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Wait until your own time comes then you will keep mute like others

bdsm:
Parasites dey disturb your brain? Don't u see pulpit in auditorium for lectures and motivational speakers?

your madness na for market them dey find am.!

Ode, who talk about those areas?. You suppose sey pulpit dey you father Shrine. Shitty fella!

Bad women will always disgrace you. They can not be pleased. Na their type dey fit deport person or render homeless for yankee

Who are you expecting to give you advice when you are not stating your kind of disability?

From all you have suggested, there is no sign of disability in you. Your type no near the ones for North

Just pick the one you will cope with much more and get known for it. That’s all… then you are sure to be receiving calls for patronage

All the best

Ibkay32:
I want to share my predicament here so people can understand what I am going through.

I started living with my sister and her family four years ago when things were going well for me. At the time, I had a job, though it wasn’t paying much, but because I was living with my sister’s family, I had the opportunity to save up to 90% of my salary. Over two years, I managed to save up to ₦500,000, which I entrusted to my mother to keep for me.

My troubles began when I decided to retrieve the money for rent, only for my mother to tell me she had lent it to my sister (the one I was staying with). Apparently, she used the money to pay for her master’s degree. I was completely devastated. Despite my disappointment, I tried to accept my fate and move on.

However, things have been very difficult ever since. The steady flow of money I once had dried up. I eventually lost my job, and since then, I have been unable to secure another one. The only thing keeping me going is my small pig farming business, but it hasn’t started yielding profits. Last year, I was in a very tough financial spot, so I began asking my mother for my money bit by bit. She would sometimes give me ₦10k, ₦20k, or ₦30k, but it was never consistent, and I never got the full amount back.

Recently, something happened that has made my situation even worse. My brother-in-law (my sister’s husband) told me I needed to find my own place before next month. This caught me completely off guard because I am not financially prepared for it. Out of frustration, I confronted him about the money my mother gave to my sister, but he insisted he had no knowledge of it. This has caused serious conflict within the family.

Now, I am stuck. I have nowhere to go, no money for rent, and not even enough to buy a bed, let alone furnish a place. I feel betrayed, abandoned, and helpless. I don’t know what to do or where to turn.

Please, my Nairaland family, I need your advice. What should I do in this situation? How do I navigate this mess? I’m really desperate and need help.

there is a proverb that says “how I wish my parents were alive is a foolish thing to say”! A good mother will rally round to raise that money back for you and even add to it knowing fully well you are in need of it at this time. this is what can make one commit felony on a loved one out of anger and frustration. After it happens the useless authorities will not care to look into what really resulted to the act, if it was the person’s fault 💯 or not. All one will be hearing in the news is that a young man has killed his parents. May it never be our portion.

Young man, very sorry for all these. It’s quite unfortunate all you have experienced. What I can advise is that just take it as the rent you paid while living with them. Forfeit it, they are your family. Don’t fight anyone or have grudges. God know why.! You had thought they were there when you needed them but unfortunately, they have collected the pay. Did you bother asking your sister about it directly what your mother told you? Your mum did badly for not letting you know before making such decisions. This can not be a woman that wish you well. Avoid her at all cost in order to progress in life. Thrive to get a place no matter how demeaning. It’s for the mean time. Pick any work, don’t look down on any for now. Plan on getting married soon, to overcome distractions any longer. Not all parents are good.

AnonymousNarrat:
Lol. There are different types of travelers and reasons for traveling… some travel purely for the culture, some for adventure, etc.

Not everyone travels for money.

how many of this kind are in Africa?

Can you define this as japaaaa?

Abegi!

The truth is that they can not be banned. Dem no offend FIFA nah! Moreso, stronger teams use weaker teams to qualify in matches. Tis why they’re advantageous somewhat.

Africa is even worse.

Iraq, Iran and the rest you guys are talking about will beat Niger, chad, Ethiopia and the likes of them in Africa.

They are just everywhere.

They contribute to the fun of football. If not, men no go dey use bet pay bills

Is this all you have to say? How does this suit your headline

Any white woman who has the endowment of a black woman e.g hips, boobs etc are hot cakes. Anything asides that na their hair just help them. And our black Ladies don’t carry last on that even.

It’s black all the way. Tis why we like and enjoy nacks

Strange enough it is the present day religious organizations that are dying to have money the most through false pretense and lies. Money from the beginning was never a Godly affair

Should people come in with demons to church and that demons will be comfortable to be there. That the is no church. It’s obviously a place to rip people off claiming they are chasing demons from their lives. Worse off, the ignorant followers will be there believing the lies of their so called man of God. The devil has indeed taken over everywhere, no sign of God’s presence any longer

theophorus:
Who tell you say this one na church or say the floggers na pastor dem be?

