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TUANKU:
Even in the animal world you will still rank lower than a goat
You're a subpar human being which explains why you're extremely dumb. You're like a caterpillar,you just live to eat and shit kawaii ...and post dumb stuff online.
Yaro banza!

had really like your Sisters to come propose to me in public. Make I at least believe your stupidity small

You this dirty Mallam.

Mai kwa kwa

Lionessza6:
😂😂

You failed woefully in countering my post,instead you danced around the issues I raised...let's recap;


1. Majority of SA women have never and would never date Nigerian men...we are conditioned differently. So all the lies about us *rushing * you disgust us ...but I get why you have to lie to yourselves😂😂. If you're looking for SA women who *love * you...visit downtown clubs and taverns....you'll find plenty of them ..looking for you to *flex * for them 😂😂.


2. Women in South Africa have always worked for their own food. Before colonialism; we went to the fields to farm and took care of our kids ,whilst the men did their own part. Things changed when colonialists came to disturb and change things up...making us idle and dependent on men for survival. Post democracy...we went back to our natural roles of being partners in our homes not subjects who sit idle for a men to feed us and use us to boost his fragile ego* I take care of you...I feed you ...I buy your clothes....so be Obidient and do as you're told*😂. You can miss us with that rubbish .

3. You say are women meant to work ?😂😂😂😂😂. Show me one country that's developed with a diverse economy that doesn't have women working and thriving in their own society?😂. Apart from the emirates who enslave foreigners from poor countries in the global South, where else can you find this ? . South Africa has a diverse economy and is an upper middle income country not a poor one because all members of society are expected to chip in. You cannot have a somewhat functional country without women playing a role in the decision making . Forget it. Look up your mates in Pakistan, Somalia etc . Women there have no say and are * taken care of*😂. I.can bet you no Nigerian woman wants to migrate there. But you'll find plenty of them in SA and other countries where women play a part in the development of their countries.

4. Lmao. You just shot yourself in the foot. So Nigerian women have to leave you in your Nigeria to be independent?😂..why can't they have those Careers where their * great * men lead ?😂😂. They thrive better under the leadership of other men than you ?😂. We are in SA leading Medicine,Science,politics ,Agriculture etc. We don't need to escape our country and men to get the opportunity Kemi Badenoch has ...we are afforded that privilege here . We are learners in what ? 😂😂.

5. I repeat .....men spend more on their families than women ...everywhere not just Nigeria. You are only making noise about this because you're the world's poorest men and what is normal to other men seems like a flex to you 😂😂.

6. You keep on talking about luxury and flexing....I'm confused ....is that supposed to impress me?😂.

Here is the reality;
The wealthiest black people after Afro-Americanns are black SA.

SA is one of only 7 African countries that are classified as upper middle income countries.

This means that we aren't strangers to high standards of living ,luxury and good income. These aren't a *flex* for us...they are normal things unlike in Nigeria where these words send the fear of God down one's heart 😂.


7. You are the most hardworking black people?😂😂😂😂. Hardworking in what when you're the poorest and one of the most food insecure and underdeveloped countries in Africa?😂😂😂😂.

When you list the indices below, you won't find Nigeria in the top 15 even with the population and resources like oil😂😂😂.

* health care system
* Education
*Gdp per capita
*widespread infrastructure
* citizen's welfare
* electricity access
*water & sanitation
Etc

So what exactly are you working hard on when you're at the bottom in everything that matters....fighting it out with the likes of Somalia?😂.

Please show me the results of your hardwork🙏. Hardwork no be by mouth. Hardworking men don't make noise....they work😂😂😂😂....and when you go to their countries you'll see the results.

