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MRbrownJAY:
yes it depends on the person. if i meet someone then the feeling i have for her and how she handles herself in my presence will either make me show my feelings or wait until the right moment to let go.
there is a right time and moment to show your loving feelings to someone, even if you automatically feel attraction for them, you have to be careful about who you showing it to. some women cant handle quick show of affection and can be scared of it(or perceive it the wrong way) while others will abuse that show of affection.
of course, i wont be cold as ice and then one day change to lovey dovey, its a gradual state and if along the way, there is some "problems" then i back down.
so it all depends on the right moment, the right mood, the right relationship and the right person.
if i fall in love with a person that i dont feel will ever be more than a bedroom buddy, then i will not let her know about my affection for her because i wouldnt want to mislead her. i wouldnt be cold as ice but i would never be lovey dovey either and the moment she try to step up the relationship, i would bring it down.
its all about how comfortable you are with someone.

I tink d postt is refering to an existing r/ship

Ujujoan:
Okay oh. But permit me to say that that's just shallow!!

I cant cruxify u 4 ur opinion but dats wat it is ur opinion. My view everyone should know their role and do their best to make things work, if one is asking for help due to some imidiate short coming dats understandable not permanent lack of performance on anyone side.

@Ujujoan;how would u feel if he was like i am not interested in caring for the family? i ll come home wen i like?

Sasha009:
I'm the hot type.
I laugh with him, hold him, hug him, kiss him, care for him, stroke his hair, look into his beautiful eyes lovingly, give him back scratches/rubs and massages, make him feel good, tell him how much I care, compliment him every time, and guess what? He does the same for me (even more). He is a happy man for this.

Why act cold if you love someone?? you will be the one losing.
Guys cant get into your heads, if you love them and are acting like you don't., then they will get the impression that you re not interested, and no matter how beautiful you re, they will get tired of trying to make it work, so they will move on, slowly drifting away from you. Then you'd be left wondering why this happened to you.
Why not just jump into it with all passion and open love if you really feel it. let your guards down and enjoy it while it lasts.
If the guy doesn't like this, then let him move on! Life goes on. do not deny yourself the joy of letting go and enjoying your relationship because of insecurity

Now dats how i like my ladies. if u dont trust me dont dated me abi na by force?

Ujujoan:
So you judge the woman for you based on how good she is in the kitchen? Hmmn! And I thought we were done with this gender marginalization thing.

If u have to choose a guy to spend ur life wit u most have ur criteria for sellection cooking is a top priority in mine. Call it whatever, my woman must be woman enough to cook good food i wont settle for less. However, i do cook even for women but it is as a treat. not a duty.

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Lexiwhite:
Luckily she knows

yes o! it one of d way she makes say yes! even if later i ll be like how did she do it?

Ujujoan:
What if she cant learn? Some people are just not sut out for the kitchen. There's nothing you can do to change that.

@ Poster it depends on you. Does it really matter that much. Some women can cook but hardlty find the time to cook. In the end, what matter is your comapctibility, not how well she can whip up plate of rice.

If she cant learn it mean she is not the one for me abeg. Cooking rank amonst one of the top priorities in my books

Am very hot i can shout from any roof top confessing ma love for her. and she is the warm type. My last gf was very very colded and i hated it. it kill my affection for her, it keeps placing me like am sucking up to her of forcing her into something she is not into when we broke up and became friends she admited that her greatest mistake was neva telling me how much she love me. just told her all that is in the past she can use the experience to better future r/ship. So my advise love like there is no tomorrow if 2 takes u 4 granted it aint ur fault, he/she is nt worth ur love find love else where.

U re all assuming she wants to learn. For me even if i go ahead to marry her out of the sentiment of love, she needs to really change if not na one ekaitie to change dat love position.

Mennn i jus cant replace good food with anytin. And yes i know how to cook very well however i wont be doing that in my house when i have a wife call me old fashion if you like. ^{I cant be making the cash and d food at the same time}. Who no like me like this fit pass they one wey fit me dey come for back.

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@michelin89

Being an atheist, u can see it from a christian point of view, which is that a sin is a sin and should be scorned at however this doesnt mean all men are not sinner because we believe all has fallen short of the glory of God. now the Salvation we believe in is based on the fact that one should not make excuse for a sin but seek repentance and strive to avoid the same in the future.

Now hw many time must u try? until u stop breating.

@michelin89

Being an atheist, u can see it from a christian point of view, which is that a sin is a sin and should be scorned at however this doesnt mean all men are not sinner because we believe all has fallen short of the glory of God. now the Salvation we believe in is based on the fact that one should not make excuse for a sin but seek repentance and strive to avoid the same in the future.

Now hw many time must u try? until u stop breating.

Yes i am a christian and i don't base my beliefs on the old testament. I base them on what Jesus said. He came down to make sure that every misinterpretation was corrected, straight from the Son of God himself.

