Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 4:23pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
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Fashion › Re: Anambra Govt Begins Arrest Of Girls Who Walk Around Without Bra And Pant (Video) by Afolue(m): 4:23pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 4:09pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
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Crime › Re: Anambra: Catholic Priest Allegedly Flogs Widow For Asking For Salary Increment by Afolue(m): 4:05pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
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Fashion › Re: Anambra Govt Begins Arrest Of Girls Who Walk Around Without Bra And Pant (Video) by Afolue(m): 4:00pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 3:56pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
Lionessza6: More nothingness  keep sweating in your panties |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 1:41pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 1:35pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
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Crime › Re: Anambra: Catholic Priest Allegedly Flogs Widow For Asking For Salary Increment by Afolue(m): 1:28pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
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Fashion › Re: Anambra Govt Begins Arrest Of Girls Who Walk Around Without Bra And Pant (Video) by Afolue(m): 1:24pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
Lionessza6: They have no;
Constant electricity Piped water Toilets Roads Food security Etc
But the main problem of the Nigerian negro is women's dress code 
No wonder they are the poverty capital of the world and Nigeria competes with the likes of Somalia interms of development 
Starzo, Afolue, Silentgroper
You hardworkers have outdone yourselves here 
Primitive, backward, oppressive,insecure bullies of females  this is the same said Nigeria you are looking down on whose wealthy citizens (combined) will buy SA economy. When a wealthy man gets angry, he spends. We are too large for you to see the wealth… Those social amenities you mentioned, that is what the citizens of a given country with steady supply of (social) amenities will spend their life earnings upon. We are wise, not necessary, we are surviving without, we spending on other value able personal matters instead. That is why, individually we possess the wealth in which many of our counterparts in the diaspora barely does if not in matter of years. You government pockets your sweats in the name of social amenities |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 1:12pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
Samantha125: Silentgroper, Lionessza6, Starzo, legitnow1, and Afolue, you guys are depressing me... Now my thread has turned into a warzone and filled with corpses and skulls.
This is why I always try to avoid banters on this forum... Now can you guys go and create your own threads where you'll continue your with your banters? Because I've been calling the mods to take down this thread, but it's like they're just useless.
I created this thread with the sole purpose of seeing the opinions of Nigerians on an SA man getting married to a Nigerian lady. you have gotten a Lioness in your midst to wrestle with the giants. What do you expect.? You guys should cage her, if not we will be forced to. South Africans have no respect. You guys should always learn to behave yourselves. We (Nigerians) are the elders by all ramifications. 10 South Africans can’t stand a Nigerian unless we don’t have your time |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 1:01pm On Feb 18, 2025 |
Stolen: It is your zulu sister posting skulls.
I dont know if she is a girl or a he/she. thank you for letting her know this. South Africans no get respect at all. We are their eldest by all standards. The earlier they come to know this the better. Too much Arrogance..! |
Romance › Re: My Weird Dream by Afolue(m): 6:18am On Feb 18, 2025 |
henndukwe18: I had a weird dream yesterday night. In the dream, i saw myself with 3 ladies going inside the bathroom to take a bath, we went inside and started gisting as we were taking our bath.
Wen i woke up from the dream to go and take my bath in d morning, i noticed that my bathroom was just the same as d one in my dream, dt ws wen some things started occuring to me, the second thing i realised that happened in the dream was that i neva saw any of their unclothedness. I was in the same bathroom with them, taking a bath n gisting with dem, bt i neva saw any of those ladies naked, i ddnt realise it then, it was like i neva saw them taking a bath or went in there with them.
The funny thing i also realised was that after we were done taking our bath, they told me to face the other side and not look at them while they were dressing up so that i wont see their unclothedness, i found myself ignorantly facing the wall and laughing as they were also laughing behind me and dressing up. That was where d dream ended.
Wt could this dream mean? better money go enter your hand very soon. Don’t forget to share with me. Avoid telling your dreams out in public. Not good at all… |
Romance › Re: My Friend Believes He Is Cursed With Women. by Afolue(m): 6:02am On Feb 18, 2025 |
Goodmarlian: My very good friend nearly cried when talking to me yesterday he has tried all he can to get a girlfriend and settle down but they all rejected him,this guy spends so much of his time approaching women in campus but he gets their number they meet once or twice and that's it they loose interest it is almost like a curse. Though he is not rich but he is doing well for himself, he is not bad looking in looks he is into laptop and gadgets sales he lives in a selfcon well furnished and got some little cash the only thing he lacks is a girl in his life.