8. Nigerian women don't see the need to have you around them once they reach the *saner* climes😂. Who wants an overlord when you can make your own money and decisions?😂. You are left with no choice but to recycle local skanks,junkies and grandmas as wives 😂😂😂😂😂😂

9. Wealthy men in other climes have their women minding the finances,image etc of the family. They don't make their wives sit idle while giving them stipends like teenage girls 😂....that's demeaning . They are involved in the business, one way or the other. No SA wealthy man will not teach his woman the business he is into ....if he dies...how will she take care of his kids when she can't do shyt except spending un-earned money ? Talk about shortsightedness😂😂. Women are partners in marriage not subjects and Obidient slaves 😂😂

And lastly, the average SA man and the average Nigerian man are not wealthy...so I don't see why you're making it seem like Nigeria is the home of wealthy mem . Let's rather discuss what is readily found in both countries

🤣🤣🤣all these too long na. You are going too far. I don’t care to know about your history and that of your country how it all started. I have made my point clear and no need for me repeating it over again. Doing such will appear like I am not confident over my words. Have you met women who hustle? Nigerian women are number one, they make a living from nothing. I am telling you the best in us, and you are talking about the history of SA.

Who told you that Nigeria is not a country worth world standards in all ramifications, we are too large for you to see the good. The wealth is there.

Somalia?😅. I feel for them though. The name doesn’t even sound nice. Upon how lazy SA guys are, you are still defending them. Cheap ruthless niggaz that don’t even do it for the pay. It that what you call men?

Please, can I see your pics. Lemme send to a mail. I love pretty girls, you really need see a difference

Africa has values, stop equating it with the outside world no justification about that.

No male SA national can come defend himself like as you are doing right now for them. But instead, it’s their sister fighting for them😂. Is it not clear now that your brothers have no balls🤣. Let him try it, he will run. You’re just being sexy I must say, soft fight

All characteristics about you people we possess even more. When you can’t have certain privilege, you try to find a way around it and that’s all that you have been bragging about.

As a babe that you’re, a single handed Nigerian guy, will pay your flight tickets (2 ways) to come to Nigeria, flex you, take you shopping, give you pocket money. Now tell me, which SA guy with balls can do that.? These are men with a large heart to opposite gender of their spec. If my Sis. should pick an SA guy over a Nigerian guy, big problem. It won’t work!

We treat women like Queens and Princess that they are ..! Which woman will not want to be treated likewise.?

See, if you’re my spec. in beauty, I will show you something you haven’t experienced from your guys over there before. Try me! No jokes

Do you know what it means for a single man to worth a country’s economy to a woman. Better go in hiding. ..

You have No bragging rights my dear!

TUANKU:
Control your envy you dummy
Waka come Games village for ABJ i go show you my personal house wey i pay cash money buy since 2017 ... you think say i be your mate? Focus on your bet9ja and online almajiri work you brain-dead idiot.

na una type dey connect ritualist. Me and you jam for this life? That gap is too wide Bro. Impossible.! See who get house, dey chat with person online like gate man.! Shame on you. . .

You don’t have swag and self worth. At least pretend…! For where!

TUANKU:
I am a penetration tester and a bug bounty hunter on Hacker1,Bugcrowd and Intigriti, i don't gamble. This year alone i have earner over $3k in bug bounty so you see i am not in the same league of poverty with you. Can a dull person do binary exploitation or API pentesting?
Eternal mugu na im you be.

see who AI dey epp compose text. With all these you have said, soft life na, and you are this cheap and useless to be exchanging words like something I have already classified you to be. If all you have said is true, then simply shut up from here and don’t talk again.

It is money that talks for those who have the real money

Na your type go come out dey brag sey what is N1m every month as earning. Worthless liar

Don’t worry, when people go start creating skit/content in the cemetery, na when your eye go clear. No level.

You brag of what you earn and you don’t know what hustle mean or the extent people go on hustle grounds.

Very soon content creators will begin going to the cemeteries

Zonefree:
They're now creating content in the house of God.

🤣 where people no dey hustle! Everywhere na free zone

sreamsense:
So, he should accept the prophecy because you will beat him, right? So, he doesn't know how God talks to him too. So, if God talks to the lady, did she tell you that God ask her to display public approach in that shameful manner too? God is not the author of confusion, God will talk to both in the language they understand. Satan use to appear as the angel of light to deceive as well, christians are warned to beware and test every Spirit if they are of God or not. Is not about doing what you like, it is about doing what God confirms to him too

yes. Correct. She should have sat back and watch how God would make it work. It’s the man to have taken charge of proposal and not the woman. She has spoilt it already. She don fall God hand. Now it has appeared like a skit for many views. That’s if it indeed real!

