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RomanceRe: I Want To Leave My Marriage – Man Cry Out by Afolue(m): 11:44am On Feb 22, 2025
Felimax:
Marriage nor easy I beg!
I literally had to go to God and plead with my life and He brought a solution if not for that I never knew I will be counting five years in marriage not to talk of Nine.

Seek the face of God, He will bring you solace.
grin
RomanceRe: I Want To Leave My Marriage – Man Cry Out by Afolue(m): 11:42am On Feb 22, 2025
24hrPrayer:
I Want to leave my Marriage – Man Cry out

Marriage is a beautiful commitment, but sometimes, it can feel overwhelming. I wouldn’t say I regret getting married, but at this point, I desperately wish for a break—to clear my mind and find some peace before my wife drives me to the edge.



Although our marriage is just six months old, the challenges I’m facing make it feel like I’ve been married forever.



The emotional weight, constant conflicts, and unending responsibilities are taking a toll on me.

Another X user advice : If you’re feeling the same way, you’re not alone.





Many newlyweds experience stress and frustration as they adjust to married life. Open communication, self-care, and even seeking professional help can make a difference in navigating these tough moments.



X User advice
as you are struggling with marriage fatigue Discover ways to find balance, improve communication, and reignite the spark in your relationship.


https://degoldenblog.com.ng/i-want-to-leave-my-marriage-man-cry-out/
so what if it was a woman you were never in love with? You must be a problematic fellow. Making your own life miserable with your own hands.
RomanceRe: You Complain About Nigeria Everyday But.... by Afolue(m): 11:31am On Feb 22, 2025
Starz825:
You complain everyday...but you all still getting married and giving birth to children in the same country you all claim has no future...

The thing taya me...tbh
any how e be, life must still sha go on
RomanceRe: I Don't Regret Making Friends With Drug Addicts And Prostitutes by Afolue(m): 11:29am On Feb 22, 2025
ChildOfDoom:
So it's Saturday morning (10am to be precise) and people are going about their daily activities.

Currently in a brothel (daily routine when free), chilling at the bar section. I am relaxing with a bottle of coke and snacks while I chat with the area boys/weed takers, as well as the call girls there.

Ever since I switched from betting lifestyle to this new life, my life now has meaning. I no longer have too much problem as in my bet9a/sportybet days.

When I was addicted to virtual, I will go to the shop as early as 7am. Help the shop workers open the shop and tidy the place till they start work. Then I start wasting my life on all sort of games till I lose it all, then sell my property to bet and later even gamble with people's money. Even while at home then, you can transfer to your bet account and still lose if addicted.

But with brothel life, your money only goes down little by little and this addiction is easier to control. All I just need to do here is help the area boys once in a while with little cash to purchase weed or beer while we chat. Then I pay intermittently for sex from the prostitutes. Sweet company


No more fleeing one location to other due to my betting woes smiley
is this a testimony or a new year’s resolution grin

Who do you this kind thing no try.

Where you dey see money on wasteful spending like this. Re-trace your steps man
Foreign AffairsRe: Three Buses Explode In Israeli Capital In Suspected Terror Attack by Afolue(m): 4:59pm On Feb 21, 2025
hopexter:
It’s either you’re a Muslim or you are trying very hard to not believe that the terrorism is 98% Islamic thing. Another word for terrorism in s Islam! Is there any terrorism assigned to Christianity? Or do you want me to start mentioning events, occasions, countries, places and so on where terrorism was carried out by Muslims? I don’t think you would want to.
are the Jews not terrorists? Are they Muslims? Are all Arabs Muslims? Ain’t the Jews same ancestry as the Arabs?. Tagging Islam a terrorist religion is very unjustifiable. If by so doing, then how about those with clear conscience who are Muslims worshiping God their creator?. Is it not as a result of the Israeli who refused obeying God and acknowledging his greatness with them , then God swore to leave them. In which he made himself known before their nabors (the rest of the Arabs) as well who are their brothers. So if you say Muslims are terrorists don’t you think you’re challenging God himself?. If a terrorist is a Muslim, doesn’t mean the religion should be black listed as everyone are supporters are supporters of terrorism.

for example, I am a Muslim, terrorists are Muslims maybe, then I should detest Islam? It Doesn’t work that way.!

If gays are Christians, does it insinuates all Christians are gays or supporters of gay rights? Answer that!

One doesn’t have to stigmatized a particular religion before one has to be rational in thinking.

Good and bad people are spread across mankind.

If not, how will there be peace in the world if a particular religion is being stigmatized this bad. When we know there are Europeans who are Muslims. No one can challenge God!

All Arabs are not Muslims and they all have same characters, speaks same Arabic language. Same as Chinese, Indians if one is to pick them for some traits as well.