Any small thing una go just say Pastor.
This na shrine naw.

no be pulpit be that?. Wetin pulpit dey do for shrine?

Most churches nowadays are worse than demonic shrines. That is what you should say

Ilamina:
they won't care

Because I said, I like their food

the word “hate” is too extreme

At least better using “dislike” next time

Ilamina:
Me = choffi
That fried turkey with hot sauce is the bomb

I like how that spaghetti, beans and rice meal looks, I guess it called waakye, never eaten it before

I went to a Ghanaian restaurant, bought fried gizzard, it was so sweet

I hate Ghanaians but Ghanaian food is underrated

why would you say you hate Ghanaians. If Ghanaians says they hate you, would you like it

They’ve got delicacies though. Delicacies that can not be resisted

Which kind story be this one. Do you know what you’re saying at all?

Hope sey you get work sha? Pleasing women in awkward and abnormal way could make you start going after peoples wives trying to show your madness as a skill to please them. Guys who look forward to making it in life will never think or act this way. Beware! demons are everywhere and the devil can mess you up and disgrace you openly

grandstar:
So, you support adultery? (Read Hebrews 13:4)

how will you call that adultery?. Are all actions/intentions irresponsible? What if one comes to save a situation of let say, infidelity, beatings, ritualistic acts, impotence etc. things happens! This is all for the woman facing this, then, how will the man approaching her know all these? Are they not bad enough to quit? The man could mean well and responsible! What if God is coming her way to save her? It’s only a foolish woman who will go about opening her legs to men as she’s married. . That’s the adultery.

There are women who wants to leave a toxic marriage, it is just to come across a responsible man then they will feel motivated to. without looking back order than breaking up and being single. That’s wisdom

Circumstances as this may appear awkward but it can appear to be a beautiful thing afteral.

Africa keep wasting time on World Cup qualifications.

Always gotten rid off in first round by teams who have never worn a third place in history.

What a story. Waiting to see the actions of the military over these so called herdsmen in the state this has happened.

A Fulani man conveying multitudes of cattles with one costing over 2 million naira each, and the farm land they are devastating on a daily can not produce a value of up to a million naira even in scarcity. This is clear sign to show there is serious problem

Just see how GEJ submitted, Wike submitted. These men from the SS who willingly submitted, the sky has become their limit in Nigeria politics. Their chances of being the next president of Nigeria after BAT is very high.

Fubara is not a smart guy.

Heavy duty vehicles should be made to move at night. What a time for this to have happened. Rush hour for that matter. When people are closing from work after a hectic day. Too painful, so,so unfortunate. These large vehicles are too hazardous

May their souls Rest In Peace

What a tragic sudden loss in lives and assets

Benbroz:
Hello my people
I greet you all and I come in peace.

If the lady you have been toasting for long just accepted to date you and spent the night in your house (not for sex), will this breakfast for two be regarded as over pampering her or its a thumbs up.

Whats your take?

Sha do not start what you can not finish. If what it will cost you to make these for breakfast, lunch and dinner must not be anything less for the rest of your relationship. If not, be ready to be looked down upon by her. And she will be contemplating exit because other things must follow such as her personal small , small needs. So use your sense. No be everything be food. As far as am concerned with these on the table you are just making her know that you love sex. A smart and sensible girl will detect fast

I think this said name in question even appears much better than most of the underground hidden and miserable South Africans here who act like spies. I come across her posts sometimes, she’s more sensible

South Africans are full of cheap envy. That’s alone is enough one can say about them

People who have nothing to offer not even themselves.

The South Africans are nothing but Jobless lazy drones who lack intelligence.

They see we Nigerians full of life and intelligence, keeps them in wonders. Trying to learn from us, but still yet can’t because their minds are dirty.

There is this useless South Africans called lioness or whatever

Nicenancy:
Why?

it is only a woman that will keep asking this kind of a question even though they know the truth. If you were a man you will do the same. Not all men do though, but as a woman count yourself blessed and lucky if your man doesn’t at all. Like I mean detest it just as some detest Alcohol and smoking…

Preciousgirl:
Why do guys still knowing I am married with my ring still have the nerve to ask me out?

not everyone having the ring is happy wearing it. Take it or leave it, many Ladies give in still to advances. No one is saying it’s good, but life can be funny and strange at the same time not bal.

Many here even bought their far less than that amount

Opportunity to loot the treasuries of the state in no time

Wike gaining power and momentum by the day in both stage and federal level

These are nothing but men of affluence and wealth. Leaders my foot

Bini90:
you must be rich

see me here

Roseodd:
Lol,I get pass that 3m self,is that I kept like 700k for expense

then you’re not being truthful to yourself yet. Face reality

Another kind of aba women riot. This is getting out of hand. Nothing they have said is new or strange. Something has to be done