delkuf:
Thank bro. this is what I am thinking of doing

delkuf:
Thanks any way. The only thing I will do is what davash said.

Ningen:
Her attitude is because you're obviously broke.

Go out and hustle.
Stop asking your pregnant wife for money.

Be her provider and she'll become FLEXIBLE.

Stallione:
Happiness matters most to me o,even if na jesus christ she carry for dat belle,i will file for divorce,deliver my baby n i will carter for it later.I dnt like hearing dis kind story,rubbish

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Abolarin91:
I don't even know the advice to give you but I can only pray that God will see you through this. Marriage that is not up to 2 years, ah!
This remind me of what papa use to tell me, "no matter how long you date a girl, you can't know up to 40% of her till you get married"...

Time table for sex, she is stiff, she don't care, all this kill man easily

Davash222:
Treat her the way she treats you! Don't be crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you.

You know the risk of crossing express these days. Be careful.

affable4:


Not everyone will notice what you have written. And you may not have a hundred likes. But I tell you, you just stated his problem and the solution.
He asks for money for little business, means he doesn't even have any to spare. The wife gives him. How can sex be initiated?
It will be hard for people to understand, but that is his problem.

AfroKnight:
You cannot tell me that you didn’t notice this rigid behaviour during courtship.

Better discuss with her to find a solution.

Also, hustle to get enough money. You’re a man. Even their so called Feminism will not make a naija woman spend her own money on a man. Better take care of yourself.

As for the sex, you must let her know in clear terms that she cannot use sex (Withholding it vindictively) as a weapon to punish you. Any woman who does that deserves to be cheated on.

dokiOloye:

What then is the difference b/w that wife of his and a prostitute who loves ppl according to what they bring to the table?
98% of married men have been broke once in their lives,even almighty govt is broke sometimes.
The money he is asking for is probably money same he gave her for probably house upkeep

affable4:


Some women are like that. Their feelings get watered down once you dont meet up to their expectations. Some may endure for a while, but soon, you will see it manifesting in them.

chris51:
Are you serious man?
You want regular sex from your pregnant wife?
Please leave her alone, your concern should be the unborn baby.

If you really want sex, it can't be as a right. Buy her little gifts, show her love, help her. This is how you can easily get sex.

Some women have problem of miscarriage and are advised to keep away from sex for a while.
Be patient, its a matter of understanding. Pregnancy is not easy.
Good luck

KristaPretty:
If she wasn't stiff before you married her and suddenly changed, then there is something obviously wrong here. Did you offend her or do things to hurt her? Some women tend to keep things in mind when they're hurt and you see it in their expressions and actions.

Marriage sef na wa!

This one you are just one year in marriage, how you go do for a lifetime with this kain thing na? Please communicate, communicate seriously!
Na serious issue be this

delkuf:
Though on and off we dated for one year, but I never knew she is like this

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

delkuf:
I didn't marry her because of money. she is not from a wealthy family. The issue is not of money, the issue is she is not caring. Didn't you read that part where I said I am down with fever now for three days, it was some friends I sent to get drugs for me. The only thing she had ask me is how is your body. please you guys should read through. if you are not giving her money, then she is not doing anything.

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Graysons:
Then go and correct yourself. Educated man.

delkuf:
This is not the issue of Manning up, you don't know what I am experiencing. she gives me time table for sex. is not like I am demanding. the last time I slept with is over three weeks ago. I have talked with her. Her younger sister have talked with her, she is to adamant.

SolidGains:


Can you imagine such a wicked advice.
How could a human think this way beats my imagination.

So a man ought to be mistreated once his pocket is either not big enough or lacked replenishment?

The way this world is treating the male species, they might soon go extinct.

delkuf:
This is not the issue of Manning up, you don't know what I am experiencing. she gives me time table for sex. is not like I am demanding. the last time I slept with is over three weeks ago. I have talked with her. Her younger sister have talked with her, she is to adamant.

ModestGal:

That extinction would be better. I'm starting to hate men, rubbish people. So women would go into all those labour pains and still expect the wife to do 50/50? When the child will become both theirs? I'm sorry, it's a No and No