TUANKU:
You be eternal mumu i swear. I don't need to know you before i know you be illiterate, e dey show for your comments na.

poverty mentality…

Touts don too full everywhere sha. Well, na t.pain rigeme. Na una vote am! na una time!

You are Such a Dull thing..!

Na you type if tickets cut for Bet9ja, all you do is to use your 10mb data to be transferring aggression..!

Can you be this shameless and miserable.?

It’s only gullible fools like you who use abusive words. No else to defend self. Nonesense

Lionessza6:



The difference between the wealthy Nigerian man and the wealthy South African man is that ,the SA man will use his position and influence to uplift the women in his life ; make sure there is a significant female representation in his company, department, institution etc. Those women will forever be grateful to him because he has given them an opportunity to do for themselves without bending a knee everytime they want a new car .

There are reasons why the most independent , women leaders in Africa are mostly found in ; South Africa, Rwanda, Botswana and Kenya. Men in these countries don't see women as liabilities,burden or* little kids to be dashed pocket money*. Women are partners not subjects.

SA has the highest number of black dollar millionaires after USA, and females make up a significant number of those,and no ....they were not given those riches by their men,they were given equal opportunity in education, funding etc both at home and by the government. When you can feed yourself ,someone else's money comes as an extra....it's not your entitlement, a SA woman from birth is groomed to know this. That's why we don't have women chased out of their " husband's houses" ....because there is no such here....a woman and a man are co-owners of the home.

The wealthy Nigerian man uses his position to feed the hungry an ofcourse lord over them ,reminding them anytime he can that he *takes care of them *

There are reasons why you'll never hear men from any other place beating theie chest over *taking care of women * the way Nigerian men do . Listen to British ,USA, Japanese men etc none will tell you how they are the centre of their women's world. But look at countries like Pakistan,Nigeria, Somalia etc the men there cannot wait to tell anyone who can hear how their women depend on them even for toothpaste . Even when they set up that mini-business for them ....the men will announce this gesture to the world .

With that being said; there is no country in the world where men* don't take care*of their women's * spend more on relationships than women*......common sense should tell you. Men earn more and are also more likely to be self sufficient than women. But normal men don't make noise about this because it comes naturally to them.

There are only about 86 000 SA married to foreign nationals out of a population of about 60 million . And most of the females are married to Zim, German,India British, Mozambique, Pakistan, ( I won't count Lesotho, Swaziland &,Botswana). Nigeria is not even in the top 10. So I'm wondering where all this * SA women love Nigerian men* nonsense comes from if not from Nigerian men themselves . Stats and the anti- Nigerian sentiments in the country don't prove that...but in the heads of some Nigerian men...we all don't know what's going on in our country...only them know . Inferiority complex Masked with hot bravado . There is a certain type of SA woman who would be willing to date a Nigerian man and even make it public in SA ,and her family don't want her around...her friends are all dating Nigerians ,she has no job ,business, education etc. Basically has nothing to lose and everything to gain ...she is actually the winner as she comes with nothing but baggage ( two or three kids mostly) .
And the relationships and marriages usually don't last ...the Nigerian man can't lord over her in her country(if she ain't stupid) as she has the police and courts in her favor. And she would never move to Nigeria where she will be like most Nigerian women ( powerless ) . Once he comes into financial distress...she leaves because he nolonger has what she came for, why be with a Nigerian if you're not going to be heavily compensated for it ? . And there are reasons why your Nigerian wives give you the middle finger when you reach abroad ...they can take care of themselves now, what's the use of having you around in q country that empowers them?

And yes,we know you pay women to give birth to.your kids ...you even rent their love . A SA broke man can sleep with the same SA woman you're* taking care of *without giving her dime ,just his personality ....no SA woman would ever date a Nigerian who has no paper to offer her.

And lastly, know between outliers vs norm. SA women dating Nigerian men are not a norm but outliers in SA. Nigerian men mostly recycle the same women. She dates Chike in Durban, moves to Cape Town to marry Tunde .

