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I wish you had the opportunity to have labour. see you change.

You think that God is that crazy? He took out the pains of child bearing from men because they can't handle it.


I wouldnt ve been dat difficult its jus like taking a big dump

which paradise? labour room?

i feel women like going dere becos those dat cant concieve wont stop crying

Oka now im one of the bad ones? oka i see.

I didnt say dat. u seems to unda stand dat it is a give and take proccess. while some just dont get it. they feel once dey ve had sex wit u it is ur pay back.

So the legs we open for them now and then for their utmost pleasure  is not enough? What else do they want?

So if he say dont open it becos it has gotten too fat and goes to abuja to arrange him self while still sending u the money for u and the kids, dont complain, becos if dats is ur only duty and function, u are retired for redundancy. be happy and stay retired

I was wondering, all these girls who want candles, romantic dinner, soft music and whatnot, how's about you do it for your man once in a while instead of expecting it from him all the time?

It is becos of women like u, we thank God he didnt give all the good once to our fathers

 Re: Who Is A Jew Man?
« #184 on: Today at 06:31:27 PM »  

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Sorry wish river is that?

river Niger delta.

Neva heard of it

Quote from: AEjiro on Today at 06:22:19 PM
WORD!!!

oh quiet you. are you acid water new shadow??

Sorry wish river is dat?

my conclusion to post

Women shud know that money cost time so u cant get both. like u cant get money sitting at home. u gat to go and make the bucks. so appreciate the little he bring with plenty time or take the fat cake and stay lonely.

But wat is ur contribution as a woman. if u cant make an effort to look good and trimed for ur husband?

you don't know.  95% of women are braindead when it comes to romance.  They believe romance is all about the man giving while the woman is there to receive.  Bullshit I say.

WORD!!!

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 Re: Typical Jew Man!
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It is someyime because women especially Naija fail to say a little thanks when u ve married them they feel its your duty so why appreciate a man for it. But they forget that the same petting tricks dey used before the marriage is being applied daily to u by single women outside their homes. so why suffer unappreciation when the koko is waiting out dere?

See me see troubleoo?? Why should I thank you for marrying me? Did you do me or yourself a favor for marrying me? Is marriage now a favor from men to women? Funmi don suffer for nairaland.


U didnt get my drift, i meant both parties are mean to say tank u. for a treat recieved. ur man bought u a new fone wit or witout asking say tanx becos he too has probs dat money can settle but he choosed to dol on u. so appreciate

Please stop giving excuses for your shortcomings. Men are greedy and they always think that money is all women need to be comfortable without knowing that the emotional part of us is more important that their goddamn money.
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Sorry o. Most women tinks the ball stops at marriage or after 2 or 3 kids. and they are self centred. Though u still ve men of like minds. so i would say it boils down to maturity

How many men are "up to" the aforementioned qualities these days? It's either he provides financially but turns around to run around in Abuja with other women thereby shying away from providing emotionally or vice versa.

It is someyime becos women especially Naija fail to say a little tanx wen u ve married dem they feel its ur duty so why appreciate a man for it. But they forget dat the same petting tricks dey used b4 the marriage is being applied daily to u by single women outside their homes. so why suffer unappreciation wen the koko is waiting out dere?

Then explain to us wht ayou have done to set the romantic mood, besides just laying face down on the bed waiting to receive it Is it not unrealistic to expect the man to do all of that work and then some?

I would like to see ur answer

Quote from: AEjiro on Today at 05:54:48 PM
I don't unda stand, u mean your man didnt go to work too and doesnt ve expectations

Of course there will be days in which he will come home from work after a long's days work and he will have expectations which im willing to fulfill. But a relationship is give and take. I can't be doing all the giving and him getting all the taking.

Then u are a darlyn and u deserve every treat u ask for. Cos takin and not giving kills the giving spirit

Quote from: DeepZone on Today at 05:54:40 PM
Girl, you need it, demand it from your man because it's your feminine right. stop giving men a free pass because when you "allow" men, they start looking for "allowance".

Sorry but if u keep some of this view strictly u ll remain Single if not a virgin for a long time (Ididnt mean dis as an insult though)

I mean im just saying that if i come home from a long day's work, yeah there is going to be some expectations i will be seeking.

I dont unda stand, u mean ur man didnt go to work too and doesnt ve expectations

I want to say a heart felt tanx to all ma Nigeria Christain Brothers and Friend for defending well their faith and our rich culture. Thank and may God bell u all


@post and feminist

U need to understand that homosexuallity is a purnishment and curse God as place on any one who fails to accept his lordship (Please see the book of Roman) this is why u will notice that the practice of this act in America and the west increased with their belief in science claim of the non-existence of God. and u ll notice that the bible said ur blessings shall become a curse if u fail to acknowledge God that is why in all their wisdom the west and America as falling for the trap of homosexuallity and they are hooked to it. the only cure is for them to accept God as lord then their sexual preference and the quantity of their sons who choose to worship God instead of become drug addict will change for the better.

