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Buziness101:
What if I tell you that some of those night shift that your wife usually claim to go are not real.... If you doubt me...a little investigation will settle it

God1000:
it's more of suspending the constitution while he remains in power as the president.

GeneralPula:
I want you to be my friend cuz you’re a human. Google is just a thing..

So, tell me… What’s the diff?

SoftSport:
Omo this matter get as e be o. First of all, na mistake you make carry the girl go hotel even if una no do anything. E don already look suspicious for everybody eye. But no worry, you fit still handle am peacefully.

See wetin you go do:

Calm down – No dey panic or vex. Just maintain your cool so you fit reason well. Na peace we dey find now.

Meet the papa – If the man say make una see, no dodge. Just go meet am respectfully. Carry somebody wey fit support you (like an elder or responsible person) if need be, so e no go look like you dey waka alone.

Apologize again – Even if you don already beg before, still beg am again face-to-face. Tell am say na mistake and you no get any bad intention. Show say you dey serious.

Negotiate wisely – If the man dey ask for damages or money, no just agree anyhow. Ask am how much exactly he dey talk and why. No let am bully you into paying more than wetin make sense. If e make sense, pay am so e go rest. If the amount too much, try negotiate or involve elders from your side.

Involve elders if e get worse – If the man dey try carry the matter go another level, involve elders or community leaders wey go fit settle the matter. Nobody go gree make am escalate unnecessarily.

Lastly, abeg dey careful for this kain matter next time. E fit no be wetin you mean, but people go always assume the worst. Protect your name and stay away from unnecessary wahala.

Nonexisting1:
She saw a mugu in you and deployed her weapons of manipulation which are pretense and mind games. Like this, you done marry wife unless you deploy your own weapon which is common sense. Fucck your own and move on, just like other tinder users has been fuccking her. I carry olosho the other day and she was about to play the same game with me not knowing I be oloye in such games. The fool was like "you're so gentle with me" not knowing that at my age now, I protect myself from high BP by fuccking at my own pace. Let her statement give you some sense. Saying I was gentle with her body meant that some other clients, probably these small boys that smoke loud everywhere are tearing her pussy apart like football net. Grow sense boy.

Davidzy23:
Really?? Something like that can happen??

EreluRoz:
Fellow cultist is defending one of their own, let the wise listen. Stop wasting your life away

EreluRoz:
Be doing cultist thinking you are chopping life not knowing you are wasting your life away. This is coming from your username, arononsensebaga

Jennyclay:
Biko, give me his phone number so i can thank him for you

MrBrownJay1:
Can you be ready at 5'o clock

richiemcgold:

See the way she fall yakata sef
She no get stamina ni? abi wetin?

Rizzputin:
Normally, I don't bother advising men like you. Because you're too weak & Simpson to see your HUGE mistakes

Worst of all, you'll rationalise your weakness and her bad behaviour to make it feel good in your head.

But I like taking risks. So I'll go out of my way to give you my thoughts and tips. Even though my mind is telling me you won't listen.

Anyways... let's get started:

● Your wife is cheating on you. My best guess is she's doing it with this guy you call "dude"

The problem with you Simps is how you search desperately for "concrete evidence" It's laughable. Especially when the signs are there. Her blatant disrespect & disloyalty has caused you "take a risk" that firmly puts her in control of your marriage.


● Start saving money from your job to get a new apartment.

The last thing you want is to wake up one day to find out your homeless. The only reasons you're not homeless already is because of one, your kids. And two, the dude fùcking her has no interest in taking her serious. He's using your precious wife as free fun.

But she might find someone else who will take her more seriously and they'll start plotting ways to kick you out.

On that note, save up some money. And take extra jobs so you can get a new apartment and move out.


● Get a female friend or two you can be seeing as well. Even better if she buys food for you or makes one.

Few things correct a girl's behaviour like jealousy. Let her know you have options and watch her behaviour slowly adjust.

Don't make her think you're fùcking them or suggest that. But highlight qualities in your new friends that you like and she's lacking. Qualities that'll make her a better wife and mother in the marriage.

If these women get you gifts or food, even better.


● Lastly, I'd consider the option of divorce or separation in my mind.

Cause without a doubt, she's cheating. But the third point I wrote above should her to act right.


To end it all, stop being a weak simp