🙌

🤣😅😂😂😆beautiful.! You try small
But you know what? Your notes are too long to have a good defense over SA niggaz. Few points, SA men still are not up to by all standards. Let’s assume, SA economy being A class, a single Nigerian man’s economy is 100x more than the economy of SA in the life of a woman even in hardship. Many can relate. We value family and without a woman where is the family? Argue with yourself.

Not all men are good, some are dead beats, Lazy, etc. but they’re very few…because the society has to be complete somewhat. God has made it so! To teach!

What are you talking about positions at the work place? are women meant to work? Is that the nature in them? To manage a firm and still manage a home how can both match together.? Is this how SA men value women.? Something must be wrong with them! That overload! SA women can not expect the height of single handed good a man from Nigeria will do for a woman so it understandable to talk on other advantages they benefit from their men. Leave other countries out of this, we are exceptional! Even though mixed religion but the same thing in us.

Nigerian men wey money dey shark, spend on luxury, on real doings, flex in Large! Beat your cheat on one SA guy that can brag about this.

You had said the Nigerian women give their men the middle finger when abroad, yes, that’s for some, because most women who are not sensible are ingrates, they abuse privileges. Is it all women that are good? You answer for yourself.

What a Nigerian man will give to a woman, she gets it on a platter without working for it! What is job position, that’s the easiest thing to do.

If I marry you, tell you not to work, and I will put you on a monthly salary, choose one?. In addition to access to all luxuries. How will I want my wife to work when I am affordable. I am surprised you can be this proud to say this. Should that be compared with?

Job is the smallest thing to do, it’s meant for relatives.

Babe, don’t feel proud where you’re, defending SA guys does not carry weight at all. Do you know how many carrier Nigerian women overseas.? In USA alone! SA women are learning. We are hard working much more than all African nationals put together. What is SA🙃What’s the big deal about that.!

If not for the nature of the economy in which men marry working class women to meet up with demand and supply, should that be called life. Overseas have no families values and that is what’s applicable there..!

So in SA, man and woman are equals as husband and wife? That’s a mess. No wonder, SA women may be pretty but don’t look soft!

LP are nothing but laughing stocks. They will keep on remaining stagnant if they refuse to face reality. They do not have the ideas of real politics

Bendeco02:
Those of you saying misplaced priorities should rest.

Our society is spoiling because of the so called wokeness or librality.

Some people need iron hand to be tamed

Dress decent or you can relocate outside anambra to be dressing half naked.

Anambra is a discipline state

They can relocate to asaba to continue their mumu rotten life.

Women of this our generation are going insane because of the free hand given to them which was influnced by civilization. Before the white men came, they do respect themselves because our forefathers didn't give them that hand to be misbehaving.

Now, we have simps and weak men everywhere.

it is really pathetic

teeteepeejay:
Wow Anambra is being islamized. Who would have thought of this?


This is pure misplaced priorities. Leave dem sluts alone.

good you said sluts. Is that a descent name.

An average girl being called that can insult one’s generations. And unfortunately that’s what they are indeed

SeeWahala:
Hmm 🤔 be like say now na the right time to join force. Abeg make una help me ask soludo the name of this new squad he is commissioning to be observing girls and women on the streets and clubs to see the ones that aren't wearing pant or bra

When dem dey begin sell form? Me I no mind join at all I sabi catch semi-naked girls well well 🤗

see wahala 🤣

Na prick go work tirelessly

Amotolongbo:
😂😂
How will they know that the girls aren’t wearing pants?
Will they be opening their skirts, gown, wrapper or trousers?

when their prick charge for them..!

Prick detector!

Gerrard59:
One, most Igbo women's traditional dresses are skimpy in nature. If we were to practice the tradition as it is, the ladies would adorn very short dresses. Two, there are better ways to address the issue rather than deploying hungry and angry men in the middle of the night to harass bystanders and passers-by. Three, we are in the tropics, and one phenomenon I have observed across all tropical countries is the loose clothing the residents wear. The difference are in places with Islamic influence. So referencing the likes of Dubai and Doha do not count as they practice Sharia which most of you criticise. So choose a struggle - do you want Sharia or not? That is the difference between the clothing in Malaysia vs Singapore. Lastly, Anambra has far more important issues to address than violently pursuing women in the middle of the night looking for who wore a short dress or not.

loosed clothing really need be addressed and looked into especially by our religious organization, schools and parenting... Girls mainly now adays, dress the ways most schools sew their uniforms and sport wears which is in the wrong. It is seriously being abused !