On the Gay church

I wish to say there is no such church in Nigeria. If there is i dear the reseacher or CNN to make their address public (I cant find it in the site), I will go there myself to make the research and report to Nairalander here. Thanks once again.

did u pay her money?

Help me ask am

i meant that she's definitely same with a prostitute,except on monetary basis maybe

Nna Bros no vex the girl fit dey trip for u before now wey she get the koko she no wan pretend again. no dull ur self abeg

we are afican's and that's our mentality.ever wonder how many other men she'll sleep just that same way?

Sorry this is ur own view and that of some men, I for one am an African male and my opinion is in contrast wit us

This is the typical male mindset.

I personally think it's silly. How about the guy that sleeps with a woman on the first date? I don't understand how a woman's thing is always closed and a man's always open. Please explain.

Sorry not every male. The experince ones know better

a mans thing is always open.while a woman's is always closed.so sister there's definitely some pride in keeping it closed.

If she takes her time u ll complain of playing hard to get but she agrees immidiately she is a prostitute. GOD! can man ever be satisfied. why can u see it that sometimes her has been dying to be wit u. i have had a girl on my first date dat became the best tin in ma life so this opinion of us dont apply to me.

Is this true?

Very true. So we dont ve fraudster wanting to marry a guy becos of alimony and sharing of properties but if dey feel sometin for u. This is Africa way of life. A man marrying just one woman is out of love (especially in ma place where bride price is cheap).

The girls brother feels that the girl must have consented to the act. He is however dissapointed in his friend.The friend has decided to move out of the house.

The girl however says the guy will not go unpunished even after the police issue was called off by her elder brother!
Posted on: July 26, 2008, 05:15 PMPosted by: iice

Neva mess up a good friendship with a moment of plesure


Imagine him taking advantage of his friend's sister

To me kiss back is concent no advantage taking in this case (As presented by poster) what the girl is feeling is post 'maraton regret and she is blaming the guy when she couldnt decide in the moment of heat that her no means NO

Well individual difference i would say becos i prefer some one below my age but she mustnt be a minor. and i hate lies if i find out she out of the braket. sorry o! tori olorun

And what's so wrong in being gay?

Everytin as long as we re still african wit our good head on our shudas.

How man go dey shit ^{*i cant even say it*}

So all these gud naija sisters we have here are our friends, no wonder the are shouting dat the boys are promiscous. Becos they are the buddies we have at home. Damn! i know now how they get the secret to our game.

Well, its good our friendship is appreciate. thanks ladies because i ve an estate of ladies for friends. though, wont give up ma time with the bucks cos dats the source of the dough men.

as if they would be doing u a favor by dating or marrying you. then on Friday they go for night vigils to pray to God to send them a husband because they are 35yrs old, single and fast becoming obsolete in the singles market

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i Completely agree wit this line.

too long and borin(though it's d truth), try to shorten your post next time.

Sorry dude am not perfect. But u can do well to post your shortened contribution to the tread. dat ll be greatly appreciated. Tanks

If you speak to ladies of various tribes in Nigeria, you will notice that most of them has various assumption most of which are baseless as under listed below.

NOTE: before you go blabing all about. I said MOST not ALL

 Error: If you suffer with a man he will leave you when he has made it for a younger woman.

Rs: It depends on the man’s maturity; most men treasure the women who stood by them when the going is tough. This is why it is said that behind any successful man there is a woman.

 Error: I want a handsome rich young and single man for marriage.

Rs: Keep in mind “behind any successful man there is a woman”.

 Error: Men don’t need love, They are just pretending to get a woman’s attention

Rs: Please men are not MADE OF STONE; they want to be loved as much as they love. More so there is nothing in a man’s anatomy that suggests that men are not made of flesh and blood.

 Error: I don’t need to tell my Guy (Husband or Boyfriend) that I love him because he will take me for granted, and not appreciate the love I have for him.

Rs: Everyone wants to know if they are desired or in the right place, men are no exception.

 Error: I don’t need to reassure him of my love for him, he already knows.

Rs: The only knowledge he has of your affection for him could likely be suspicion and it will remain so until you help him confirm his suspicion, It is advisable to confirm his fear before another lady beat you to it (Note: he may have more than you in his life).

 Error: If I spend on my Guy, he will take me for a ride and starts demanding I do so more often.