If u re a christian u ll know christ said i did not come to change the law but to fulfill them

@AEjiro
   My guy i know that is might be hard to believe or accept. Man's believe and reverence on religion is mainly dude to FAITH and not FACTS,  you cannot use the holy books to prove FACTS maybe u can use it to say what you think is wonrg or right depending on what you believe in ( pls do read the poster very well).
 I think the questions is about proving what is a fact and not what you think maybe right or wrong
 

I was only reply to the fact that he said the holy book wre silient on the homosexuality. and not making a point on if one can be born as one or not. Read my post

@AEjiro
My guy i know that is might be hard to believe or accept. Man's believe and reverence on religion is mainly dude to FAITH and not FACTS, you cannot use the holy books to prove FACTS maybe u can use it to say what you think is wonrg or right depending on what you believe in ( pls do read the poster very well).
I think the questions is about proving what is a fact and not what you think maybe right or wrong


I was only reply to the fact that he said the holy book wre silient on the homosexuality. and not making a point on if one can be born as one or not. Read my post

ILOCHUDI:
I dont thik that one can rly fight the gay tendency out, and if that can happen it will be rly hard. And concerning religion, it is rly a very complicated issue and the holy books rly did not make a very convincing remark on that.
And what is rly sinful? is it being gay, not being able to sleep witha woman or having gay sex?

See also

Gen 19 (Sodom and Gomorrah

Levi 18: 22 & 23

1 Cor 6:9

1 Tim 1:10

ILOCHUDI:
I dont thik that one can rly fight the gay tendency out, and if that can happen it will be rly hard. And concerning religion, it is rly a very complicated issue and the holy books rly did not make a very convincing remark on that.
And what is rly sinful? is it being gay, not being able to sleep witha woman or  having gay sex?

It did see my earlier post and there is anoda verse i am yet to recall

ILOCHUDI:
I shudder at the very unintelligent answers of Nigerians or rather, people on this Nairaland forum. Imagine people given answers based on what they think and on sentiments and not on a proven FACT.
 Pls people it has been proven very well scientifically that some people are born gay even in animals. It is what has to do with genes ( i dont know if anyone here reads science at all), maybe we can say it is some kind of a gene abnormality.
Whether we like the tendency or not is another issue entirely, but pls let us stop posting jargons at this stage of human development and awareness.

Science cannot explain matters of spiritual underlining, that is why the big bang theory cannot make up for human existence, just has it can tell the real nature of the sun. Somethings are beyomd human physical word. Well, the bible neva said we all have understanding sha! so i get it.

Tell ur cousin to ask the guy out if he gree fine if not continue.

Bottom line if u really like sometin be prepared to let it go if it comes back to u, it was us for keeps in the 1st place.

Well personal i dont see anything wrong with her boldness (that what i chose to call it) and i think if you are not available you can simply say so. You dont have to advertise someone else's action you consider wrong.

*i am not castigating you just feel you should silently turn her advances down if you dont want it.

yes there is, i kno dis because i once felt it, but it took it 4 granted this taught me 2 tink wit my head not my heart.

very funny! well if u re available then give him the break he needs. but think about it he be playing u. am a man i kno hw difficult it is 2 tell a lady u ve neva gotten some. it is either of u is bin economical wit d truth.

i ve preached and talked but d idiot keep singing am missing her. jus but him handkerchief because he wont get my sympa. i no fit climb na ground dem dey talk. i beg make una no worry advice, he ll learn d hard way.

I have read many views on several thread and most people are like dump him/her, but am of the opinion that if it is real love and you find out for one reason or the other you guys can continue, who said the words dont count. i.e. if you found out he/she is cheating on you it should hurt enough that end it if that marks the end of the relationship.

I had a friend (female) who broke up with her man months before he knew, why? because she could tell him i want to end things, so when he notice her change attitude towards him demanded for explaination she said i dont have feeling for you anymore, for how long now he asked she said for 6months she replied. it hurt the guy more that she was taking him for a ride for 6 months than other things. but guess what? she hated the guy for calling quit that he was insensitive?

So i am of the opinion that who said the words dont count the events which led to saying it should so one should learn from the experience.

while she should be careful & study him properly it cud jus be d guys nature. e.g i like buy small gift and feel more challenged 2 do more wen my lady responds but my elder bro is not he doesnt buy anything cheap, so he takes his time.

he was her 1st love, dey dated 4 about 7yrs, they were in d early stage of planing their wedding. she got a pay raise allowed it get into her head,
then left him 4 someone richer, she realises her fault but he now 'he don blow' i mean made money and planning 2 settle down with someone else. but in his words 'i still think of number 1, infact she is d 1st thing that comes to his mind every morning'.

what can i tell him, because dis beats me.

although, ur 1st mistake is nt maintaining it wasnt me & knowing hw 2 handle nosy friends. u shud learn 2 say it as it is wen ask & perfect ur game if u must play it. hw maturity has thought me dat d difference btw 1 lady and anoda is hw dey reason, nt sex. grow up sex no b food.

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na small shit dey block yansh o!

a bird in hand is d bird

if u wake up 4 morning fowl pursue u i beg run o! u no know wetin e carry 4 mind

na lazy person dey run go house go pull shirt if dem find him trouble 4 fid

treaten na water action na blood

d good old days na him old guy man dey talk wen e catch small children dey 'arrange"

Area na blood e dey i dey feel una i no easy

well make i drop my lines sha

na only d head na only d head dem dey take broke new runs

Guy man wey dey bab only rkelly check am well if fit no like d style

If snake don too big e go crip go river

person wey no born dem no dey bury am wit one hand 4 outside

"make we do am na only cane dem go cane we" na him dem dey take know small boy wey don get mind.

if guy man don f-up e go say na him stlye be dat.

Abeg make una carry on na our way o! no falling of hand, na mind no be size if na lie ask dem 4 area