I told him it's not a curse that he just needs to change his approach towards women,I was once in his shoes the only thing I changed is my mindset and it worked for me,he doesn't like listening to my advice but he is always surprised with my results. I told him that women are mysterious spiritual creatures, you can meet 50 of them and all their souls will not align with yours,you don't force it,I told him the spirit love works with the universe if you are the type that believes only your looks and money will make women like you then you will find yourself in the trap my friend found himself,you will be rejected like trash it seems most guys are in this category. firstly, he lacks confidence, and also may be a shy type. Inferiority complex could as well be part of it, and fear of whatever in his mind. Girls are very easy to get. Much Younger girls even makes more sense. Women advance faster than men |
Romance › Re: Please Advise - His Fiancee And his Past by Afolue(m): 5:52am On Feb 18, 2025 |
metalgear11: This one weak me - I pulled this off a group I'm a member of in Social media. What do you advise? this won’t be an healthy relationship at all. Will you now be having affair with the 3 girls?. Because they will definitely be bringing their selves to you as usual. Women who don’t have self worth. Such marriage won’t last. One of them will intentionally end it. Women are dangerous and envious |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 5:38am On Feb 18, 2025 |
Silentgroper: she's one hell of a hot head ..
Goodluck being friends with that one ... I doubt if she’s willing to even. So unnecessarily dogged on defense |
Romance › Re: Are Yoruba Muslims Real Muslims?? by Afolue(m): 5:28am On Feb 18, 2025 |
How you worship your God should be no one’s business. If they have the keys to paradise, good for them. It Allah who chooses whom he will favour. Man can not impose self on Allah |
Romance › Re: I Don't Want To Born Daughters. Am I Wrong? by Afolue(m): 5:19am On Feb 18, 2025 |
With all that’s going on in the society today is although quite unfortunate. But you see the girl child? Amongst children of both gender, na only girl pikin dey get the heart to help family. And they are the one stands independent faster than the male in most circumstances be it academically or otherwise. God can easily bless a man through his daughters than through sons. As your sons will be blessing peoples daughters outside so are other peoples sons blessing your daughters inside. They’re blessings in disguise. Pray and bring them up the best way you can |
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Politics › Re: Soludo Did Not Authorise Arrest Of Women Who Do Not Wear Underwear by Afolue(m): 11:19pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Na dem sabi their confusion |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Have You Ever Rejected A Job Offer? If Yes, Why? by Afolue(m): 11:01pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Whoever that has not rejected a job offer in Nigeria has never attempted seeking for employment. Everyone can relate. Teaching jobs most especially |
Career › Re: Nigerian Salon Where First Class Degree Holders Work As Cleaner, Gateman by Afolue(m): 10:57pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
What’s the big deal over their class of degree. Where has it taken them to beyond where they are now! They are simply looking for a means of livelihood that’s all. Anywhere can be a stepping stone for anyone. Make dem sha dey focused and know there is a future ahead beyond where they are. |
Politics › Re: Police Raid Two ESN Camps In Imo, Kill 7 Suspects, Recover Ammunitions by Afolue(m): 10:50pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Is this how they carry out their operations in the northern region too as well.? The truth is, one’s enemies are always within. It is the igbos frustrating themselves. Why and how do the militias in the north wax stronger by the day up to the level of entering military camps to get rid of them so cheaply, laying ambush successfully. Police no dey exist for there! |
Politics › Re: Follow Due Process In Deporting Nigerians - FG Urges US by Afolue(m): 10:33pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
The minister is really trying. Carrying out her official duties very actively. Good job!
At least Nigeria through her has said something meaningful on influential grounds in respect to the planned deportation by the USA |
Fashion › Re: Anambra Govt Begins Arrest Of Girls Who Walk Around Without Bra And Pant (Video) by Afolue(m): 10:12pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Gerrard59: Bros, there are better ways to go about it, not by sending angry men into the street in the middle of the night o. it getting too much. Thought provoking. Body no be firewood o Bros. To avoid too many rape cases, drastic actions need be taken to curb it to a large extent. Let’s leave guys who becomes addict in masturbation. It’s a step to a right direction |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 10:01pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Lionessza6: LMAO. You are Now rambling . I'll leave you to it. I just don't know how to respond to this incoherent nothingness . As you were  Lioness you called yourself. Fighting for your small lions with no balls  One Nigerian will stand over 10 SA nationals. Be there..! Next time, do not start what you can’t finish. We are Nigerians, you guyz should giv respect ✊ not blabbing as if you can equate with us by all standards. Is there any forum as this in the SA? Send me the link lemme join. To have chats with those your small boxers brothers I have sent you a mail, I want us to be friends? Will that be fine? |
Romance › Re: Man Rejects Desperate Girlfriend’s Marriage Proposal On Valentine’s Day by Afolue(m): 4:57pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
TUANKU: Mallam means teacher you dummy ...you think it's an offensive word? Your pea-size brain is telling you that i am Hausa because i used a Hausa word in my last post? It's easy to lead dull people like you down a rabbit hole. Na apparition like you na im woman go come propose to? This Ekuke get mind o! Person wey never chop See this village mgbeke. so your sisters are these cheap.? you are obviously no a big man as you claim. Do you need tell me who a Mallam his? Yes, you’re a dirty Mallam, mai kwa, kwa… When people say there are jobless youths, I find it hard to believe not until I found one in nairaland who voted tinubu into power. T.pain never start, your cut betting ticket never full to occupy betting warehouse, you just dey pas time dey wait. Nuisance! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Jerry Eze Wearing Singlet And Small Shorts Like Boxers In Public Is Wrong! by Afolue(m): 4:47pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Daejumong: Pastor Jerry Eze wearing singlet and shorts like boxers publicly is wrong! Exposing private parts of your body(like your thighs,armpits,upper chest/back and others) in the name of exercise is wrong, inappropriate and sexually offensive to kids and young people and very unnecessary!