If a terrorist is fighting in the name of religion, then, that’s nasty. Better if they can be dealt with

Arabs are as aggressive as Africans. Even the whites do not like them, they equate them with blacks as well.
Foreign AffairsRe: Three Buses Explode In Israeli Capital In Suspected Terror Attack by Afolue(m): 2:16pm On Feb 21, 2025
hopexter:
There’s no justice for terrorists. You attacking mankind puts you against the ethnics of mankind. Religion of peace turning religion of war is something not against mankind to you?

You are the one attacking mankind with your terrorist act yet you are still the one crying victimisation. Just because my words doesn’t suit your evil narrative doesn’t mean is extreme. Who is the extremist here if I may ask? You supporting the evil and atrocities of Hamas and me supporting the retaliation of the attack?
mind you, terrorism has nothing to do with religion. It is unjustifiable saying that! Even though terrorists may appear to be of a dominant religious group. When you fight for yourself without ally support, you’re a terrorist. Israelis with ally, upon being terrorists, are receiving encomium instead. Life no balance. IPOB being termed terrorists, as an act of justification by name, they dislike it. But it’s true they are also. The Jews are terrorists too. You need to know the meaning of the word in clear terms before using it.

Israelis are bullies. Stop sugar coating and being one sided. You are not getting praises from anywhere for that. As a migrant, between the Palestinians and the Israelis, you will be more welcomed by the Palestinians than the Israelis. Israelis are blatant racists. They hate foreigners including you and I. Even their nabors (the Palestinians) are foreigners to them as well.

Mind you, when you say terrorists, it takes two (2) to tangle.

Be rational in you thoughts and feel justified
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What's That Job Once Highly Respected That Has Lost Its Respect Now? by Afolue(m): 1:54pm On Feb 21, 2025
ucham:
Lawyers are paid 50k bro. Some even 30k.

It takes years for them to level up. Forget the suit and wig.
haaaaa, you can’t be kidding!😳
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What's That Job Once Highly Respected That Has Lost Its Respect Now? by Afolue(m): 1:51pm On Feb 21, 2025
Easyincome24:
Let's have the job you think was highly respected in the past but has lost his dignity or respect in recent time.

Perhaps if one knows it, one can avoid studying them or learning them.
banking of course
Foreign AffairsRe: Three Buses Explode In Israeli Capital In Suspected Terror Attack by Afolue(m): 1:50pm On Feb 21, 2025
hopexter:
That is what happens when you start what you cannot finish. Isreal supplies Gaza with electricity and water. Then you turn around to attack me, I will not only take your land if I’m more powerful than you, I will also exterminate you from the face of the earth.

Stop supporting terrorists and acting as if what Israel is doing hasn’t been done by the opposition before. Take Kwara for example, wasn’t the state taken from the Yorubas by the Fulani Muslims who invaded and massacred the previous settlers of Kwara? You complaining about the one happening in Gaza and ignoring the one that happened in Kwara makes you a hypocrite.
your comparison doesn’t justifies mankind. If your ancestors were Palestinians, you won’t be talking like this. Your words are too extreme. Going against the ethics of mankind.
FamilyRe: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Afolue(m): 1:19pm On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
someone that was born there and is earning big.
I swear i go pick myself up and go
When fortune smiles at me
If that boy ever near me to claim blood. I go disgrace am publicly.

Chiboy keep your head up🤧
😆you don start to disgrace am publicly already. He could even be here reading comments on low key.
FamilyRe: Is This See Finish Or What?? by Afolue(m): 1:11pm On Feb 21, 2025
ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?
why are all cousins like this. So competitive in behaviors.
RomanceRe: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Afolue(m): 12:48pm On Feb 21, 2025
wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving.

During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her.

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.
show her you wayray jor!

The agreement is that she comes, but instead broke her part of the plans as agreed. She has to come. Let her even get stranded if possible. After which na your place you end her up into. If not for fear of stds’ na to give her belle sef
Foreign AffairsRe: Burkina Faso Turns Prisoners To Farmers by Afolue(m): 12:37pm On Feb 21, 2025
xprojectlive:
What can Nigeria learn from this?





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LdFEYnbycGc
good one. Way forward… food go surplus
Foreign AffairsRe: Hamas Parade Of Child Hostages' Coffins by Afolue(m): 12:28pm On Feb 21, 2025
Goldeno:
Most of you are a lost course, so its OK for Israelis to be killing children of others for the past 75years right.

As much as I feel bad for what's happening in the world right now I am a FIRM believer of an-eye-for-an-eye.

You can not be killing and torturing a people for over 75 years and expect them to just take it.

I do not believe in paying good for evil.

Look at the prisoners released by Hamas, they are well taken care of compare to the ones released by Israeli.

All the Israeli prisoners killed including this ones are in fact killed by the same Israeli army indiscreminate bombing.

