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Nwaiyoo:
Asiawowo!!

jaephoenix:
Having kids at 40 is a risk. More issues like chromosomal abnormalities eg Downs, miscarriages, malformations etc. Even if they are fertile, u have to consider all such
And no god has nothing to do with anything

owobokiri:
Don't take this silly advice..
Nigerian men and their quest to normalise every nonsense.
Someone will marry an olosho because she has "experience"! What experience!?
She will pamper understand, bla bla bla.. There are many young gals that can pamper and understand ahbegi.. A lady will waste her youth messing around and you want some innocent guy to suffer the consequences, in the name of getting an "experienced wife". No be me and una..
Let her go and marry those who has been playing royal rumble in different hotel rooms with..

MORIERA:
@bolded
Hmmmmm did you just call the younger ones inexperienced

Chief abeg you have to be more specific bout this your inexperience thing... Remember we are talking bout the oza room here... A girl of 16 got more experience than most of those married women out there... So abeg you need elaborate more on that inexperience thing abeg

Truvelisback:
So, age is your yardstick for maturity? Lol, i have seen immature ladies in their 40s and beyond. And the age of ladies doesn't guaranty that you will be pampered, loved and respected by them except you haven't met ladies in those age range you mention that are nasty in their behaviours.

AliEzeOlu:
Hello friends, so I met this lady in 2022 and we plan to settle down early next year. But the problem is, she's gonna clock 36 in December.

I heard about ladies and their biological clock plus menopause etc. I dont know, considering women's biological clock, is it advisable for a 40 year old man to marry a 36y/o?

Dpsychologist:
The Red Pill is getting more audience than before. I am starting to see a lot of people in my Facebook and even offline discussing red pill teachings and getting informed. The revolution is starting...

Wakai777:
yeah I learn computer operating and I have my machines it just that am confused weather to open shop or do business

Dpsychologist:
MEN, WAKE UP!

Women Know Themselves—That’s Why They Run to Men for Help, Not Fellow Women

Every day, we hear the same tired slogans:

“Women support women!”

“Feminism is about empowering each other!”

“We don’t need men, we can do bad all by ourselves!”


Sounds good, right?

But watch what happens when life actually gets tough for a woman.

She’s broke? She doesn’t call her fellow women—she looks for a man to fund her.

She’s in danger? She doesn’t rely on a feminist “girl gang”—she calls a man for protection.

She’s emotionally drained? She doesn’t lean on her female “bestie”—she seeks comfort in a man’s strength.


The Hypocrisy: Women Preach Empowerment But Seek Male Provision

The modern narrative tells us that women don’t need men—that they are self-sufficient and independent. But the moment real life slaps them in the face, where do they turn?

Straight to a MAN.

This raises a critical question:

If women truly believed in female empowerment, why do they instinctively run to men when things go wrong?

The answer is simple:

Women know themselves.

They know that other women:
❌ Are not reliable
❌ Are not selfless providers
❌ Will laugh at their struggles rather than help

And deep down, they also know that men, even those they look down on, will still come to their aid.



1. Women Don’t Trust Other Women—And They Know Why

Women understand female nature better than anyone. They know their fellow women:

Are naturally competitive and envious

Won’t sacrifice for another woman’s survival

Would rather see another woman struggle than uplift her


This is why when a woman is in financial trouble, she won’t go to her independent, empowered feminist friends.

She knows what the response will be:

❌ “Sis, we all have our struggles, I can’t help you.”
❌ “Why don’t you work harder instead of expecting a handout?”
❌ “Just date a rich guy, girl!”

But a man?

Even if he barely knows her, he might still consider helping—especially if she knows how to manipulate his emotions.

Men are taught to protect, provide, and sacrifice—even for women who bring nothing in return.

And women exploit this to the fullest.



2. Women’s Selective Feminism: Strong When It’s Convenient, Helpless When It’s Not

Women love to scream “equality”—until real responsibility comes knocking.

“We are just as capable as men!” → But when a woman needs money, she finds a man to sponsor her.

“Women are just as strong!” → But when she’s in danger, she expects a man to step in.

“We don’t need men!” → But she only looks for men when she needs comfort, validation, or support.


Women choose when to be "strong and independent" and when to be damsels in distress.

And the worst part?

They demand that men keep playing along.

A man is expected to:
✔ Pay her bills even though she claims to be "independent"
✔ Protect her even though she shouts "equality"
✔ Offer emotional support even though she says "men are trash"

Men, wake up.

If you still believe women are your partners in struggle, you are being deceived.



3. Men Are Programmed to Help—Even When It Hurts Them

From birth, men are taught:

Protect women at all costs.

Provide for women, even if they contribute nothing in return.

Sacrifice your happiness for hers.

Society indoctrinates men into believing that their worth is measured by how much they give to women.

But what happens in return?

Most women:
❌ Don’t respect the men who provide for them
❌ Exploit male kindness without gratitude
❌ Move on the moment a man stops serving their needs

This is why many men are waking up.

They are realizing that:
✔ Their time and resources are valuable
✔ Most women are users, not partners
✔ The world doesn’t reward a man for being a simp

So, the next time a woman comes running to you for money, protection, or emotional support, ask yourself:

"Would she do the same for me?"

The answer is almost always NO.


4. The Solution: Stop Being A Woman’s Safety Net

It’s time for men to stop playing the fool.

If women truly believe in female empowerment, let them rely on their fellow women instead of running to men every time things get tough.

What Men Need to Start Doing:

✔ Stop giving money to women who don’t add value to your life
✔ Stop being a free emotional therapist for women who see you as an option
✔ Stop protecting women who would never stand up for you
✔ Start prioritizing yourself and your goals before any woman

If she screams independence, let her be independent.

If she says she doesn’t need men, let her prove it.

Men, wake up!

The only way to regain respect is to stop being the ATM, the bodyguard, and the emotional crutch for women who wouldn’t do the same for you.

If women really support women, let them show it.

Until then, stop sacrificing yourself for people who will never return the favor.

P. S.
Red Truth 2.0 is out.

Bobodee09:
My uncle received a text and call yesterday from lagos state women affairs department. He is being summon for interrogation on Tuesday regarding a petition from his wife.
His wife has denied him access to his children (2 girls ,1 boy).
January this year he told us he won't pay there fees and upkeep anymore.

A co-operate scam him sometime in 2019, he was a big time farmer and alot of people joined base on his recommendations. He stood as guarantor for the organization.
When the organization disappear with people money he was forced to settle, he sold most of his properties and his business crashed.

The wife left him in 2022 saying she tired of suffering, she moved out with the kids. My uncle have being paying school fees and sending upkeep, he get to see them anytime he want aswell up on till last year.

Last year my uncle got help from a widow he met at a church, she invested in his business and things are getting better for him financially.

My uncle told us on the family whatapp group January he wont pay the kids school fee anymore and placed a curse down for anyone who does on his behalf due the fact the wife have denied him access to his kids since last year may.

His wife reported him to human rights last month, after hearing from both side they told her to allow him see his kids but she refuse claiming he now has another wife and she scared the woman might harm her kids. My uncle hasn't married the woman although they are dating.


Where I need advise is what should we expect on Tuesday? If my uncle doesn't change his mind what will happen.

Lastly his wife works for lagos isnt that an advantage for her, will the case be judge fairly.

dominique, farano, Rocktation

essentialone1:
Yeah. Calling someone your Best friend, makes you kinda trust them completely. It is wrong.

wiseone28:
Same way a white man won't find a black woman attractive even with hips

bdsm:
Parasites dey disturb your brain? Don't u see pulpit in auditorium for lectures and motivational speakers?