You could wear track suits, or if u like wearing singlet and small tight shorts, why not have your own gym at home and exercise with your wife. You are seen praying for women in the gym with your barely covered body! Is that not a room for temptation for you and the ladies? Must you go to the gym with a camera man to video you? Must you also post these videos with your body barely covered? You posted this yesterday on your page which has millions of followers with many young women!
Jerry must know he is a role model and idolized by many and he needs to know that to whom much is given, much is expected. He should also know some weak Christian sisters go into lust and masturbation when they see their idols’ bodies exposed! The same way men are moved into lust by exposed bodies is same for some women!
1 Corinthians 8:13 Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, I will never eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble
1 Corinthians 8:9 But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak.
Mark 9:42 “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.
Daejumong 16/2/2025 This is not the 1st video of him, surfacing online in the gym this way. It’s negative! Upon how wealthy he is, all that’s found there, he can afford them as his own personal property in his private residence. He is obviously doing it for the show and money! Money pastors everywhere..! No one to reprimand him, he is living his life. Christianity has no values when it comes to dress code. The religion has been westernized completely. Hijacked! |
Romance › Re: Man Rejects Desperate Girlfriend’s Marriage Proposal On Valentine’s Day by Afolue(m): 4:36pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
TUANKU: Even in the animal world you will still rank lower than a goat  You're a subpar human being which explains why you're extremely dumb. You're like a caterpillar,you just live to eat and shit kawaii ...and post dumb stuff online. Yaro banza! had really like your Sisters to come propose to me in public. Make I at least believe your stupidity small You this dirty Mallam. Mai kwa kwa |
Romance › Re: A South African Guy Married To A Nigerian Lady by Afolue(m): 4:13pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
Lionessza6: 😂😂
You failed woefully in countering my post,instead you danced around the issues I raised...let's recap;
1. Majority of SA women have never and would never date Nigerian men...we are conditioned differently. So all the lies about us *rushing * you disgust us ...but I get why you have to lie to yourselves😂😂. If you're looking for SA women who *love * you...visit downtown clubs and taverns....you'll find plenty of them ..looking for you to *flex * for them 😂😂.
2. Women in South Africa have always worked for their own food. Before colonialism; we went to the fields to farm and took care of our kids ,whilst the men did their own part. Things changed when colonialists came to disturb and change things up...making us idle and dependent on men for survival. Post democracy...we went back to our natural roles of being partners in our homes not subjects who sit idle for a men to feed us and use us to boost his fragile ego* I take care of you...I feed you ...I buy your clothes....so be Obidient and do as you're told*😂. You can miss us with that rubbish .
3. You say are women meant to work ?😂😂😂😂😂. Show me one country that's developed with a diverse economy that doesn't have women working and thriving in their own society?😂. Apart from the emirates who enslave foreigners from poor countries in the global South, where else can you find this ? . South Africa has a diverse economy and is an upper middle income country not a poor one because all members of society are expected to chip in. You cannot have a somewhat functional country without women playing a role in the decision making . Forget it. Look up your mates in Pakistan, Somalia etc . Women there have no say and are * taken care of*😂. I.can bet you no Nigerian woman wants to migrate there. But you'll find plenty of them in SA and other countries where women play a part in the development of their countries.
4. Lmao. You just shot yourself in the foot. So Nigerian women have to leave you in your Nigeria to be independent?😂..why can't they have those Careers where their * great * men lead ?😂😂. They thrive better under the leadership of other men than you ?😂. We are in SA leading Medicine,Science,politics ,Agriculture etc. We don't need to escape our country and men to get the opportunity Kemi Badenoch has ...we are afforded that privilege here . We are learners in what ? 😂😂.
5. I repeat .....men spend more on their families than women ...everywhere not just Nigeria. You are only making noise about this because you're the world's poorest men and what is normal to other men seems like a flex to you 😂😂.