Igbos girl wey com get big yansh

Standing boobs

Dem too dey fine, even the ugly ones still dey get better body. Imagine such in loosed clothing. Wen body no be firewood.

What would those loafers who hang around the likes of Bet9ja shop be doing aside passing time with such sights to while away their sorrows after ticket cut! Who work epp

It instigates men committing all manner of crime. Some their, their ambition is to get these girls laid

Let’s leave the married men, that na sure marital problems & most broken homes.

Married women have once come out to protest something as this before in the East.

Na menace! Now in excess. This is Africa, the white know how to mind their business but in Africa reverse is the case

Very good..!

Aldebaran:
Good move....

Not that the government don't know the bad people

After getting illegal money, you come online to flaunt it to hard working people to show how God lifted you

before! no be God lift am?

fastseo:
The state government should be supported because kidnappers don't operate ordinarily they mostly rely on local charms.

To crack them down their herbalist must be arrested which will easily give clue on their operations

I doubt if it is going to be easy for them. Why is it called powers. If they indeed do not possess powers then, their territories will be nothing but a pile of rubles. Ordinary men, can not challenge men who are not ordinary. Na mouth the government dey make to show they are working, they can’t succeed this. Kidnapping has not even yet been addressed. On how to comb their hid outs

Wealth is meant to be something generational. When a man is termed very wealthy but his family are scrambling for survival day in day out. Then that kind of wealth is questionable. That’s mostly the kind we see all over the place. Flaunting and bragging. Money obviously brings more money, they will tie it to a source, a legit investment people see, e.g schools, hotels, car stands etc. all are distractions, cover up. What was the source, no one can trace. You hear ignorant people say na luck he jam

TUANKU:
Look who is talking? Go have a seat you illiterate.

if you know what people do for money, you will talk less

Oga you too ignorant abeg.

Person wey you no know , you dey call illiterate. Are you okay?

Always go for check ups!

E need you, you need am..!

janeedema:
Well, it would make no diference to her. The same fate awaited her if she had married a Nigerian. Nigerian men are only generous to foreigners because of what they want from them.

I don’t know if you’re a Nigerian babe or SA babe, but your reason /comparison is not justifiable at all. If you have a wealthy Nigerian husband and you the lady (his wife) does not come from a wealth to do family as such, confirm it that not only you but also your family will live in comfort. Take it or leave it, Nigerian men are generous. Money dey shark dem, they spend. They involve in doings… flex in large! The (wealthy) man can build a house for his wife’s parents (his in-laws) buy cars for his wife as well. Set up a standard business on his wife’s behalf for her to be in control of. You dey whine.!

Nigerian girls don’t appreciate their men (Nigerian men), they often feel a sense of entitlement. And a sense of, could as well hav others who are capable to doing more for her. Most of them end up at the loosing end.

SA girls, Kenya girls & likes are not fools for admitting publicly online. And It is true! Aside for the papers. We are loving, especially to beautiful Ladies of choice and spec!

A Nigerian man’s mother will be selling pepper and tomatoes in the market place but his wife is driving the kids to school in a Range Rover and the likes….

Haven’t you seen a Nigerian man buy a latest automobile for his wife as push gift alone?.

Which SA guy will try such “is he mad” .

TUANKU:
E be like say na from Bayelsa or Rivers you come from abi? Those parts wey dem dey only hear sound of vehicle once a week (without actually seeing it) due to how remote the place is, because that is the only explanation i can think of for someone to be this naive and ignorant.

you way still far…!

Intelligence no near

When dem talk sey person no know book….complete the rest

Teachers for school dey suffer

TUANKU:
E be like say you don shayo You dey see video koro-koro and you still dey talk of gossip? You no well o!

you dey there? No be gossip.? How shayo tak add join the matter na.

