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Hmmmm!

Fares about to double, as in 2.5 increase when you add the Nigerian factor.

Lol. Don't know why I find this guy so funny.

Welcome to Nigeria where affiliation to a political party is not based on ideology or policies, but based on how to share the cake.

Person wey hold palm fronds na him goat dey follow.

Na so. FG doing business with their citizens.

Any government that seats in will discover the lucrative and harassment free business of importing fuel and will refuse to fix existing refineries that one man is building one from scratch.

Fuel should go below 80 by now.

The issue is raising so much dust that I doubt this man will ever survive this. Even if he does, so many questions will be left unanswered. And thus, affects the integrity of the institution.

But this loan of a thing is getting out of hand na. What us all these?

If it were an opposition member, EFCC will release a statement that they are on the case.

Nonsense.

dokiOloye:
I used to be of the opinion that women suffer a lot in Africa, bla bla, but since I graduated and became married, all those changed.
Graduation comes into it cos I'm a health worker so ppl including much older ones tell me things as much as they tell their priests/pastors.
Women are never those simple weaker vessels as we look at them.
They are the masters of emotional blackmail and outright lies.
A woman can NEVER love a man if he doesn't score up to certain standards but a man can see a girl with nothing going for her either in looks or worth but still go for her.

Now you get my point.

dokiOloye:
What then is the difference b/w that wife of his and a prostitute who loves ppl according to what they bring to the table?
98% of married men have been broke once in their lives,even almighty govt is broke sometimes.
The money he is asking for is probably money same he gave her for probably house upkeep

Some women are like that. Their feelings get watered down once you dont meet up to their expectations. Some may endure for a while, but soon, you will see it manifesting in them.

Ningen:
Her attitude is because you're obviously broke.

Go out and hustle.
Stop asking your pregnant wife for money.

Be her provider and she'll become FLEXIBLE.

Not everyone will notice what you have written. And you may not have a hundred likes. But I tell you, you just stated his problem and the solution.
He asks for money for little business, means he doesn't even have any to spare. The wife gives him. How can sex be initiated?
It will be hard for people to understand, but that is his problem.

Mariangeles:
You guys keep on shouting MONEY MONEY MONEY! Is that all you're good for?
What is money compared to children? Do women rub it in your faces that they bore you children as you rub it in theirs that you provide? ACCEPT THAT IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY THAT YOU NEED NOT BE PRAISED FOR, JUST AS WOMEN SEE BEARING CHILDREN FOR YOU AS HER RESPONSIBILITY.
All she should do is support you in raising your family.

IT HAS BEEN ESTABLISHED BY GOD!

So many things evident in your line of argument tells me this issue will linger on if I don't back out.
Where in my explanation do you think is all about money? I only asked you a question.

Sincerely, i wish you well in yout future marriage, it may work for you,cos obviously you are not married.

Mariangeles:
As long as she carries no pregnancy or you both equally share in bearing the kids, I'd say that is cheating and weak.
From carrying pregnancies to having children that'll bear your name, you still want her to equally share the responsibility in providing? That is wickedness! EVEN GOD KNOWS THAT IS NOT FAIR!
You can't expect a woman to do her part and equally share in your part. It is not fair.
You want her to die young? That is selfish.
A man that cannot protect his woman and her wellbeing is not fit to be a husband period!

I beg your indulgence, are you male or female?
It's quite confusing because most women don't even want to be housewives any longer.

Or are you insinuating that they can work but keep their money to themselves or no work at all.

Truth be told, there is no template for a happy marriage. Some women stay home and are happy. Some that are home and have everything at their disposal are calling family meetings for their husbands to allow them work. Some are happy working. Wickedness in marriage is relative. What works for me might be a disaster for you. You just work it out with your partner.

In all of these, I just hope you are married. If not, you will only understand when you do.

Mariangeles:
Rather, gone are the days of strong men who are not afraid to take responsibility for their family.

There is no need forming strong man in this time and age. There is so much uncertainties for one to begin to follow that part of strong man (who dies silently in times of trials) and a totally submissive wife who does not question the husband's mistakes.

It is an era of partnership as in 1+1=1.

I support my wife 150% to reach wherever she so desires. We strategise together on how to make more money, our kids and in everything around us. It keeps us together. Attention is drawn to mistakes without animosity.

Instead of forming strong man, why not form strong partnership.

Confusedgirlie:
No, he doesn't collect anything from me. We both give to each other. I think I give only slightly more than he does. He is a lawyer, and his pay is not that great. My pay is about 6x his own, and he knows.

He is even a professional. My dear, calm down and dont let paranoia spoil things for you. As long as there is genuine commitment from both sides to make it work, believe me, it will work. Read his body language and be sure he is in. That's all that matters.

Bush man.

DonTattaglia:
Sowore or whatever is ur name, go & sit down. U talk like a F00L..U were one of the die hard supporters of Buhari when him &GEJ were contesting 2015 election.. So whatever comes from Buhari swallow it.

He has a voice and courage to retrace his steps. Where are those people that occupied Nigeria then?

Of everything that is happening in my country Nigeria, the only thing that hurts me so much is that everyone seem to have lost their voices.

I am apolitical, but your condition should tell you if a particular government is better or not.

Love alone does not sustain a relationship, especially marriage.

That may not be the only reason for not moving away from you, but a good one to stay with you and wife you.
Gone are the days when men would want to marry someone that doesn't have the intention of bringing nothing to the table. One should have a partner to fall on when things go south.

I have being married for 5years now. Believe me, the context in which he replied doesn't mean he is using you. It 90% means he is stuck with you. Is he jobless? Does he depend on you for cash? This info would have helped judge the case better.

But for me, I think he meant to say he has found a partner, he is stuck. I guess he should have used the word 'industrious', you wouldn't be feeling this way. But they are all one and same thing.

Hmmm

Prostate?

What do you expect when you over burden the crank shaft?

47? No dull moment o. Case be like when you meet one of your wives, it's like you are meeting a stranger and you are charged up as per something new.

Na so. Looks beautiful and commendable.

But after this training, soldiers will go back to the normal way of moving the wounded. Then the plane will be used for the elite for a while. Then it will park up for lack of maintenance.

Ask for this plane and everything in it in next year.

In all sincerity, I have mixed feelings over this news.

At the end, whatever you do, know say one day you shall be no more. Even if they lock you up with 1million dollars in cash and with no one around, you no fit move, let alone touch money. You are gone, you are dead.

Take it easy.

Hmmmmj

Na so

Madam, I believe you.

Hmmm

My take is, the AK 47 is an assault rifle that should be rarely seen around. But here in Nigeria and in major part of Africa, security operatives flash it around like souvenir.

The damage is always lethal( intentional discharge or not). Restricting its use would go a long way to curb deaths by stray bullets. Lighter arms like the pistols should be used on routine patrols while a sophisticated team should be on standby in case the need arises.

SARS will walk into bet9ja shop with an AK47 with 3 magazines wrapped with red celotape. Kilode?

Back to the topic, you shall live long little one.

Nonsense! Abeg everything no be politics.

Borrow money to invest and not to throw away in whatever guise.

That moment in your marriage when you realise you John Thomas actually betrayed you. You just live with bitterness.

He never wanted her company, but her mbelembe.

Great piece

Hmmmm. There are some news you will be reading and serious vex go just dey catch u.