6. You keep on talking about luxury and flexing....I'm confused ....is that supposed to impress me?😂.
Here is the reality; The wealthiest black people after Afro-Americanns are black SA.
SA is one of only 7 African countries that are classified as upper middle income countries.
This means that we aren't strangers to high standards of living ,luxury and good income. These aren't a *flex* for us...they are normal things unlike in Nigeria where these words send the fear of God down one's heart 😂.
7. You are the most hardworking black people?😂😂😂😂. Hardworking in what when you're the poorest and one of the most food insecure and underdeveloped countries in Africa?😂😂😂😂.
When you list the indices below, you won't find Nigeria in the top 15 even with the population and resources like oil😂😂😂.
* health care system * Education *Gdp per capita *widespread infrastructure * citizen's welfare * electricity access *water & sanitation Etc
So what exactly are you working hard on when you're at the bottom in everything that matters....fighting it out with the likes of Somalia?😂.
Please show me the results of your hardwork🙏. Hardwork no be by mouth. Hardworking men don't make noise....they work😂😂😂😂....and when you go to their countries you'll see the results.
8. Nigerian women don't see the need to have you around them once they reach the *saner* climes😂. Who wants an overlord when you can make your own money and decisions?😂. You are left with no choice but to recycle local skanks,junkies and grandmas as wives 😂😂😂😂😂😂
9. Wealthy men in other climes have their women minding the finances,image etc of the family. They don't make their wives sit idle while giving them stipends like teenage girls 😂....that's demeaning . They are involved in the business, one way or the other. No SA wealthy man will not teach his woman the business he is into ....if he dies...how will she take care of his kids when she can't do shyt except spending un-earned money ? Talk about shortsightedness😂😂. Women are partners in marriage not subjects and Obidient slaves 😂😂
And lastly, the average SA man and the average Nigerian man are not wealthy...so I don't see why you're making it seem like Nigeria is the home of wealthy mem . Let's rather discuss what is readily found in both countries  🤣🤣🤣all these too long na. You are going too far. I don’t care to know about your history and that of your country how it all started. I have made my point clear and no need for me repeating it over again. Doing such will appear like I am not confident over my words. Have you met women who hustle? Nigerian women are number one, they make a living from nothing. I am telling you the best in us, and you are talking about the history of SA. Who told you that Nigeria is not a country worth world standards in all ramifications, we are too large for you to see the good. The wealth is there. Somalia?😅. I feel for them though. The name doesn’t even sound nice. Upon how lazy SA guys are, you are still defending them. Cheap ruthless niggaz that don’t even do it for the pay. It that what you call men? Please, can I see your pics. Lemme send to a mail. I love pretty girls, you really need see a difference Africa has values, stop equating it with the outside world no justification about that. No male SA national can come defend himself like as you are doing right now for them. But instead, it’s their sister fighting for them😂. Is it not clear now that your brothers have no balls🤣. Let him try it, he will run. You’re just being sexy I must say, soft fight  All characteristics about you people we possess even more. When you can’t have certain privilege, you try to find a way around it and that’s all that you have been bragging about. As a babe that you’re, a single handed Nigerian guy, will pay your flight tickets (2 ways) to come to Nigeria, flex you, take you shopping, give you pocket money. Now tell me, which SA guy with balls can do that.? These are men with a large heart to opposite gender of their spec. If my Sis. should pick an SA guy over a Nigerian guy, big problem. It won’t work! We treat women like Queens and Princess that they are ..! Which woman will not want to be treated likewise.? See, if you’re my spec. in beauty, I will show you something you haven’t experienced from your guys over there before. Try me! No jokes Do you know what it means for a single man to worth a country’s economy to a woman. Better go in hiding. .. You have No bragging rights my dear! |
Romance › Re: Man Rejects Desperate Girlfriend’s Marriage Proposal On Valentine’s Day by Afolue(m): 3:33pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: Man Rejects Desperate Girlfriend’s Marriage Proposal On Valentine’s Day by Afolue(m): 1:53pm On Feb 17, 2025 |
TUANKU: I am a penetration tester and a bug bounty hunter on Hacker1,Bugcrowd and Intigriti, i don't gamble. This year alone i have earner over $3k in bug bounty so you see i am not in the same league of poverty with you. Can a dull person do binary exploitation or API pentesting? Eternal mugu na im you be. see who AI dey epp compose text. With all these you have said, soft life na, and you are this cheap and useless to be exchanging words like something I have already classified you to be. If all you have said is true, then simply shut up from here and don’t talk again. It is money that talks for those who have the real money Na your type go come out dey brag sey what is N1m every month as earning. Worthless liar Don’t worry, when people go start creating skit/content in the cemetery, na when your eye go clear. No level. You brag of what you earn and you don’t know what hustle mean or the extent people go on hustle grounds. |