We've seen videos posted by Isereli soldiers of their killing, touturing and even raping Palestenians hostages for years, but that's OK for you guys right?!,

Because in you illiterate minds their Gods people, Jesus people, but you forget or don't know that the Palestinians are in fact the the Jesus people, the ones who crossed the sea, because they changed their religion over time from Jew to Islam and Christianity doesn't change that.

You say but some are Arab, being a Jew is not a tribe but a religion and their were multiple tribes that crossed the sea with Moses and Arabs where one of them.

We could all just wish for a peacefully world but their can be no peace without justice, absolute Justice.

I can bet that if you all where born Palestenians you will be with Hama's fighting for your people too, provided you are not Cowards

If you want to condemned evil condemned it totally and everywhere and stop being Hippocrates.
brilliant article..!

Upside down thinkers everywhere… irrational beings

Present day Israeli vs. present day Palestinians is a total reverse in the case of historical facts! Just as you have spoken
Foreign AffairsRe: Three Buses Explode In Israeli Capital In Suspected Terror Attack by Afolue(m): 12:12pm On Feb 21, 2025
hopexter:
People make others wicked. If you call Isreal wicked and evil, what would you call the Islamic terrorists looking for who to kill while screaming Allah Akbar?
now rendering their neighbors 💯 homeless? Ever heard it in planning on outright take over of Israeli lands?. Which wickedness fit pas that one by the Israeli forces in wanting to taking over Gaza!

Me and you dey fight, you beat me hands down out of help from your ally forces, now wanting to push me out of my land totally, and completely take over my property. Who does that!
There some things a sensible human should never wish you their enemies. At least for the sake of the young innocent souls
Foreign AffairsRe: Three Buses Explode In Israeli Capital In Suspected Terror Attack by Afolue(m): 12:03pm On Feb 21, 2025
OLAADEGBU:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/02/20/three-buses-explode-israeli-capital-suspected-terror-attack
this is just but a tip on the plan for Gaza take over. Una never see anything yet.

Live and let live.

Terrors against terror.

The last of Israel was the terror attack in the USA claiming was a Palestinian
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Afolue(m): 11:54am On Feb 21, 2025
elmagnifico411:
pluck like 10 beater leaves, put them in a blender and add some water. Blend a little and sieve using a thistle funnel.. after every, drink the water. The bitterness in bitter leave has an after sweet taste. U know this saying in Yoruba, “adun lo Kehinde ewuro”? After the bitterness of loosing your ex and u drinking the bitter leave water, the sweet after taste will later knock off the the bitterness making you happy in your heart, and you’d get your life back and move on like u never dated her… it works like magic!
he doesn’t want to leave her. This remedy is against the op solution to his problem. He wants people to say what he wants to hear
RomanceRe: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Afolue(m): 11:48am On Feb 21, 2025
AfDapone:
Your comment is based on an hasty emotionally formed opinion. When you go and get another wife, the event will most likely repeat itself.

'The koboko wey we use flog the first wife, e dey ceiling for the younger wife'. That's because the second wife too must Bleep up.
you are getting it all wrong. Women are rivals to themselves. The op is right! Why is it that mother in-law and daughter-in-law don’t ever agree with themselves? Even some sister in-law as well?

Why is it that two women married to same man always got issues?. They know themselves. They check mate themselves. God has made it so. Men has no business with that. Women are powerful advantages in households. Never underestimate them
RomanceRe: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Afolue(m): 11:42am On Feb 21, 2025
Samajogs:
Men, money can’t keep a woman. Stop thinking that spending heavily on her will make her yours forever. Save your money and invest it. You don’t need to overdo it to earn her love. Always remember, you are the prize.
I like your wisdom. Bless up!
RomanceRe: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Afolue(m): 11:40am On Feb 21, 2025
maasoap:
You even mentioned STDs but you are still not deterred. You are a strong man. Hep B dey cause liver damage o


Good luck to you, happy sorting grin grin
mind you, any man who has a woman to himself without a female gender say (his) own mother, sister around or a 2nd wife is on a long thing. It only takes a female to checkmate another female gender. Get that! A male can never do that not even on the grounds of trust with his spouse.

What results to paternity fraud?

Is it not after many years the man tends to realize this.?

Where you find mother or sister in-law around or a 2nd wife, one never hears that!

A 2nd woman must be around to last for some couple of while from time to time. You will see changes.