Oga, Be realistic jor, if you get relative wey you here say do this kind thing and her face show like that and no be hustle she dey hustle unto skits matter, you no go shame for am? Even disown am sef.

Ashawo no even cheap like this sef!

TUANKU:
Oga no be first time wey this kind thing dey happen, stop unnecessary argument for something wey happen other people sef confirm am.

men dey make money with skit you dey defend dem sey na real life. Talk true, you no watch?. Imagine how many views dem go use take cash out. Valentine go just go like that for hustlers abi? Dey play!

TUANKU:
Oga no be first time wey this kind thing dey happen, stop unnecessary argument for something wey happen other people sef confirm am.

let leave hear say. How many have you witnessed? around you has it ever happen to. Na from here gossip dey always dey spread. You’re so funny. Oga, Wetin dey carry girls dey go church looking for life partner? Girls wey dey Bleep on a daily basis. Yet you go see them tie dirty scarf dey go church to go deceive their selves

Oga abeg no dey talk wetin no sweet for ear.

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TUANKU:
Just because you have never witnessed it or just because you don't believe it, that does not mean it is not real oga. It happened for real and it's not a skit oga.

oga, things as this is not even worth arguing about. We know there are girls who co-habit with a man by having numbers of kids for him without marriage, not this kind to happen. Wetin no sweet for mouth, no sweet for ear, no sweet for eye to watch. If na another babe else where outside Nigeria, maybe so.

I even trust our village girls never to try this

Igbos never gang up against themselves, but when it comes with none-igbos in the same matter, na war. Another cited example was with wike in the FCT too as well…!

Na their way…

Samantha125:
Good day nairalanders, when I logged out of this forum a couple of days ago, I had no intentions of coming back online until later on in the year, I even deleted my nairaland app.

But when I came across this YouTube channel during the week, I had to wait until it's the weekend so that I can redownload my nairaland app since I didn't delete my nairaland account, because this requires the options of the jollof nation... ... For me it's quite shocking because I've never came across a black SA guy who's not only dating a Nigerian lady, but married to one because it's quite rare seeing black SA guys dating foreign African ladies the same way it's rare seeing Nigerian ladies dating SA guys.

In my opinion, this guy has made history for not only black SA guys, but for Pedi guys because he's Pedi and not Zulu, so don't come for Zulus...😅😅😅... And I like the fact that he's been teaching her Sepedi and she understands the language, she probably speaks it as well.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neuFedb6DRU?si=zwF595JS2gPgLJVa


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYE6pUa0f8I?si=cIUUMxXS0X8M0iG0

left for me there is nothing special about these combos here. Nigerian men are by far better off. She even know it. She is a good girl anyway, for opting this kinda of choice. The babe go miss us no be small. She has gone for a lesser grade as far as Am concerned. SA girls be chasing Nigerian guys, are they now the fools?

Funny enough, SA economy is good, but the generosity of Nigerian guys is 100x beneficial to an average SA girl that her country and it economy combined. Fact!

That Nigerian girl will keep on working for her money with little or no significant support from her SA man. Stingy fellows who have nothing but bad belle for those who flex in large. On real doings..! No level…

Samantha125:
Since we did English and our native languages as subjects throughout primary and high school, it's only fair that we infuse both languages because we didn't spent all that time studying the both of them only to focus on one of them later on.

Do you have any idea how difficult learning Sepedi is? It doesn't matter whether you're already fluent in it, it'll still show you flames to a point that you'll even start questioning your identity... So you can't expect us to neglect it over English after working hard to perfect it in both reading and writing... NEVER!!!!

And English can be tiring as well.

how can English be tiring…! What a statement. Same you who said the so called Sepedi dialect was a difficult one. Which should be more tiring.

This is nothing but a skit. They will definitely make money from this scene because it is sure to go viral. Our Nigerian women wey deir pride no be for here. Even our Nigerian village girls won’t think of such not to talk of a city-like girl like this in the video. Even if she has no brain, she no go try am for real life. Sensible girls use tactics instead by trying to make things up with him and for him. To avoid discouragement and set backs.

This can’t be real

Infact , even child should begin to learn a skill from primary school level