Rs: There is a difference between a Man and a Boy, which are you with? Boys could have such notions but a Man would reason along these lines
1. Be surprise by his ladies generosity and willingness to share.
2. BE challenged to reciprocate the gesture in a bigger way.
3. Be certain in his heart that he as found a wife material.

 Error: I cant have a fling he wouldn’t find out.

Rs: Be careful!!! He may find out but will not react (because he is broke and he knows how difficult it is for a broke ass guy to attract beautiful women. If he makes his millions later, you will find out he had always known) now, but will show his true colours when he decide to settle down, he had already decided your position in his life long ago (Men could be cunning).

 Error: All men are dogs; they are cheat and are always unfaithful.

Rs: Generalizations like these are simply a sign of immaturity, as there will always be people on different sides of the river of life. It is fair to always give someone the benefit of a doubt. At least assume you are at the receiving end of sure assumption what will your reaction be?

 Error: He needs to change, if we are going to be together, I can’t stand the side of him.

Rs: Be careful!!! What you ask for. Sometimes changes in one person require changes in the other. If you want him to stop hanging out with the boyz you got to have a ready alternative. Else!

 Error: I don’t need to show appreciation for the things the does (Whether little or big) after all he asked for the relationship, so he should be prepared to take care of me.

Rs: He asked for a relationship and wants to take care of you. But a word of appreciation (Or an attitude of fulfillment) might just be all that is required to give a repeat performance not sex.

 Error: He doesn’t do this and that like Mary’s husband or like Ann’s Boyfriend.

Rs: He is not Mary’s Husband, neither is he Ann’s Boyfriend. Note also, you are not Ann or Mary. There most be some way he is better than those other Guys you think are super human, just that the other ladies don’t come complaining to you when their relationship is not going as desired.

 Error: He is not always acting like or doing the things i want.

Rs: He is not a super-man; he is human and has his bad sides. However, have you told him want your expectations are? He just might not be in the know.

 Error: I have told him I hate this and that and he still does it.

Rs: He is not a machine and changes in humans cannot be automatic, it takes time and repeated attempts to adjust to a new way of life not practice previously, so just appreciate his efforts and correct his mistake it could be all that is required to earn the perfect partner of your choice.

 Error: He is too possessive.

Rs: What do you expect? For him to leave his territory for other men to prey upon. Please understand it’s a matter of his ego and he will always stand up to protect that which makes him a man. All you need do try to politely inform him when he is overdoing it (Don’t shout or be public about it you will only get negative results).

 Error: He looks at other women too much.

Rs: Have ask him what his interest in them is? He could just be imagining how their dress will look on you.

 Error: We don’t need his parents (especially his Mother) or siblings in our affairs.

Rs: Well, this is Africa, the family will always be a part of him, it is how he is brought up, learn to accept them. At least you have not left yours, you still consult your mother and aunties why can’t he do the same?

 Error: Am already married to him so there will be no need to be sexy and kinky with him

Rs: HELLO!!! If you were doing all those kinky and sexy stuffs with him before the “I do”. Please know that’s why he chose you instead of any of his other bloc. So why change a winning strategy? STAY THE SAME GIRL!

So for the guys the tread is open for more while the ladies feel free to contribute and advice where necessary

Thanx guy u all ready have sometin 4 me today to tell ma girl, like these

In my opinion, perfection in a guy and romance lies on the imperfections. . .

My perfect guy is anything but. . .

~ he'll get on my nerves and make want to kill him sometimes

~ he'll have habits i really can't stand but i secretly think are cute

~ he'll let me walk all over him but put me in my place when i get out of line


My idea of a perfect romance is not all flowers and gifts, its the little things

~ like catching his eye across a room full of people and sharing a private joke

~ its being together comfortably in complete silence without feeling the need to talk

~ its either of us moaning about doing something we'd rather not be doing but going ahead and doing because it makes the other happy

~ its spending long hours apart doing our own thing and also spending as much time together doing and talking about silly and pointless things


and through it all we both are happy and secure in the knowledge about how we feel about each other

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for me, there's just nothin like a 'perfect girl, or dude, or a perfect romance'

but an imperfect person,who's is loved by his or her partner in a perfect manner, thereby their lovelife is being made perfect.although they may encounter some bumps in there union, their zeal for perfection is what sees them through.

No i wont attend becos the typical me will flare up at the slightest provocation and the ceremony as i wont get over her not for months after. Even if i have a better girl i will always cherist our moments together cos i live on memories. So i rather not be in the same state with the wedding. i will prefer to do the other thing that brings me joy (Which is making lots of cash). Well, everyone has their abilities and getting over hurt is not one of my specialty

Everytin about d person

and mostly hw the person treat other not urself co u ll get d same treatment if d love he/she profess has wean