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A Relationship is a rollercoaster of inconveniences and a very idiotic way to waste your time and resources as a man.

It is the silly female idea that an unmarried man should be interested in not fvcking other chics and paying for everything she wants (even before she meets him).

She will automatically expect him to be sexually faithful, even when he is not married (and even when she refuses to put out) while conveniently forgetting exactly WHY he is not married.

It is a scenario she pre-imagines in her head in which a man does everything with HER best interest above all other things in mind while he is expected to fill a pre-conceived role of “provider” even when she has made zero effort to EARN what she expects.

In a relationship, the needs, dreams and desires of a man are a non-consideration and totally irrelevant (and everybody knows it).

A relationship is when a female makes a man prove his "commitment" by jumping through proverbial hoops & doing a wide variety of stupid things which include professing his "undying love", showering her with constant & unnecessary attention, and draining his wallet on her behalf --- while she dangles the promise of an access to her vagina at his face.

It is common for a female to expect such “commitment” and displays of costly devotion, while giving her affection away for free to someone else (AKA 'bad boy') who is not remotely invested in her.

So this fat man whose mouth has been stuffed with a slice of the national cake during the Goodluck days also has mouth to talk?

Na wa for freedom of speech sometimes.

AutoJoshNG:
Tell us that single car brand you would stick to if you can only use one car brand for the rest of your life.

Mercedes Benz.

The fact remains that, with the current Nigerian situation, a (good) university degree doesn't guarantee success in the labour market. Only connection and the means to bribe will do so.

The better, but not necessarily guaranteed, way to make ends meet is through your talent, a develpoed skill and/or to become an independent entrepreneur.

As for the 'slay queens' matter, give a typical female the options of either making money off her looks and her pvssy or making money by doing actual work. You are sure to win a bet that she will choose the former.

MEN at work. �

You won't see women doing sh!t like this.

Men are risking their lives in high altitudes to maintain cell towers so that everyone can have cellular and internet connection. Their work goes unappreciated almost all the time.

Women, on the other hand, will b!tch and whine at the slightest network disruption that prevents them from posting that duck faced, flower-filtered selfie...

This is what a man accepts being called when he has been brainwashed and programmed into servitude. He can be objectified as a cash dispensing machine and he accepts it.

At least, "Cook" is a title that is given to a human being who performs/does a specific task/job (i.e. someone who cooks). Just like "engineer" (a person who builds things) or "artist" (a person who makes art).

Just imagine what will happen if his card reads "my fvck tool" or "my baby maker". Society would have bashed him with shaming language.

But in the world of double standards, a woman can call a Man a mere machine and it is acceptable...and "cute".

hinky:
No, they may appear desperate thats what i mean

Men also appear desperate when they are chasing after gals. Don't you think so?

hinky:
Some girls feel they might be belittling themselves...

So what are you implying? That girls are too big to approach men?

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As a man, one of the biggest mistakes you can make is to believe that there is that "one special lady" for you.

There are literally millions of other ladies who are equally (or more) beautiful, decent and capable as the one you are currently confusing yourself over.

She's not even making any effort to be with you and you are willing to lose your self respect to get her back.

You have only one life to live. Move on and stop trying to force yourself into someone's life.

Passy089:
If you saw what went down that night and things she did and said,you won't ever believe she would com again

It doesn't matter. Gals pretend a lot and they know how to do it well.

Passy089:
This is someone I do sex chat with and we always talk about sex and dirty things all the time...

That was a part of her tactic--- to 'trap' you with the promise of sex.

Spending the night with you in a sexy night gown is the last link in her chain of tests to see just how hungry you are for her pvssy and how easily she can extract from you--using the sex bait.

Passy089:
...Guys what is going on

OP, this is a translation of what's going on:

**Before I begin, let me guess that you are a guy who is doing well for himself and you live in a quite comfortable apartment. Right?**

She used the avenue of the two of you spending the night together to test how much you desire her (sexually).

The sexy night gown was a major tool of hers to stimulate you to the extent of making a move on her.

She wanted to see how easily she can use her sexual lures to make you do what she wants you to do.

I have to say that you fvcked up by begging her after she told you no. You shouldn't have done that.

The more desperate you are to get between a gal's legs-->the more desirable she feels she is.-->the more she will use sex as a bait to make you do what she wants you to do.

If you easily fall for a gal's sexual lures, it will be very easy for her to get what she wants from you and since you're a guy who is doing well for himself (?), she obviously wants something from you.

I decided I'm done with her .

Good. You should be done with her...permenantly.

You should also watch out. She has left some of her clothing items at your place. That means she has the intentions of coming back...and eventually living in your house rent-free. Before you know it, you've become an automatic husband: you'll be working your @$$ off while a chic is enjoying all the benefits of YOUR rent and feeding of YOUR hard earned money.

hinky:
I believe if the right one comes, introveted or whatever u ll man up to talk to her...
Life is not too complex as it might seem...

If she knows that she is the RIGHT one, why shouldn't SHE approach him and talk to him instead?

CR7 wants to give birth to a complete football team?

pharmagba:
I have a recommendation.
1-let EFCC continue with their investigations unhindered
2-any one culpable of corruption MUST RETURN all or minimum of 90% of what they stole
3- anyone that RETURNS all or Minimum of 90% should not be persecuted by the FG
4- anyone pardon under this arrangement should never contest for any political office in the next 10years
5- all weapons must be surrendered.
If the FG can work around this and many point we may reach a truce.

Good points

TrumpDonald:
Me I must join better one for mature people. No violence, no ritual. Just ideas, connection and wealth

We can discuss and rub minds concerning that.