As a man, sorting things out is easy. She doesn’t have to leave at all

Better still again, you both could be going for tests occasionally. Afteral the cost will be on you. . As No one will like, therefore sense will fall in!
RomanceRe: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Afolue(m): 9:01am On Feb 21, 2025
Warmaterial:
you deserve a hard knock to receive some sense!!!
yes because truth is bitter. Your type are sugar coated lies
RomanceRe: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Afolue(m): 8:59am On Feb 21, 2025
maasoap:
So, all in the name of having two kids for you, you want to stick with a whoring wife no matter what she does? That's not good enough for you
its a male folk society and we all know these. Men do even worse and women tend to endure because of the kids. Many up to the level of dieing in the marriage or getting infected with std they have to live with for the rest of their lives. Things could be sorted out
RomanceRe: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Afolue(m): 4:20pm On Feb 20, 2025
iLegendd:
See, women, even men, are not loyal to a living thing — they're only loyal to pleasure and food and it doesn't matter if they hurt someone who trusts them to achieve it. As long as they feel they won't be caught, they'll do it.

Being caught is the only reason some faithful people are still faithful. As long as they 100% know the secret will NEVER leak, they'll do it if the outcome is excitingly erótic and pleasurable.

As a man, I love varieties and I'll tell it to your face. If you can't cope, leave. I only live once.

Women are the same, but they don't have the ball to tell their men they love varieties and if he can't cope, he should leave, hence she sneaks to sleep with multiple men even when she's married and her husband trusts her.


If Northern women that all us trust so much and swear they're saints can cheat or attempt to, what will Southern, Eastern and Western women do?
polygamy is just the sure way. She needs another woman to be check mating her lifestyle likewise she doing same in return. Women are good rivals to themselves. . Divorcing her will make you to end up going to marry another woman. what if the new one will have same attitude of infidelity. It is said that the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know. A Woman that has delivered kids for you, why wanting her to leave
RomanceRe: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Afolue(m): 4:15pm On Feb 20, 2025
Letmecum:
I wonder who brought this useless idea of getting married. It just don't make sense. It supposed to be get pregnant for me and we will take of the child you can be flet with anyone you want likewise me.
your second name go be diseases and infections. You can’t be able to escape from the worse. There is more restriction in marriage to otherwise
Christianity EtcRe: ‘I May Not Survive This’ – Pope Francis Tells Aides by Afolue(m): 3:39pm On Feb 20, 2025
Omoawoke:
😂
Lol

Na devil role black man fit play for their world
swears Bro. 🤣🤣🤣

Sheep in a devil’s clothing 😂dem one come make as Pope🤣
Christianity EtcRe: ‘I May Not Survive This’ – Pope Francis Tells Aides by Afolue(m): 9:55pm On Feb 19, 2025
valentineuwakwe:
The end of the world some would say is near....perhaps the long awaited BLACK POPE IS COMING!
blacks are cardinals. Never exceeded that. No black is even yet identified as a saint. Just one who is still a blessed
Christianity EtcRe: ‘I May Not Survive This’ – Pope Francis Tells Aides by Afolue(m): 9:50pm On Feb 19, 2025
Omoawoke:
Black pope keh?

Una no fit get sense…. No be swear…

White man create religion to dominate you, you black assholes will still go and bow down to them… you don hear of black saint before, all the depiction of heaven and angels, no be white man?? Pls occupy your position and act as the black devil in their myth
🤣🤣🤣

You mind dem. make dem dey dere

Even Iwene Tansi, dem never confirm am till date. He is still a blessed

His counterparts are confirmed Saints for long. Serious matter
Christianity EtcRe: ‘I May Not Survive This’ – Pope Francis Tells Aides by Afolue(m): 9:46pm On Feb 19, 2025
BadNews:
What Is The Meaning Of This Prayer For Pope?

Nlfpmod
there is serious problems in this world. Man is just insatiable. From Islam to the Catholics
TravelRe: 6 Countries That Are Rich But Their Citizens Are Poor by Afolue(m): 6:08pm On Feb 19, 2025
StillDtruth:
I understand what you say but the weight of your information lies on how the country treats it's own people and citizens like the other 3 you listed.
oh, now I get you. Very correct!

Their citizens are like Kings and Queens, Prince and Princess….

The world at their feet. Life is luxury
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr And Wife Show Us How To Dress To The Gym As Pastors ! by Afolue(m): 4:14pm On Feb 19, 2025
2cribz:
Don't be shocked to see him snd his wife in hell fire. Baztad scammers who turned church worship to business.idiots
no oh, they have gotten the keys to paradise my foot…

I pity their worthless followers
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr And Wife Show Us How To Dress To The Gym As Pastors ! by Afolue(m): 4:09pm On Feb 19, 2025
Edusouls:
The son don join the calling from God, na turn by turn family calling, family business must be protected
honestly, just imagine this! protected my foot. (Christian) Religious institutions mainly should be entirely close down. Sell off assets and improve the economic standard of the masses. That is mean to be God’s purpose for mankind
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr And Wife Show Us How To Dress To The Gym As Pastors ! by Afolue(m): 4:06pm On Feb 19, 2025
Bahamas95:
"David(41)is the first son of arguably the richest pastor in the world and the heir apparent to the throne!"




Make una get sense o, e get why.
Just leave them..!

Nonesense beings

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