be measured, concluded and judged by a single action of val's day.!

I know but I guess she was going to see someone.

MhisIjay:
But r u vry sure u aren't controlling her cos of ur financial assistance to her

Yes am quite sure ...

divAnnie:
ohh, ok. I think you are a generous guy, just remain the good giving guy you are. No one is perfect, give room to improve yourself. Move on if u feel that's what is best 4 u. I hope everytin works out well 4 u.

Thanks Thankx Thankx I hate break ups it makes u feel drained thank u

divAnnie:
I still feel he shouldn't have insulted the mom thats all. He can argue all he wants with her and exchange words and all, but should have left the mom out of it evn if he gives her money

I don't insult the mum she called me a fool I said if I was a fool her mum won't be calling me asking for finicial aids that's was it.. I also apologized at the end..

favoured234:
Op you should try to be cautious with the kind of words you use when addressing people no matter how well you think they know you are loose with words... Even if you are my meal ticket I wont tolerate insults to my parents...

As for the lady, even if she is not cheating, she definitely don't know how to place her priorities right if the relationship meant anything to her...

trust/distrust is what we build over time (most times)..... She could say "I am hanging out with my friends and wont be able to do long Skype calls but this is it; Call me on my phone anytime, when I am done @ about 2am I will Skype with you for a few minutes before I sleep".
Any right thinking man will accept that because its a win win situation.

To her am controlling her because I am privileged the deed as been done either way am hell bent on moving on.. Except something else happens I may have done my best ... Am giving up on both of us ... I should spend more time on other stuff for now thankx for ur advice I really appreciate..

MhisIjay:
U seem so much in a hurry to move on, e b lyk say u don see anoda flower

Weve been dating each other for a year and if I show u my bank statement on hw much I send to her and her family for upkeep u won't believe there's no need for me investing where I see no future or someone who doesn't appreciate my time and honestly she doesn't offer me anything I can't get quite literally she always feel because am a bit privileged than her that's y I want to control her .. its better I move on and obviously I won't do LDR again ave learnt I knew it wasn't a good idea I just felt maybe ours could be different but it wasn't perharps may me Di's is my time to rectify my mistake..

chigoizie7:
Trust or no trust, that gal na complete mumu, she knew too well that this guy is not around in terms of proximity. A gal wit common sense even if she is with him for the money will @least give him that 30mins time for calls(after all he is doing the calling). Come to think of it, who wouldn't have time for calls with the bf or gf on vals day? Bros u never did anything wrong oooh.its a clear case of stupidity on her part.

I have never seen when a girl refuses to see her BF or talk to her BF on Val's day it simply means there is something wrong some where all d same I would call an apologize for lashing at her and her family but I would definitely move on... Honestly I don't feel am benefitting any thing if I still remain in d relationship...

chronique:
Unfortunately,I don't see that as an insult. Truly if He was a fool,the girl's mum won't be asking him for money. The silly girl who knows her parents are broke,should have thought of that before calling her benefactor a fool.

Thankx responses like this are well thought off I may have spoken completely out of anger what I said were really hurtful and it was because of her actions I said what ever I said all d same I would call her and apologize to her and her sis and her mum, but am moving on ... Thanks again

MhisIjay:
Op point of correction, girls take themselves out, my girlfrnds nd I take ourselves out nt jst on special days but often, mind u we r nt lesbians. I wonder wat makes guys think girls can't take themselves out .
However, I think u actually ve trust issues with her, or should I say u dnt trust urself.
And judging frm ur immediate reaction, I dnt think either of u truly loved each other, if both of u loved each other u would ve settled ur differncies immediately.

Plus, y do guys think a girl can't b faithful?

Back to d op, ur foul mouth isn't a nyz thing, u neva jam who get foul mouth pass u nd u seem proud to me.
I rest my case.

May be am proud no doubt, but I often take excessive caution to keep quiet or resist from opening my mouth however my EX knows when am about to tick she keeps on doing what makes me angry and when I say something then its only a matter of time between we start an arguement, am not proud of my foul mouth I would definTely call and apologize whether we love each other I can't vouch for her, but for all d same I may apologize and move on...

softysparky:
Maybe you are not being 'maggard'

You don't switch someone off and on at will simply because you are assisting them financially.
What if she was telling the truth about hanging out with her friends or what if she went out with them without informing you?
Only God knows the hurtful things you said to her since you can't even remember.

Yes I said some pretty awfull stuff which have tried to a apologize to her

softysparky:
@op, why didn't you want her to go out and have fun with friends or do you intend to call and Skype with her the whole day?

I intended doing that its a Saturday am usually free ..

Kolade354:
You are a certified maga so you dont see any beautiful babe to date abroad? And you dey trust nigeria gurlz,most of dem are hungry gurlz...............Next time luk for a mature and reasonable babe to date at where you are working and Living.

Maybe I was been a maga I dint feel she was playing me for a fool I once went to her house and am sure she needed money. This was the first time I did a LDR have never done it before maybe have learnt, I don't think all naija girls are hungry my sister aunts and mum live in naija dey are far from hungry ... U don't have to quote the whole thing before u reply me especially with what us saying ...

ronald4lif:
I see there's no other means she can reach you then; Facebook etc. How about Skype? Aren't you friends on there

Blocked her and her sister some of her friends I knew I blocked, if I don't move on I will still keep on investing finicially and emotionally the finicial part I don't mind but the emotional part its crazy lemme leave the earlier the better ifwe meet some other cool. Funny enough I had got she and her sis some smart phones I don't even know what I would do with them ... Am emotionally broken

divAnnie:
the foul mouth is not something to be proud of. I rest my case, all the best

Am not proud of it I know my fault and weakness I try not too talk to much.. I guess I find way to reduce the amount of vocabulary leaving my mouth Thanks ...

ronald4lif:


Well, whichever decision you think it's best for you go for it. Only that you've to look more deep into yourself to be sure you can handle the impending stress that comes with sudden emotional breakdown. If you can fine but if you can't then try to work things out, earlier the better.

Meanwhile, let's hope if she will try to reach you too in the coming few hours or days, you two were wrong and owe each other an apology. Or it could also be that she's seeing someone else and may not even bother to reach you. Should that be the case then you are right to move on too. All the best mate

Thank you, Mehn am impressed getting good responses from romancelanders have found my new home, she's isn't going to reach me I changed my number and wiped my phone, I will do everything possible to move on its only going to take time... I was wrong that am sure but deasing me on Vals day to be with her friends means she already got over me ..

divAnnie:
hw could you have said that? Your mouth is really foul. I wish 2 e-knock you right nw!! Don't ever insult anyone in her family ooo

I even said more than that if for some reason I reavealed our conversation it going to be nasty I have a foul mouth and she knows ..

ronald4lif:
Sorry I didn't see where you insulted her mom in the write up. Or you forgot to mention that part and what exactly did you said relating to her mom

I think what brought about the argument and verbal exchange in the first place is trust, you don't trust her and without this a distance relationship will never work. Both of you were wrong. On your part you shouldn't have reacted to the extend of exchanging words and reminding her that you were not her father and threatening not to fulfill a promise you made. You did the right thing by insisting she Skype or have a chat with you, only problem was the reaction.

She's equally wrong by prioritising her friends over her you in a day like this. Sure she can hang out with her friends but should have make out time for you as well. Have you two been having trust issues before?

It appears you still love this girl and you are out to amend things up. If that be the case changing your number won't help matters. Call or chat her up to apologise. Actually, you both owe each other an apology but sadly women will always play the victim. You've got nothing to lose by calling her up. Better than allow pride takes over you whilst you wrestle the emotional break down

Were I insulted her mum has been added I don't intend going back or calling her I will fight with my emotions till it dies, have made a decision to always stay by my words but I won't send her what ever money I promised because my so called EX is what I call nvm..

IF TRULY I CANT COPE I WOULD TRY AND WORK THINGS OUT BUT NOW I MAY BE DOING A BIT BETTER IF I CAN MANAGE FOR DAYS TILL WEEKS I MAY DEFINATELY MOVE ON

So early hours in the morning on valentines day 12am my time and about 5pm Nigerian time I called to wish my GF happy Valentines like normal people do I told her I was going to call her early hours in the morning Nigeria time so we could talk on phone or even Skype or something since we were miles apart, why I said so was to make sure she doesn't feel lonely..

Behold my GF now my Ex refused she said she was going our with her friends to my dismay, I was surprised that Girls now decide to hang out with other Girls on valentines day which I thought was an out right lie, however I had promise her some finicial assistance and I told her if she leaft with her friends on valentines day that I won't help her again ... That's when it all started.



She then told me that I wasn't her husband and I shouldn't control her that if it was because of my finicial assistance that she doesn't need it meanwhile she has some of my money which I gave her and i was suppose to complete it so she and her family could get a new apartment. I also as well retaliated I told her I wasn't her dad and I see no reason y I should help her with finicial assistance then we started throwing words at each other and I may have insulted her and friends and so on I was angry...

I requested I needed my money back she said she wasn't going to give me that theres nothing i could do. After much argument I finally told her she could have it..

Then we decided to End the relationship, she hasnt called me and i had gone to an extent of changing my number hence there's no means of communicating, however before I did that I called her to apologize to her and sister, her sister was mad at me, she said I insulted their mum and she doesn't want to talk to me, I tried to explain but at the end it resulted to nothing. I hanged up and promise not to call or say hye again ...



I felt the reason my EX din't want me to call her was because she had a date with someone else because have never heard when Nigerian Girls now go on Valentine dates or get together by then selves when guys are asking them out..

Have asked my friends around some said I may be right while some said I may be wrong but however I felt I did what was right. although looking at what transpired he doesn't seem a big deal and I must confess I have a foul mouth ..

Hence was it right for me to have insisted on us talking together on phone or skyping or I would have allowed her gone to her so called Girls Get Together on a valentines Day

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She called me a fool and I said if I was a fool her mum won't be calling me asking be for money ... I said a lot of stuff like I said I have a foul mouth.

Buhari you are an hypocrite !!!

If you want to fight "kowwuption" you should start with baba Iyabo because the money Obasanjo used to built otah farm is obviously Nigerians Money except you can explain where else he got that money to build the farm

what is did tread about now what is inside women's hand bag...

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udemzyudex:
you guys should stop all this rubbish.. Only kids indulge in this kind of thing. Those liking and sharing are jobless too.

My Brother Freedom of Speech!! Let me Be you matured uncles do something else

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juniormusa:
Lol nawawo

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balotelli:
Well I assure you that you will die before Buhari mark my words by all powers of the unseen forces so shall your life be cut off on the day it is sweetest to you

See dem Political Rascals and Extremist, if buhari is 72 and it's 2015 what does he want to still achieve till 2029 he wants to contest with his walking stick..

My brother if you cannot take a joke you're. Are a delusional pr*ick..